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Now are you…..

So ‘Kol Kevudah……’ DOESNT apply in the figurative sense at all,,??? A woman’s middos are not relevant to this AT ALL? It ONLY means that a woman should not spend too much time outdoors????

Verify that please…..

It says ‘Vohavto is HaGer’ 6 times!

Its also a fact that for 10 generation, ITS FORBIDDEN TO remind someone that he was once a Gentile.

On the other hand, apparantly when one decides to convert, its an obligation to PURSUADE HIM NOT TO. Can someone please elaborate on the contradictions?

Matisyohu28, are you sure its not MATISYAHU82AND GETTING SENILE,,,?????

Reread my post! I never implied that other Mitzvos are unimportant Chas Visholom, all I am saying is that when it comes to tznius where women are concerned, men tend to forget ‘LEFUM TZAARAH AGRA! The harder the mitzvah, the bigger the schar,,,So dont take us for granted please,

Oh and you say:

and women have no reason to be outside all day anyway,,,,,

SICK, Sick Sick!!!

For the record, I am out a lot, driving people to hospitals, visiting old age homes and

very often taking people who cant afford a txi to airports, ,,,,,,,

LGBG,

I see your quite new to YW. I remember joing this site about over a year ago and it was simply unbearable. The insults and attacks were totally out of control.

What you read now is ‘gold’ compared to then. Lets just give everyone a ‘yoshar Koach’ for

improvement and lets hope it will continue to remain civil.

Jent,

No one said tznius should be disregarded, dotn drei a kop! I just think the logic goes both ways. A man should busy himself on HIS side of the mechitzah and nothing will lead to hirhur!

Furthermore, if women would start dressing like Reb Arele’s Chassidim, imagine how many fo their husbands would start having roving eyes Chas Visholom.

Vchai bohem means you should ‘live with the mitzvos your doing and try to make it as pleasurable as possible.

You say:.those men who wear short pants usually their wives wear pants ,also shott ones and sleeveless so whats your …..

RIDICULOUS!!!!

ATTENTION MY FELLOW B’NEI TORAH,

As a woman reading these letters and skimming through these comments , I cant resist but speak in our defense;

YES, tznius is very importand and it is the crown and glory of every Jew. However, did any of you men realize what a nisoyon this is for us? Do you know what it means to walk the streets in 90 degrees following the basic tzinius code, smeltering away in a sheitel(even if its a nice one), long sleeves etc? Stop hacking abnout the styles for heaven’s sakes.

The Torah says ‘Vchai Bohem’ we dont have to make our lives more difficult. Ofcourse a man cant fathom what its all about because they can comfortabley roll up their sleeves, walking around in short pants during vacation time is not the end of the world and their is no complete head covering which can give you terrible migraines in the heat.

Mi keamcho BNOS YISROEL??

Furthermore, what right do men have to inspect other women to the point where they realize there is a tznius problem?? Focus your attention on where its proper for you and try to understand that MOST FRUM WOMEN TRY THEIR BEST!!

As important as Tznius is, it is NOT one of the three Amudim, thousands of women dressed in the most modest manner didnt stop the Bais Hamikdosh from burning!!!

Why are people not critical about the lack of Ahavas Chinom? We are in the three weeks now, please lets concentrate on basic derech eretz.

There was an incident recently at a shtiebel which really shocked me.

A little boy ran out in the yard to play during ‘laining’ on Shabbos. Meanwhile , an elderly man noticed his seat was free and went to sit down. When the child came back and noticed that his seat was taken, he told the man that he was sitting in HIS seat. A minute later, the father of this little boy passed by and said’ Yes, reb yid, this is my boy’s seat, please find somewhere else to sit’

In my humble opinion, the lack of chinuch is a MAJOR issue people dont pay enough attention to. Lets put our priorities in order…

KOSHER DELIGHT!!!!!

Nothing beats that (besides my cooking ofcourse)

they practice up to a point and when things interfere they do what they want! Jews dont choose according to convenience!

We are ‘Bayshonim, Rachmonim and Gomlei Chasodim, we are Maaminim Bnei Maaminim,

Which other nation in the world would endure what we have endured all these years and still remain true to their creator?

MI KEAMCHO YISROEL’