Thank you all for your detailed replies, I have to say that I’m a little overwhelmed with the response. Truth be told, I am not married, although I realize that it can be inferred from my original post that I am. I am finishing up Yeshiva, and starting to date soon, be’ezras Hashem, and I want to get a clear picture of where to live so that I can present myself properly. I have lived almost exclusively ‘Out-of-Town,’ but I am open to the idea of living ‘In-Town.’ If you could provide me with clearer pros and cons, especially regarding raising children and the peer pressure, and also in regard to jobs, etc. I am specifically looking into Architectural Engineering, but I may want to learn in Kollel for the first few years…. Again, please be descriptive and thanks for all the repsonses.