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PS- Randomly this week 3 people came up to me and told me I should go to Seminar! Is that weird? And I asked people about Ateres and everyone agreed it’s a really good place, but they didn’t know much about it because it’s a newer place I think.
I’ve also been told to look into Binas and Nachlas. Anybody on the CR went there? 😉
nannyMemberBYgirl,by “terrible” you mean C’s or D’s? it depends on how academic the sem is… I would suggest meeting with a teacher/principal and hearing what they have to say.
nannyMemberTiferes? Really? I don’t really want that yeshivish… I would rather a place that’s frum like BJJ. Just not that academic… and I don’t know if that’s possible! I’m pretty sure I WILL end up applying to Ateres, thanks, candy. I’m going to have to meet with my principle soon to discuss all this stuff, so I’ll see what they think.
Do you know anything about Binas?
nannyMembertheobvious… I know there are some sems that most girls don’t listen… I mean, I don’t want to be the frummest girls in sem, in a sense I would rather be the most modern. Like im sure most girls in BJJ don’t right?
nannyMemberIs it the type that some girls would play non-Jewish music in their rooms?
nannyMemberlove eretz yisroel, Can you tell me more about Seminar? Where are the girls coming from? Is it very textual? And it it true they have lots of party girls? 🙂
And do you (or anyone else) know anything about what type of crowd Kesser Chaya ended up getting?
nannyMemberBefore I thought that musicaldignity and I want competently different things… now I realize that that’s not the case! My favorite class in HS is definitely the one one that keeps me thinking… as you would call it, intellectually stimulating. I really need that– I hate sitting around bored in class, waiting for it to end! My impression of Ateres is that it’s not like that.
The difference, I think, (correct me if I’m wrong, Musicaldignity) is workwise– I wouldn’t be able to sit down and do HW each night, and I want a chance to chill a bit after all I’ve been through in HS! 🙂 Do you have HW each and every night? and a ton of reports? It happens to be that I don’t mind tests as much as I mind actual, sitting-down type of work.
nannyMemberWhen chassidish boys marry at 18, aren’t the girls they marry usually like 16?
nannyMemberoh, and do all classes have same tests and stuff?
nannyMemberPenguin, how textual is Ateres?
nannyMemberYeah, the way you make it sound… go ahead with MR!! Sounds like it would be great for you!
Oh– and if worried about the work, I think Bnos Sarah has more work than Machon Raaya!
nannyMemberoh yeah… thats also a question I have… is Ateres very textual? I actually don’t want a very textual place!! I prefer hashgafa.
Plus: anyone know anything about Nachlas/Seminar?
nannyMemberI think Pninim is more left and Ateres is more right. and Pninim has less work I think. But I’m not sure about that part……
nannyMemberHa thats so cute!! sorry potpie didn’t realize… Theres no way you can help us out without revealing anything?? Like just talking about the seminary, not necessarily yourself, if you don’t want to.
nannyMemberpotpie, what’s with your “huh”s? Did I say anything incorrect?
C’mon, potpie! You’re the one who went to Bnos Sarah! You can tell us about it! 😀
nannyMembermaybe not… (I shudder to think!)
nannyMemberguys… Why are you making such a big fuss? obviously the mod it telling you this whole thing is so inappropriate!! In the frum world, why do women generally not talk to men that aren’t relatives? and why don’t frum men generally not talk to women who aren’t related?? well, this isn’t much different!! And especially when speaking about certain things… bodybuilding?! seriously?
Yeah, some of these things are crossing the line, if I may say so.
Please– If you really need to ask someone, ask a relative or friend… This is a YeshivaWorld after all, and we are representing Frum Jews right here! Please.
nannyMemberYou Mean bnos Sarah seminary in Israel right?
Ha ha… we have found another 12th grader worrying about sem!! lol.
Anyway, I do know people who have gone there and I think I may want to apply myself. So… what do you want to know about it? Its very academic, and I think you have to have a high average to get in. Its a really great place and they produce top girls! Might be more out of town. Not jappy…or at least I got that impression. great crowd… not too big. But they are growing a lot!
Everyone is considered “very frum” if not “yeshivish”… (you see I’m using my words more carefully!) so what are you looking for in a sem?
nannyMemberme@18, its interesting that you are thinking of applying to Pninim and Ateres! I’ve heard that they are opposites.
Musicaldignity, you’re applying to Mehor? Thats cute- its a really good seminary… I don’t think its so academic like you sound like you wanted though…
nannyMemberKeep it going, guys!! This is great!
Its actually very funny, it started out as a Bnos Sara/ Machon Raaya thread and now look at it– an Ateres thread through and through!
I actually do live in Brooklyn, musicaldignity! I was saying A’s and B’s meaning 90’s, 80’s… I’m guessing you live in Brooklyn too! Would it be too revealing if we told each other what school we go to?? I’m getting curious!
oh– and I can’t wait to see you next year 😉
Candy613, you’re lucky you aren’t staying in NY! LOL!
nannyMemberYAY!! This is so exciting! THANK YOU CANDY613!!
musicaldignity, we might end up in the same sem!! 😀
potpie, I’m also interested in Bnos Sarah! If you can provide details about it, that would be great!! When did you go? And yeah, I did hear that its extremely academic, so what type of average do you think I would need??
Candy613
OK, so we just had our first day of school, and guess what’s the topic of discussion? umm– SEMINARIES!! Its just so nerve-racking!
I’m from NY, and I absolutely hate the attitude here. I really can’t stand it (beyond anyone’s comprehension!) I never spend any of my free time here. Summers I always go to camp, and if not, SOMEWHERE OUTTA HERE! Out of town for sure! Out of state!
Ok, now that I got all that out of my system, Is Ateres still for me? 😉 lol! jk– I know you said its out of towny.
so, honestly, I never really tried very hard throughout HS. Not because I’m incapable of anything, chas v’sholom, I was just never in the mood to work. So my average is as follows: Several A’s, mostly B’s, few C’s. Maybe once or twice I even got a D, I don’t remember. but no one would see that if they don’t get my full HS transcript! (meaning in 11th grade I did better– no d’s lol) so do you think those type of grades are acceptable in their standards? And if not, do you think they would still be willing to work with me and believe me that this is not the best I could do and in sem I’ll put my best foot forward? (Especially since my school is known to be a very hard academic HS) Thank you so so much!! 😀
nannyMemberOK I’ll keep that in mind!
candy613, if you’re still there 🙂 important q: what type of average would I need for Ateres?
nannyMemberYou see what I mean?! Its so sad!
nannyMemberRealist: No, why? What is it?
Meira: Thanks for the info… Its funny, actually. Are you from out of town by any chance? Because previously that was always my interpretation of yeshivish, but then I had a discussion with my out of town friend and she described yeshivish as what you just described it as! And she also said that what I was describing was very frum!
nannyMemberWell, everyone knows the reason for the 2nd Beis Hamikdosh’s destruction was Sinas Chinam. Unfortunately we still have that problem. Obviously the only solution to bring Moshiach is Achdus.
nannyMemberOK, so this is what I heard about several sems:
Seminar: not academic, party girls 🙂
MR: academic, New Yorkie, fun people
Ateres: Like MR just not as academic and out-of-townie
Bnos Sarah: academic, strong BY girls
Tiferes: yeshivish, yeshivish, yeshivish… lol
Did I get any wrong impressions?
This past summer I got to know a girl who is so cute I absolutely love her! She went to Tiferes, and she was telling me things that I liked a lot! Yeah, its very yeshivish (she told me I would have a culture shock if I went there) and the girls are very not exposed type but other than that she described them as Bnos Sarah type of girls. And I was also seriously thinking about Bnos Sarah, so I might look into Tiferes.
Another question: what type of average is Ateres looking for?
nannyMemberOK then, thanks for calming me down 🙂
do you know of any other sems good for what I’m looking for? Most girls apply to aprox 3 I think.
nannyMemberAnd thank you all for helping me out… and any other suggestions welcome. I think we have to apply to 3 sems in my school.
nannyMemberCandy613:
OK, good. I really hate it when i get into those type of situations!
I know I get really uncomfortable when girls sing that stuff in front of me! Sometimes I have to ask them to kindly stop singing that, because some of us here don’t listen to that stuff, and it gets all awkward! You know what I mean?
I’m glad you don’t see many knees there… That would have driven me crazy! Up the wall! (I suppose many things do :))
But most girls don’t even come in listening and watching, right? like less than 1/3?
Hi Meira!
Sorry about that… I did define “yeshivish” in an earlier post… guess you missed it. So I’ll copy and paste it here:
“And to those of you who are wondering, when I say yeshivish I mean VERY frum, not necessarily the kind that where black all the time and who’s fathers learn in kollel full time. Just the type that don’t watch movies, don’t listen to non-Jewish music, don’t show their knees even while sitting, don’t wear a ton of makeup every day, and also have a thirst to learn Torah… like, not just class-related stuff. Hope that clears it up. :)”
Thanks for asking!
nannyMemberwowee, I’m getting excited! Ateres sounds great!
And you’re so cute, I could tell you really loved seminary!
So, I really hope I won’t be offending anyone with my questions, but since I haven’t found a way of getting your email address yet (which is a pity 🙁 ) I have no choice but to ask you in public. So, is it the type that in Ateres, when several girls are in there rooms, they would play non-Jewish music? Or, if they are sitting, is it the type that I would see a lot of knees? (sorry I just hate seeing knees!) Sorry for the awkward questions… And its not that I think Ateres is like that … I don’t know, I’m just making sure. Thanks for understanding! And thanks for your help in general! It means a lot to me ! 😉
nannyMemberYes, I am really seriously interested in Ateres. Several of my friends told me they see me there.
So, I’m trying to get your email, but for the time being, do you know anything about Tiferes, Bnos Sarah, and Mechon Raaya? And what’s the difference between Mechon Raaya and Ateres?
(Usually, When I ask people about Tiferes, all I get is “Its very yeshivish.” Do you have any other info about it?) Thank you!
nannyMemberOh, wow candy613! You have no idea how much this helped. Thanks for taking the time to post!! I would love to get your email… I don’t really know how to, though… I’ll try to figure it out!
nannyMemberThanks for the offer, candy613! Don’t mind if I do.
Yeah I wold really like to find more out about Ateres’s crowd! So here are some questions for you:
1) Do you think the girls fit my description of “yeshivish”?
2) Are they more out-of-town-ish or more in-town-ish?
3) Jappy/ not?
4) Small/ big?
5) Hard/ easy?
6) Is there any social pressure, or is everyone BFF with each other?
7) Any other seminary you can compare it to to give me a bigger picture?
Thanks 🙂 And try to give me the most honest answers you can, even though I know you loved sem 😉 I was actually seriously considering Ateres…
nannyMemberNo… I think when someone says Zionist,they mean pro the state. And considering that the state of Israel isn’t good to frum Jews… no, I’m not a Zionist.
nannyMemberHi guys, thanks for posting I really appreciate it!
anyways, I found out a drop about several other sems and i was hoping some of you who have been there/ know a lot about them would be able to share some of your info with me. These are some I might be looking into:
BYA, Nachlas, Mechon Raya, Bnos Sarah, Tiferes, Hadar, Kesser Chaya, Binas, Ateres, and Seminar.
Please describe the type of crowd that goes there, and the academics. Try to keep in mind my earlier post describing what I want in a seminary. Thanks in advance.
And to those of you who are wondering, when I say yeshivish I mean VERY frum, not necessarily the kind that where black all the time and who’s fathers learn in kollel full time. Just the type that don’t watch movies, don’t listen to non-Jewish music, don’t show their knees even while sitting, don’t wear a ton of makeup every day, and also have a thirst to learn Torah… like, not just class-related stuff. Hope that clears it up. 🙂
nannyMemberOntheball, can you tell me more about kesser chaya?
nannyMemberokay, i put you on my tehillim list. feel better! please let us know when this is done and you are feeling better so i could take you off! thanks.
nannyMemberthey are AWESOME!!
anyone have a clue which character i could be???
nannyMemberlol no not exactly an old lady in 11th grade– but yeah, I am good with kids!
nannyMembershtarkzich– thanks for the idea, sounds ok. thanks for taking your time to post! means a lot.
the money might be a bit of an issue, but lots of people stress on the importance of being in Israel for a year, something about it…
nannyMemberOOM i think you have glasses/lenses and like denim skirts? probably around 20 and wears makeup?
what do you think i look like? 🙂 🙂 🙂
nannyMemberoh, gosh, it look like i have to be super duper careful with every word i use. Of course not, twinklestar! Hardly any of my friends are yeshivish. Most girls in my school are not yeshivish. You, obviously, can be an absoluetly outstanding person without being yeshivish!
when i said good yeshivish girls idk i was just saying that they are also good girls 😉 sorry if it sounded wrong… What comes to mind for you when you say yeshivish? Lakewood girls with rabbinical backgrounds or something like that? I dont need THAT type of yeshivish. I guess i would consider the sems you mentioned, so thats yeshivish enough for me! 🙂
shtarkzich, thanks for the suggestion but i want to go to seminary in Israel.
nannyMemberto twinklestar I meant, what have you heard about them that makes you feel they are not yeshivish? Thanks everyone.
nannyMembertwinkle star, the girls I know from bs and mr are very good, yeshivish girls. What makes you say that they are not?
the goq, I know it might sound crazy but no its not for next year, I’m actually in 11th grade and I don’t know why but I’ve been thinking about sem since the year started. 🙂
and I’m in a very hard, academic HS so really, I just want something easier than THAT.
I’m looking to go to sem in Israel. And ontheball, thanks for the suggestion but I think I would rather go to a sem which isn’t THAT new… You never really know what type it will end up being.
I actually considered meor, but I’ve been told girls there have a bit too much free time and for some reason I think it won’t be very yeshivish…
nannyMemberthis might sound weird but if you should “research” completly random, but interesting facts and just bring one up as soon as you get into that type of situation. That who-knows-how-random fact might just lead to a discussion–who knew!
nannyMemberis this friend of yours religious? Modern orthodox? Would you have any clue about the reason why he would want mixed dancing? Different situations have different ways to aprouch it…
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