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  • in reply to: What do you tell your kids? #1215570
    misteryudi
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    Children often say things that contain such stark truth that we would benefit from hearing them out instead of stifling it, even if the content seems questionable to us, initially.

    in reply to: New post didn't go through #1209703
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    Moderator 100, I still disagree, but ok.

    lilmod ulelamaid, thank you for bringing that up, but that doesn’t sufficiently explain why a post like mine wouldn’t go through while other posts on this forum, which can challenge people’s emunah on the opposite extreme, do go through.

    When it comes to emunah, people generally fall into 2 categories: Logical and emotional. Some need logical insight to really have faith, while others need emotional inspiration. My post was geared toward those who gain meaning and faith from looking at Judaism through a logical lens. If one can’t handle it emotionally, that’s their responsibility. I am aware of people who had the opposite happen: from reading posts on this forum, their faith wavered, because they couldn’t emotionally handle things that have been posted. Again, that is their own responsibility. But it needs to go both ways.

    Little Froggie, yes, the moderating and filtering of this forum sets it apart, for both good and bad reasons. When there is a clear bias toward a specific agenda, with no other views allowed, the full picture becomes heavily distorted and not based on reality. That is dangerous.

    lightbrite, you have good intentions, but in the case of my post, that is far from accurate. And even if my post did have something which was questioning a tenant of Judaism, the appropriate response is not to stifle it or ignore it. The correct response is to step up and challenge it, engage in discussion, and see how we can resolve it. Pirkei Avos states “Eizehu Chacham? Halomed mikol Adam.” And no, the moderators are not steered by Hashem. They are human beings with the same faults and issues as you and me, and can have the same lapses of judgement.

    in reply to: New post didn't go through #1209698
    misteryudi
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    Moderator 100, thank you for explaining. However, I’d argue with two counterpoints:

    1. We are ALL challenged with our emunah at points in our lives. That is what helps us grow. If we had no reason to think deeply about why we believe, and why we do things, then we really aren’t doing them with much meaning. Also, I am in no way intending this discussion to replace seeking advice in the real world.

    2. I’ve been reading plenty on this forum for a few months. And I can plainly state that many opinions and statements that HAVE been allowed through (some philosophical, some personal) are dangerous, not only to others who may be reading and are potentially turned off from becoming more frum (of which I actually know a few), but to the others posting, as well, when it can personal.

    in reply to: New post didn't go through #1209696
    misteryudi
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    Moderator 100, I respectfully disagree, and think that such a discussion is perfectly appropriate, and even healthy, for a frum public forum. Are we only here to discuss frivolous matters and the views of a particular selection of frum jews? Can we possibly grow and become more rounded, critically-thinking people if we aren’t subjected to thoughts and questions that force to dig deeper into our understanding of Judaism? Is that right only reserved for our Rabbis? It is for all of us!

    As an aside, who, or what, may be harmed by such a discussion?

    Thank you.

    in reply to: Making fun of college degrees that won't get you a job #1209481
    misteryudi
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    WinnieThePooh: That is true only for certain industries, like technology. But for many others, one will always need in-person learning, studio time, and lab time, to acquire the necessary skills for a particular degree and career. You can’t replicate a classroom or lab experience with a virtual one.

    in reply to: Hashem loves you #1209685
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    I don’t see how anyone could possibly think Hashem doesn’t love each and every one of us. He provides us with everything we need, including basic things like the ability to breathe, see, eat, and think, every second of our lives, and yet we do so little, if anything, in return.

    The ONLY way for such a one-sided relationship to exist is for Hashem to love each of us, unconditionally, with the type of love that a parent has for a child.

    So yes. Hashem loves you.

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