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SJS you summed it up perfectly
InShidduchim, yep I heard that’s the only place people go in lakewood.
Welcome bored@work2!! What happened to old bored@work?
charlie lol. h2 is prbly gona pop in only once a day not like the rest of us nebachs around here
lol that would probably be really funny for older couples watching everyone else and saying back when I was in shidduchim… 🙂
broadwalk
espn zone
boat ride-hudson river
madame tussuades
ripleys
bowling
empire state building
mariott, ritz…
Joseph, “To backtrack a bit, someone mentioned that the guys have a “list” of a dozen or more at the same time, while the girl is lucky to have one. How does the math work out on this? The population is approximately 50/50, and even given a slight proportion of more girls and the factor they date younger (outside of Chasidisha shidduchim) how can the variation be so great (a dozen to one)? Something doesn’t add up in this assumption.”
Unfortunately it’s very true, lucky for my parents after me they have two boys!!
Jaymatt “Because there are so many good girls and so few good guys”
Totally true
K everyone that wants to do chesed head over to do some packing at Tomchei shabbos today, and if you can’t then go deliver tomorrow!!!Big big mitzva!!
Have fun anonymisss!!! Have in mind all us singles here by the holy wall!!
joseph, sorry i tried.
flatbush, uh you never had the experience that the guy was totally different from what you were told? ex: true experience I was told a guy was tall, dark…seriously and he was a redhead
BYM omg I’m hysterically rolling I just told my whole office your story!!
I could name ten girls easily that had sit ins-chassidish way and got divorced within the first year!! 2 within the first month!! That’s abnormal.
I also know many litvish divorced but not like that!!
Hiya h2!! Welcome welcome!! Just a warning ur gona get hooked and it’s the biggest time killer!! But tonz of fun!!
Hi areivim. ur definately included. I would also seek some professional help 😉
lol work is the only time I have to be on here!!
lol okey dokey. I should rent a sheep just to see my moms reaction when I walk through the door
squeak is for sure hanging around on another sn and cracking up
lol sorry guys!! Mod 72 you rock tell your wife the cr said so
asdf, cover up for flaws but i’m with belev echad on this. I’m dark so I go naturally stunning 😉
oomis ew I’m grossed out.
lol asdf funny!
Jaymatt, “12. Unless something you realize something is totally awry, you should go on a 2nd date.”
I once went on a date with a guy and there was absolutely zero chemistry, conversation was ok but I an hr into the date I felt like it was a waste of time. I was gona agree to a second date stam because I didn’t know what to say but when I told the shadchan what my problem was she cracked up and said the boy said the exact same thing! So we both saved ourselves an unneccessary second date!
asdfjkl, lol I totally understand where your friends was coming from, I would do the same!
mchemtob, omg!! ouch
How bout a boat ride? I did it once it was beautiful
asdf lol that actually happened to me once it was not a joke!! My brain didn’t chap the connection that if I keep swiping my debit no kidding theres gona no funds in atms
mod 72, ur crazy. I have a feeling your gona be doing the dishes for a whiiile 🙂
wow props to both Sjs and Itzik!!! I’m learning something here!!
curious lol k so if I get some macaroons and ladyfingers this year I’ll know who to thank!!
These stories are all funny but if any ever happened to me!!! Hello blushing city
lol this is funny. Different things work for different people! I would never manage with doing sit ins, but that wasn’t the way I was brought up. And I also can’t do like dating for a year.
1 and a 1/2 to 2 months works for me
belev echad, omg im rolling sorry!! I’m sure you looked stunning!!
moish, good to hear the truth from a guy
flatbush, yes unfortunately that’s all the couple is doing on a date, if a boy thinks a girl is unattractive the first five minutes, then the date is over
joseph sorry bout the expression, is dress to attract any better?
feivel, nice!!
BasYisroel, you really ever played a board game in a hotel?? get out that’s adorable but I would feel kinda awkward
Mazal77, don’t leave but I totally see where you’re coming from!!
Just because certain people may have different hashkofos, that a reason say it’s kfirus!!! What happened to achdus around here?? And I personally think that all the chareidi olem here on this site, myself included, tends to have a “holier than thou attitude” as opposed to the MO. Just look at this thread to see what I mean
amichai were also getting new ones everyday!!
beacon, you’d be surprised. I was at a couple of lounges that were nice n quiet including the Mariott
oomis, I’m with you a hundred percent! I never got why arcades and bowling were a fourth date!! cuz the first date is only to see if you like the guy! so the first should be something fun, and then if you feel you want to discuss real tachlis, then do the lounge and have heavy conversations
start a thread-let’s cheer up moish
teen, i wrote somewhere put : after http, no clue why I said that It’s s do https://
noitallmr, I’m rolling!! where did you get a sheep from?
Areivim, lol U prbly looked TOTALLY normal hello
Belev Echad I heard that story that the girl refused to go out with him again.
My dad told me this story, Guy was going to get engaged to this girl but he was lil jokish so he’s like k I have to ask you a serious question, she got all nervous like what does he want and he’s like ok………when you brush your teeth, do you squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom or the middle of the tube? She answered without missing a beat ” I don’t brush my teeth” He cracked up and proposed on the spot
I say #4 but for all the cr addicts round here def 7!!
JayMatt agree with you a hundred percent. I’m a girl and it’s frustrating when the shadcahan calls us before the boy and then doesn’t get back because the boy said no. Just like save it and let me know when he says yea.
On the other hand it’s nice to know ppl are thinking about you.
P.S. Stay away from the Ritz. It’s always flooded with ppl. I met at least ten girls I knew there and it was awkward everyone was checking out everyone else’s guy. If you go there already then walk by the water there. It’s stunning
K this is the list I got:
1. Dress to KILL-stunning gorgeous dress like going to a wedding. all the guy is doing on the first date is checking you out.
2. Dress really nice and classy, either a nice suit or simpler dress. I would stay away from the whole suit look, go dresses…more feminine
3. This is what you decide if your going sporty or not. Either a purty shabbos outfit or weekday like classy blazer, sweater and gr8 skirt
4. Nice weekday, I go with black sweater, gold belt and gold jewelry
5,6,7. Be yourself completely but look put together i.e. weekday clothes, but nice jewelry, hair etc.
8. Lchaim!! Mazal tov!
lol gluk I hope I didn’t give myself away
refu qwerty!!
Why not if you can afford it? who has time to clean?
tal, teen, moish, yep as far as I know there’s no way to prove the torah was given to us or no way to prove that Hashem is still running the world. B’h I guess that I just “blindly” believe now!!
If there is a way to prove it I’d luv to hear it!!
And about me sounding like a christain, lol no way I guess I just got spiritual lately!!! But seriously I dont get how you could even make that comparison between lehavdil a human flesh and blood “savior” to the Master of the world. Maybe I’m just naive in my belief but judging from thread I think it’s a good thing
I just came back from Miami and I gota say shemtobs pizza was heaven-awesome panini and if you eat chalov stam u gota check out tasti delight YUM
SJS, definately true, I guess what I was trying to say more is try not to get into a marriage that the parents are very strongly against. From your friends story it doesn’t sound like the mother was vehemently against it.
My friend was going out with this guy who the mother was always against the match, but they got engaged anyways and a month later the engagement was broken
Also in real life people will talk about others from different hashkofos in the privacy of their own home but usually won’t want to start an argument face to face
Teen, there’s no real answer that’s going to satisfy you because if your looking for questions your gona find them, I know I’m still a teen and I used to be like prove it, how do we know.
It’s all based on faith. Once you know He created the world you’re more than halfway there. A world so complex and intricate must have a Master running it, and if you really look everyday for Him I PROMISE you you’re gona see Him!!!
For example just yesterday this guy strolled in front of my car totally spaced out and I legit almost killed him. My brakes are pretty slow but when I slammed on them then, bam I stopped!
So either I could be like ok go me that I quickly stopped myself, but hello it has totally nothing to do with me because my brakes normally need a full block to come to a complete stop!!
Get it? Trust me when you really want to see Him, He’s gona let you, you gota just let Him in!
I was recommended to read some of Rav Avigdor Miller’s books, you might want to try some
Gluk and Gshabbos!