mepal

Please be mispallel for RIVKA FEIG’LA BAS YITTEL.

The situation is critical.

Thanks.

…some of us…

Jax, this is the second time. The first time it happened, I just ignored it. By now, I’m afraid it’ll turn into a trend…

The names’ mepAl.

You’ll win all the yw-cr posters votes for sure.

MM, I wouldn’t think that’s the problem.

If only men knew how to, then maybe they can answer.

squeak: care to explain?

squeak: You disect machines?

No no no! He wont let us wear makeup!

Whats interesting is the “status” people give to others wearing designer labels. It should not be a defining factor. If you can afford it, by all means, buy them. For those that cant and dont, there’s nothing wrong. You’re just as good as the next person. Buying it as a status symbol when you cant afford it, is wrong IMO.

You should know. At any rate, its been a pleasure as usual 😉

Have a lovely night!

Mumps?

kapusta, you need not feel bad. Refer back to this post:

http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/mods-mods/page/14#post-104514

Right, I got that. That is why I said that I got those comments infrequently. I still feel that leaving out the tznius part is more effective. A teenager is not looking to hear that. But then again, it may just be case-sensitive.

Bemused: I dont know… It would drive me up the wall hearing such comments about tznius all the time. The thing I remember that “worked” for me when I was a teen, was when a parent complimented me on what I wore, with NO mention of tznius there. (Ex, “I like what you’re wearing.” Thats all.) I picked up the hint from there, that what I was wearing was appropriate.

Wow ames! And its stylish too! It has cap sleeves! (NY Mom, dont shoot me just yet ;))

OMG, I’m cracking up! You know what, its probably better this way then having your kids complaining that you’re busy in the CR all day…

Yeah, he’s over 16. Unless he converts 😉

Yeah! Wheres ames?

True. And calling people ‘zonah’s’ for wearing funky shoes…

Another chasuna?

************ DT for Wednesday ** Parshas Bereishis ************

Dealing with the Enemy

by Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky

There are few descriptive verses in the Torah that defines the evil-inclination. Many of them appear in Sefer Braishis. After all, if Hashem created man with a Yetzer Horah (evil-inclination) then man ought to have the formula to defeat it. In fact, after Kayin fails by offering an inferior sacrifice, Hashem guides him by revealing something about the enemy – the Yetzer Horah. “Surely, if you improve you can carry him (the Yetzer Horah), and if you do not improve, he crouches at your door and his desire is toward you. But you can rule over him!” (Genesis 4:7)

The two sides seem to lack a study in contrast. If you improve you will carry him, but if not he will wait for you, he will desire to get you -but you will rule over him! It seems that the Yetzer Horah is defeated both ways. Even if you are not able to carry him and he crouches in ambush, you still can overrule him. Shouldn’t the negative have stated, “and if you do not improve, he crouches at your door, his desire is toward you and he will rule over you”? In a recent volume about the life of Rabbi Ahron Moshe Stern, the Mashgiach of the Kaminetz (not related to Kamenetzky) Yeshiva in Jerusalem, I saw an amazing story about Reb Naftali Trop, the Rosh Yeshiva of the Chofetz Chaim’s Yeshiva in Radin.

There was an itinerant Jew who had visited Radin and had earned a reputation as a thief. This particular individual had stolen from the very people who had invited him in as a guest in their homes. Word got out that he had stolen, and the next time he came to Radin, no one invited him into their homes – except Reb Naftali Trop.

Upon hearing of the offer of hospitality, some of the prominent members of the community approached Reb Naftali. “The man you invited is a thief! Last time he was here he walked off with some of his hosts valuables. You mustn’t have him sleep in your home!”

Reb Naftali did not react. “The Torah tells us that a thief must pay a fine for his actions. It does not tell us that a thief should not be invited to eat or sleep. I have a responsibility to invite guests. If I am afraid that they may steal, well, that’s my problem. I guess I must arrange to make sure that all my valuables are guarded. However, my fears can in no way relieve me of my responsibility to shelter my fellow Jew.”

The Torah’s message to Kayin is twofold. You can get the Yetzer Horah out of your way completely. You can carry him. You can place him out of your path and lift him out of sight. But that may not work for all of us. Those who cannot rise to that level and have the Yetzer Horah in our doorways constantly still may not give up hope. He may be lying in ambush but we can not ignore him. We must deal with him. If it means channeling your anger against evil – so be it. If it means steering an improper stinginess, channel that attribute to those times when splurging unnecessarily is uncalled for.

The Torah is telling us that when the Yetzer Horah is part of our lives we must deal with him. We never have an excuse by saying that the desires were too great and insurmountable. If we let him in the door we have to make sure that we are able to fulfill the mitzvos in spite of his presence.

The mussar luminaries used to comment: The Talmud tells us that our matriarch Rachel warned Yaakov about the deceptive shenanigans that her father Lavan was wont to perform. Yaakov responded by saying, “I am his equal in the ability to deceive.”

The question that was raised is simple. “Where did Yaakov learn to be so crafty?” The answer that they gave was that when dealing with a Yetzer Horah, one must be wily too. Yaakov learned from the trials of life how to deal with the most clever and cunning of men.

If you tame the beast correctly, he may crouch and wait for you. But you will rule over him. And you will learn to use his resources for your gain.

Amein. Refuah sh’laimah b’karov! Be strong…

Mods?

From a posters perspective, you have nothing to worry about 😉

Moishe Plotnik’s Chinese Laundry

Walking through San Francisco ‘s Chinatown, a tourist from the Midwest was enjoying the artistry of all the Chinese restaurants, shops, signs and banners…

When he turned a corner and saw a building with the sign ‘Moishe Plotnik’s Chinese Laundry.’

‘Moishe Plotnik?’ he wondered. “How does

that belong in Chinatown ?”

He walked into the shop and saw a fairly standard looking drycleaner, although he could see that the proprietors were clearly aware of the uniqueness of the store name as there were baseball hats, T-shirts and coffee mugs emblazoned with the logo “Moishe Plotnik’s Chinese Laundry.”The tourist selected a coffee cup as a conversation piece to take back to his office. Behind the counter was a smiling old Chinese gentleman who thanked him for his purchase.

The tourist asked, “Can you explain how this place got a name like ‘Moishe Plotnik’s Chinese Laundry?’

The old man answered, “Ah..Everybody ask me that. It name of owner.”

Looking around, the tourist asked, “Is he here now?”

“It’s me, Me him!” replied the old man.

“Really? You’re Chinese. How did you ever get a Jewish name like Moishe Plotnik?”

“Is simple,” said the old man. “Many, many year

ago I come to this country. I standing in line at ‘ Documentation Center of Immigration.’

Man in front of me was Jewish man from Poland .”

“Lady at counter look at him and say to him, “What your name?”

He say to her, “Moishe Plotnik.”

Then she look at me and say, What’s Your Name?

I say… Sam Ting!