Thank you, everyone! Our rabbi is wonderful and is certainly helping us along, I should have been more specific to the areas he’s kind of left up to us: how large of a gathering we want to have, the color dress I wear, etc. from what he’s said it sounds like some people in our situation might really do it up and others are more low key and we’d like to do something smaller but I’m not sure what the norm is, or if there is one. There’s a small Jewish community here so this isn’t something that happens often.
