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I agree with you bein hasdorim. A man does has the obligation to look for his basheret.
oomis, maybe times have changed since your husband has become religious? I also know many people who are very shomer torah and mitzvot and they don’t learn for many hours a day. But let’s not forget that the generations are getting lower.
“a good looking sweet woman will attract a man no matter how commited he is . Men should not fool themselves – this is the way Hashem created man.:
very true Poster, and it doesn’t have to do with how religious they are either.
Isn’t the guy supposed to like the girl?
Getzel, you should see the potholes here in mexico(in very good neighborhoods) and we all pay a lot in taxes. So if your taxes go to help torah then you are lucky.
Maybe people shouldn’t get engaged so fast if they are so scared to be ostracized if it doesn’t work out……. (do people really think that divorce is better???)
I think that it is better to beak it off before the marriage then afterwards. Imagine the implications of the whole process of the get and the divorce on the young couple.
Oh, and don’t think that the divorce rate amongst the irreligious is lower because they know how to interact with the other gender. Its not.
Infidelity and financial problems are leading causes of divorce in many circles, so yes, we do have to be careful and have tziniut socially and in the workplace. Knowing that my husband still has to go to work everyday.
About the pregnant woman not stepping on nails, I think that its written in the mishnah berurah.although I’m not sure.
Jothar, I agree with your points, they make a lot if sense. I’m sure that many times divorce happens because of other problems like addictions or severe psychological problems that unfortunately no one was aware of before the marriage.
I really have nothing to say about this terrible tragedy, Hashem should send nachamu to the family, and the baby should grow up and give a lot of nachas.
Oh, and use common sense when visiting and calling. Don’t show up at late hours and don’t keep on calling because they may want to rest.
I heard of someone that just got a flu vaccine and is in the hospital because of paralysis. Is that possible?
Maybe you could help out with the little kids. (if there are any) or help with housework?
How do you know if someone is getting the correct therapy?
Real, wherever we live (even eretz yisrael) we are still in galut.
I really wish I could find those huge egg challahs in mexico! Yum!
Tzippi, I personally think that a shidduch could happen if the couple is willing to go for it whether they are 1 day apart or 10 years apart. But that is only my personal opinion.
AZ why doesn’t NASI create seminars for people who could be shadchanim, and train them on how to make shiduchim? They could build a huge database with all the single boys and girls and make shidduchim from there. (maybe with people even interviewing the singles before putting them on the database)
If a boy is out of town doesn’t he have other expenses besides pizzas and cokes?
What if you do the segula for 41 days, does it still work? 😉
Tamazaball toss them and buy him new ones or tell him to wear it like that (tell him that they look like he bought them like that!);)
Mmm haifagirl! But isn’t chanuka like in 3 weeks?
Take your cell phone but don’t check for SMS. And don’t answer it if it rings.
Mommy613 if he is doing well then don’t worry so much and show him a lot of love. Let him talk to you if he needs to but don’t push him. Just keep your eyes open and check who he hangs out with.
Another point is that if he felt comfortable enough to wear the jeans in front of you maybe he just wore them for comfort. (he couldve found a way to sneak around in them if he wanted to) maybe he wanted to see your reaction.
How else are they supposed to pay for basic necessities?
I don’t get any ads on the blackberry, guess the servers are advanced in mexico??!! Who knew!? 😉
Maybe some situations are too embarrassing for some people to ask people that they know for advice?
The new son in law goes to meet his father in law for the first time. The father in law asks him “so how are you going to support my daughter?”
“G-d will provide” he answers.
“Where are you going to live?”
“G-d will provide”
“And where are you going to get a car from?”
Again the son in law replies “G-d will provide…”
The father in law turns to his wife and says “I like this guy, he thinks I’m G-d!”
Phyliss, I understand what you are saying about a boss, but I’ve been to places and the owners are not always nice and attending to their customers.
Maybe don’t right yetzer hara but instead something like a pasuk of taking care of your health?
Very good jokes!!!! Thanx!!:)
Ronsr that’s not murder its a mitzvah!
Okay, don’t ever leave any aerosole like Pam next to the stove while cooking, it could explode if it gets too hot! Also if making a barbecue check and make sure that there is nothing flammable like empty paint cans nearby.
If someone goes on fire roll on the ground and try to smother the fire with a sweater or whatever you have nearby, throw water on the victim and if the don’t take off clothing unless you’re sure the burns didn’t get to the skin.
I really hope that places like that do well!
Well said estherh!
Really shaatra??!! Maybe people want to say the bad words in Arabic because they don’t want others to understand them?
Is this flu really so dangerous?
The marriage goral would never work however a goral for going on dates would probably be a pretty good idea because people would have to go out with people who they wouldn’t initially consider and they might be pleasantly surprised.
Mm tell that to the age gappers…;)
Here we go again….. Yeah the age gap…… Right?
Josh actually I am an American citizen. So I do have a say in the matter, and even if I wasn’t, I don’t think I have to ask your permission.
Yes! Zach is right, people have lost their common sense!
Its usually the low paid people that go to the US(look at the difference in pay), doctors don’t need to go work illegally.
Just a guy, I think that the point is even in the US we shouldn’t let our guard down and we shouldn’t put our faith in the government.
Ronsr, in mexico people try to marry girls and boys from the community. Most people aren’t so picky, they really just try to find a good person who’ll be a good spouse and a good mother/father from a nice family. (although people with big bank accounts usually go first, but that is probably a common occurence in most places)
Mazca that why we have to solve the shidduch crisis, don’t you agree?