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well i think being an only child effects the child very much
i happen to be a sort of only child
(all my siblings are by FAR older than me so i grew up alone with my parents)
i spent more time with my parents and benifited a lot from their wisdom on the other hand it was lonely
i traveled the world constantly with them and experienced more than my peers
my relationship with my siblings was hard i hardly saw them and they were more distant to me
but everyone is different
wow this make me think of what goes on here (israel)
i have countless times spotted men doing shmiras einiem
evidently their definition of shmiras einiem is looking down at the street but when they see womens shoes (pink,high heels,etc.)they look up stare at the women and then return to their vigilant watch of the pavement
no offence to all those trying shmiras einiem out but i think instead of shmiras einiem to do shmiras rosh
once upon a time
there wasnt such a concept as shomer negia
and lots of women didnt cover their hair
there were no seperate seating buses
and guys and girls talked freely.
when did the change happen and was it good or bad?
(BTW i also didnt grow up with the idea of shomer negia i only learnt about it in 9th grade)
different things work for different kids.
some get a “big brother/big sister” who gives a sort of role model and supports the kid
some go for counseling
some just are asking for TLC
some need firm strong rules
some need less rules ?(when something is prohibited its more inticing)
some need to change schools
some need more friends
some need more activities
some dont really have enough hashkafa
and some just have TOO much hashkafa
elaborate more so i can give a better answer
um two words “???? ????” this is an online forum people can say what they feel like and honestly wow seriously stupid thing to be
SO annoyed about pesach is almost here just “chillax”
who cares its yum!!!
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try innhouse.com they have great houses for cheap and i dont think age should be a problem
good luck
well you cant be any worse that that crazy story about a teen girl who posted on her facebook page that her father gives her WAY to many chores her father found out
AND PULLED OUT HIS GUN AND SHOT HER LAPTOP
talk about over reacting…
(and he pasted the video of him doing it on her page)
um…well its yeshivish most of the girls there are from chicago,new york,and LA its a nice place though if i would have a choice to go there i wouldnt want to
it gets more crowded every year and there isnt a lot of swimming
but thats just me they have cute themes and generally take nice field trips though the 6 flags near there shut down
um…no clue
yikes thats all there is to it
wow…yes facebook is a horrible thing for society i makes us believe that we can “be friends” with people without seeing them.
that defeats the whole idea of being there for others,literally
so many kids have gone “off” BECAUSE of facebook for various reasons
my old school had people come talk to us about the dangers of facebook and they are right:
“IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM FACE IT DONT FACEBOOK IT”
yeah the maccabeats or the chevra
well i like writing poetry but i LOVE parodizing
mmmm hmmmm
first thing to know is DONT STARVE YOURSELF if you do that
a.you will get back all the weight you had lost
b.well speaking of difficulties…..you might get quite a lot of them if you starve yourself
i hate to say this but not all diets work for everyone, but good general advice : eats lots of salad, fuit, vegetables ,and try to be active
and lastly tell your parents or a big sister cuz its important for you and your kids
behaztlacha
sam2 you are very right: no stereotypes
but i think the right age for MOST people to get married is: 23
well as a woman i feel it is kinda akward having guy photographers and video men on the womens side, its better to have a male and female photographers and video takers.
its worth the money to have everyone comfortable
yes sometimes 6th sense is the gut feeling you get when you feel something is REALLY wrong or good
i got that when my friend got engaged, she got divorced last week
because israel and jews are special
eretz yisroel has been special since it was created
filled with milk and honey it has tons of special sights and views
it has different terrains it has us who live there
(we are extra special and soo humble JK LOL)
all the nations have risen against us throughout history
and we always have survived and moved on and be’ezrat hashem we will continue to
i LOVE his work he is hilarious
um…the prank that i remember most is one that didnt turn out well my class was annoyed at my teacher for various things so we decided to run away from our classroom BUT in addition we taped the whole thing by putting a camera in the corner of the class and so we did but our teacher was a young sweet substitute and she was really sensitive and she went to our principal and CRIED
and so we of course apologized but nothing was the same with her afterwards so…..
were we wrong for doing that
well my friend married a smoker and the way she stopped him was simple she told him “if you want me to be a widow smoke full steam ahead”
and like magic-HE STOPPED
there was a lot of traffic in jerusalem all the buses were messed up because of the levaya it was astounding to see so much people dressed in black and white
whatever hashem brought into our world is for a reason
(whether we know the reason or we dont)
different animals have different jobs in the world
example:bees/honey,sheep/wool,cow/milk…..etc
but yet again one always hears stories about animals that save lives,that are gilgulim,that teach us lessons…
everything is for a reason even things that seem bad
well my opinion on the subject is: do what you feel comfortable with
kids always love parents spending time with them and their childhood memories and experiences are really important
the more the better of course dont over-do it
as far as girls go fathers relationships with their daughters are important as they have imput on the childs marriage relationships
good luck and remember do what works for you
hmm no idea about the finger nail BITING but if you cut your nails you should do it over a tissue and then throw the tissue away
pregnant women supposedly should not be around(on top of or next to)nail fragments it is assumed to be bad for the unborn child
but who knows
yup
firstly giving blood is healthy thats why some people give blood as often as possible it helps circulation and secondly so what if you dont get blood back you gave and thats a good thing to do
only if your BMI is high
a lot LOL
high schools in israel/jerusalem r a big issue because you get to be either “in the box” or “out of the box”
BH i found one that i would consider best of the worst it is called:Ali Be’er (kook)
it doesnt end too late
they have a ton of hashkafa and in 12th they have shlom bayit classes because they want to make sure the girls get them
starting in 10th grade they have like AP classes just when you finish in 12th you dont need much more studying
they choose what you can pick according to the girls needs
this year they had
1.phsycology and science
2.graphics and design
3.acounting
hmm…someone who makes her feel safe someone who would be a good father/husband who is passionate about whatever he does learning/working
a guy who can be fun and easy going at times but also serious and shares interests and hobbies
and most importantly shares goals
#1 wow hard situation
#2 i tried pilates they really worked they were devised by joseph pilates in order to keep his soldiers in shape without a lot of time
#3 if the guy cant see past your weight to your shining personality
ITS THE WRONG GUY
learning for life isnt for everyone
different strokes for different folks
if i guy is learning for life he should learn cuz he loves it not cuz his father does
i dont think the fathers dont know their sons i think they just feel strongly about learning for life