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May 24, 2012 1:08 pm at 1:08 pm in reply to: Started Shiduchim & need help with Seminary Facts #901969MorahRachMember
I cannot stand this. If someone wants to post questions about contradicting things such as asking about seminaries, and now shidduchim so what!? I hate how people get called out here, and embarrassed it is disgusting. Get a life this is a blog, an open forum, stop embarrassing people it is so upsetting.
May 24, 2012 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm in reply to: How many people are actually doing the Kosher things online? #876437MorahRachMemberAgreed!!! Why does everyone need to think SO low of their fellow yidden? I do not have a filter, I am not chassidish I grew up pretty MO, became more yeshivish after hs, but I feel that I am an adult who can make my own decisions so does my husband. If I thought I was going to “abuse” the Internet ( that would be between me and Gd) but then I would have a filter. Whatever happened to giving someone the benefit of the doubt? We are not all animals who use the Internet for “Shmutz and anti Torah”. CV’S we were though.. People have free will and they will have to deal with their own yetzer harah. This probably won’t post but I hope it does.
May 24, 2012 12:02 pm at 12:02 pm in reply to: How many people are actually doing the Kosher things online? #876436MorahRachMemberAll I use the Internet for is actually recipes, news, inspiration for work( I am a teacher and there are thousands upon thousands of fabulous lesson plans etc online, ywn ofcourse, that’s pretty much it.
MorahRachMemberHear*
MorahRachMemberThanks for the tip! How do people here about this? I go to 711 all the time & get slurpees. Is there a sign that I am not seeing?
MorahRachMemberNot sure if that last poster was serious but, I am a teacher and I truly love and care about my students. I did not invite them to my wedding because they are young children it is different but, to make a blanket statement like that is silly.
MorahRachMemberAs of late last night there was nothing on fox or CNN. Yikes. Better it NOT be in the media. All we need is for the media and the left to cry that the gedolim are forcing archaic ways upon us, that’s all we need! In the way that France is trying to ban shechting, that caused the media to scrutinize the ” archaic and cruel??” form of slaughter that Jews and Muslims still use, we don’t need any fingers pointing at the Asifa drawing attention to it, plus the fact that it was all Men yeesh the media would have a field day!
May 17, 2012 8:41 pm at 8:41 pm in reply to: co-ed first aid course with male and female instuctor #875261MorahRachMemberI get re-certified all the time so I have taken courses a lot. The only thing that I can think of being untsnius would be when the instructor is on the floor demonstrating chest compressions. If that. You are being taugh life saving measures. If it is mostly frum people going chances are you won’t be exposed to anyone dressed in appropriate , and when you pick a partner to practice the heimlich make sure to pick a man.
MorahRachMemberIt makes the simcha for so many people! No matter how happy one is for a chosson and Kallah, when someone hears they are going to a dry wedding they are ” bummed”.
MorahRachMemberHaha I hope avhaben was joking, because no… MANY people are not even partially supported.
MorahRachMemberWhat choice would you have?
MorahRachMemberIt’s not about expecting a gift because you are greedy, it is the proper thing. Most couples, atleast I did, heavily rely on their wedding money to start their lives. Its just what is done. Money, gift registries, etc.
MorahRachMemberRomney.
MorahRachMemberI had a very similar situation. I did find it very offensive because as a married woman I would never attend a simcha, like a wedding, with my husband and forego sending a gift. A rabbi who may attend weddings 5 nights a week, it may be more acceptable for him not to, but in general I think it is bad etiquette. It should not be the norm for frum Jews.
MorahRachMemberThis country used to uphold its values and morals
, based on judeo Christian beliefs. It is all down hill from here. Honestly, I am against gay marriage as most? Frum Jews and people with morals are. But correct it doesn’t directly affect me. What DOES however is that fact that in 2012 it is unacceptable to have a moral thought or conservative view. The liberals can say what they want when they want, push their agendas on us, be pro whatever it is gay marriage etc, but I can’t say ” I am against gay marriage” out loud without being an awful person. It’s like being politically correct has taken over our country, we can’t even express our own thoughts without getting steam rolled.
MorahRachMemberAcer!!! I have had an HP which was pretty good, but my last 2 including the one I have now is an Acer and I love it. BH never gives me problems. It is fast, sleek, easy to use. I highly reccomended the brand.
May 1, 2012 12:45 am at 12:45 am in reply to: what kind of electronic educational toy is good for 3 yr old ? #872036MorahRachMemberLeap frog notepads are really good. There are a variety that focus on math, writing, and comprehension. Educational warehouse and even toys r us have a big selection of “lap top” esque computers for children with learning programs.
MorahRachMemberI love the smell of yogurt . So funny. Just because he knows you don’t like the smell does not mean he consciously knows he is upsetting you. Many people are more oblivious than we would like to believe. Say something!
MorahRachMember14 is still and will always be an outrageous age for marriage.
MorahRachMemberWow, that is so scary. I hoPe to always be able to be a sahm. 1 income is tough but I think it’s worth it. Not for everyone I get that, but for many.
MorahRachMemberLubavitch holds at 3. I know some beis Yaakov families who go according to what the school requires, as a previous poster posted. There are people who hold even younger than 3??
MorahRachMemberMany of the women I work with who work full time have nannies or opares ( not sure if that’s spelled right), who do cooking and cleaning as well. I also know stay at home moms who had nannies half a day. So there is not a general rule of thumb.
MorahRachMemberChas v shalom. Be optimistic! We have until November.
MorahRachMemberScience program, I am curious 1. Because I was just having a discussion about it with a few co-workers, and 2 because I am due iyH in a few weeks and am planning to stay home for as long as I can. I just wanted to know what most people do/are able to do. My mother worked when I was very little but stayed home with my siblings. Just my curiosity!
MorahRachMemberThis is the crowd I am curious about though. Thanks everyone, keep it coming!
MorahRachMemberShweky, and YBC. Is that embarrassing?
MorahRachMemberYou cannot be responsible for someone else’s actions. If by closing the streets you hope to prevent a Jew from chas v shalom driving on shabbos, that is really not your job. This is not a Jewish country, we get to choose how we live out lives bH but do not get to dictate how others do.
April 24, 2012 10:25 am at 10:25 am in reply to: Closing the Streets in Boro Park for Shabbos #871184MorahRachMemberI would say the majority of posters here are parents, are working, are trying to raise a family etc. We don’t all sit here for hours on end perfecting our grammar. This is a blog. Not a Harvard entrance exam.
MorahRachMemberWhen you chew the wrong way and your teeth grind together. Ew!
MorahRachMemberThanks mermaid. Still. It’s one thing to have heated discussions and disagreements but another when you purposefully make someone feel bad / embarrass them. I notice it a lot here. I really value so many of the things I read here, and I like the differing opinions but sometimes I get so turned off when people attack.
April 24, 2012 12:27 am at 12:27 am in reply to: Closing the Streets in Boro Park for Shabbos #871168MorahRachMemberBowwow it is because of disgusting people like you that I think I am done with ywn. I was writing from my phone, whilst grocery shopping and doing a million things. Forgive me. I feel sorry for you that you feel the need to try to hurt someone’s feelings by pointing out their poor grammar, spelling or whatever it is you were being nasty about. Good luck to your spouse.
April 23, 2012 10:13 pm at 10:13 pm in reply to: Closing the Streets in Boro Park for Shabbos #871164MorahRachMemberIs this a joke? This is American. Regardless of how many Jews , frum Jews, live in a specific area that doe not matter. Even considering this is stepping WAY over the boundaries. Completely inappropriate to think that we have a right to close any streets likavod shabbos. I am frum would I not love it to live in a place that felt as holy on shabbos as my own home? Yes. When moshiach comes it will. Until then let’s be realistic and not expect unreasonable efforts on the part of society.
MorahRachMemberI have many kugel recipes that are healthy. I try not to eat kishka it is very unhealthy. A big part of healthy eating is everything-in-moderation. So yes have cholent and latkes and what have you but only in moderation. Cholent can be very healthy though I use barley and a variety of beans, no oil or salt.
On a different note, I think many people on YWN do not understand what the term troll means. If you think someone is trolling them don’t comment on the thread in this case though I think that is reaching.
MorahRachMemberThen don’t go on ywn, you won’t be subjected to all of us untsnius non males.
MorahRachMemberThreads like this are probably really frightening to all of the high schoolers that go on ywn. I have not been married so long, bH I am extremely happy, this sort of thing scares me. Not quite sure I fully understand what the OP is trying to say. I see a lot of couples married 15-20+ years who have no respect for one another, or who don’t seem happy /in love/ content. Then again I only see a small portion of their relationship. The only real reference I have unfortunately is my parents marriage which is definitely not a good example to follow. I think it’s about compromise, and both sides need to work on it everyday. I feel like so much of what we learn in Kallah classes is forgotten or thrown out the window. Hashem wants you to love your spouse, and put them first and constantly buil on your relationship. People get to comfortable being lazy in their relationships and get in ruts and have a hard time finding their ways out.
MorahRachMemberZimmerman did not confront Martin. He was walking back to his car after having followed him quietly when Martin attacked him. All the facts will come out hopefully during the trial so we are all a bit in the dark. The fact that an eye witness corroborated Zimmermans accounts definitely helps his case.
Also I am so sick of hearing the Libs refer to this as a racially driven attack. Zimmerman was a flipping minority as well. If you really are going to say he’s half white and half Hispanic, then let’s stop calling Obama black.. Because he is ” half white”. Honestly… Iv had it.
MorahRachMemberI see it more in men. How about men gaining weight during wife’s pregnancy??
MorahRachMemberAbout road travel and yes a fire in the house c’v. I just do know a lot of people who do this for international flights. It makes them feel more secure. Zehu.
MorahRachMemberA lot of people do this, goyim included. I didn’t know there was a minhag or that this was even derived anywhere. Everyone who jumped up with their sarcastic comments should just worry about their own family’s traveling procedures. Nothing wrong with splitting up or traveling together.
MorahRachMemberI actually agree with you popa
MorahRachMemberIn America you are innocent until proven guilty. All and i mean all of the facts, eye witness statement and evidence leads to Zimmerman telling the truth about the shooting being self defense.
The media has unfairly portrayed Martin as a saint showing childhood pictures only and botching the 911 tapes, and surveillance video showing zimmermans cuts bruises and bloodied head. Zimmermans neighbors came out saying he had bandages on his eye and nose for days after the incident which the media did not play up. NBC, while discrediting their own organization, lied and edited the 911 tapes trying to portray him as a huge racist.
Zimmerman tutored black kids on weekends, is a minority himself, and every black celebrity including the biggest Libs ever al sharpton and Jesse Jackson have come out condemning Zimmerman in the worst way. There is a bounty on zimmermans head which Obama has not said boo about. So please. I am not playing the Dan lekuf Zechus card because the Libs are defending Martin, I am because I am an educated person who looks at facts but until after the trial no one can really give an answer.
MorahRachMemberSame
MorahRachMemberIs it worse than married men and women having endless conversations with the ppposite gender about serious topics and adding sometimes smiley faces after they post their comments? Just saying. That is ywn.
MorahRachMemberIn the warm months, the grocery stores, malls, Cvs, target, gas stations, DMV every single place you go can be full of people dressed untznius. Its where we live. There is no Meah shearim in the us. Maybe I’m just not gettin it but sportin events in my opinion are no more untznius or full of pritzus then most other places. It’s not for everyone for sure but no one that frequents THIS blog should be telling others it’s assur an that they are wron for going to sporting events.
MorahRachMemberNot really. I’m not standing there screaming like a madman and cursing and what not. Some people get very passionate and heated at these games who cares. It’s a hobby. I hear what you are saying but if it’s not for you then just don’t go to the games right? Instead of telling everyone it’s “assur”.
MorahRachMemberWhy is baseball or other sports so bad? I’m actually asking I hate when everyone attacks discourages and demean people here. If you are not becoming overly obsessed, and letting results truly effect your life why not? I think sporting events can be a great bonding experience for father and son, brothers, or even families. Obviously when you have someone checking stats ( like I sometimes do when a giant game is on) very 2 minutes, and screaming/cursing at refs calls and letting losses ruin their days fine I can see why obsessions like those are extreme. But to say that sports in general are all negative and we shouldn’t watch I don’t understand. I am obviously not a Posek and no one on here is a big gadol I assume so for us why can’t we like sports?
I also know of a number of frum couples who went to Yankees/jets whatever games after they had been dating for a while..?
MorahRachMemberI agree with that too it stinks that we can’t partake in the public school system but it’s the way America is run.
MorahRachMemberMy brother in law is in kollel in Passaic where you can not be on any government funded assistance. He is supported by his parents and wife. Good for him though. This is America the government should not have to support countless people who are bH able bodies and able to work. Don’t get me wrong we need people spending the day learning but that is not the gov problem.
MorahRachMemberLegal or not the question should be is it morally acceptable. I work full time as does my husband who also has to save up his sick and personal days for the many yom tovim. We both pay taxes along with everything else we pay for, and it is just disheartening when so many other people have it so easy without really trying. My friends whose husbands are in kollel are fully supported by their parents, yet they are on Medicaid , WIC etc. I pay a very high price for my health care bH I have healthcare, but many friends living in nicer apartments than I are on Medicaid and have no co-pays etc. I just think everyone needs to do the right thing. If you want to learn on kollel then do it but don’t expect the government to provide your entire livlihood and means of living.
MorahRachMemberI know someone on food stamps for works but is paid off the books, and the government is actively trying to find her a job because as far as they are concerned she is unemployed. She keeps turning down their offers but that in my opinion should be considered illegal.
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