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Amen.

I’m not saying pple should break away from their childhood friendships they should most definitely maintain it… However you should be mature enough to create a new social circle based on your current circumstances… Always add and maintain. And the best advice I could give, is be a friend don’t look for others to befriend you be a friend towards them… Invite them over for Shabbos, offer help with a simcha, offer to carpool, host a neibourhood shiur at your house…. Of your too busy for it during the week do it Friday night before the guys came home from Shul… There are so many opportunities… And if you’ve made friends in the past it should be easy for you now…

Ma’am in- Disapoint me…. In which way??? you def have a point if the op didn’t have friends in school that suggestion wouldn’t work, besides which if she did, it’s not the best solution… I believe younge pple need to Brayden their horizons… I find in the Yeshivish communities that is not done and many pple do stick with school friends way into their 40s and 50 s…. I’m not your exdaughterinlaw… If thsts what you are insinuating Bh I’ve been married for many years… And thankg-d I had friends in my youth as well as now…

Why do pole have to stick with their school friends… Grow up life isn’t only about school…

Absolutely fine. My wife is in medical school now going for a degree in the medical field.. if she’s single she might want to wait till she’s married to persue a degree of this nature depending on her background…

Most girls do not look the same in real life as they do in a picture….

Tuck them into your pockets. That way they are hanging out but still are protected from turning black…. Unless your pockets dirty…

Ideally The girl should send a picture of herself without makeup. My wife didn’t wear makeup when we were dating and was herself… Girls these days plaster themselves with masks of makeup and it’s impossible to even know what her true features are… My friends brother is having this issue now Shidduchim and the girls are not true to what they are in more ways than one… Before you girls attack my. Post I should mention same with the guys tgey are nit true to what they are these days…

One time poster- your a flirt!

Thanks Baal habooz;)

Are you guys engaged yet?

Close the thread it’s way too vain;p!!

It’s a good idea. That way everyone can marry off their kids without worrying about finances… We should all do it!

Noone says any negative in Shidduchim. Unless they are really nasty pple. I’ve done research on many different girls and guys in order to set them up… And I rarely hear any negative, when I know tgey should be really saying neg. I ask and when they answer pos to a question I already know. I then know that tgey are lying through their teeth! Noone lies in Shidduchim to create unhappy marriages. They only lie in order to create more marriages.. And tgey don’t want to be the ones of barres of bad news… Whatever my heads not clear right now but whoever reads this will kinda get tgd gist pple don’t want to be the one to ruin a shidduch they would rather pass the buck to someone else. So you never will know if the guy or girl has a temper prior to dating them or even sometimes until you unfortunately marry them… Then it’s too late…

A frum Erliche girl will never get to know boys!!!;) except the one boy she marries!!! Bekorov by all singles!!! May hashem guide you in the right path that is best for your needs! Hatzlocha!!! And always be truthful! Think ten times before you do anything… You not only have to face others with it you also have to face yourself and give a din ve cheshbon at the end of days. Your date/ your wife is not your confession booth!

Because you are acknowledging her actions and you are making her feel that it makes a difference to you.. When it shouldn’t… She’s a nerd in her own right for going out of her way to pry into your life. She must be empty with nothing Stimulating enough to fill up her own… I would feel bad for her if I were you not ‘attack’ back. Someone with dignity and integrity doesn’t do that… Rise above that don’t stoop down to where she is..

I don’t know if I’m being clear but that’s what I think…

Since you know that there are pple ghat know who you are Your giving yourself a bad name by posting like this…. I suggest you change your screen name and carry on with life… Posting like this you are not only ruining yourself you are also pulling yourself down to this girls level… if you decide to take my advice, you should also post in a more disguised manner to prevent such a thing occurring again…

Hatzlocha Raba with your life… It looks like you have alot ahead of you…. There’s alot to learn along the way.. You’ll get there.

Have a good shabbos.

Lipa shmeltzer rocks.

Hi dear brother;-) I’m missing you this pesach!!!! How’s it without me???;(

Are you guys engaged yet?

If you are not learning in Lakewood and are working you are a second class citizen, true or false? More and more pple need money that’s why they are flocking to the chassidishe oilom where its not such a busho to actually be working… Although I’m not too sure why the chassidim are flocking to the learning I guess it’s bc they already made thier bucks…

That’s pretty far from the states… I suggest you stay local so you can be back in time for last days Yom tov;)

Tell him to go get a job and pay for his Saturday meal;)