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October 31, 2010 8:54 pm at 8:54 pm in reply to: Molesters: Why Do Some In Our Community Cover For Them? #711694myfriendMember
When there is a conflict between the Torah laws and secular laws, Torah laws prevails over dina dmalchusa. (Otherwise you could discard most of the Torah.)
October 31, 2010 6:40 pm at 6:40 pm in reply to: Depressing Conversation With 7th Grade BY Girl #736883myfriendMemberYank – Areivim Kol Yisroel Zeh Lzeh. WIY is absolutely doing the right thing about worrying about his brothers and sisters spiritual welfare.
myfriendMemberWhen Mosh uses the term ‘blog’ I believe he means thread; and is suggesting to keep the discussion in one place at:
myfriendMembershlomozalman: How sweet. A koton reprimand a godol? Well, considering your previous praise of apikorsum professor’s for their Biblical criticism disputing what Rishonim and Achronim said, it actually figures.
October 31, 2010 4:59 pm at 4:59 pm in reply to: Molesters: Why Do Some In Our Community Cover For Them? #711688myfriendMember“People are convicted on things other than concrete evidence ALL the time, make no mistake about that.”
In goyishe courts. That is antithetical to Torah Judaism and its laws for its courts and evidence.
“As to reputation – once someone has been accused, his/her reputation has gone to the dogs, no matter what truth comes out in the end, especially where molestation is concerned. People usually believe the old adage that “where there’s smoke, there’s fire,” and iof it was not true this time, it probably was true at SOME time.”
Which is exactly why we must tread carefully before false accusations of this crime are hurled at the innocent.
myfriendMemberbomb: Are you reprimanding the gedolim who said no?
myfriendMemberpopa, I was sure you would’ve done that “let me google it for you” shtick.
myfriendMemberYou are supposed to make a Melave Malka by washing hamotzi and eating a meal.
myfriendMemberWhy didn’t the Zionist authors of this prayer include in it the Yeshivaleit in Eretz Yisroel who are doing much more than the Tzahal by their learning Torah all day, which provides for the safety of Eretz Yisroel?
October 29, 2010 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm in reply to: Yated, Hamodia, Jewish Press? What Is Your Choice? #707581myfriendMemberSee previous YWN coverage of the Jewish Press:
NOTE: Hold your “Esc” (Escape) button for a 10 seconds after you open above pages. Otherwise it’ll forward you to the new YWN site. If it does, hit your back button and then hold the Esc button again for 10 seconds to stay on the page.
October 29, 2010 12:40 am at 12:40 am in reply to: Is it unTznius for a girl to ride a bike, razor, ATV? #817158myfriendMembercharliehall – Is that the same rabbi who told her abortion is okay?
myfriendMemberCan anyone with experience dealing with it, describe some of the symptoms of Asperger’s?
Also, as I understand people who have it can be a genius with an intense focus and expert knowledge in a field.
October 28, 2010 10:09 pm at 10:09 pm in reply to: Is it unTznius for a girl to ride a bike, razor, ATV? #817147myfriendMemberlaguy: If you see it, it doesn’t make it okay. The problem is not what Jews do, but what Judaism says. Jews are imperfect – we know that and accept it – but Judaism is perfect, and unchangeable. We do not make over G-d in our own image.
myfriendMemberIf you see it, it doesn’t make it okay. The problem is not what Jews do, but what Judaism says. Jews are imperfect – we know that and accept it – but Judaism is perfect, and unchangeable. We do not make over G-d in our own image.
myfriendMemberWhile y’all were debating the merits and demerits of nationalized healthcare or the virtuousness of taxes, y’all forgot the OP had a question that hasn’t been answered.
myfriendMemberAsperger’s syndrome is high-functioning autism.
October 28, 2010 5:13 am at 5:13 am in reply to: Yated, Hamodia, Jewish Press? What Is Your Choice? #707545myfriendMemberReb Yaakov said the Jewish Press should not be taken out of a bathroom.
myfriendMemberCRC, based in New York, is the Hisachdus HaRabbonim (Central Rabbinical Congress of the U.S. & Canada). They are affiliated with the Badatz in Yerushlayim and have a Beis Din, one of the most reliable hechsheirim, and other functions. Who is the other one in Chicago?
myfriendMemberI believe their are rabbis that cater to their needs.
October 26, 2010 12:35 am at 12:35 am in reply to: Rav Moshe Feinstein: Prohibition of social dating #705649myfriendMemberSJS, perhaps you overlooked this part:
“There is also a severe prohibition from the Torah in close friendships between a young man and woman.”
No posek disputes Rav Moshe on this. (The only question is whether it is m’doraysa like Rav Moshe paskens based on Rambam, or if it is like Ramban that rather than m’doraysa it is “only” a severe rabbinic prohibition, which even according to this shitta is still punished with rabbinic flogging.)
October 26, 2010 12:11 am at 12:11 am in reply to: Time For Truth: Why Won't You Date A Ba'alas Teshuva? #710029myfriendMemberAishes-Chayil-in-training & mdd –
Teshuva is fully mechaper either one equally. If the FORMERLY immoral person, did TESHUVA b’meheiro, why are you discriminating against him/her?
Sounds the same as the complaint against discriminating against a Baal TESHUVA.
October 25, 2010 8:07 pm at 8:07 pm in reply to: Are the Reform and Conservative Still Jewish? #755309myfriendMemberIs it a distinctively feminine tallit, per the ruling?
myfriendMemberBehead all murderers.
myfriendMemberSacrilege:
Which part do you find to be unfortunate? The part that R’ Shmuel wouldn’t approve of it; or the part that you do it? I would hope the latter. If so, there is room for change.
myfriendMemberSacrilege:
R’ Shmuel Berenbaum would not approve of you shaking a man’s hand.
myfriendMemberI’m a perfectionist.
myfriendMemberB”H, the Gerrer Rebbe — a member of the Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah — has implemented these takanos and minhagei yisroel, that work so well in the community.
October 21, 2010 5:44 pm at 5:44 pm in reply to: Are the Reform and Conservative Still Jewish? #755200myfriendMemberReform and Conservative have long left the halachic bandwagon. Gedolei Yisroel across the board have declared them both kefira.
October 20, 2010 11:13 pm at 11:13 pm in reply to: Girls out of Seminary how do you keep "shtark?" #754165myfriendMemberHere is Rav Avigdor Miller ztl’s advice from his Sefer:
A Beis Yaakov girl should be wed soon after or before graduation. Every day after she leaves the Beth Jacob marks another step away from idealism, for the street and the office and the secular school have an unfailing effect which increases from day to day.
October 19, 2010 4:46 pm at 4:46 pm in reply to: An important lesson from last weeks parsha for married people #702554myfriendMemberaries, try not to be so judgemental. There are reasons why a R”Y would give a heter, so lets not try to pretend we know of all of them. And certainly lets not discount ones words, when youu know little of him.
October 19, 2010 4:07 pm at 4:07 pm in reply to: An important lesson from last weeks parsha for married people #702548myfriendMembermosherose previously addressed his internet use, with his Rosh Yeshiva permitted it with filtering.
October 19, 2010 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm in reply to: An important lesson from last weeks parsha for married people #702543myfriendMemberHaving said that, there are limits and there are mussar concepts like prishus and others which may faintly hint at what the OP wrote. But this must be approached with extreme caution and with the guidance of a wise Rebbi or Rav, and not on one’s own due to a svara that if it was good for Avraham Avinu (assuming that was pshat) then it’s good for me. And one must be certain to not cause tzaar to one’s spouse, CH”V.
I think HaKatan put it well, perhaps understanding the OP’s intent.
myfriendMemberWhat would Rav Elyashev do? Would Rav Elyashev allow his children to browse a public library?
Answer that and you’re on your way to an answer.
myfriendMemberpopa, the Torah says animals were created BEFORE man.
myfriendMemberI agree with everything artchill said above. Orthodox Jewry needs a public spokesman of Rabbi Levin’s caliber. Unafraid of speaking the emes. Even if that means stepping on people’s toes. And even if it is unpopular in certain segments of the population. And even if it doesn’t help him win any popularity contests. And even when the emes is rough.
I recall a story of some godol who accepted money from the tziyonim for his Yeshiva. There were protesters outside protesting this. His talmidim told him how wrong it was for them to be mevaze him and the Yeshiva by protesting. He answered his talmidim, that while it is a necessary evil for him to take the money, he is glad the protesters are protesting because it isn’t 100% correct, and if the’re weren’t any protests outside, he would have to hire protesters himself to protest taking that money!
We need Rabbi Levin.
myfriendMemberWIY: His views on gays are probably more extreme then theirs!
The Torah’s views are even more extreme. As in execution. Death. Stoning. Rabbi Levin hasn’t been calling for that, so perhaps he can be properly characterized as not extreme enough on this issue.
myfriendMemberAgudah is not above reproach. They are a lay organization. Criticism of Agudah, aside from having been often done by Rabbonim, is not a criticism of the Rabbonim affiliated with Agudah, but rather a criticism of the lay leadership of Agudah. (And, no, the lay leaders of Agudah do NOT necessarily ask the Moetzei for approval of every press release they issue or everything they otherwise do.)
myfriendMemberInteresting post from another thread, relevant to this discussion:
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Dear midwest2 i am a NYer and admit that my house probably would cost anywhere between 50-150 thousand less in most of the places you just mentioned.If you have four kids out of town living expenses will cost more for a frum family on a daily/year to year basis then living in Brooklyn or Queens. Out of NY there is even more expensive yeshiva and camp tuition, commuting costs, property taxes, and kosher food and neccesity of needing two cars in many of those areas. Additionally, their are of course many amenities to living in a big city such as generally better healthcare social programs etc.. I.E. if for fifteen years you are paying 10-15 thousand more a year in taxes commuting and tuition you definetly as a frum family spend more by living out of town.
Lakewood and Waterbury, are the only two places where this does not hold true as the housing prices in Waterbury are amazingly low and yeshiva tuition is low as well. Housing prices in Lakewood are much lower then many urban Jewish areas with much higher property tax but Yeshiva tuition is comparable to Brooklyn.
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myfriendMemberYou DEFINITLY do NOT need a college degree these days to succeed in parnasa.
myfriendMemberi don’t think youre 100% right
Not only am I correct, my statistics are from the very same government website as you linked to! Fact is not only is NY below the unemployment average, most frum OOT communities currently have much higher unemployment rates than NY.
And why would you — in Florida with 11.7% — highlight NY’s low unemployment rate?
myfriendMemberwith an 8.3% unemployment rate
Considering that the national unemployment rate is 9.6%, New York is doing relatively good.
Michigan 13.1%, California 12.4%, Florida 11.7%, Illinois 10.1%, New Jersey 9.6% Pennsylvania 9.2%, Connecticut 9.1%. (Hmm, not only is NY better than all these States, it seems the closer to New York they are, the lower the unemployment rate!)
myfriendMemberMoq also was apparently in the wrong circles during his NY bout. He must’ve missed the scores of tmimusdik Yidden all over New York who seek no fame nor glory. They live simple, unfashionable, lives. They live in Boro Park, Flatbush, Williamsburg, and every other frum neighborhood.
myfriendMemberThat’s because they have 60 (or whatever) frum families living just on their block, while out of town you have just a handful. So, sure, OOT you will know all the neighbors; but in NY you’ll still know more neighbors than OOT — even if not all.
myfriendMemberDespite all the rumors to the contrary (perhaps in secular circles?), in frum New York people actually know you and there is warmth in the community and people actually care about each other.
myfriendMemberMany out of town frum communities have been shrinking for years already, while New York is going strong — with an influx.
myfriendMemberListen not everyone can agree with everything. Nevertheless, all the numerous frum former out-of-towners now living all over New York, saw something compelling about it!
myfriendMemberNo one is saying that New York has all the advantages… but the advantages are so numerous they far outweigh whatever advantages their may be out of town.
myfriendMemberConservative and Reform are not Judaism. Their so-called synagogues are nothing but foreign churches. Whether you are “in favor of it” or not. It is not I who has cast aspersions on these foreign beliefs — it is the leaders of true Jewry that has. It isn’t a matter of lifestyle, but rather of the law given to Moses. You are Jewish, but you are not practicing Judaism.
Being frum is an option for everyone.
myfriendMemberWhat is your view on the matter (if you take a position)?
myfriendMembersqueak, its not “considered” acceptable to implement, or it isn’t acceptable to implement?
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