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April 26, 2013 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm in reply to: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch #1042604mishpachashuMember
Popa says………
mishpachashuMember“Most people who prefer Gucci, Armani, Borsalino, Lexus or any other brand name will justify it on the basis of “quality.”
Skeptics will say they bought it for “status.”
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April 26, 2013 5:55 pm at 5:55 pm in reply to: Letter circulated in Brooklyn about Motzei Shabbos hangouts #950770mishpachashuMemberWHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO AFFECT SOCIETY AS A WHOLE!
I wish in high school we would not have been allowed to socilaize with girls motzei shabbos. The peer pressure was powerful and I felt like I had no choice. It severely effected me. It is pashut that such hangouts should not be tolerated.
mishpachashuMemberThere is no significant difference between Republicans and Democrats.
There are some good people on both sides and a lot of bad ones. Each side has their own values: some values on one side conflict with Torah values more than the values on the other side depending on the issue at hand. The government is what it is. Power corrupts- lib. or con. alike. We m”H have our gedolim, trust them- not the government.
mishpachashuMemberDaniel: You are fighting an admirable but futile battle. People will rarely change their spending habits/addictions and at best be insulted and at worst will accuse you of being a jealous loser who covets what wealthy people have. People will not hear what they do not want to hear- such is the way of life.
mishpachashuMemberI am with Daniel on this one. My rav actually recently gave a shiur on this trying to get people to change. It’s a real chilul Hashem to see frum people wearing these things. I always feel disgusted when I see a frum Jew driving a new Mercedes. It is 100% not the derech of the Jewish Mesorah and has never been a real issue in Europe- only since Jews came to the US. There is no Mahamad anymore!
So if I had more courage I would go around rebuking the people who drive mercedes along with those that drive on shabbos.
On a side note, even many non-Jews I know at work are embarrassed to wear expensive designer brands and would not wear it even if they got it as a gift. To see Jews doing this is a real chilul Hashem.
mishpachashuMemberDon’t follow politics, they are all the same.
mishpachashuMemberWe are supposed to be a mature nation. Don’t get me wrong, most frum Jews are.
Often though, when frum Jews do not have any exposure to the outside world they don’t see their own flaws and how similar they in-fact are to the very outside world they claim superiority to. It is only once you come in contact with the outside world are you able to see your own faults and become mature. I see so much geiva and if only I could tell these people “you are acting just like they are and you don’t even know it.”
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mishpachashuMember“I hear this is the new shtick. What do you think?”
Where did you hear this? Give me the name of so much as one yeshiva.
People are inherently driven to exclude others in whatever group they form. It starts in kindergarten with clubs and doesn’t stop post-adulthood but I have never heard of that one before. What a silly idea.
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mishpachashuMembersaysme: Ha thank that’s funny. In one of them he says “whats there to explain, I sign my posts.”
But why? Why did he start signing his posts”? Is it not in order to evoke a certain emotion? Indeed, after I read a post signed by the wolf, it does evoke a certain emotion as if it gives his posts something undeserved. What do you guys think?
mishpachashuMemberYes, I really hope he responds. I just thought it came off a little geivadik.
mishpachashuMemberWell compared to the CRC for kashering a hot plate:
The CRC says to put it on the hottest setting for half an hour and clean it thoroughly.
R’ Blumenkrantz says to put it on hottest setting for one hour, clear it thoroughly and then cover it completely with aluminum foil.
mishpachashuMemberI don’t get it? Howling at the moon? Isn’t it kind of like saying “THUS I HAVE SPOKEN” after you say something?
mishpachashuMemberThanks! this is so helpful! Yashar koach!
mishpachashuMemberFolgers regular instant coffee (non-decaf) does not need a pesach hechsher.
mishpachashuMember“I used to need to know people to ask shailos to. “I know a guy who knows a guy etc.” Some people probably took great pride in the sense that he was the local guy people came to to ask general questions. In the past the only thing lay people had was the kitzur shukchan aruch which is extremely limiting- so local guys who learned were always needed and looked up to.”
Now however, I can say 100% for myself that I never need to “rely” on someone I personally know for ANY questions. On my pocket sized smart phone alone I can instantly find about any question you can imagine such as ” Medicines, Toiletries, and Non-Foods On Pesach”. I have halacha hotlines I can call, famous Rabbis I can email from halfway around the world. I have apps that give me an instant shiur and English translation of any page of shas in a second and can lain and teach me the weekly sedra. I have online dictionaries, entire libraries, translations of tosfos- all at my finger tips. With the recently published Hamafteach, I can find instantly what daf any topic or keyword in Shas is then go to my smart phone and listen to an English shiur about it. I have not asked someone I personally know a halachic question in over three years and have gotten along perfectly fine.
Yes, this is all great for the layman who (with much effort) can day by day turn himself into a talmid chacham. But what about all those guys who were always considered so smart in their yeshiva but are now not needed anymore?
mishpachashuMemberIt’s hard to beat Shmaltz Herring on Shabbos, nothing better than that. I don’t know about having it on Tuesday though, that’s just gross.
mishpachashuMemberI agree. I get so much out of listening to certain gedolim from eretz yisroel where I can rewind, fast-forward and pause that I don’t even bother going to live shiurim anymore by the local Rabbi. Every time I go to a live shiur I don’t get much out of it and it doesn’t speak to me.
I simply cant remember the last time I actually went to shule for a local shiur after mincha and got something I couldn’t have gotten better online instead. But isn’t this a bad thing also? Aren’t we losing something by this?
mishpachashuMember“The real question might be; when learning: how important is it that the source of my knowledge know me?”
So if I had a halachic question about shabbos or davening, why is it important that the source of my knowledge know me? It is objective and fixed.
mishpachashuMemberFor instance, at high school my Rabbi would give a question and answer session every week on Fridays where students could ask him any question they want and he would answer it. They would ask questions such as “can you celebrate Thanks Giving” “whats the deal with counting Jews” “Crossdressing on Purim” “going to the mikvah on erev shabbos” “can you dance and clap on shabbos” etc.
Now though, with a simple search on yutorah.org Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz has a halacha series that goes through all of these types of questions so concisely and thoroughly that no high school Rabbi can possibly compete with him. So the once cherished Q & A Fridays are now no longer needed.
mishpachashuMembersammy16: Did you read my entire post? The shiurim come from well known Rabbis of communities. If you go to shas illunimated or yutorah.org or aishaudio.com you are not going to find “those guys who were always considered so smart in their yeshiva but are now not needed anymore?” Even so, in the near future we won’t need anymore shiurim (there always will be new shiurim but they will get repetitive- halacha shiurim (apposed to hashkafa) are already are getting repetitive).
What do you think we should do about this issue? Is it even an issue?
mishpachashuMemberI am ambivalent about it. On the one hand, it is good that the information is available to all so easily. On the other, it is also nice to learn things that are “exclusive and hidden”, to be needed and admired over your learning and to “need” your chavrusa. What do you think a practical answer is to this? I know many yeshivos don’t allow artsscroll in the yeshiva so one chavrusa “needs” the other- but that seems like we are just fighting a growing trend and it won’t be effective outside of the yeshiva or in the long run.
mishpachashuMember“Find me an app that can explain what the machlokes the Shach and the Taz had and why it relates to a sugya in Nezikim”
Where is the machlokes found and where in Nezkikim are you referring to?
That’s not even what I was referring to though. I was talking about shailos that most people come across throughout their daily lives. But that notwithstanding, I can still easily find online even cases that you are referring to.
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