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  • in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837631
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    neighborhood

    in reply to: MATISYAHU #835922
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    And the mekor for the din d’oraisa is?

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837628
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    Oh and Gefen; My wife says thanx! One of the cakes got recycled at the HP (NK, that is) Vort tonight. Don’t worry, though. There was plenty made fresh as well.

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837627
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    Spirit Air had $55 round trip just before. Two of my daughters went to Gefen’s former neighbor’s wedding in Lakewood earlier this month. Don’t know if it’s still available!

    in reply to: please help me find a minyan in flatbush #836886
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    Do they have a minyan in Flatbush? I heard there’s a Jewish community over there. I wonder if it’s as big as some of our Midwestern kehilos!!

    in reply to: Cheating by Eating Cholov Akum #835993
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    MDG: Reb Moshe does NOT say that Chalac Companies is like Chalav Yisroel. He says there is what to rely on, but Baal Nefesh Yachmir.

    in reply to: average shadchan rates? #1114759
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    AZ and his organization hasn’t claimed baalus on the under 22 crowd . . . yet. They are trying to encourage only shidduchim for the older girls, to the point that the younger ones won’t get redt shidduchim, then they can grab those also as soon as they hit 22.

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837620
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    Whatever.

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837616
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    Did the other photographer get a pic?

    in reply to: Fiveish getting attacked in meah she'arim #835626
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    I agree that Yerushalayim and Meah SHearim have special kedusha. But from whom should they ask permission?

    in reply to: Yeshiva Derech Hatorah #835649
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    After following the CR as much as I have in recent months, I would say that anyone who starts a thread asking for info about a specific yeshiva is oiver Avak lashon Hara.

    in reply to: Od AYC Chai – Apology and Explanation #839902
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    There were two maasim. The first was a dispute with Mod 42. That caused AYC to take a voluntary leave of absence. You can’t even trace that story now, because the apologies that eventually brought him back required changing and deleting some of the offending posts. That is what triggered the original “AYC: Ayeco” thread.

    About 2 weeks after he returned there was a second misunderstanding, where the Mods saw something in one of AYC’s posts that caused them to be concerned for improper behavior on his part. They locked him out for a couple of weeks until they confirmed that he was really OK. Since the Mods have reponed his account, he has not returned.

    So yes, there were 2 maasim.

    in reply to: Od AYC Chai – Apology and Explanation #839893
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    RI: Huh?

    in reply to: MATISYAHU #835903
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    Apparently Leitzim123 didn’t even understand who I was making fun of. I was not poking fun of him; rather at those who were over analyzing his every little step.

    in reply to: MATISYAHU #835899
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    For all those who are following his tweets, I need to know how frum he still is. So we know he went to the mikvah yesterday. Did he say Asher Yatzar today?

    in reply to: The CR Band – Who Plays What? #837815
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    Hey Sem! If you need someone to sing grammen in that band your conducting . . . .

    in reply to: The CR Band – Who Plays What? #837814
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    I can play a number of instruments, just like the people in the first song on the last Journeys CD.

    “There once was a man named Isamar, . . . But they wouldn’t let him in the band.”

    in reply to: shmorer negia and the avos #835015
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    Wow!! Is the Boozer a Telzer? Welcome aboard!!

    in reply to: As much as I hate to admit I was wrong.. #834974
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    It is quite googlable, if you need to find out. I must say that he has danced around the fringes for quite a while.

    in reply to: popa is very possibly retarded (nothing personal honest) #834505
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    And he also has the intellectual honesty to apologize and retract something he feels was unfair. See the Rabbi Chait thread. (I actually hold like Popa kodem chazara in that issue. But the ability to be chozer is very important.)

    in reply to: older girls for younger guys #1025998
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    Ask AZ/NASI/DY

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848008
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    AZ: You said “The ONLY thing that was ever said in the name of 70 R”Y is EXACTLY what was published in their name with their very own signatures.”

    However, the original ad about the game changing plans and letters in defense of it that came out in the ensuing days, DID claim that the roshei yeshiva were on board for the program. See http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/article.php?p=107721

    among other places.

    It is well known that many roshei yeshiva who signed were only signing on the concept that one should not feel badly about dating a girl of your own age or older. They never meant to force people not to date younger girls. The proof is in the amount of those same roshei yeshiva who have actually done those kind of shidduchim with their own children since the letter was signed.

    They also never signed on the over the top monetizing of the entiore process, by forcing people to pay many thousands that they don’t have up front for nothing more than a name on a list. Did they agree to quadrupling and more of shadchanim fees?

    in reply to: Is every other Woman on Zoloft? #837916
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    NOt everyone is on Zoloft! The others are on Paxil and Prozac! 🙂

    in reply to: MBD ma ashiv? #834128
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    Was on an all stars with Suki & Ding, called Hallel.

    in reply to: Anyone going away for Shabbos Chanukah #834240
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    Hey Yenta: If you come back our way, you should stop by from some geshmake sufganiyot!

    in reply to: females drinking #834184
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    That whole tasting wine by kiddush thingy reminds me of a story that happened to a friend.

    Her daughter was applying to move into a college dorm. One of the sections on the application asked (1) do you drink, and (2) how often. Thinking about those little Friday night sips of wine from the Kiddush, she replied yes to the first question, and to the second, she replied “religiously.”

    It seemed quite strange when her application was denied for behavioral issues. Upon inquiry it was happily resolved. (Happily only if you approve of girls living on college dorms, or course.)

    At the time, the mother sent the story in to “campus Comedy” in reders Digest, and got 300.00 for it when it was published!

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #847965
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    Far more ill will was engendered by the attitude of the girls being for sale. The questions about transparency on the mamonus were minor compared to the bizyonos of the maidelach. Now they’re attempting to answer the financial issues, and pretending that the other questions didn’t exist.

    Someone asked how many girls signed up. AZ responded “Another question you might want to ask is how many shadchanim registered. That’s probably far more important to the individual girl than how many other girls have signed up.” Let’s see. Nowadays a shadchan get how much from the kalla’s side? $1000? $1500? Sign up with NASI, and you get a sliding scale that starts at 4-5K. Who’s not gonna sign up?

    in reply to: 300,000 Comments In The Coffee Room #1139288
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    If clicking the number on any post gives an accurate reading, per Squeak above, we crossed 300K around 2.5 months ago.

    And this message is 331,796, or almost 11% past 300K!

    in reply to: Od AYC Chai – Apology and Explanation #839885
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    ICOT: I did not say that I do not hope for his return. Just that I don’t expect it. Remember a month or two before this latest incident blew up, AYC took a couple of weeks off after taking offense to one word from 42. After the extended bizyonos from this maaseh, I’m not holding my breath.

    in reply to: Od AYC Chai – Apology and Explanation #839880
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    I don’t think AYC will be back. Maybe with a screen name change. But as AYC? Doubt it.

    in reply to: Question about being a guest #833142
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    Popa: If it you were angry enough, it might even be muttar on Shabbos, because of Ein Bishul Achar Bishul. (At least according to the Rosh in Pesachim that hold one can be mekayem shitas R’ Yehuda of Ein Biur Chometz Ela B’sreifa by eating, due to the Chom hativ’i hapnimi shebguf ha’adam.)

    in reply to: When to buy 1st black hat? #833277
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    I used to have in my possession (chaval al d’avdin v’la mishtakchin) a 1960 yearbook from Philly. In it there was a picture of R’ Elya Zt’l wearing a gray hat. This was several years after he was appointed rosh yeshiva in the 1950s.

    in reply to: I Missed It!? #990304
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    OMG! I’m gonna be 5 this month! Has the CR even been around that long? Or is that from the main YWN site?

    in reply to: I Missed It!? #990299
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    How does anyone remember a year later what date they joined?

    in reply to: Reviving an iPod …any Ideas??? #832893
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    What about people who leave their iPod in a docking station speaker thingy. It’s in there, playing and charging, pretty much 24/6. We only take out to move it to the one in the other room. So it charges all the time! Am I gonna damage it?

    (It’s an iPod classic that we only use to play music.)

    in reply to: Is the vaad the mafia?? #831285
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    Z-DAD: Not extortion. A marketing decision. I’ll get extra hashgachos if it will entice nmore customers in here. If I think the third Hashgacha will cost me, say, $2000, but it will bring in 10K of new business, then I do it. If I think that the amount of people for whom the first 2 hashgachos weren’t enough but who will be impressed by the third hashgacha, they’ll bring in less then that in net revenue, then I don’t get the third hashgacha. Simple budgeting and math. No extortion there.

    in reply to: Is the vaad the mafia?? #831258
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    Hashgachas are businesses. They are entitled to charge a fee for their service. If you want to use their copywrited symbol to promote your business, it’s not free.

    in reply to: yeshivas ner yisroel #830647
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    This is all very disturbing to me. Until today, I felt confident that I could come to this site and be spared the filth against anashim chashuvim.

    Is YWN going to degenerate into a soft core FM, or TUJ, or RHM, DB blog, or any of those other places the we avoid when we want to have good clean discussion?

    Comments on on this thread are already in the realm of those on that other site with a V that has been justly decried by rabbanim. Is our innocence gone? People who want the nastiness know where to look. We shouldn’t sully ourselves here.

    Agreed. This is an important topic, but not for this website.

    in reply to: Vancouver #829692
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    Were you thinking of vacationing there? Or perhaps sending your child to yeshiva there?

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/chafets-chaim-yeshivah-vancouver-vs-dallas

    in reply to: Is it OK to believe in Torah U'Madda? #830528
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    Cut into its simplest terms, Torah Umadda means that knowledge of non Torah subjects is a worthwhile pursuit for its own sake.

    More conventional yeshivishe Torah hashkafa is that it is permitted to pursue secular knowledge for a specific purpose, as a kardom lachpor bah. But to study the sciences, humanities, philosophy or whatever in chachmas chitzonios, lishmah, as it were, would not be permitted. That would explain why the Rambam was involved in other chachmos, as they related to the various specific positions that he held, whether in Torah, medicine, community leadership, or government.

    in reply to: Partial Credit #829491
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    No, your best is not perfect. One can and should always strive to do even better the next time similarly challenged.

    But even if less than perfect, it is noted and rewarded. Ein HKBH mekapeach schar kol beryah.

    in reply to: Why are they making us into boys? #829806
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    She’s complaining that she is a girl and we are trying to turn her into a boy. But if women are not Jewish, aren’t we then trying to convert them?

    in reply to: Why are they making us into boys? #829804
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    Popa: I think she has a valid point. After all, we are not supposed to solicit geirim!

    in reply to: Colored Shirts #985476
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    There is no question that a white shirt is more formal, perhaps more classy. Yeshiva bochurim, especially those in yeshivos influenced by the Alter of Slabodka and his mussar philosophy of Gadlus Ha’adam, would naterually gravitate to that which is perceived to be with more “Shtoltz” then with say blue stripes and pink polka dots.

    in reply to: Dvar Torah #828730
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    I apologize to the esteemed editor for not thinkg of the obvious. But with all due respect, I do not look for Divrei Torah on line. BH, I know how to find things in sefarim.

    in reply to: Colored Shirts #985450
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    ’tis not the shirt, but the choice of the wearer in deciding with whom he wishes to identify.

    in reply to: Dvar Torah #828726
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    Torah.org

    in reply to: Chafets Chaim Yeshivah Vancouver vs Dallas? #829712
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    How about discussing which roshei yeshiva have success with which kinds of talmidim, rather than who is a better rosh yeshiva.

    Both places had their roshei yeshiva selected by Rav Henoch Leibowitz zt’l for their specific mission. Surely both places are excellent. It remains only for you to decide what your children need, and see if that specific person has the ability to provide that.

    in reply to: Who, alive today, can answer questions like R Aryeh Kaplan? #828762
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    Oh OptimusP, that would be great news! Rabbi Meiselman has some “street cred” with the MO crowd as a nephew of RYBS, so maybe that’ll make some inroads with them.

    in reply to: common Jewish last names #828468
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    They only asked for last names!!

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