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  • in reply to: washing netilas yadayim on shabbos #1088746
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    147: Walking in the rain is OK, so you’re off the hook there.

    By getting the sleeve wet (when washing your hands), the fabric is improved by being laundered, so that is questionable (if it’s OK).

    It doesn’t go by what’s “uncomfortable.” Getting your teeth pulled may be uncomfortable, and against your wishes, but it’s not allowed because of gozez.

    Drawing blood may be uncomfortable and against your wishes, but it’s not allowed on Shabbos.

    in reply to: Hat's Off! #1088698
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    zahavasad – Was that policy enforced?

    in reply to: Aura of Shabbos #1089110
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    Taken from essay by Rabbi Aaron Cohen:

    The Shulchan Aruch (263:12-13) rules that when a community accepts Shabbos, individuals in that community are prohibited from doing melacha. On the other hand, the Shulchan Aruch also makes clear that while one may not daven the weekday Mincha in a minyan which has accepted Shabbos, it is permissible to daven Mincha outside the Shul. This seems contradictory: how can the person daven the weekday Mincha if he has been forced to accept Shabbos? The Chayei Adam (33:4) explains: ?? ???? ???

    ????? ???? ???? ??? ???? ??? ???? ???? ???? ??? ???? ???, ?? ????? ???? ????? ??? ?????, ??? ??? ???? ??? ????? ?????? ?? ?? ?

    (??? ?? ?? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ????? ?????? ???’ ??”? ???? ?”? ?”?, ???? ???? ????? ??? ???, ??? ???? ?? ???? ???? ?????? ?”? ? ?

    [than other areas of Shabbos, allowing one to daven the weekday Mincha], for according to the essential Halacha it would be appropriate to daven the regular Shemoneh Esrai [on Shabbos], but because of the honor of Shabbos, the Chachamim did not impose this obligation [see Berachos 21a, Shulchan Aruch 268:2]; therefore, since the person did not accept Shabbos [himself, but it is only imposed due to the acceptance of the community], they

    adhered to the essential Halacha [and allowed the person to daven the weekday Mincha].

    in reply to: Aura of Shabbos #1089109
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    Wolf – The answer to your question is “Yes.” There are times when a person who must abide by the melacha restrictions of Shabbos is still able to recite the weekday Mincha prayers.

    That will be addressed G-d willing in my next comment.

    in reply to: Zmanei Tefila #1088541
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    There have been various tzadikim who’ve davened Shachris well after the normative zman, some even after chatzos. (They practiced the same principle with Mincha and Maariv.) They even did so with a minyan (i.e. they weren’t doing it alone.) What shitta(s) are they based on?

    They think that if you start “preparing” for prayer at the correct time, it’s considered like you started davening on time, and once you start davening at the right time, you can continue for as long as you want without a problem.

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088513
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    As far as davening after zman tefilla is concerned, it depends on what one means by that.

    Until chatzos it’s OK b’dieved (if one couldn’t daven earlier, or forgot to).

    Past chatzos (or past half an hour past chatzos) it is NOT ok to recite the morning prayers; rather, one needs to daven Mincha twice, if he couldn’t recite the morning prayers at the proper time.

    I’m sorry, but just because someone is a chassidic rebbe, does not mean that he can make up his own religion. (I am not writing this in reference to any particular rebbe; I am just saying that we have a Shulchan Aruch, and we have a mesora, and no one is entitled to invent his own religion simply because he is of chassidic stock or wears white stockings on Shabbos, etc.)

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088512
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    in reply to: Aura of Shabbos #1089107
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    Yosi7 – The Shemiras Shabbos K’Chilcasa was a talmid of HaGaon HaRav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach zt”l. In Chapter 46 of his sefer, he paskens not like you said. Why was he paskening differently from what his rebbi said?

    The best thing to do, in my personal opinion, is to follow the ruling that one should daven Mincha by himself before shkia, since that is how the Shemiras Shabbos K’Chilcasa holds in his sefer, as well as Rabbi J.B. Soloveitchik and others.

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088511
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    How would one know that the Rebbe has “helped” or “watched over him” after his (the Rebbe’s) petirah? How are you privy to such information?

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088510
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    It looks like someone is confusing the Lubavitcher Rebbe with G-d.

    in reply to: beard types and lengths in Judiasm #1088924
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    The Machatzis HaShekel (OC 27:4) says that excessively long hair is a Chatzitza.

    MB 27:15

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088503
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    “The Lubavitcher Rebbe Zatzal was an Odom Godol.”

    It is well-known that Rav Schach did not consider the Lubavitcher Rebbe to be an Odom Godol.

    We are not allowed to bend the rules and requirements of the Torah and of Chazal (davening in the appropriate time, not eating before davening) in order to fufill what we consider to be a more “important” objective (e.g., eating in order to supposedly daven with more kavana – especially since nowadays most people don’t have such great kavana anyway).

    “I had a Chabad friend who would say Sh’ma, eat breakfast, learn Chassidus from 8-10 am, then daven. I never understood that. In my opinion, if you feel that learning 2 hours is necessary preparation, then wake up 2 hours earlier and daven at 8.”

    Not a bad suggestion. If Chazal said that davening before zman tefilla is mandatory, one is not allowed to say, “Well, I feel that learning Tanya is more important to me personally than davening at the correct time.” Halacha is not determined by how someone “feels,” but by what Chazal declared to be mandatory.

    “Many great Chassidishe Rebbes and Chassidim of old davened after zman tefillah because of their intense hachanos for tefillah.”

    “Great” people are those who follow halacha, not those who recite their morning prayers in the afternoon.

    in reply to: Looking around during Shemoneh Esrei #1088012
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    From Revach Web site:

    The halacha requires us to close our eyes when davening Shmoneh Esrei. It is brought in the Seforim that if one closes their eyes during Shmoneh Esrei, when they die they will be Zocheh to see the Shechina. However if one keeps their eyes open (not looking in a siddur) when they die they will see the truly gruesome site of the Malach HaMaves. Why is this crucial moment dependent on Shmoneh Esrei?

    The purpose of this world is to mask Hashem’s presence and tempts us with false pleasures. Our job is to see past all this and discover Hashem’s presence within the world. Only this can give a person real pleasure. Those who indulge themselves in this world never learn to recognize true pleasure. Their lives are an endless pursuit of Olam Hazeh. Yet there are those who see past the fallacy of this world and its false pleasures and instead turn their attention to discovering Hashem in this world, fostering a relationship with Him despite all the distractions. They get a taste of Olam Haba while still here.

    The moment of death is a transition from a world of illusion to the world of truth where nothing exists other than the presence of Hashem. For some people death means the end. They are cruelly ripped away from the only world they know how to exist in, the world of illusion. The moment of death is their scary end. They don’t see anything they recognize in their new environment and only see what they left behind and can no longer be a part of. They see the Malach HaMaves, the most horrid end of all ends, as they become prisoners in their dark grave trying to figure out how to get out.

    For those who have spent their lives trying to catch a glimpse of Olam Haba, death is not death at all. It is the moment when the curtain is removed and all that they’ve strived to achieve their entire lives becomes a reality in their new found paradise. They find themselves in the pure presence of a Hashem.

    A telltale sign of what is to come can be seen by the way a person davens Shmoneh Esrei. Shmoneh Esrei is an audience with Hashem that we are granted three times a day. Those who recognize the true pleasure of connecting with Hashem close their eyes and block out the distractions of this world and focus on the opportunity to connect to a world beyond. Those whose whole lives revolve around material pursuits cannot shut their eyes on the world they know and love. How can they when their vision sees nothing beyond their lowly earthly surroundings?

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088483
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    “Every group has Minhagim that appear contrary to Halacha.”

    Perhaps you could provide some context by explaining why these minhagim only “appear” to be contrary to halacha, but in truth are in full accordance with halacha.

    I have already provided the explanation for not washing by shalosh seudos, and ItcheSrulik has discussed the “justification” for eating before davening.

    “Chabad also has many Minhagim that are in line with Halacha” – such as?

    in reply to: Aura of Shabbos #1089105
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    The Shemiras Shabbos K’Chilcasa (Chapter 46) and Rabbi J.B. Soloveitchik both rule that one MUST daven Mincha by himself before shkia, and not with the minyan after shkia, in order to fulfill the BIBLICAL obligation of tosefes shabbos.

    in reply to: Aura of Shabbos #1089103
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    OK, thanks.

    I am very interested in the part where Rabbi Cohen shlit”a talks about the mitzvah of tosefes shabbos.

    He writes that in a case where the shul davens Mincha late on Friday afternoon, one should verbally accept Shabbos and then daven Mincha.

    PROBLEM: How can one daven Mincha after having accepted Shabbos?

    in reply to: Drinking Grape Juice During the Week #1088373
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    The yeshiva administration specifically told the bachurim that they could not taste the cholent on erev Shabbos (even a little bit, and even though the cholent was prepared for them anyway), even though halacha requires (or at least recommends) tasting the Shabbos dishes on erev Shabbos. (?)

    in reply to: beard types and lengths in Judiasm #1088918
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    Every hair of a Jew’s beard has extreme holiness.

    Bar Shattya – According to kabbala, the hair on a Jewish males’s head should be as short as possible. This is in addition to the fact that we are concerned about having a chatzitza that hinders the proper fulfillment of the biblical commandment of donning the tefillin shel rosh.

    in reply to: How Often Do You Eat Meat? #1088167
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    Generally speaking, I eat meat only on the Sabbath and holidays.

    in reply to: washing netilas yadayim on shabbos #1088743
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    For more information, see 39 Melachos by Rabbi Dovid Ribiat shlita, p. 728.

    in reply to: Drinking Grape Juice During the Week #1088370
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    “He was objecting to the fact that bachurim would go into the yeshiva kitchen on erev shabbos and help themselves to cholent.

    And these bachurim were fulfilling the mitzvah of tasting the Shabbos dishes on erev Shabbos, as per the Arizal and others.

    in reply to: Scary Mussaf Seder Recomendations #1087965
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    Kav HaYoshar.

    in reply to: Mechitza at weddings #1088817
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    “Rav Moshe addressed the Lubavitcher Rebbe in a very respectable manner.”

    What does this prove? Rav Moshe addressed everyone in a very respectable manner.

    in reply to: washing netilas yadayim on shabbos #1088742
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    From Limud Torah Web site: The Maharam did not wipe his hands on a towel until he removed most of the water from them by vigorously flaying his hands. He was worried that an excess of water would result with transgressing the Issur of laundering the towel on Shabbos. The Mechaber concludes that it is a good thing to keep this Chumra. The Rama says there is no reason to keep it, for even if there is some excess water which gets on the towel, it is only done in a manner which will make the towel dirtier.

    The Magen Avraham says that the reason why the Mechaber holds this to be a Chumra, is since there is no dirt on the towel, soaking it is not considered laundering. The Tosfos Shabbos asks why in Simon 319 the Mechaber seems to hold that someone must be careful M’Iker Hadin not to soak something even when it does not have dirt on it. So we must conclude the Mechaber holds according to the reasoning of the Rama here, and considers wiping one’s hands on a towel to be dirtying the towel.

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088481
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    ItcheSrulik – It says in the Chabad siddur that korbanos are said at home, and in shul one starts davening with the tzibbur from Hodu.

    The Lubavitcher Rebbe was not a posek.

    Many poskim forbid eating before davening. The Zohar forbids it in very strong terms. The Kav HaYoshar compares it to idolatry. Some say that it is forbidden from the Torah (“Do not eat upon the blood”).

    But the Lubavitcher Rebbe allowed and encouraged eating before davening. My rav is extremely upset about this. You can ask Rav Belsky what he thinks about this “psak” of the Lubavitcher Rebbe.

    Not washing for shalosh seudos- There is a simple reason for this, as well as a chassidic reason.

    The simple reason is that the Torah says, “And Moses said: Eat it TODAY, for TODAY is Shabbos to Hashem, TODAY you will not find it in the field.” The third time it says the word “not.” Therefore, it is learned out from here that one need not eat bread by the third meal.

    Like I said, there is also a chassidic explanation.

    IvduesHashembsimcha – Like you said, your minhag is different from the Chabad minhag. Why is it not a problem of hefsek – the way you do it?

    in reply to: Chabad minhagim #1088477
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    # 1, 2 are contrary to the Mishna Berura.

    # 5 is DEFINITELY contrary to halacha – and the Alter Rebbe is the only posek who holds that this is OK l’chatchila.

    # 6… what is there to say?

    in reply to: washing netilas yadayim on shabbos #1088730
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    “But when you open or close the door in the rain, you are with your own hands causing the water collected on the door to fall off.”

    On the doorknob? The doorknob is a makom pattur, so it’s OK.

    “With getting your sleeves wet when washing, you’re also wetting your clothing against your will.”

    According to some poskim, it is forbidden, on Shabbos and yom tov, to cause even a clean garment to become wet. Even a clean garment is improved with additional laundering – and wetting a garment is considering the first step in the laundering process. I already explained the numerous differences between this and walking in the rain.

    As far as sleeves are concerned, some poskim say that going out in rolled-up sleeves is considered carrying (if he would prefer that the rolled-up material not be there; the rolled-up material is not actually covering his body or serving any other function – therefore, it is a burden and you are transgressing the prohibition of carrying in a public domain on the holy Sabbath. Rav Moshe zatzal held like this.

    in reply to: washing netilas yadayim on shabbos #1088724
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    Rain is diffferent.

    He is not doing an action with his own hands (the rain falls from the sky on its own, as opposed to me pouring water on my clothing).

    With rain – The wetting of his clothing is against his will; he doesn’t want it to happen, and would prefer that it not happen.

    The rain soils his clothing, as opposed to improving them.

    It is impossible to avoid the rain.

    Interestingly, the poskim discuss why it’s not a problem of carrying if one’s clothes get wet in the rain.

    in reply to: washing netilas yadayim on shabbos #1088719
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    Is it a problem to get a clean garment wet [on Shabbos]?

    Even though you are not getting the garment wet in order to clean it, it is still ???? [laundering, which is forbidden].

    According to the ????? of ???? one is forbidden to get any absorbent material wet on Shabbos, because that is the first step in the laundering process. Therefore, one should be careful when washing one’s own hands or a child’s hands for ????? ???? or before the ?????? [negel vasser, or washing before a bread meal] that sleeves should not get wet.

    in reply to: Rav Moshe Feinstein-Chalav Stam Story #1149210
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    This story is true.

    Do a Google search or, better yet, ask Rav Belsky shlit”a.

    in reply to: Frum Jews at CUNYs #1101766
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    KFB – True, but Brooklyn College has been in the news recently, in terms of the anti-Israel events that have been going on there.

    in reply to: Frum Jews at CUNYs #1101764
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    I am at Brooklyn College now.

    You definitely don’t need to worry about yomim tovim/ Shabbos, but you will have to make up the work that you miss.

    There is a lot of anti-Israel sentiment on campus, however.

    in reply to: Lavish Kiddush #1058959
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    Why do you assume that everyone has a seuda waiting for them at home?

    Plus, the Vilna Gaon held that to have kiddush b’makom seuda, you must wash and eat a real seuda (with bread) after Kiddush (munching on mezonos is not good enough).

    in reply to: Mezonos or Hamotzi #1054941
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    You don’t WANT to bench? Are you aware that benching is a mitzvah from the Torah (if you ate to satiation)?

    in reply to: Men.. How Do Make Your Entrance Into Shabbos? #1055025
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    Remember that tosefes shabbos is an obligation from the Torah according to many Rishonim.

    in reply to: DO you have to have challah on shabbos? #1054725
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    For the first two meals (Friday night and Shabbos morning), one should definitely eat bread. This can be challah, bagels, matzah, etc.

    However, the purpose of this mitzvah is to enhance one’s oneg shabbos, not to cause pain or discomfort. Therefore, if one doesn’t feel like eating, he doesn’t have to force the bread down his throat.

    In that case, to have kiddush b’makom seuda, he should eat a kezayis of mezonos (cake, etc.) or at the very least, drink an additional revi’is of wine after making/ hearing Kiddush.

    From Rabbi Eli Mansour’s Web site:

    in reply to: For the sake of your eternity, you must watch this! #1049408
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    Rabbi Yosef Mizrachi shlita is amazing!!!

    I could listen to him all day long.

    in reply to: Interrupting Shmoneh Esrei #1050426
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    Taken from revach:

    Shmoneh Esrei must be said silently. When Yaaleh V’Yavo, Al HaNissim, Mashiv HaRuach, need to be added, people often say the first few words very loud in order to remind the others not to forget. Is this proper?

    The Tshuvas HaRashba holds the by Maariv the Gabbai may announce Yaaleh V’Yavo after Kaddish before Shmoneh Esrei. The Maharshal argues and holds it is assur to be mafsik. Therefore he advises that the Gabbai should start Shmoneh Esrei earlier than the Tzibbur and when he gets to Yaaleh V’Yavo he should say the words Yaaleh V’Yavo very loud. From here we learn, says the Be’er Moshe (4:10) that it is permissible for anyone, not only the Gabbai, to say the words very loud in middle of Shmoneh Esrei to remind everyone to say Yaaleh V’Yavo.

    He does caution that after the first person does it, no one else should do it since the purpose has already been served. The continuous screams of “Yaaleh V’Yavo” will only disturb people’s tefila and turn davening into a big joke

    in reply to: Where is __________ #996017
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    Where is Moshiach ben Dovid?

    in reply to: Everyone Must Answer: What Is YOUR Favorite Dish (food) #1184440
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    potato kugel

    in reply to: Games for Shabbos #1191281
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    You should ideally NOT play scrabble on Shabbos. (Just google “playing scrabble on Shabbos.”)

    Chazal made a decree prohibiting the playing of games where writing is part of its regular activity [Chayei Adam 38:11; see, however, Bris Olom Kosev 13 page 45 who does not know where the Chayei Adam got this from). Therefore, one may not play Scrabble or any other game where people usually keep score. [Refer to Tiltulei Shabbos page 25 footnote 24, Igros Moshe O.C. 5:22:14.] Poskim permit playing chess on Shabbos even though some people write down their moves. This is permitted because most people do not write down their moves.

    If the game involves placing the pieces in a frame to hold them together then it would be forbidden to play with

    one does not place the pieces in a frame to hold them in place.
    Tiltulei Shabbos page 25, Nishmas Shabbos 6:419.]

    [Shalmei Yehuda 5:footnote 5.]

    Rabbi Pinchas Scheinberg zatzal permitted playing Scrabble on Shabbos as long as you are EXTREMELEY careful not to c”v write down the score.

    In truth, however, you should spend the Shabbos LEARNING TORAH!

    in reply to: Already Missing Chanukah! ;-( #913756
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    hey, you can always look forward to the holiest and most coveted of days – Shaboos.

    in reply to: Any suggestions for a new chumrah #1089085
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    be mekabel shabbos 5 minutes early (if possible)

    learn more Torah

    be more careful with lashon hara

    scream “Omein. Yehay shamy rabba.”

    in reply to: Are you sure you lit the menora? #914782
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    the minhag is chutz la’aretz is to light indoors.

    in reply to: A Halachic problem you likely never thought of #913854
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    I think about Torah in the bathroom all the time. i know it’s wrong, but i can’t stop myself from doing it.

    in reply to: Limited Number of Words in Life #915332
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    I learned this on the aish hatorah web site. however, words of Torah are not included in the count. Words of Torah do NOT shorten your life c”v. They actually prolong it.

    in reply to: Ripping Letters #894678
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    Opening a Shabbosdik book with letters is not a problem, but the M”B brings that there is a minhag to be stringent – unless there are no other seforim available (in which case we are more concerned with the aveira of bittul torah than a minhag).

    in reply to: Because it's shabbos #895133
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    Carrying a burning candle is not only muktzah but also a melacha, but the candle burns better if you lift it up.

    in reply to: Shaving neck with a razor #894599
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    Rav Moshe muttars shaving with an electrical razor.

    in reply to: What should next ASIFA be about?? #894722
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    1) lashon hara

    2) pedophilia and cover-ups r”l

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