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  • in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189789
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    I don’t know if that would work. You don’t make strong balei teshuvah through hashkafa battles. At most you have weak extremists. (This is specific to those born not frum. I don’t know why, but it is this way.)

    I don’t know anything about Feminism. It doesn’t make any sense to me. I’m just posting about Bais Yaakov educations.

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2189788
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    Which words are a repository of the spirit?

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2189787
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Sam,

    So what was that about communists and democrats again? It seems hypocritical to me.

    in reply to: I refused to be injected with an experimental product #2189786
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    The Member of the Crown Heights Beis Din mentione din the link was not part of the conference. He, Rabbi Avrohom Osdoba was actually the one who put out a statement to follow doctors and take the vaccine.

    I’m aware of this conference. They is not much in it even worth debating. Might as well just watch eight hours of Mickey Mouse.

    in reply to: Lo sichanem #2189785
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    We witness his words. We do not witness his thoughts.

    in reply to: Lo sichanem #2189753
    n0mesorah
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    Or someone could just explain why do we believe an atheist.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189751
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    Chabad girls are taught those themes as much as any other Bais Yaakov. In Chabad there is more emphasis on being a home maker than most of the east coast. If a family is sent on shliichus, the mother has to be quite the homemaker!

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189743
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avirah,

    No I understood you. But I think we disagree about what megaeh panim applies to. I only apply it to where one is changing or misguiding the law. And not where one makes a mistake in his studies. I don’t apply it to someone who makes up his own ideology. Even if he is a rasha for doing so.

    So…. Back to the topic… Why is bad hashkafa such a big deal?

    Megaleh panim batorah shlo k’halacha?

    Ki dvar Hashem bazah?

    Lo sasuru?

    These all seem out of place to me.

    If the post is saying that this hashkafa nullifies a part of the Torah ch”v, then it falls into these categories. But the idea of modifying Torah to fit our hashkafos is the problem. Not the hashkafa itsef.

    I would use this model even for ideas like hedonism.

    in reply to: Your Place or Mine? #2189735
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Lost,

    Completely untrue.

    Sincerity will always be the same.

    in reply to: Is “The” Yeshiva world news” some sort of Instagram? #2189733
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    I don’t see any posters distracting you from providing accurate information.

    in reply to: A world before and a world after #2189734
    n0mesorah
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    We want more people to vaccinate. What else?

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2189726
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    Do you have a source for that? Josep Borrell has been all over the globe to get weapons for Ukraine, and to stop them from going to Russia.

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2189721
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Sam,

    Since when has Hashem been out of office?

    in reply to: I refused to be injected with an experimental product #2189720
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    I’m still waiting for some real info. The Crown Heights Bais Din never hosted such a conference.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189719
    n0mesorah
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    DearNevile,

    Your misunderstanding my take on this.

    “it’s only OK when he does it,” or “it’s never OK and there has never been any real heter?”

    I am so much saying the second statement, that I don’t agree with the issue here. If a (major qualified) posek would put out a teshuva permitting going into a church and would use this as precedent, that posek would be creating the precedent. Because this is not a matter of deciding halacha. This is a matter of the function of the Office of the Chief Rabbinate. And while the office is not above halachah, it is an entirely different question. Anybody who goes into a church and says “well Rav Mirvis did” is a fraud.

    I understand that we disagree here. But I’m really confused why you are so vehment about my position.

    I know your screenname. But I’m not familiar with your opinions.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189715
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    I had it out with the poster about Zionism many times. He always runs away. It’s one thing to be antizionist. His position is so bizarre and extreme, that he falls apart after a short back and forth.

    Do you get that he is saying that because the Chief Rabbi is a Zionist, all normative hilchos loshon hora don’t apply?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189361
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    Are you saying that proving ‘pig is not trief’ is megalah panim et alia? I think that would be correct. But I think that if we are wrong on this, that would not be a problem. It’s a mistake with no implications beyond what we would actually be wrong about. Meaning, someone would post ‘proofs’ that pig is kosher, and you and I would say that he is a megaleh et cetra, and Eliyahu would say he is not [Shrug. It’s a hypothetical anyways. Even today the mods won’t let it.] I think at least we would not be megaleh panim batorah, because nobody is going to eat pig or not based on how we label this wrongheaded poster. Since we weren’t advising anyone to do an issur, we were nothing other than mistaken. and we get rewarded both for stopping people from eating pig. And Limud HaTorah, eve though we erred. That’s my take. Would you say that we would be in the category of megaleh panim for wrongly saying that the poster is in said category?

    PS Which of the above statements would be heresy in the reverse? Not just wrong. Actual heresy.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189354
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Neville,

    I don’t even know what I’m saying. Just trying to follow the lifeline until the end. Hopefully we all come out on the correct side, where salvation awaits…………..

    PS I appreciate being asked straight out do you mean xyz. But I don’t know if we are thinking the same xyz.

    I would imagine that alarge part of Feminisms are against the Torah. I never got an answer why Feminisms in general are counter to everything.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189350
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    Do I need to make a birchas hatorah before any of these statements.

    Anti semitism is a result of our religious lifestyle.

    No creature ever went fully extinct.

    The aggados are binding on all Jews at all times.

    All Zionists are kofrim.

    Arayos are a problem because of how certain communities approach tznius.

    Feminisms are against the Torah.

    I know I’m not making sense.

    Maybe you meant the reverse.

    Divrei Torah is all over hashkafa etc.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189339
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    But most hashkafic matters are not divrei torah. Saying that they are, would be a form of megalah panim..

    I think the velt is caught in a paradox on that one. 🤔🤔

    Divrei havai, is making it into something that is not Torah. Like assuming a mitzvah is just a life lesson.

    Your making this all into one cholent.

    I can’t begin to imagine what it would be like to learn Moreh Nevuchim with you.

    Do we agree or not? I’m really confused and not following on this.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189326
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    I thought about that when I wrote my last post.

    Do you really think my fictitious example is megaleh ponim or a bizoyin?

    It more silly than anything else.

    But let’s say I really believed it.

    It’s not a bizoyon or megaleh ponim. I’m simply wrong.

    So I’ll be corrected.

    It’s a problem when I know it’s wrong and try to lie about it.

    But being stupid, isn’t by itself a sin.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189321
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Hakatan,

    I’m not mocking the issue. I’m mocking you acting like a first generation Zionist.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189270
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Hakatan,

    But we debated Zionism on multiple threads and some news items.

    Other than a bunch of quotes, you have no grasp of the actual problems witth Zionism. Yet, you are willing to reconstruct large parts of the Torah to peddle your ideology. In my books, that was Zionism’s original sin.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189241
    n0mesorah
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    What is the big deal with hashkafic posts? People grow and change and learn more about others and (hopefully) come out an improved person. If we wouldn’t share our possibly incorrect views, how would we be corrected? Everyone’s outlook is always changing. At the very least, I learn new ways of presenting things to people that are from a different background.

    You know your really close to someone when s/he shares with you his perspectives that changed over time.

    There is no issur to say bad hashkafa. If someone has a wrong worldview, the fact that they have to live with it is it’s own consequence. For example, I think I’m allowed to say that anti semitism is only because of our religious lifestyles even though it’s a ridiculous statement.

    Please explain this to me.

    in reply to: Your Place or Mine? #2189232
    n0mesorah
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    I went with some other bochurim to a hangout that had all kinds of troubles. The Rav who sent us gave each of us different instructions. The only rule that was the same for all of us was no white shirt.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189226
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Neville,

    Bnai Akiva in pre war Europe. Are you sure? It started in Palestine in 1929.

    I know about the Zionist groups that the kids used to go to. But they weren’t schools. They were weekend get togethers and the like.

    I’m not taking a side on this. The Chofetz Chaim had more than just Zionism to deal with. It’s hard to tell what he was talking about in each letter.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189227
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Frum,

    That’s not the question here. It is not a matter of permitted or prohibited.

    The question is what should the Office of the Chief Rabbi do about the invitation to the Royal Coronation that is held in a church?

    If your reaction is a so-what-shrug, than you really do not understand the matter at all.

    It’s like a bible critic that only knows the King James Version.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189223
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    Dear Neville,

    I didn’t notice anyone here being pro church. (Years ago we had this come up. Maybe someone can find it and link.) From my perspective, nobody is saying that it’s muttar. This not a unique situation. It is a unique Jew. If you don’t reason with that, you are also unique.

    Any published psak can be read several different ways. Come on you know that. (Somebody posted that the Brooklyn Eruv should be used now.)

    As an aside, this has happened before. A similar event recently. This exact situation a hundred twenty years ago. And different situations throughout history. I don’t get your blanket statements at all.

    And all this is just a matter of public instances. In private, urgent matters, who knows how many instances there are?

    hose that are promoting interfaith, would promote it anyway. If Rav Mirvis hadn’t gone, they would say this is why interfaith dialogue is a must.

    Make up your mind.

    is it:
    1) The chillul hashem of this public display.
    2) The slippery slope that will lead to more leniency.
    3) The Chief Rabbi not asking your rabbi.
    4) We must hold like Chacham Ovadia on this issue.
    5) Did I miss something?

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189121
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Hakatan,

    1) I have discussed Zionism with you multiple times. You can’t back up your position even a little. For you it comes down to this. If a zionist rabbi does it, then he is wrong because he can not be trusted to have a justification. But if an anti-zionist rabbi does it, than we give him all benefit of the doubt. An interesting wrinkle in hilchos loshon hora. Silly opinions give legitimacy to slander.

    To further make the point. If the Ponevezh RY and the Gerrer Rebbe would do it, than it would be assur for OE or YU to think they did an issur because to them they are great talmidei chachamim who deserve the benefit of the doubt no matter how outrageous the circumstances appear to be. But for Satmar and Brisk, they can judge the matter at face value because they are more anti-zionist than Ponevezh and Ger.

    2) Going into a church is because of one of two very basic reasons. A child could understand them. There are dozens of precedents from all different countries. I’m not going to discuss them, because I don’t want to imply that there is a permissiveness about this issue.

    Your theory of splitting halachah based on ideology, does not have precedent. Oh wait! It happened before. It’s called The Great Schism. Which took place in ………………….a church.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189114
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    The situation in England is very different.

    The old reform congregations are much stronger than in the USA.

    The rabid left is much more intelligent and learned than anywhere else.

    And the rabid right is very extreme.

    The Chief Rabbi is constantly making tough calls without giving the full rationale.

    That is the main part of the job. To keep the different factions from killing each other.

    It’s been that way since the Nineteenth Century.

    And it appears to constantly get worse.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189111
    n0mesorah
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    This is still ridiculous.

    Since we just don’t go into a church regardless of the reasons, the rabbis in question should absolutely not publish a responsa.

    A Royal Coronation is a rare event and only a few Jews will ever be invited to attend one. Why write a precedent that any clergy could freely dispense to their congregants?

    You really have to decide what you want out of the issue before you blah-blah. Even if it’s not your kind of rabbi.

    in reply to: Understanding Lag Baomer #2188937
    n0mesorah
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    Still without explanation.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2188912
    n0mesorah
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    1) So you fall back on your uncompromising position that you failed to coherently defend numerous times.

    2) And you seem to be unaware of the two simple statements of why it is forbidden to enter a church.

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2188923
    n0mesorah
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    What does worked prominence of the state have to do with society at large?

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188924
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Always,

    What Shul and what park?

    😂

    in reply to: Time to demolish orthopraxy #2188877
    n0mesorah
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    The problem with the sources in the OP [It is a problem with the book he quoted. The author doesn’t understand what a balanced debate is. Let alone how to win one.] is that it takes specific examples and presents them as on broad brush stroke. I don’t mind the polemic. And maybe the overkill is warranted in the eyes of the OP. But it kills all the nuance in the original sources. The Mechabrim had different things on their minds when they wrote these statements. Now again, poetic license allows this in a polemic. But I get the feeling that the truth of the matter is not being adressed.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188872
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ujm,

    Before my time. But I know of several MO Flatbush families that tell their out of town relatives there is no eruv in Flatbush. Maybe you don’t realize that they are MO because they approve of kollel.

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2188871
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Always,

    No they are not.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2188861
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Hakatan,

    If it comes down to mesorah than I probably outdo you a thousand to one. But it comes down to shimush. You have to know how your own leaders apply their standards to themselves, their peers, other leaders, the laity, the unobservant, etc.

    1) His position is stuck in a lot of tough public conundrums. This is nowhere near the toughest call he had to make. If it is so obvious to you that it is forbidden regardless of context, wouldn’t we be obligated to be convinced of some outrageous explanation to avoid lashon hora?

    2) I never meant to insinuate that it is permitted. Just that it is unclear the reason of the issur. Can you provide the reason from today going all the way back?

    PS What if R’ Murvis went into a church to meet with a priest on a matter of religious freedom?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2188840
    n0mesorah
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    Some poster who come in and out.

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    baltimoremaven
    dr pepper
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    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2188824
    n0mesorah
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    I’m loving this thread. All the history, from the insiders perspective….

    I basically learned how to read from this site. All the times you posted about corrupting kids? I was tht kid. And, thank you for the fascinating view of how we yidden can be schismatic.

    i have a lot to say about this topic. Part of it is unique to what this site was and still is. But most of it is that the larger way of posting, debating and even personal schmoozing has changed.

    Should I continue?

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188823
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    I think Rav Pam’s passing was what allowed the Flatbush Eruv to move forward. You should know about this.

    in reply to: I refused to be injected with an experimental product #2188822
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    Just ask Zaphod.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188818
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Neville,

    Wow! You are really out of place here. What is wrong with you that you looked something up?

    Some posters will take this to mean ehat your argument must have been logically unsound. Why else would someone resort to the facts?

    If I recall Conservative Judaism built such Eruvin back when the lay people kept Shabbos. How is that for normative precedent?

    Though you understand that the OP did not come here for psak. The important thing is to remember that we shouldn’t bother him/her anymore, because… because just because.

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2188810
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Akuperma,

    It comes down to vote tallies. A very many people vote. And a large amount of them are easily convinced that society’s ills can be solved with the next election.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2188809
    n0mesorah
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    This is ridiculous. I just read through two pages of ignorant pontifications.

    To be brief, two points will suffice.

    1) The position of Chief Rabbi in England is extraordinarily complex. Many spiritual battles are at stake. This is not a matter of halachic precedent. If I would attend a church service and claim that R’ Mirvis did so, that would make me a fraud.

    2) We all know (or should know) that there will be a dozen blogs this month on the topic with all types of contradictory information. This isn’t a never before phenomenon. It’s hard to pin down exactly why we do not go into churches.

    For those who don’t know, there is a raging war in England for the balance of power among the Jewish factions. They have everything to gain with coming together. Yet, these attempts always get foiled by some fanatics and rabble-rousers. (Some are observant, most are passionately not.) Such is the company this conversation belongs in.

    in reply to: Who is my government working for? #2188780
    n0mesorah
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    More like the media we consume convinces us what we should want is more important than what we actually need.

    I think that people who lead meaningful lives do not fall for all this political conniving. Not that they care much to stop it, but anyways.

    in reply to: I refused to be injected with an experimental product #2188779
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ze,

    What is the international scale you refer to? I don’t see any totalitarian regime here. I see a bumbling bureaucracy.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188772
    n0mesorah
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    Chassidim can be seen carrying in Flatbush. And sefardim. The MO in Flatbush of yore followed Rav Moshe more than any other posek. Including the Rav.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188771
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    A good amount of these modern eruv carriers are runaways and were not originally MO. This can be confirmed by talking to them in yiddish.

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