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November 5, 2018 2:16 am at 2:16 am in reply to: Pro Vaccination Paranoia in the frum community. #1616921MRS PLONYParticipant
Texting while driving is very bad. But that doesn’t make not vaccinating good.
MRS PLONYParticipantUm, what point are you trying to make?
August 29, 2018 2:43 am at 2:43 am in reply to: The Badeken — The origins and meaning behind the Minhag #1582637MRS PLONYParticipantChristians use a wedding canopy? Never knew. Not that I’ve ever been to a church wedding, but they have them in movies and tv shows.
And I’m positive that the white dress thing is from Queen Victoria; In ‘The Bostoner Rebbetzin Remembers’ Rebbetzin Horowitz wrote that white bridal gowns were considered un-Jewish in her day, so her wedding dress was a light pastel color. Fact check, anybody?
August 15, 2018 10:18 pm at 10:18 pm in reply to: Does anyone know Ruthie Pearlman’s books? #1574838MRS PLONYParticipantOooh! Ruthie Pearlman! For real?! Oooh!
Y’know, if enough people borrow your books from a library then when your next book is published, that library will buy that book, too. That’s got to count for something.
MRS PLONYParticipantJust a comment on flyer’s comment: ‘An Ordinary Wednesday’ is not part of the Yael Reed series, so it doesn’t have to be read before or after any particular book.
MRS PLONYParticipantThanks for the input, Shopping. But neither I nor Rabbi Plony have any Yemenite or Sefardi background, and it’s not like Princess is engaged to or even being set up with a Sefardi bachor – like I mentioned in my opening post, she’s only 14.
The reason why she was interested in the henna tattoos because they were a type of temporary tattoo.
The reason why I was opposed to the henna tattoos was because they were a type of temporary tattoo. Compounded by the Hinduism aspect.
So I expressed my opinion and let her make her own decision. When she saw the Southeast Asian woman applying the henna she made the decision to skip the tattoo.
Hey, maybe in a few years she’ll get engaged to boy whose family minhag is to make a henna party like your friend, and we’ll look back on this and laugh.
And if the library makes a fair again next year we’ll try to get there early, before the balloon sculpting booth gets too crowded.MRS PLONYParticipantThe library fair was a BLAST! The mini golf in the stacks was a ton of fun, the origami artist was a real sweetheart, and the juggler was friendly and charming.
Princess Plony agreed not to get a henna tattoo, based on everything I had told her. But there were plenty of other things to enjoy about the fair.
And that’s the end of that.
July 31, 2018 12:22 am at 12:22 am in reply to: The Badeken — The origins and meaning behind the Minhag #1567277MRS PLONYParticipantI don’t think that the word ‘badeken’ comes from ‘bedecked’. I think it comes from ‘bodek’, like the groom is checking that the kallah is who he thinks she is.
MRS PLONYParticipantThank you Midwest for your support.
Now I understand you, apushatayid: you’re saying to ask my rav for guidance, not a halachic ruling. But I don’t understand why you reference the chassid shoteh.
MRS PLONYParticipantThank you for your thoughts, apushatayid, but just because something is permitted doesn’t mean that it’s good. There’s a concept of ‘naval birshus haTorah’. There’s a concept of ‘es past nisht’.
BaltimoreMaven, I know that there are some shomrei Shabbos kosher-keeping yidden who wear denim and blue nail polish, and who watch carefully chosen kiddie videos. Just because I don’t do those things doesn’t mean that people who do them are oiver.
We each have to adhere to the standards that are right for ourselves.
MRS PLONYParticipantThe book was “As Mountains Around Jerusalem.’ The ceremony is called a ‘chinna’.
I haven’t asked a Rav about this because I’m not looking for a psak. This isn’t about whether it’s prohibited or permitted – it’s about standards. It’s sort of like asking whether we should allow the Princess Plonies to wear denim skirts, or allow Little Prince Plony to wear jeans. Do we allow nail polish, and if yes, then which colors? Is it okay for them to view carefully selected children’s’ videos from secular sources? Or videos about nature and history?
Parenting is full of decisions. Every single day. Some people are able to adhere to absolutes. (NO videos. ONLY books from frum publishers. ALWAYS this! NEVER that!) And if they’re able to adhere to them, then good for them.
I decided to tell Princess all the facts, including the fact that I would NOT like for her to get the henna tattoo. She 100% saw my concerns, and we’ll see what happens at the library fair.
Who knows, the HT stand might be something like “Chinnas by Chana – book now for your wedding!”
And I’d like to thank everybody for their input. I needed some outside perspective.
MRS PLONYParticipantReb Yidd, you have a good point. Maybe if I tell her everything I know about henna tattoos, then she’ll decide on her own that it’s a bad idea.
But I’m still curious about the Yemenite aspect. I need to do more research.
July 20, 2018 12:59 am at 12:59 am in reply to: Why are Liberals outraged that Trump acted like Obama #1562248MRS PLONYParticipantThe mods changed the ‘s’ to a ‘D’. Thanks.
July 19, 2018 10:51 pm at 10:51 pm in reply to: Why are Liberals outraged that Trump acted like Obama #1562193MRS PLONYParticipantI didn’t come here to talk politics.
The only reason I came to this thread was because the title is misspelled, and it’s getting on my nerves. Mods, could you pleeeeeeease change it from ‘Outrages’ to ‘Outraged’? Pretty please? Thank you.MRS PLONYParticipantI miss paper straws. When they dissolved you knew it was time to stop drinking.
MRS PLONYParticipantI don’t think that you and I ever directly corresponded, but I do remember you. Welcome back. Stay strong.
MRS PLONYParticipantWell, we teach that murder is wrong. Cannibalism is impossible without killing someone, right? So we don’t have to add the extra anti-cannibalism lecture, do we?
June 29, 2018 12:03 am at 12:03 am in reply to: Amudim: Abuse often occurs within your home . #1549190MRS PLONYParticipantRandomex, you are spot-on. Does It Is Time For Truth really think that we should keep ignoring abuse? IITFT, if it (CH”V) happened to your loved ones, I think (hope) you would feel differently.
June 26, 2018 3:36 pm at 3:36 pm in reply to: Amudim: Abuse often occurs within your home . #1546726MRS PLONYParticipantThis started out as a PSA and turned into a moshev laitzim. Some people are trying to warn us to protect our children and some posters (you know who you are) are saying “No, don’t bother.”
Hey, trolls, WHAT are you trying to accomplish? You want to enable abuse? Mods, this thread might be doing more harm than good.
MRS PLONYParticipantWhoops. I didn’t even realize that this was an old, bumped thread. Now I feel truly sick to my stomach. Ten years and we’re STILL wrangling with the same issue: bad drivers, worse pedestrians, and un-supervised tots? the horror.
Reb Yidd, I sincerely apologize. I thought this was a current topic and you were making joking comments about safety.
MRS PLONYParticipantI apologize to both Reb Yidds. How should I have phrased it?
MRS PLONYParticipantI apologize. How should I have phrased it?
MRS PLONYParticipantReb Yidd, this is not the type of thread for your jokes. Please either be serious or else take your comments to a different thread.
Actually, Rabbi Plony and I have marveled in horror at exactly the sort of behaviors that the OP and subsequent posters have described. Whenever we’re tempted to ask ‘Where are the parents?’ when we see tiny kids outside alone, we recall the drivers who apparently consider stop signs and red lights to be merely suggestions, and the pedestrians who have so much bitachon that they don’t even look before stepping into the roadway. (Okay, THAT was sarcasm.)
Aside from everybody venting in the Coffee Room, does anybody have any productive suggestions? All I can do on an individual basis is educate my own kids and maybe mussar the neighbors’ kids a little.
June 1, 2018 8:33 pm at 8:33 pm in reply to: 150,000 Assimilated Jews proudly fought whe Nazi’s #1531196MRS PLONYParticipantYou can’t believe everything you read, either on-line or in print.
May 30, 2018 10:11 pm at 10:11 pm in reply to: 150,000 Assimilated Jews proudly fought whe Nazi’s #1529548MRS PLONYParticipantHuh?
MRS PLONYParticipantHe was brilliant.
MRS PLONYParticipantYeah, sprinkle cookies are real good.
MRS PLONYParticipantScrewdriver Delight, sometimes people do kiruv because they want to control ‘their’ BT’s. If you honestly want more Jews to keep the mitzvos and live a Torah lifestyle, then it shouldn’t be about you; therefore BT’s should be encouraged to build a network of their own, and not ‘belong’ to one particular kiruv family.
Daas Yochid, my point is that if a kiruv-er promises a potential BT “Oh, don’t worry, if your family can’t accept your new lifestyle, then we’ll be your family”, then that’s a HUGE responsibility. The kiruv-er might only be thinking of the emotional factor, but real family goes beyond that.
ZD, that’s sad, but thank you for sharing the rest of the story.
DovidBT, thanks for the analogy.
MRS PLONYParticipantZD, oh my gosh, that’s TERRIBLE about the BT lady whose mother blackmailed her into participating in her brother’s mixed-marriage wedding. That poor woman! Can you tell us what happened in the end?
I need to get this off my chest: People who do kiruv, formally or informally, have a responsibility to promote independence of BT’s. If you have your little coterie of people whom you’ve ‘made frum’, but you keep them under your exclusive influence then you’re doing them a real disservice. Let them see how other observant people manage a Shabbos table or Pesach Seder; let them try a different shul or a different community. If you claim that you’re ‘just like family’ for ‘your’ BT’s, then you should be committed to caring for them (and their descendants) in perpetuity – not just that you’ll get all the honor and glamour of walking them to the chuppah and being invited to siyums, etc., but be ready to support them (financially, not just emotionally) if their families reject them or if they have other emergencies.
I’m not addressing anybody personally on this thread, I’m just speaking in general.
MRS PLONYParticipantNo one has it easy.
April 3, 2018 3:02 pm at 3:02 pm in reply to: Can a “Kosher” Restaurant Advertise it also is “Halal” #1502585MRS PLONYParticipantI have seen packaged food products with a hechsher and also with halal certification. What’s the difference? Maybe the restaurant was promoting the fact that they don’t use wine?
MRS PLONYParticipantCan’t you ask a Rov?
MRS PLONYParticipantYserbius, I don’t think everybody gets your point.
March 8, 2018 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm in reply to: Do you enjoy being scared (by fictional media)? #1485583MRS PLONYParticipantRand0m3x, no, I don’t think Marvin was lying. (BTW, thanks – I couldn’t remember his name when I posted and Googling it or Wikipedia-ing it was too much of a hassle.)
RebYidd, horror stories are horrible.
March 4, 2018 11:29 am at 11:29 am in reply to: Do you enjoy being scared (by fictional media)? #1480325MRS PLONYParticipantIn one of the Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy books (probably the first one) the grumpy robot, when asked if he’s telling the truth about something, says something along the lines of “Life! Isn’t there enough of it already without making up more?!”
I think that there are enough terrible things happening in the world without making believe that there are extras.
So, no, I don’t enjoy being scared by fictional media. And I don’t understand people who do.
February 5, 2018 7:51 am at 7:51 am in reply to: GMOs linked to 3rd generation sterility, yet OU says they are Kosher, why? #1462386MRS PLONYParticipantHalevai it should be that GMO’s are just to ‘shorten the process’. But if that were the case then there would be no controversy.
February 5, 2018 12:10 am at 12:10 am in reply to: GMOs linked to 3rd generation sterility, yet OU says they are Kosher, why? #1462312MRS PLONYParticipantRight, I am a hybrid of my mommy’s DNA and my daddy’s DNA. That’s not a GMO. I don’t think that anybody objects to, for example, a tomato that has been cross-bred from a plum tomato and a beefsteak tomato. But genetically engineering a tomato to contain DNA from a flounder? That can’t be right.
February 2, 2018 4:03 pm at 4:03 pm in reply to: GMOs linked to 3rd generation sterility, yet OU says they are Kosher, why? #1461606MRS PLONYParticipantWhoa, Jersey Jew, you sound REALLY hostile when you say “you, yes you, are also a genetically modified organism?” I think that you’re using the term GMO differently than Josh (and I ) are here. How am I a GMO?
January 29, 2018 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm in reply to: GMOs linked to 3rd generation sterility, yet OU says they are Kosher, why? #1459023MRS PLONYParticipantAkuermaq, would you PLEASE stop it! There is a world of difference between cross-breeding two similar species in a natural way and creating GMO’s by splicing genes in a laboratory.
January 19, 2018 10:13 am at 10:13 am in reply to: Could we have dinosaurs if we wanted them? #1452821MRS PLONYParticipantWhen I saw the title of this thread, I thought that the OP was asking if, in the days of Moshiach, we’ll be able to pick dinosaurs off of a tree like we would with clothes and stuff. Forget dinosaurs – I would want a unicorn.
December 30, 2017 9:26 pm at 9:26 pm in reply to: What does a Chamsa symbolize in Orthodox judiasm? ✋ #1439562MRS PLONYParticipantI know that the hamsa looks like a hand with two thumbs, but I’m pretty sure it’s supposed to be a lily.
MRS PLONYParticipantMwah-h-ha-ha!
MRS PLONYParticipantSure, this loser has freedom of speech. But he’s still a jerk. (And if anyone wants to pick on my choice of words – go ahead. You and I have freedom of speech, too.)
November 19, 2017 9:22 pm at 9:22 pm in reply to: What is your favorite color of jelly beans? #1405987MRS PLONYParticipantIt’s unanimous – RED!
MRS PLONYParticipantI totally understand why Goldilocks is asking the CR. Sometimes you want input from laymen, not necessarily from experts. BTW, I might also need some extractions, so it’s good to know which questions I should ask, from both my dentist and my peers. (No, my peers are not dentists.)
November 8, 2017 2:08 am at 2:08 am in reply to: The Library – Eating Apples From the Toilet Bowl #1398856MRS PLONYParticipantWe go shopping in grocery stores that sell kosher food alongside the non-kosher food. We shop in department stores that sell acceptable items alongside non-tznius clothing. We each have to decide for ourselves which items we can buy and which ones we can’t. Every adult has to trust his or her own judgment.
I personally have given a lot of thought as to whether I and my children should visit public libraries, and what we should and shouldn’t read. It was not an off-handed or emotional decision.
This lecture just comes across as ‘holier-than-thou’ posturing and an attempt to stifle independent thought.
November 7, 2017 6:49 pm at 6:49 pm in reply to: The Library – Eating Apples From the Toilet Bowl #1398728MRS PLONYParticipantIs that the way to convince somebody? If I like books and I like reading and I like libraries, but you think that libraries are bad, then will you change my point of view by belittling libraries and comparing them to toilets?
November 7, 2017 1:04 am at 1:04 am in reply to: The Library – Eating Apples From the Toilet Bowl #1397271MRS PLONYParticipantHmph.
MRS PLONYParticipantZD, was your second post a quote from the person you mentioned in your first post?
Either way, coin collecting is just a fun thing to do. Yeah, it’s gashmiusdig. So what? It’s a little bit like collecting post cards.MRS PLONYParticipantThanks, CTL. And, yeah, I’m from Philly.
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