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  • in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848060
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    It is not a question of 9 signatures vs 70, as you made it out to be. It is the near total absence of all of those signers.

    Back in October or November when this all started, AZ said over and over again that we have 70 people who already signed on to the earlier phase. Now when he can’t get 69 of them to sign on the one with dollar signs attached, even after months of challenges, he says that there is no connection between the two. One day when I have more time, I’ll dig up the posts and links. But you can’t have it both ways.

    And you can bet a “30-year-old’s-fee” that I will contact people on your list. I have already reached out to one of them. Just haven’t gotten a response yet.

    For the record, one of my roshei yeshiva was approached to sign as one of the original 70 and refused. He holds that girls should marry as close as possible to the spiritual high they are on when returning home from seminary in Israel. The longer they are back in America, the more their hashkafos get diluted. Remember they are not in Yeshiva like the bochurim. Most of them are out in the world, and being exposed to religiously compromising influences. So I can assure you, he does not hold of this one either.

    in reply to: would this be a Chillul Hashem #842857
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    WIY

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    The very existence of a secular government in Eretz Yisroel is a constant Chillul Hashem.

    But do 2 wrongs make a right?

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848055
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    Some would refer to the nesius as the on deck circle for the Moetzes.

    in reply to: Out of town Shiduchim #842836
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    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848052
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    Apparently my response was not understood. I have nothing but the utmost respect for these rabbanim. I have had much interaction with at least two of them, and my immediate family is close to at least three others. My respect for their Torah knowledge and committment to their kehillos knows no limits!

    My question was not about those rabbanim, but rather what happened to the other list of 70? Did AZ and Pogrow (if they’re not the same person) lose their phone numbers? (All except R’ SF Schustal, that is.) Earlier on in this debate we were assured that this had the approval of numerous top tier gedolim. R’ Shmuel Kamenetsky’s name was even attached in the comments. How come he won’t sign this? Where are the Lakewood roshei yeshiva or mashgiach? No one named Feinstein? R’ Ahron Schechter? R’ Aharon Feldman? I’d be more than happy to accept non moetzes names, if they are of the caliber that are Einei Ha’eida. How about R’ Elya Ber?

    Do you think roshei yeshiva don’t understand girls’ needs? Don’t they have their own daughters and granddaughters? To insinuate that our highest level of gedolim don’t understand the needs of (the female) half of Klal Yisroel, is what is found on other websites, and should not be said on YeshivaWorld.

    If one wants to implement an intiative that will drastically change the economics of the entire shidduchim process, then yes, you must get top tier gedolim, or you’ll be laughed at by the hamon am.

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848041
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    Primary critereon for shadchan is the willingness to be able to accept quadruple or more than previously accepted norms in shadchanus gelt. Any shadchan willing to take that risk, should be able to get in!

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848038
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    Second tier names. No one on the Moetzes. No one even on deck.

    in reply to: Ohel vs Hasc Concert 2012 #842530
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    For those of us who attended neither, would you care to share a bit of what the shows were about?

    in reply to: Amusing Biblical Hermeneutics #861027
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    the correct word is Septuagint. The shoresh of the (first part of the) word is Septua meaning the 70 zekainim

    in reply to: The coffee room (un)official dictionary. #1063740
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    Chicago Housing Authority

    in reply to: Jewel-Osco Wish Big Win Big Giveaway #850356
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    They have been giving out double tickets lately. If your receipt says you earned 3, they’ll give you 6!

    in reply to: A new perpective on everything happening #841243
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    Agree with Popa. Just one additional point. The Yellow Star-Concentration camp outfits were not mainstream chareidim. It was also only the sikrikim crowd. The sikrikim are already acknowledged to be living by their own rules.

    in reply to: Skokie Yeshiva #841266
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    Rabbi Morgenstern, Rabbi Sender, Rabbi Kenzer, and YLC, Rabbi Teller, Rabbi Juzint, and Rabbi Leff are gone. (probably some others too that don’t come to mind).

    If the roshei yeshiva are gone, and your high school buddies are now in charge, that could be considered a fair amount of change.

    Not saying that the changes are positive or negative. But they are significant changes.

    in reply to: But how far is too far to excuse based on intentions alone? #840792
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    Not justifying spitters and screamers here! Not at all! But think about this for a moment.

    So the chilonim and Dati types have a right to their lifestyle. Who are the chareidim to tell them where to sit on a bus, and how to dress in the street? But don’t the chareidim also have that right? They want to sit separate. They want their children to dress in a certain way. So you say well, not in Yerushalayim. It’s an international city. Everyone wants to be there. Not right to put such restrictions on the hamon am like that. Better go somewhere out of town and build your own community, then you can have your own standards. So they go to Beit Shemesh or Emmanuel or Monroe or New Square or Lakewood or wherever, you fill in the blank. Now they can’t live as they wish in their own neighborhood? And people come to their place and say, no its not right to impose your standard on us. Well, that’s why they went away from the big yishuv! To start their own, because they also have freedom to live and worship as they please!

    Why are only the chilonim and Datiim allowed to live as they choose? Why aren’t the chareidim allowed that same option? They, and their wives, and their children choose happily to live like that. So why does it bother everyone if chas veshalom someone wants to be a little frummer?

    When it comes to gashmiyus, there is a bare minimum. But when people strive for more than the requirements, it is considered laudable. But when it comes to ruchniyus, everyone says, “But that’s a chumra and not required.” So what if its not required? Why can’t people strive to lead a higher lifestyle in kiyum hamitzvos?

    Once again, not justifying the spitters and the harrasers! Just the desire to elevate oneself should be seen as an ideal!!

    in reply to: Abolishing Chanukah?! #840425
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    Wolf: They are using the individual who screamed prutza to the eight year old girl as their rallying cry to break all boundaries of tznius.

    in reply to: Half-year Anniversary #1045192
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    Thanx, landsman!!

    in reply to: Half-year Anniversary #1045190
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    Today is my Five Year Anniversary! Vayihyu b’einav k’yamim achadim, b’ahavaso . . . .

    in reply to: Can anyone confirm this? #839395
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    So who is 80? Now I’d love to know!!

    in reply to: Calling all teachers!!! I need some help! #839064
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    Soliek: That is obviously correct. Where else would I have ever (knowingly, at least) seen anything written by you? If you’d be willing to share, I’d be happy to comment. However, why anyone would care about my comments without knowing who I am, is totally beyond me.

    My point was not challenging your knowledge of the material. You said in the beginning that you were confident about both your knowledge, and your ability to convey it. I conceded that in my orginal response. Your concern was convincing your students that it matters. To that I say, if you know, you can teach. But you cannot preach, and have devarim nichnasim el halev, unless they are yotzim min halev. If it would really be in your lev, then it would come out in every format.

    I’m not talking about typos. We’re all human, and we all make mistakes. I don’t believe in becoming the grammar police either; I’ll leave that for Haifagirl. (Haven’t heard from her much lately!) But whatever you teach, if you want your students to value the subject, you must as well. If you just want them to learn rules of the road, then if you know them you can convey them. But if you want to teach value, then value it yourself.

    in reply to: Calling all teachers!!! I need some help! #839060
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    Perhaps Oomis is referring to the following old tale:

    A black and white panda bear walks into a restaurant. He orders a quick meal. After polishing it off, he pulls out a pistol, fires a few shots in the air, and walks out the front door.

    Another patron turns to the owner and asks, “What was that?”

    So the owner pulls out a poorly punctuated guide to animals, and flips to the P section. There it states: Panda bear: Eats, shoots, and leaves.

    There is actually a cute grammar book titled, “Eats, Shoots and Leaves,” after that old joke.

    in reply to: Calling all teachers!!! I need some help! #839057
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    Don’t know how to put all of the above together. But if English and grammar means so little to you that you can write like you just did above, then you’ll never be able to impress its importance on students.

    It is not a matter of book knowledge. You’re not asking about that. You’re asking about impressing the importance on them. First impress it onto yourself and live it. Maybe then you can preach it.

    in reply to: Can anyone confirm this? #839391
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    The place I daven on Shabbos (a Litvishe yeshiva gedola, ultra chareidi) has separate entrances on separate streets for men and women. (The building is on a corner) No one has asked anyone to do anything. But the teenage girls will frequently walk out and head home after mussaf, to avoid mingling on the corner. They probably wouldn’t be saying very much of the Pitum Haketores anyway, and that’s more than enough time to get a couple of blocks ahead of the mass exodus. This is totally on their own. No one asks them to do anything of the sort. The married women do not leave early, unless they choose to do so to get a head start on the seuda.

    in reply to: Cholov Yisroel Greek Yogurt #988963
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    This is Midwesterner’s wife. I actually wrote a lengthy column in the Yated about making it yourself. I gave a recipe for homemade yogurt, but you may use storebought if you wish.

    I have not found a cholov Yisroel brand of Greek yogurt, so I wrote how to make it yourself.

    The way to do it is to strain regular yogurt. You strain it either by using cheesecloth and having the yogurt strain for a few hours in the fridge over a bowl. Or you can line a colander with several coffee filters, also placed over a bowl for a few hours in the fridge. It comes out delicious! If you overstrain it, you will end up with yogurt cheese. You can always add the strained whey in the bowl back into the yogurt to thin it out again. It’s worth the effort, especially if you make it yourself! When I make it from homemade yogurt, it tastes like sour cream.

    I hope that helps.

    in reply to: question that will probably be controversial #841367
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    Kiddush Hashem and Chillul Hashem are not based on what is feel good according to the swiftly changing morals of the day. Doing Retzin Hashem brings Kiddush Hashem. Doing the opposite brings Chillul Hashem.

    I have already stated my opinion that it is likely muttar. But not because its a Kiddush Hashem cuz they had a baby. Rather that since it is not chinam, as defined by halacha, so there is no violation.

    People sometimes have a hard time defining chinam in another context as well. That would be sinas chinam. There are people out there who, when challenged that their behavior/philosophy is incorrect, will respond: SINAS CHINAM! Rather than address the substance of the challenge. Fighting dei’os kozvos is not chinam.

    in reply to: question that will probably be controversial #841341
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    Why not? Because there is an issur D’oraisa of lo sechanem-Lo siten lahem matnas chinam. I know that this din d’oraisa is difficult for many people to reconcile with political correctness, but it remains the din.

    There are perhaps ways to define chinam, which would allow this, though. Especially if they are neighbors with whom you have a relationship. Then it is not chinam, but rather to maintain that relationship.

    in reply to: How Popa vanquished the Chicago people #838644
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    One day ago means somewhere between 24:00 and 47:59 ago. At 48:00 it will say 2 days ago. This was put up originally on Sunday morning, less than 48 hours ago. But keep an eye out. Very soon it will change to 2 days!

    in reply to: How Popa vanquished the Chicago people #838637
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    OC 422

    in reply to: Just a quick �Hello� to� #842208
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    DH: Are you sure that you don’t occasion their threads frequently?

    in reply to: Urgent! Calling Chicago People #1044940
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    Methinks that one keeps speculation in ones head and off the internet.

    in reply to: How Popa vanquished the Chicago people #838636
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    I will get you sources. Feel free to ignore me until then. However, take a look throughout shas and shulchan aruch. You will find the unique lashon of aniyas hahalel applied all over the place. Rarely does it say amiras hahalel. Aniya is integral to the process. Difficult to quote sources when on the road. But the mehalech hasugya has become a part of me.

    in reply to: How Popa vanquished the Chicago people #838632
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    The definition of Hallel, as learned from Shiras Hayam, Shiras Habe’er, and from sugyos in asiyas korban pesach, includes aniya. B’zman habayis, the shatz would say pesukim of halel, and the tzibbur would respond Hodu L’Shem Ki tov, etc. (Gemaros in Pesachim) This has gotten watered down to nowadays when we only say 4 pesukim in that format. It is the way hallel is recited. Nothing to do with sequences, as in tadir v’sheino tadir.

    in reply to: How Popa vanquished the Chicago people #838630
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    The result of delving into sugyos off and on over the years. Exact chapter and verse will have to wait. I am not at a place and time where I can answer things that need to be looked up.

    in reply to: How Popa vanquished the Chicago people #838626
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    But Bais Ushi is on the disabled list! If you beat someone when their at half strength only due to construction, is that really a win?!

    And besides, Hallel is likely the most important thing to be said b’tzibbur. Aniyas Hahallel is integral to the hillul. It is muttar to skip pesukei dezimra to catch the responsive parts like Hodu and Ana Hashem as much as tefila b’tzibbur, and according to some poskim, even more so.

    in reply to: Urgent! Calling Chicago People #1044923
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    I don’t want to take away from Gefen’s invitation, but if you stop by Motzoei Shabbos, and you’re milchigs, I’m sure you won’t be disappointed! Make sure it’s before 9 though. That’s when the Telshe Melave Malka starts!

    Or better yet, this afternoon! Can you be yotze To’ameha Chaim Zachu with milchig donuts that weren’t made expressly for Shabbos?

    in reply to: A recap of tragedies of 2011…..The list goes on and on… #837873
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    ZK: Do you care to elaborate on what any sefer says about Rosh Hashana l’umos. I know the gemara talks about rosh hashana l’mlachim for goyim as distinct from Rosh Hashana for malchei Yisroel. However, it pegs those 2 dates as 1 Tishrei vs. 1 Nissan. But January 1? I am not aware of any such thing!

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837666
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    Kensington and Madison are what people who live in Flatbush call themselves when they don’t wanna say they live in Flatbush. Ditto with West Lawrence and Far Rockaway.

    in reply to: Urgent! Calling Chicago People #1044920
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    Ummm. The best sufganiyot in Chicago come from the kitchen of the writer of Creative Cuisine in Yated. As a matter of fact, her very first column was on caramel donuts. Reb Pinny was here once for a simcha, she made them, he liked them, and we got the job!

    in reply to: The Coffee Oscars! #992448
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    Thanx Gefen. I know the honor is only due to my wife’s baking. If there’d be a way to spread some of that around the CR, I’m sure we’d get even more votes!

    in reply to: Last week #859207
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    Umm, I didn’t guess because I knew.

    in reply to: Popa is Brave #858420
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    It was Parshas Vayakhel Pekudei a few years back. I was laining in the parsha of the me’il. In Parshas Tetzave, the word safah has a pazeir. In Pekudei there is a meircha-tvir on safah lefiv saviv lo yikare’a. So as I’m about to lain the much softer pekudei trop, the guy with the aliya standing right next to me goes safa-a-a-a-a-h with a pazeir, quite looud enough to throw me for a moment. So I let my better judgement get away and followed his lead. There’s only 5 words till the sof pasuk! No way to recover and blend in such short order! Ended up with egg all on my face. Serves me right for not having enough self confidence to ignore him!!

    The mishna berura says that whenever one davens, even if he davens softly, he must hear the words coming out of his month. (Tzarich lehashmia l’aznav ma shemotzi b’sfasav.) The only exception the mishna berura lists, is that when one has an aliya and is reading along with the Baal Kriah, he may say so soft that he cannot hear, so as not to disturb the Baal Kriah.

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837662
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    ZK: People who live out of town are not intimidated by each other nearly as much. There is a natural bond you feel with anyone from your city. I don’t know where you’re from, but if it is from someplace like BP or Flatbush, you probably don’t even know everyone on your block. But I live in a decent sized out of town place. And another poster, several months back, challenged me to identify her. She gave me very little to work with. She lived in my neighborhood (2 blocks away) for 4 years like a decade ago. But it took me less than 10 minutes to pin her down.

    I just figured out who another quite regular poster is yesterday. Turns out I was his uncle’s rebbe a number of years ago when he lived in my town. (Next month will be 20 years since I started my first daf yomi shiur. WOW!! From Beitza to Bechoros, plus 2 cycles!) Not gonna go any further, because I don’t want to blow anyones cover.

    Oy, I wish we could go back to the innocence of yesteryear! Jothar might blacklist me if I complain about the security enhancements here. I know it is all neccesary, but I just wish it weren’t so. But come visit us here, and try getting used to out of town. We still have it to a large extent. Yes there are bad people here too. I am quite aware of that. But the general attitude is much more welcoming, and you don’t feel threatened by someone else’s anonymity. And if eventually you connect with someone who was previously anonymous, it makes you feel good. Chein Hamakom Al Yoshveha!!

    in reply to: Jewel-Osco Wish Big Win Big Giveaway #850344
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    Same here. They give you loads of everything exept one. Those individual missing tickets are the control. When they say there are x amount of winners, that is because that is how many of the elusive single last ones are out there. I would assume most everyone in town who is doing this has the same sheets as you and I have.

    in reply to: Popa is Brave #858415
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    My place likes to stay in SHabbos Chanuka. Chanuka is a celebration of conquering the yavanim who were anti limud Hatorah and listening to chazal. Kisvu lachem al Keren hashor etc and all the rest. We have a big melave malka, and bnai Torah from around the cournty who have an off Shabbos come to our event. Guest speaker is scheduled to be the rosh kollel of the newest kollel in the neighborhood, RYR of KOT.

    And I never get an off Shabbos anyway. Even if the guys would be away, I’d still be working. Refer to my previous comment about my intolerance of most other baalei kriah. (Although I’d be curious to hear what The Wolf sounds like.)

    in reply to: Popa is Brave #858408
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    Popa: You know where to find me. I challenge you!! (I have done this myself to others and gotten ‘the look’! Not very often, though. My far too large ego does not allow me to tolerate listening to very many others.)

    Onegoal: Very few people pay attention to Shabbos morning pesukei dezimra. Ther are many places where there is not even a shatz up there at all. If davening starts at, let’s say 8:00, that just means that someone goes up at 8:30 and says Shochein Ad.

    in reply to: Popa is Brave #858405
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    I live about a 16 minute walk from the place I daven at Shabbos morning. I’ve found that if I walk out the door with Asher nasan lasechvi vina, I get to the shul at Az Yashir. If I’m late, I will sometimes skip the Halleluka halleu es Shem Hashem (too confusing with Hallel Hagadol), then Hallel hagadol (always get thrown off with 26 times ki l’olam chasdo) and Ranenu Tzadikim (too interchangable with Yehi ch’vod). (Can you tell that I daven Ashkenaz?) The rest goes smooth without any trouble. With proper concentration I sometimes can do those as well. I make up the missing parts when I have a siddur, right before Nishmas, and all is well.

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837651
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    That was what they guessed!

    in reply to: Favorite flavor donut #1204670
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    The local bakery makes Caramel donuts from around ROsh Chodesh Kislev until 2 Teves. They sell like hotcakes! But the day after Chanuka, they disappear for 11 months. Never understood why!

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837649
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    Gotcha! My kids who were on that flight told me who they think you might be. When we meet, I’ll let you know if they’re right or wrong.

    in reply to: Midwesterner.. #837642
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    Gefen: Yes, someone must have mistakenly thought there would be more parking in HP than on Granville. BH, we were able to walk. Incidentally, your daughters are a bit too old, but there is a group of girls that have created a whole theme in the neighborhood, calling it HPC (as in club). Sweatshirts and all.

    Yenta: I know people that use MegaBus regularly without horror stories. I’m sorry that you had one. The best you can do is NY to Cleveland then Cleveland to Chicago.

    Onegoal: We’ve known for a very long time in what city you live. I suppose if you’ve connected my daughters and sem20 all on the same flight, that means you know who I am. Are you willing to offer me a hint as to your identity?

    in reply to: please help me find a minyan in flatbush #836889
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    The OP said he was looking for a minyan, so I figured if it’s so hard to find, well then he could come out here!

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