I know my husband since I was 6, even though we have very drum families. When I was 14, his older brother got married and I got very close with his new wife. A month later, I became very close with my principal after a family disaster, who is a very respected principal. When I was in 12th grade, my husband, with his sister in law’s urging, walks right over to my principal and asks to set up the shidduch! We both went to very frim schools, so the look on his face was a shocker! After a long farher (I was the principal’s favorite student- but not a goody goody at all) he said mazal tov, and was about to book a hall but then remembers that we hadn’t gone out yet!