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  • in reply to: Pro Vaccination Paranoia in the frum community. #1616921
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    Texting while driving is very bad. But that doesn’t make not vaccinating good.

    in reply to: Controversial opinion (T) #1616922
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    Um, what point are you trying to make?

    in reply to: The Badeken — The origins and meaning behind the Minhag #1582637
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    Christians use a wedding canopy? Never knew. Not that I’ve ever been to a church wedding, but they have them in movies and tv shows.

    And I’m positive that the white dress thing is from Queen Victoria; In ‘The Bostoner Rebbetzin Remembers’ Rebbetzin Horowitz wrote that white bridal gowns were considered un-Jewish in her day, so her wedding dress was a light pastel color. Fact check, anybody?

    in reply to: Does anyone know Ruthie Pearlman’s books? #1574838
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    Oooh! Ruthie Pearlman! For real?! Oooh!

    Y’know, if enough people borrow your books from a library then when your next book is published, that library will buy that book, too. That’s got to count for something.

    in reply to: Does anyone know Ruthie Pearlman’s books? #1574390
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    Just a comment on flyer’s comment: ‘An Ordinary Wednesday’ is not part of the Yael Reed series, so it doesn’t have to be read before or after any particular book.

    in reply to: Henna tattoos #1570631
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    Thanks for the input, Shopping. But neither I nor Rabbi Plony have any Yemenite or Sefardi background, and it’s not like Princess is engaged to or even being set up with a Sefardi bachor – like I mentioned in my opening post, she’s only 14.
    The reason why she was interested in the henna tattoos because they were a type of temporary tattoo.
    The reason why I was opposed to the henna tattoos was because they were a type of temporary tattoo. Compounded by the Hinduism aspect.
    So I expressed my opinion and let her make her own decision. When she saw the Southeast Asian woman applying the henna she made the decision to skip the tattoo.
    Hey, maybe in a few years she’ll get engaged to boy whose family minhag is to make a henna party like your friend, and we’ll look back on this and laugh.
    And if the library makes a fair again next year we’ll try to get there early, before the balloon sculpting booth gets too crowded.

    in reply to: Henna tattoos #1569399
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    The library fair was a BLAST! The mini golf in the stacks was a ton of fun, the origami artist was a real sweetheart, and the juggler was friendly and charming.

    Princess Plony agreed not to get a henna tattoo, based on everything I had told her. But there were plenty of other things to enjoy about the fair.

    And that’s the end of that.

    in reply to: The Badeken — The origins and meaning behind the Minhag #1567277
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    I don’t think that the word ‘badeken’ comes from ‘bedecked’. I think it comes from ‘bodek’, like the groom is checking that the kallah is who he thinks she is.

    in reply to: Henna tattoos #1564090
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    Thank you Midwest for your support.

    Now I understand you, apushatayid: you’re saying to ask my rav for guidance, not a halachic ruling. But I don’t understand why you reference the chassid shoteh.

    in reply to: Henna tattoos #1563476
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    Thank you for your thoughts, apushatayid, but just because something is permitted doesn’t mean that it’s good. There’s a concept of ‘naval birshus haTorah’. There’s a concept of ‘es past nisht’.

    BaltimoreMaven, I know that there are some shomrei Shabbos kosher-keeping yidden who wear denim and blue nail polish, and who watch carefully chosen kiddie videos. Just because I don’t do those things doesn’t mean that people who do them are oiver.

    We each have to adhere to the standards that are right for ourselves.

    in reply to: Henna tattoos #1563208
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    The book was “As Mountains Around Jerusalem.’ The ceremony is called a ‘chinna’.

    I haven’t asked a Rav about this because I’m not looking for a psak. This isn’t about whether it’s prohibited or permitted – it’s about standards. It’s sort of like asking whether we should allow the Princess Plonies to wear denim skirts, or allow Little Prince Plony to wear jeans. Do we allow nail polish, and if yes, then which colors? Is it okay for them to view carefully selected children’s’ videos from secular sources? Or videos about nature and history?

    Parenting is full of decisions. Every single day. Some people are able to adhere to absolutes. (NO videos. ONLY books from frum publishers. ALWAYS this! NEVER that!) And if they’re able to adhere to them, then good for them.

    I decided to tell Princess all the facts, including the fact that I would NOT like for her to get the henna tattoo. She 100% saw my concerns, and we’ll see what happens at the library fair.

    Who knows, the HT stand might be something like “Chinnas by Chana – book now for your wedding!”

    And I’d like to thank everybody for their input. I needed some outside perspective.

    in reply to: Henna tattoos #1562255
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    Reb Yidd, you have a good point. Maybe if I tell her everything I know about henna tattoos, then she’ll decide on her own that it’s a bad idea.

    But I’m still curious about the Yemenite aspect. I need to do more research.

    in reply to: Why are Liberals outraged that Trump acted like Obama #1562248
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    The mods changed the ‘s’ to a ‘D’. Thanks.

    in reply to: Why are Liberals outraged that Trump acted like Obama #1562193
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    I didn’t come here to talk politics.
    The only reason I came to this thread was because the title is misspelled, and it’s getting on my nerves. Mods, could you pleeeeeeease change it from ‘Outrages’ to ‘Outraged’? Pretty please? Thank you.

    in reply to: Getting bothered by silly childish things #1559311
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    I miss paper straws. When they dissolved you knew it was time to stop drinking.

    in reply to: Hi. Everyone. Do you guys remember me? #1556292
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    I don’t think that you and I ever directly corresponded, but I do remember you. Welcome back. Stay strong.

    in reply to: Condoning by silence (T) #1551996
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    Well, we teach that murder is wrong. Cannibalism is impossible without killing someone, right? So we don’t have to add the extra anti-cannibalism lecture, do we?

    in reply to: Amudim: Abuse often occurs within your home . #1549190
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    Randomex, you are spot-on. Does It Is Time For Truth really think that we should keep ignoring abuse? IITFT, if it (CH”V) happened to your loved ones, I think (hope) you would feel differently.

    in reply to: Amudim: Abuse often occurs within your home . #1546726
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    This started out as a PSA and turned into a moshev laitzim. Some people are trying to warn us to protect our children and some posters (you know who you are) are saying “No, don’t bother.”

    Hey, trolls, WHAT are you trying to accomplish? You want to enable abuse? Mods, this thread might be doing more harm than good.

    in reply to: Protecting our children #1544163
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    Whoops. I didn’t even realize that this was an old, bumped thread. Now I feel truly sick to my stomach. Ten years and we’re STILL wrangling with the same issue: bad drivers, worse pedestrians, and un-supervised tots? the horror.

    Reb Yidd, I sincerely apologize. I thought this was a current topic and you were making joking comments about safety.

    in reply to: Protecting our children #1544077
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    I apologize to both Reb Yidds. How should I have phrased it?

    in reply to: Protecting our children #1544072
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    I apologize. How should I have phrased it?

    in reply to: Protecting our children #1543654
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    Reb Yidd, this is not the type of thread for your jokes. Please either be serious or else take your comments to a different thread.

    Actually, Rabbi Plony and I have marveled in horror at exactly the sort of behaviors that the OP and subsequent posters have described. Whenever we’re tempted to ask ‘Where are the parents?’ when we see tiny kids outside alone, we recall the drivers who apparently consider stop signs and red lights to be merely suggestions, and the pedestrians who have so much bitachon that they don’t even look before stepping into the roadway. (Okay, THAT was sarcasm.)

    Aside from everybody venting in the Coffee Room, does anybody have any productive suggestions? All I can do on an individual basis is educate my own kids and maybe mussar the neighbors’ kids a little.

    in reply to: 150,000 Assimilated Jews proudly fought whe Nazi’s #1531196
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    You can’t believe everything you read, either on-line or in print.

    in reply to: 150,000 Assimilated Jews proudly fought whe Nazi’s #1529548
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    Huh?

    in reply to: PSA: Don’t Buy the Liverwurst #1526042
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    He was brilliant.

    in reply to: Sprinkle Cookies #1519558
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    Yeah, sprinkle cookies are real good.

    in reply to: BT vs FFB #1512487
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    Screwdriver Delight, sometimes people do kiruv because they want to control ‘their’ BT’s. If you honestly want more Jews to keep the mitzvos and live a Torah lifestyle, then it shouldn’t be about you; therefore BT’s should be encouraged to build a network of their own, and not ‘belong’ to one particular kiruv family.

    Daas Yochid, my point is that if a kiruv-er promises a potential BT “Oh, don’t worry, if your family can’t accept your new lifestyle, then we’ll be your family”, then that’s a HUGE responsibility. The kiruv-er might only be thinking of the emotional factor, but real family goes beyond that.

    ZD, that’s sad, but thank you for sharing the rest of the story.

    DovidBT, thanks for the analogy.

    in reply to: BT vs FFB #1511682
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    ZD, oh my gosh, that’s TERRIBLE about the BT lady whose mother blackmailed her into participating in her brother’s mixed-marriage wedding. That poor woman! Can you tell us what happened in the end?

    I need to get this off my chest: People who do kiruv, formally or informally, have a responsibility to promote independence of BT’s. If you have your little coterie of people whom you’ve ‘made frum’, but you keep them under your exclusive influence then you’re doing them a real disservice. Let them see how other observant people manage a Shabbos table or Pesach Seder; let them try a different shul or a different community. If you claim that you’re ‘just like family’ for ‘your’ BT’s, then you should be committed to caring for them (and their descendants) in perpetuity – not just that you’ll get all the honor and glamour of walking them to the chuppah and being invited to siyums, etc., but be ready to support them (financially, not just emotionally) if their families reject them or if they have other emergencies.

    I’m not addressing anybody personally on this thread, I’m just speaking in general.

    in reply to: BT vs FFB #1510356
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    No one has it easy.

    in reply to: Can a “Kosher” Restaurant Advertise it also is “Halal” #1502585
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    I have seen packaged food products with a hechsher and also with halal certification. What’s the difference? Maybe the restaurant was promoting the fact that they don’t use wine?

    in reply to: Cooking water #1501147
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    Can’t you ask a Rov?

    in reply to: Becoming More Wealthy, Becoming More Frum #1491650
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    Yserbius, I don’t think everybody gets your point.

    in reply to: Do you enjoy being scared (by fictional media)? #1485583
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    Rand0m3x, no, I don’t think Marvin was lying. (BTW, thanks – I couldn’t remember his name when I posted and Googling it or Wikipedia-ing it was too much of a hassle.)

    RebYidd, horror stories are horrible.

    in reply to: Do you enjoy being scared (by fictional media)? #1480325
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    In one of the Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy books (probably the first one) the grumpy robot, when asked if he’s telling the truth about something, says something along the lines of “Life! Isn’t there enough of it already without making up more?!”

    I think that there are enough terrible things happening in the world without making believe that there are extras.

    So, no, I don’t enjoy being scared by fictional media. And I don’t understand people who do.

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    Halevai it should be that GMO’s are just to ‘shorten the process’. But if that were the case then there would be no controversy.

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    Right, I am a hybrid of my mommy’s DNA and my daddy’s DNA. That’s not a GMO. I don’t think that anybody objects to, for example, a tomato that has been cross-bred from a plum tomato and a beefsteak tomato. But genetically engineering a tomato to contain DNA from a flounder? That can’t be right.

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    Whoa, Jersey Jew, you sound REALLY hostile when you say “you, yes you, are also a genetically modified organism?” I think that you’re using the term GMO differently than Josh (and I ) are here. How am I a GMO?

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    Akuermaq, would you PLEASE stop it! There is a world of difference between cross-breeding two similar species in a natural way and creating GMO’s by splicing genes in a laboratory.

    in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1452821
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    When I saw the title of this thread, I thought that the OP was asking if, in the days of Moshiach, we’ll be able to pick dinosaurs off of a tree like we would with clothes and stuff. Forget dinosaurs – I would want a unicorn.

    in reply to: What does a Chamsa symbolize in Orthodox judiasm? ✋ #1439562
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    I know that the hamsa looks like a hand with two thumbs, but I’m pretty sure it’s supposed to be a lily.

    in reply to: Congratulations Judge Roy Moore! #1426328
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    Mwah-h-ha-ha!

    in reply to: STOP MULTIPLYING!!! #1422648
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    Sure, this loser has freedom of speech. But he’s still a jerk. (And if anyone wants to pick on my choice of words – go ahead. You and I have freedom of speech, too.)

    in reply to: What is your favorite color of jelly beans? #1405987
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    It’s unanimous – RED!

    in reply to: Seeking advice of tooth removal #1405986
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    I totally understand why Goldilocks is asking the CR. Sometimes you want input from laymen, not necessarily from experts. BTW, I might also need some extractions, so it’s good to know which questions I should ask, from both my dentist and my peers. (No, my peers are not dentists.)

    in reply to: The Library – Eating Apples From the Toilet Bowl #1398856
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    We go shopping in grocery stores that sell kosher food alongside the non-kosher food. We shop in department stores that sell acceptable items alongside non-tznius clothing. We each have to decide for ourselves which items we can buy and which ones we can’t. Every adult has to trust his or her own judgment.

    I personally have given a lot of thought as to whether I and my children should visit public libraries, and what we should and shouldn’t read. It was not an off-handed or emotional decision.

    This lecture just comes across as ‘holier-than-thou’ posturing and an attempt to stifle independent thought.

    in reply to: The Library – Eating Apples From the Toilet Bowl #1398728
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    Is that the way to convince somebody? If I like books and I like reading and I like libraries, but you think that libraries are bad, then will you change my point of view by belittling libraries and comparing them to toilets?

    in reply to: The Library – Eating Apples From the Toilet Bowl #1397271
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    Hmph.

    in reply to: Coin Collecting – Numismatics #1390020
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    ZD, was your second post a quote from the person you mentioned in your first post?
    Either way, coin collecting is just a fun thing to do. Yeah, it’s gashmiusdig. So what? It’s a little bit like collecting post cards.

    in reply to: Cholopchis vs Gefilte Kraut #1378822
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    Thanks, CTL. And, yeah, I’m from Philly.

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