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I LIKE HUYDE LaHASHEM::someone who is a ‘top boy’ is a person who is a great learner (though not alone, it has to come with…) middos, all around likeable, happy, nice looking, and as a bonus- parents have money. It sounds shallow, but if the boy is a wonderful masmid and had great middos PLUS the extras of money and looks, wouldnt u want your daughter for him?
HOW CAN ANYONE ARGUE UNLESS HE HAS A CHIP ON HIS SHOULDER ??? THERE ARE MANY NICE GUYS WHO ARE DECENT LEARNERS ETC BUT NOT EVERYONE GETS TO PLAY IN THE ALL STAR GAME.. BUT THAT’S LIFE !!
tznius CRISIS ??? #1 Not every problem is a crisis. #2 please remember the Gemorah in Sotah about how women are zocheh to be save. Itdoes not say by whethe their skirts are always below the knee or if they never neer talk loshon hara, but if they support (emotionally and physically) the learning of their male relatives. Of course the other things are important but let’s not get obsessed !!!
It is very nice and proper to care about tzinius, but let’s put thnigs in perspective. Chazal aks “how do women gain merit? ” They do not answer that merit is gained by ho long your skirt is, but how much you sacrifice so your husband and children can learn. Le’ts analyze ,and give each other chizuk about that, instead of spendig all this time on skirts !!!