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hubby eats it with kugel. I wont touch it. If he doesnt put it in teh fridge after teh meal, it turns into a disgusting pool of liquid p’tcha…
this generation – the disposable generation…
Hey, doesnt anyone put in bones? When i got married, it was a must!
Beans (cholent mix), Barley, bones, meat, potatoes, onions, garlic, ketchup and spices (garlic powder, salt, pepper, & paprika)
aries2756,
I’m sorry if i wasnt clear, I’m married for a couple of years now, b”h. When I read your comment though, these questions just flew into my head. You see, i try to dabble in shidduchim when i can and when the parties start asking me certain quesitons and listing their requirements, i wish everyone – parents included – would have the seichel to see things the way you do…
Thanks!
Aries2756:I have a question on your post. The first few thoughts that jumped into my head while reading your post was:
1) does this mean that a girl/boy cant express what s/he is more attracted to?
2) is one supposed to go out with every girl/boy redt to him/her cuz it may be their bashert?
3) isnt the fact that girls/boys have these (sometimes unreasonable) “requirements” part of the plan Hashem has? Sometimes its not bashert for someone to get married until later adn these “requirements” are Hashems way of making sure that this person marries his/her bashert at the bashert time, no?
Wow, Best Ima, profound!
I wish i could say the same, but i being born after ‘the good old days’ i dont think i would be able to survive back then. If i was born then, i would make do and probably be in awe of all these inventions…(i am still not familiar with i-devices, apple-devices, etc….)
Ever since I introduced “light for greytowers” to my family, I have been affectionately called Miritchka.
eclipse – fantastic!
smart cookie,
Take a good look at the ways of the goyim – they go out/date for months upon months leading into years after which they decide to move in with each other, thinking that they have been going out for so long and they are perfect for each other. What happens after a few short months sometimes weeks? They break up!
My point, dating for 5 weeks or 5 months or 5 years does not mean you know the person. As Yogibooboo so correctly pointed out,”you wont know what they are really like till u r married to them because again until u live with them u never really know! “
Thank you SJS. FYI, my daughter has a cochlear implant is doing so well, b”h!
Amen!
My daughter isnt in shudduchim yet, ji still have a few more years to worry…lol!
Thanks
it definitely is more pleasant. Being fairly new to this forum I have to say its amazing…although at times it makes me really hungry reading posts from names like watermelon, smart cookie, and others…i find myself reaching for the crackers in my desk draw more often….
being me. Believe me, it takes alot of talent….lol!
Sacrilege,
your previous post, comparing height and disabilities to teh same level of ‘a matter of comfort’ has me confused.
as the mother of a daughter with a hearing impairment, the issue of her hearing impairment and shidduchim has been on mind since she was diagnosed as an infant.
Please dont compare the ‘issue’ of height in shidduchim with the very real issue of disabilities in shidduchim. At least with height, you may be able to convice a boy/girl to go out whereas its much harder to convince or to even try to convince someone to go out with someone with a disability like hearing impairments…
eclipse, I’m going to assume that you’re including making a person feel lower or indebted to you too.
Every time i see a certain person, i always feel like i owe her something due to the way she talks to me and gives me a look…