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mewhoParticipant
shouldnt one of the goals of this website be allowing those who have info to help those who are seeing info?
there are many people who can be a wealth of knowledge and assist others here who need the help. not allowing them to help out to the best of their abilities is hampering a mitzva.
mewhoParticipantmaybe they also have real jobs and cant jsut be sitting around waiting to post messages.
mewhoParticipantwear a shvim kleid!
contact deena , she will help you out
mewhoParticipantmarry a guy in his 90s that is well off and never had children.
March 22, 2011 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm in reply to: I think of death a lot. Do you? why is it so ignored? #751079mewhoParticipantdont you guys ever sleep?
mewhoParticipantif you know you are spending too much money you need to try and figure out why and then figure out how to stop before you are deep in debt.
you dont need 30 skirts or sweaters per season. etc.
try and stay away from the stores that you frequent. when you feel the urge to spend try going speed walking or jogging instead.
the release of the endorphins will make you feel good!!no charge!!!
mewhoParticipantyou’re female. you dont need to learn how to learn. you need to learn how to cook and sew and do laundry.
you should also learn how to drive so that you dont have to depend on hubby or car service to take you shopping or visiting.
you should also learn how to navigate the internet so that you can shop on ilne as well.
now those are the things you need to learn. make a list and tackle them one by one
March 21, 2011 6:29 pm at 6:29 pm in reply to: younger sublings getting engaged before older #752013mewhoParticipantI’ve seen it happen and never heard any older sibling standing in the way or making the younger sib feel badly.
mewhoParticipantif u follow the rule…if u have nothing nice to say, dont say anything….then u should not be talking to each other at all.
send text messages instead.
mewhoParticipanti am incognito
mewhoParticipantchag sameach to all!
mewhoParticipanti dont drink , where do i post?
mewhoParticipantmy dear daughter in law baked it
mewhoParticipantits not really honking, think of it more as music
tra la la la la honk honk, beep beep
mewhoParticipantfreilichin purim all!!
mewhoParticipantwe should post pictures of pretty shalach manos’
mewhoParticipanthiccup!
mewhoParticipantchulent
mewhoParticipantcheck out raymour and flannigan and bob’s
mewhoParticipantcutiepie, what has this got to do with mexicans sitting on the corner?
mewhoParticipanti always wear a black hat to shule. black hats match most of my dresses and suits.
March 15, 2011 6:06 pm at 6:06 pm in reply to: All Wife's Money & Properties Belong to Husband #750341mewhoParticipantderech thanks for your cute pre purim psot
mewhoParticipanti have tears in my eyes. what a wonderful person. may he always be able to help people . amen
mewhoParticipanttheres a video on you tube about hashgocha protis. its aboutwearing a modest outfit at the pool. you should check it out
mewhoParticipantand a partridge in a pear tree……
mewhoParticipantstart chewing gum
mewhoParticipanti play scrabble with a cousin that is in high school.by the way , she is winning the present game we have going.
long as things are controlled there should not be any harm in having it.
mewhoParticipant50 is the new 40, 40 is the new 30 and so on.
so middle age can be 50
lol
mewhoParticipantcall met council, maybe they can refer you to someone good.
212-453-9500
mewhoParticipanthi ”wtvr”. nice to meet you.
actually i am female as well and married for 25+ years. bli ayin hora.
my responses earlier were with regard to the earlier list. i feel that in most cases the rules should apply to both the girl and the guy.
i still wear heels on occassion and i am careful where i walk. if you dont know where youre going on a date, then wear shoes that wont get stuck anyway.
again, with regard to the car, once my kids passed the younger years i did not keep snacks in the car.
by the way, for the sweet and sensitive guys who did stock your drink or snack, what did they do wrong that you are not dating them anymore?
jsut curious.
mewhoParticipantOk, I have to respond to some of these. My response will be in CAPS if the Mods allow
A few more things to add:
Do:
1)Say thank you to all waiters and anyone else that helps you (not everyone does)APPLIES TO BOTH
2)Always have a backup plan. The lounge you want to go to may be full, so its better to have another place to go to then to walk around deserted streets for an hour, get lost, and then go back to that same lounge in an hour to see if any tables opened up. (not impressive)APPLIES TO BOTH
3)Bring 2 umbrellas if its raining MANY GUYS DONT USE UMBRELLAS, LADIES BRING YOUR OWN
4)Keep tissues and some food and drinks in the car THE CAR IS NOT A SNACK BAR
5)Know that it is hard for girls to walk over the grates in the streets if they are wearing heels, they get stuck. Same applies to a boardwalk.GIRLS, WEAR A COMFORTABLE SHOE AS WELL AS A NICE LOOKING ONE, STILLETTOS ARE NOT TZNIUSDIK ANYWAY
6)If you plan on taking the girl out to eat let her know. She is not sure if u plan on taking her so she is not sure if she should eat supper b4 or not SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BY BOTH PARTIES
7)AND if you plan on going milchigs, even 2 stop in starbucks, let her know. she mite have eaten fleishig supper since she didnt know food was on the agenda SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BY BOTH PARTIES
8) No one likes to meet half of their friends when they go out so take them someone different or at least not a few blocks away SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BY BOTH PARTIES
9)Girls like guys that are put together and have confidence
APPLIES TO BOTH
Dont:
1)Drop the girl off 3 houses away and then zoom off b4 she even gets to her house (true story) 100% AGREED!
2)Order ur own dessert while the girl is still eating her main AGREED
3)Dont beg the lounge to let you come in even if there’s no room. Or try to bring drinks down to chairs that are in an area where they dont let you bring them and then beg them to let u just drink them there.
4)DONT TEXT WHILE ON A DATE!!! APPLIES TO BOTH
5)If u see ur friend dont go over and shmooze 4 ten minutes, its not polite APPLIES TO BOTH
6)Do Not tell ur date that u just got ur license, its not impressive, its concerning to be in the car with u!
Thats all 4 now
mewhoParticipanttry ”weight no more diet center” they have multiple locations and are on the web.
mewhoParticipantto may to, to mah to; po tay to, po tah to
mewhoParticipanthow about donald trump?
mewhoParticipantbest thing about winter….is getting to spring!
mewhoParticipantsometimes deaprtment stores have special make up events. keep an eye on the papers or websites for that. it may cost a bit , but not as much as when there is no special running.
another option is to get a makeup person to do a few girls in one location, could be a group rate.
check around.
mewhoParticipantwhas the biggie? give them your 8th grade graduation picture.
February 28, 2011 9:00 pm at 9:00 pm in reply to: Shidduchim�how to get your name out there? #977043mewhoParticipantvolunteer at various functions. chinese auctions , meetings, etc.
February 28, 2011 8:52 pm at 8:52 pm in reply to: Ladies, do you say ??? ???? ???? and ??? ???? ????? #745497mewhoParticipanti have a womens artscroll siddur that my kids bought for me some years ago and it is great!
love it!!
mewhoParticipantaw cmon, u gotta be able to kibbutz too!
mewhoParticipantinnapropriate here and innappropriate there yet…….how many times do we hear parodies of an english song now done with words that make it seem jewish.
u know what i mean, the country yossi tunes and teh shlock rock ones and even more but im not too current on my music
mewhoParticipantit should be equal.
think about it, if there were only boys how would people have more babies
gotta have both so both should be equally important
mewhoParticipantthink about folks who have tzoris and then think about what got you into the bad mood.
hopefully that will work.
if not go back to pascha and repeat #2 till you are all better.
unless you are diabetic.
mewhoParticipantyoyo please see my post earlier.
call met council 212-453-9500, they can help u
mewhoParticipantgot an email after 5 pm that he would be there at 8 pm.
pom, please give more notice next time. thanks
mewhoParticipantmay i suggest you speak to someone . the met council has many wonderful programs for all ages.
pleae call there 212-453-9500 and speak to someone in ”crisis intervention”
they can help you or direct you.
mewhoParticipanti’d say ”put a cork in it” but that would be a different container.
heheheh
mewhoParticipanthate is a waste of energy
mewhoParticipantit was uncanny!
mewhoParticipanti dont understand when this came to be. when i was a child there was never a question about opening a can or bottle on shabbos. it was for food, it was allowed.
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