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I agree with popa. I would tell her if it was anything other than something or somewhere a man shouldn’t be focusing on in public. Otherwise, I would inform another woman to tell her privately.
In the situation we are dealing with, it may not be considered proper for a man to notify a woman of an accidental revealing of a place she normally has covered. The embarrassment caused by a man informing her of it may be more than the embarrassment she has if she realizes on her own. However, if she has, for example, gum stuck on her clothing or, like shlishi’s case, a roach on her leg (let’s say below her knee, or just on her skirt), I honestly see no problem with a man informing her of it. It will save her embarrassment, and is a proper and perceptive thing to do.
As Aishes Chayil and Adorable said, generally, girls are more sensitive than boys, and therefore, when rejected, would take it harder. Because of that, if one is dating through a shadchan, it seems logical to make sure the boy is willing to date her before she hears about him. However, there obviously can be exceptions to that; Not all situations are the same. Same thing with the concept of boys having more dates than girls. While this is generally the case, it definitely isn’t always. There should not be only one procedure for everyone. Analyze every situation and then make a decision that would produce the healthiest outcome.
A BTL, as Yeshivabochur said, will enable you to get into Law school, and SOME master’s programs. Not all. If planning to go into a master’s program, do some research first and find out from the school you plan on attending if they accept a BTL. Some don’t view it as a legitimate Bachelor’s degree.
1day, you have a nice kit! Too bad your’e unfamiliar with electronic kits, though..I do have a question that you can help me with: I recently started using a double-bass pedal, and, obviously, it took a while to get used to it. Now, I’m okay with it, but when play a double bass beat, I have my heels off the ground and use my entire legs to press down. This ends up tiring me out pretty quickly. I know that the proper method is to keep the heels down and only use the ankles to move your feet, but I have a hard time staying in rhythm that way. Any suggestions that would help?
Adorable, I indeed did not fully understand your post. I simply do not see a connection between innocence and learning things from the “right” sources. Perhaps you can explain it a little more clearly? Thanks.
About the first definition I gave, I think it means that even if you once were familiar with and pursued “evil” or sin, it is still possible to reach a level of innocence through ridding yourself of your familiarity and connection with them. If you no longer feel a connection to the sin, you have gained innocence.
Yeah, I guess Alice in chains isn’t such a great example of “simple” progressions. I was referring more to punk than grunge. But I see what you are saying about them focusing more on emotion than technical prowess. Which would be understandable for me why I am not so into that, since I never really play live, so emotion is quite a non-factor for me. I therefore focus more on technique, and the 70’s and 80’s in particular are a goldmine for wonderful musical technique. (Rush, Sabbath, King Crimson,..)
About the case, I particularly want a softshell because I need something I can fold up and put into a small space. I have a hardshell and it’s not so practical for me right now.
Good luck on deciding about a new amp!
There are a few definitions for the word “Innocence”. One is “A freedom from guilt or sin through being unacquainted with evil”. According to this definition, it is possible to have innocence even after guilt or sin as long as you are longer acquainted with them.
Another definition is “A lack of knowledge”. According to this definition, once you know something in a certain area that you were before unfamiliar with, you are no longer “innocent” in that area. However, I find it difficult to establish the second definition in a Jewish light.
Cleverjewishpun, I hear that. Do you feel though that grunge is easier to play than other types of rock/jazz? I’m only asking because the few grunge bands I am familiar with (Nirvana, Alice in Chains, and few others) seem to have a very basic chord progression in every one of their songs. Seems to me kind of repetitive..But obviously, there is a market for that. That’s partly why I like pre-“modern” music. There just seems to be more versatility and complexity in the older stuff. That’s not to say there is nothing in the 90’s like that, because there are. But not as many.
What do you think?
Also, I’m looking for a soft-shell acoustic case for 50-100 dollars. what would you recommend?
1Day, that’s great! What gear do you use? Also, I recently converted my acoustic kit to an electronic kit and I use it to record with. However, I have noticed there is an annoying buzzing sound coming from the drum module. I can’t seem to fix it. Any ideas?
Cleverjewishpun, what sort of bands do you cover? Personally, I never really got into 90’s stuff. I’m all 70’s and 80’s.
Aries- Agreed. I would even say that the content of the lyrics almost ALWAYS will be indicative of their mood, thoughts, and issues. One will then have an easier time finding the source of the problems the child may be dealing with. I wouldn’t however find it so beneficial to actually forge a bond using such material. There should be other, healthier ways to create that connection.
1Day, I would consider myself a drummer, although I’ve only been playing them for about 2-3 years. Have any questions?
Cleverjewishpun, yes, recording in a proper studio is an awesome experience! Right now though, I use a multitrack recorder and Cakewalk. The music I record encompasses a wide range of genres. It’s mostly instrumental, very progressive sounding, and all original compositions. I guess if I were to put it under a specific genre, it would be “Progressive Instrumental Jazz-Metal”. (I just made that name up.)
Cleverjewishpun, I hear what you are saying about the pedals, it’s just that I seem to be able to get all of the sounds I want for recording from my amp and software. Pedals, for me, would mostly just be for ease-of-use. Of course, some sounds can’t really be reproduced by an amp or software.
I understand how solo guitarists’ albums may be “boring”, but I still enjoy a good solo album. Some are better than others. Some have more “complete” songs and some are just a random collection of riffs and solos. But I like both.
I have played live a few times, and there is nothing like it, but I also enjoy just sitting back and jamming myself. Since I play the drums also, I can pretty much compose and record a complete song myself (with an effect for a bass guitar sound).
I’m guessing the guitarist with the Ibanez RG that you enjoy is Steve Vai..Am I right? Because I love his guitar as well (The monkey handle is so cool). My Yamaha is a regular acoustic, but I have a clip-on pickup for it when I use it to record.
My Vox amp is a solid state, but it has a setting which makes it sound “tube-like”, although, it doesn’t come close to an actual tube amp. I agree, having pedals give more versatility and greater sound options, but I rarely play live, so for recording purposes, I’m okay without pedals.
About the Synyster Gates Schecter, I totally understand that playing anything other than hard rock/ metal will look ridiculous, but since I rarely play live, I’d be fine with it! (Also, because I mostly play his sort of genre anyway.)
Aries has a fine take on it. Judging by the words in the original post by Ofcourse, it seems that the parent currently does not have a great bond with the child. That being the case, doing anything to strengthen that bond would be beneficial. Once a bond a forged, then the parent can decide where to make boundaries and where not.
Also, it depends on what type of secular music the child is listening to. If it contains lyrics that promotes immorality, drugs, or anything potentially harmful, having a parent listen to it with the child may not be the best way to create a bond. There can, and will, be other ways to create it. But if the lyrics are fine, or any sort of instrumental music, a parent can do well to join the child by listening and having an interest in it, even temporarily, to create that bond.
Cleverjewishpun, you have some really wonderful gear! The Music Man bass has such a great sound, perhaps only outdone by a Rickenbacker.
I have an Ibanez RG electric, Yamaha acoustic, and a nylon-stringed classical guitar that I’m not sure of the brand. I use a Vox Valvetronix amp with built-in effects(No need for pedals).
I also play the drums, and I have an entry-level acoustic set which I recently converted to a 9 piece electronic kit using an Alesis module.
I would love to have the Petrucci Music Man electric guitar..But it’s quite expensive. Also love the Synyster Gates Schecter.