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Wow, I love this topic. As someone who believes they are Really FRUM, (I don’t know how/why I spend so much time here in the CR) I just wanted to agree with PBA. I think that all things jewish or not are here for us (yidden) to benefit from. I do not listen to non-jewish music but people I know and love do and when I hear some of the music I am brought to tears by the beauty. If I knew who those specific non-jewish singers are I WOULD listen to it. I think that the words can really uplift you and bring you closer to your spouse and to Hashem, which should be the ultimate purpose of everything we do. I however would not listen to all sorts just to find the good ones, but if I ever come across a good one, I will surly benefit from it.
Where do we learn that a bas kol comes down 40 days before a child is born and says who the shidduch is? But if that is true, than anyone who says there are not enough men/women is basically calling Hashem a liar. I know a lot of single girls who are over the age of 25 who are going on dates left and right. So the statement of not enough is false. Why they say no to the guy is a different story, and good luck to them. But I don’t for one second doubt that Hashem has it all prepared for us, not only in terms of shidduchim but EVERYTHING! Hishtadlus is of course important, but if you think that what you do makes a difference, you are crazy! Its All Hashem, JUST DAVEN! That is really all we can do. And daven for each other. Don’t ever lose faith, The One Above is watching over all of us, and He will take care of us. Baruch Hashem every day!
To all of you who claim to be G-d and say really ridiculous things like “they will not be able to get married” I am glad you were not in mitzayim when we needed to get out. I am sure you would have said, ” there aint no way we getting out” oops!! surprise to you, Hashem spit the sea! And here we are today.
Maybe you should just stop following the Torah, because you are missing the most important point. Emuna and Bitachon. There are enough singles around for every person to get married. Maybe you don’t know them all,(New York is not the only place where frum people live) and if people would stop caring about the dumbest things, and Lashon Hara, and what other people thought we’d all be better off. Singles please dont lose faith. It WILL happen! Naysayers go answer to Hashem and keep your mouths closed!
Good Shabbos to all!
As a younger sister who was/is waiting for her older sister, I want to share my opinion. Someone asked why is it fair for the older girl if the younger one get married first. So I want to answer that it is all in Hashem’s hands. I am now dating as is my sister. When Hashem determines it is the right time for each of us it will happen. Whoever might go first. But we will look into and go out whenever a shidduch is arranged. Our Tefillos are what matter. Maybe if we daven for each other it will happen for us both. Good Luck with whatever is decided.
Give her a ride, it’s possible that, she too, wants a shidduch from this. In regards to the shidduch, have someone redd it, and go from there. That way you can do a chessed and the shidduch can happen in the least awkward, most tznuis way.
MABROOK!
Share funny other people stories, that way you don’t seem strange, things just happen to “people you know”
I always ask people to yell out yaaleh viyavo when I am davening. I HATE forgetting it, then having to repeat it.