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  • in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207993
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Avram,

    >>> First I want to express that I appreciate your willingness…

    Thanks, I try.

    >>>I was in a mainstream Chabad shul a few weeks ago and saw a fellow with a photo of the rebbe on his shtender while he was davening.

    I think that this doesn’t enter the minds of most Lubavitchers, all Lubavitchers that I know consider this unacceptable, and this is the chinuch that is given.

    I’m always shocked when people claim that Chabad schools have the children face a picture of the Rebbe when they daven, and the like.
    I went to an ultra-Chabad cheder, all Yiddish, no secular studies at all for all ages (no math, English, etc.), very “Rebbe-centered”.
    In third grade, a student had a picture of the Rebbe near him during davening (I don’t think it was intentional), and the rebbi gave a lecture how this is not allowed, as well as how the Rebbe didn’t allow for his picture in the Kfar Chabad beis medrash. (Suprisingly, some yeshivos do have his picture on the wall of the beis medrash, but I have never seen on on mizrach side. Always in the back).
    This is the regular education that I and everyone I know has received throughout the years.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207818
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Unfortunately, for many simple, and some not so simple Chasidim fear of G-d is hardly mentioned: just fear of their Rebbe

    This is no longer an ideological discussion but a false accusation.

    It is ingrained in all Lubavitchers (children and adults, simple and wise) that the existence of a rebbe is to serve as a inspiration and example to help us increase in yiras shamayim and connecting with Hashem.

    On the contrary: We spend hours every day studying chassidus – exploring concepts of achdus Hashem, yiras shomayim, and avodas Hashem.

    I would actually argue that the problem that you mention specifically applies to Litvishe yeshivos that only learn Gemara without having a set time every day to learn and think about Hashem. They are the ones who hardly mention fear of G-d, instead focusing mainly on the teachings of chachamim in Gemara.

    (P.S. My point isn’t chas v’shalom to attack the Litvisher derch, nor to begin an explosive discussion on the differences between the Litvisher and Lubavitcher derech. That is way beyond the context here.
    I’m just pointing out how your argument can be flipped on its head.)

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207605
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Since we’re discussing the definition of the term “misnaged,” I can’t hold myself back from bringing the following letter of the Rebbe Rayatz (dated 15 Teves 5705 – אגרות קודש אדמו”ר מהוריי”צ ח”ח),
    where he quotes a sicha that he heard from his father – the Rebbe Rashab – in the summer of 5660.

    The Rebbe Rashab discusses the term misnaged as it was described by the Baal Hatanya on the first Yud Tes Kislev:

    ווען מען האט דעם רבין’ן באפרייט פון פעטראפאוולאווסקער פעסטונג-תפיסה – י”ט כסלו תקנ”ט – פארנאכט . . האט מען אים בטעות אריין געפירט אין דער דירה פון [דעם צורר החסידים ראש המתנגדים] ר’ נטע נאטקין.
    איינע פון די תביעות וואס דער ראש המתנגדים נאטקין האט געמאנט ביים רבין איז געווען פאר וואס חסידים האבין זיך גענומען אזא הויכן נאמען: חסידים.
    האט איהם דער רבי גיענטפערט, אז ניט חסידים האבן אליין גענומען דעם נאמען חסידים, חסידים בכלל נעמען ניט אליין קיין זאך, ווייל חסידים גלויבן בהשגחה פרטית כשיטת הבעש”ט נ”ע. דעם נאמען חסידים האט די השגחה עליונה געגעבן חסידים דורך זייערע מנגדים. די מנגדים האבן דאך גידארפט א נאמען געבן חסידים מתנגדים, אבער די השגחה עליונה האט מזכה גיווען די מנגדים מיט א אור אמת אז זיי אליין האבן געגעבן חסידים זייער כשר פארדינטן נאמען חסידים, און זיך אליין האבן זיי גיגעבן דעם נאמען מתנגדים.
    Loose translation (by SIE):
    When the Alter Rebbe was freed from the Peter Paul Fortress before evening on Yud-Tes Kislev, 5559 (1798), he was asked where he wanted to be taken, and he named the address of a chassid called R. Mordechai of Liepli. He was duly taken to that building, but by mistake he was taken to a different apartment nearby, which was the residence of the most outspoken of the misnagdim, R. Nota Notkin.

    One of his complaints to the Alter Rebbe was this: Why did chassidim assume such a pretentious name – “chassidim” [which means “pietists”]?

    The Alter Rebbe answered that chassidim did not assume this name themselves. On principle, he explained, chassidim do not take anything themselves, because they believe in the teaching of the Baal Shem Tov on specific Divine Providence. The name “chassidim” was given to them by Divine Providence, via their opponents, the misnagdim. Actually, the Alter Rebbe went on to say, the misnagdim should have called chassidim “misnagdim” [which means “opponents”]. However, Divine Providence bestowed upon the misnagdim a ray of truthful light, so that it was they who gave chassidim the honestly-earned title of “chassidim,” while calling themselves “misnagdim.”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207438
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>I can understand your surprise, but it’s the truth.

    You write as if I’m “surprised” by this new piece of “info” that your telling me. I am not surprised because I don’t accept your claim.
    There is a fundamental difference between the writings of Marcus Leiman and your claims about the Rebbe Rayatz. Marcus Leiman was officially writing fiction (maybe based on historical facts).
    However, the Rebbe Rayatz wrote his stories as accurate historical facts passed down to him from sources he relied on.

    Obviously, as a Chabad chossid, there is no way I would accept that stories written by one of my holy rebbes are just made up, ח”ו.

    Neither would any other Lubavitcher say that. It would be ridiculous for someone to claim that the Rebbe Rayatz made up stories about his holy predecessors (ח”ו) and still call himself a chossid chabad.

    I find it hard to trust you that you heard this from Lubavitchers, especially since you contradict yourself:

    “all those who are not Lubavichers know that they are unreliable”
    “sorry but I am not saying what I heard from anyone else other than Lubavicher chassidim.”

    I assumed you didn’t have a rebbe because you seem oblivious to the basic level of respect that any chossid would have for a rebbe of his.
    Now that I know the truth, my hope is that you respect your rebbe more than you expect others to respect their’s.

    in reply to: Ads in Jewish Publications II #2207388
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Reading the articles is an entirely different question. There was a special gezerah on captions…

    I am not learned in this sugya, but from the simple reading of the shulchan aruch and Mishna Berura (which bring the issur of captions) it seems that both are the same gezeira – משום שטרי הדיוטות

    The same applies to reading ANYTHING (including lists of names etc.) aside from Torah and musar (which includes Yosifun).

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207387
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>This directly refutes Menachem Shmei’s claims about how they’re never used, and how we’re just making stuff up.

    I didn’t say that they’re never used, you’re twisting my words.
    I was very specific in what I wrote.

    Neville, this is some of what I’ve written to you in the past:

    “What a lie. I have never heard the term “snag” from anyone’s mouth other than immature bochurim and online posters (היינו הך?)…
    The average Chabad adult who doesn’t hang out online or with bochurim doesn’t even know what a snag is!!”

    The fact that an online poster (who may also be an immature bochur) tried explaining this term refutes nothing of what I said.

    RE the term misnaged:
    This is indeed a quite common term. This is usually used to refer to those who attack chabad, but is also used sometimes to refer to regular litvishers.
    In any case, as Avira wrote, it’s not meant to be used as a slur, rather as the traditional way that many non-chassidim have been referred to for generations.

    in reply to: The Five Most Likeliest Candidates to be Moshiach #2207328
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>that’s extremely offensive.

    I must say that I agree with Avira here.

    Although I agree with Sechel that chassidus puts much more of an added focus on the spiritual aspects of Moshiach, with many maamarim explaining the level(s) of gilui Elokus that we will experience at that time, as well as discussing the neshama of Moshiach etc. –

    That doesn’t mean that the litivshers have a solely gashmiusdik view of the Geula, as if it’s something that could be done by some Netanyahu.
    This assumption is degrading and offensive.

    As Avira pointed out, if you look in the seforim of the Chofetz Chayim and Rav Elchanan Wasserman, you will find a lot on the ideas of לתקן עולם, and how we will be able to have a close relationship to Hashem.

    And obviously, Melech Moshiach is considered by all (Torah) groups in klal Yisroel to be a tremendous tzaddik and talmid chacham (as the Rambam (nigleh) writes in hilchos melachim and teshuva: הוגה בתורה ועוסק במצוות, חכם גדול הוא יתר משלמה ונביא גדול הוא קרוב למשה וילמד כל העם)

    The only ones who fit Sechel’s description are some segments of the “religious zionist” community who think Moshiach is some nationalistic idea of Jews taking control of the land of israel and appointing a king over the land. These people (like David Bar-Hayim, and the like) are not accepted in normative circles (to the best of my knowledge).

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207323
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>I am not saying what I heard from anyone else other than Lubavicher chassidim.

    Complete lies. Anyone who said what you said and calls himself a Chabad chossid is like an Israeli knesset member who calls himself satmar.

    My מחאה remains

    >>>I am a “card-carrying member” of a known chassidus, and clearly look the part.

    Something tells me that although you dress chassidish, you don’t have a rebbe, but that’s just a theory.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207324
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>This is what we all have to do, except that we have to substitute “G-d” for “Rebbe”.

    מורא רבך כמורא שמים

    You can ask the historians among the CR to provide many more historical facts about Yidden who had similarly great levels of reverence and bittul to their rabbis. To the best of my knowledge, this was not exclusive to Lubavitch.

    in reply to: Ads in Jewish Publications II #2207146
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>I would argue that Ami should be assur to read during the week too…

    The Shulchan Aruch mentions that in general people shouldn’t read these thing because of wasting time, etc.
    However, someone could always claim that they need it for relaxing, etc.

    However, on Shabbos there is an added issur which might be harder to find a heter for.

    >>>Thank you for mentioning captions

    I’ve often heard people say that if reading magazines on Shabbos, don’t read the picture captions.
    I find this hard to understand. The Shulchan Aruch seems to be saying that even captions shouldn’t be read. What would be the difference between captions and articles?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207147
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    RSo,

    I’m hereby מוחה for the honor of tzaddikim.

    This מחאה applies to your post and any future ones.

    in reply to: RCA Statement Regarding Chabad Messianism #2207076
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Avira,
    Neville,

    I guess we each understood anypotato differently.

    You seem to have understood him to say, “the Rebbe is Moshiach, look, even Rabbi Schochet agrees”.
    In that case, I agree. It doesn’t make any sense to say that.

    However, I highly doubt this was anypotato’s intention.
    He could have mentioned hundreds of Chabad rabbanim who hold this. Neither do I think that he was trying to conceal the fact that the Schochet family is Chabad (a well-known fact)

    He was probably saying that if you think that the RCA Statement makes sense, see this rebuttal.

    Again, I haven’t seen the rebuttal, but I guess anypotato wants you to see it.

    in reply to: Ads in Jewish Publications II #2207028
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Why is the issue only with reading advertisements? According to Shulchan Aruch (סי’ שז סי”ב ואילך), it is forbidden to read any unholy content on Shabbos, as a gezeira lest one read שטרות on Shabbos.

    It is even prohibited to read a menu that one prepared for the meal. It is forbidden to read letters of greetings. It is forbidden to read a caption on a picture. It is forbidden to read secular books of parables or war stories.

    The Shulchan Aruch clarifies that this issur is BESIDES for the general issue of bittul Torah and reading secular matters.

    The Shulchan Aruch Harav (as well as Mishna Berura, etc.) writes that reading יוסיפון and the like (Jewish history) is permissible on Shabbos since it contains inspiration in Yiddishkeit.

    Accordingly, it would seem permissible to read the articles with Jewish content or Jewish news, since they contain some level of inspiration.

    However, the articles about national politics or historical info about wars, etc. seems to be completely forbidden on Shabbos.
    This issur would seem to include most Zman articles, as well as much of Ami magazine, etc.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206991
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Yankel,

    It seems like you’re trying a little too hard.

    My only hope is that you at least respect your own rabbeim more than you respect others.

    in reply to: RCA Statement Regarding Chabad Messianism #2206985
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Neville,

    This would be reasonable:
    If someone asks, “How can Open Orthodoxy claim that the avos never existed (ח”ו וח”ו)? This is pure kefirah!”
    And then an “Open Orthodox” Jew responds: “There is a great article answering this. Google: Avi Weiss Avos Kefira response” (I just fabricated this discussion)

    You might say that you’re not interested in checking it up. But it would be ludicrous to say “you can’t bring OO “rabbis” to defend OO views, so I don’t care what the article says”.

    The OO Jew’s response to this would be: The very fact that you’re afraid to see how OO explains their opinion shows that you’re not so sure.
    קבל את האמת ממי שאמרו…

    in reply to: RCA Statement Regarding Chabad Messianism #2206861
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>You can’t bring Chabad rabbis to defend Chabad views.

    This is as ludicrous as saying that you, as a litvisher, can’t defend litvisher views! (mind boggling isn’t it?)

    Furthermore, surprising as it may be, you are currently engaging in discussion with a Lubavitcher who is defending Lubavitch views!

    According to your logic, we shouldn’t be having this discussion in the first place.

    We should change the rules of the coffeeroom:
    Lubavitchers may only defend Litvishers, and Litvishers may only defend Lubavitchers.
    Liberals may only defend conservatives (you can’t bring liberals to defend liberals) and conservatives may only defend liberals.
    Gadolhadorah may only defend ujm, ujm may only defend Gadolhadorah.
    (Not such a bad idea actually. Would be quite interesting)

    P.S. I have no idea what Rabbi Schochet wrote, and honestly, it is as significant to me as the RCA Statement itself (completely insignificant).
    I’m just amused by Neville’s line of reasoning.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206822
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Jude,

    I thought this was originally clear, but I will oversimplify:

    When I mentioned Torah, my point was NOT to say that using the term “rebbe” has the halachic ramifications of discussing Torah. My point was that it’s not only Hashem’s name which is prohibited from mentioning in mikvah, but other holy things as well.

    Therefore, when a chossid doesn’t use the term “rebbe” in mikvah (although many do), it isn’t chas v’shalom because he deifies the Rebbe. It is because he feels a special sanctity when mentioning the title of the tzaddik that he’s personally connected to, so he feels uncomfortable mentioning it in unholy places.

    This isn’t some sort of new shtik in Lubavitch. See for example the notes of Frierdiker Rebbe describing the chassidim of the Tzemach Tzedek, through the eyes of one of the maskilim of the time (Mordechai Aharon Ginzberg) who tried to infiltrate Chabad (רשימות אדמו”ר הריי”צ – אדמו”ר הצ”צ ותנועת ההשכלה):

    לא אירע אשר אחת הנשים – המספרות – הזכירה את שם הרבי טרם נטלה ידי’ וקנחה אותם בסינורה או באלונטית!
    הדרת הכבוד והמורא מהרבי מושרש אצלם בעומק נפשם ועל כל צעד וצעד יזכירו את הרבי וכל הגה הנאמר בשמו של הרבי, בלי
    הבדל אם נוגע בנפש או בממון, קדוש הוא להם ומקיימים במסירת נפש.

    Loose translation:
    “The women never mention the name of the Rebbe before washing and scrubbing their hands.
    The fear of the Rebbe is rooted deeply in the chassidim, and they mention the Rebbe regarding every step they take. Anything said in the Rebbe’s name, whether regarding their spiritual life or monetary matters, is holy to them and they fulfill it with mesirus nefesh.”

    If you want to accuse Chabad of AZ (ח”ו וח”ו) for giving too much respect to his name – you’ll have to go all the way up to the Tzemach Tzedek.

    in reply to: Could I Add Just One More Mashiach Thread? #2206752
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Interesting experiment:

    I wonder what would happen if someone would post a controversial taanah on four Moshiach threads at once.
    Would the rebutters respond the same response on all the threads as well?

    And would the rest of the conversation continue with four copies until someone breaks the chain?

    Hmm…

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206646
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>It’s not normal for yeshiva bochrim to use slurs about other types of yidden. That’s not “kid’s being kid’s.” That’s a serious problem that your community needs to address. Also, if no adults ever use it, then where do the kids learn it? They re-invent the word every generation?

    I agree with most of what you wrote (that even bochurim should be talking respectfully etc.) but not with this: “That’s a serious problem that your community needs to address.”

    This is not a problem specific to our community. I refer you to the parentheses in my earlier post, which I’d rather not go into.
    אין להאריך בדבר המבהיל והמצער

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206643
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Correction: not all letter and sichos (sometimes it is ה’תש”י) but it is quite common

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206642
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Only G-d’s name may not be uttered in the bathhouse.

    And any words of Torah. You can’t mention a simple halacha in mikva even without mentioning Hashem’s name due to the holiness of Torah.
    Likewise, some people may feel uncomfortable mentioning “rebbe” (title for a holy man) in the mikva. Most Lubavitchers do mention him there, some don’t. This has nothing to do with deifying ch”v.

    It’s crazy to see the lengths that people will go to imply the completely fabricated deification ch”v.

    I once heard a “shiur” from David Bar-Hayim on the “issues” with Chabad. When he quotes a sicha, he points out that the date is printed as אחש”פ השי”ת – which he claims is implying that chassidim are calling the Rebbe השי”ת.

    This ignorance would be amusing if it wouldn’t be accusing a group of Yidden of Avodah Zorah ch”v. In all letters and seforim of the Rebbe and his father in law, the year 5710 is referred to as השי”ת (swapping around the letters ה’תש”י). Just as the Rebbe refers to 5744 as תשד”מ and 5751 as תנש”א etc.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206302
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    “If you loved misnagdim you wouldn’t call them snags”

    Regarding your obsession with this “snag” illusion, I feel the need to emphasize once again:

    The term snag is rarely heard in Chabad. It is used mainly by immature bochurim in yeshiva, and I’ve never heard the word said by an adult.
    Most adults who don’t hang out with young bochurim or online don’t even know the term.

    (Talking about immature bochurim, I will refrain from getting into the filthy curses heard from the mouths of countless Yiddishe bochurim and children (as young as 9-10 years old! – chassidish and litvish alike) toward Lubavitchers during joint summer camp trips and the like.
    בדידי הוה עובדא, וכו”כ פעמים. ואין להאריך בדבר המבהיל)

    Non-chassidim are usually referred to as “litvishers” or “olamishers”.
    If addressing a non-Lubavitcher who attacks Chabad, they are usually referred to as “misnaged”.

    I don’t know why you are so obsessed with this fabrication that Lubavitchers call them snags.
    As I’ve said before, this is a machlokes b’metzius. I think that as a Lubavitcher I would know the metzius better.

    in reply to: Being a Jewish democrat #2206119
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    AAQ,

    This is from the Frierdiker Rebbe’s personal diary describing the arrest by the G.P.U. in Sivan 5687-1927 (רשימת המאסר):

    ראשונה הלכו לחדר בנותי מ’ חי’ מוסיא ושיינא יחיו, לבקר בשם וידרשו מאתם לאמר להם: מאיזה פּאַרטיע המה, ויענו כי הם בהפּאַרטיע של אביהם, בנות ישראל בעז­פּאַרטיינע [בלתי מפלגתית], מחבבי ארחות ישראל סבא, ממאסים בשאיפות החדשות. מפני מה? — נשמע קול נחמנ­סאָהן בשאלת תמהון — מפני מה — ענתה בתי שיינא תחי’ — מפני מה אינני מחויבת להשיב לכם, אתם שואלים איך היא השקפתי, ועל זה עניתי לכם ועל שאלת מפני מה אינני מחויבת לענות או לתת טעמים על
    השקפתי, כי הלא לא לשם דיסקוסיא באתם לבקר את כתביי ואגרותיי.

    They first went to search the room of my daughters Chaya Moussia and Shaina and asked them: “Which party do you belong to?”
    They answered that they were “members of our father’s party, apolitical Jewish women who hold dear Jewish traditions and despise the new trends.”

    in reply to: Being a Jewish democrat #2205954
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Avira,

    Great points about Sheva mitzvos and לתקן עולם

    Allow me to add the halacha ruled by the Rambam in hilchos melachim:
    וְכֵן צִוָּה משֶׁה רַבֵּנוּ מִפִּי הַגְּבוּרָה לָכֹף אֶת כָּל בָּאֵי הָעוֹלָם לְקַבֵּל מִצְוֹת שֶׁנִּצְטַוּוּ בְּנֵי נֹחַ

    To answer er,
    The reason this wasn’t practiced throughout the generations was because for most of history Yidden weren’t exactly on talking terms with goyim…

    in reply to: Being a Jewish democrat #2205790
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I think jackk said it perfectly!

    The democrat and republican parties were both not founded according to Torah (shebiksav, and certainly not shebaal peh) so they cannot be the perfect Jewish view.

    On the other hand, there are obviously various aspects of both parties that align with Torah (this can even be said of communism, totalitarianism, etc.), and its possible that at times one party will align more than the other.

    When the previous Lubavitcher Rebbe was being arrested in the USSR in 1937, the KGB asked his daughters which political party they affiliate themselves.

    They didn’t say democracy or capitalism. They said they belong to their father’s party, which is the party of Hashem and the Torah.

    If only all frum people would speak this way today.

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205653
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Common,

    Please, this is completely out of context.
    Why would you bring up a random post from the height of the covid debate in 2021 here in this thread?
    (It didn’t even have to do with the vaccine. Chanie315 actually agreed with the vaccine. They were arguing about the severity of the virus).

    This is just asking for an argument. And in a sinas chinam thread.
    Come on.

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205594
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Common,

    I didn’t take the shot, but why bring up old fights in this thread?

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2205564
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>There is NO INDICATION WHATSOEVER regarding a Rav , Rebbe or R’Ys Shitah re Chabad , when it comes to their theology because of 2 reasons…

    I assume that you are referring to the Rav Hutner discussion, which you are taking completely out of context.
    I was not trying to say that Rav Hutner holds of Lubavitch. Frankly, it makes as much of a difference to me as it would make a difference to you if the Lubavitcher Rebbe holds of Rav Hutner.

    The correspondents of Rav Hutner was brought in response to avira’s post:
    “And i was waiting for someone to mention putting on tefillin once as an example of returning jews to Torah. It isn’t. Because, as rav hutner explained, the rishonim are clear that in order for a mitzva to count, even according to the opinion that mitzvos don’t require kavanah, one must believe in their existence and be aware of their existence, otherwise it’s a maysoh kof b’alma….”

    It’s absurd to claim that Rav Hutner was against mivtzah tefillin without knowing the lengthy correspondence where he asks the Rebbe all of his questions. He also writes that he made sure not to go public with his opinion, etc. It’s also interesting to note the sensitivity he uses in his argument.
    To ignore these letters and just claim (or imply) that Rav Hutner was against mivtzah tefllin is burying your head in the sand.

    in reply to: Does ‘giving land to Arabs’ not make things worse? #2205554
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Does ‘giving land to Arabs’ not make things worse?

    It does.

    It’s a clear ruling in Shulchan Aruch OC siman 329:

    עכו”ם שצרו על עיירות ישראל אם באו על עסק ממון אין מחללין עליהם את השבת באו על עסק נפשות ואפי’ סתם יוצאים עליהם בכלי זיין ומחללים עליהם את השבת ובעיר הסמוכה לספר אפילו לא באו אלא על עסקי תבן וקש מחללין עליהם את השבת: הגה ואפילו לא באו עדיין אלא רוצים לבא

    Regarding non-Jews who besiege Jewish cities: if they come for money, we do not desecrate the Shabbat [to protect ourselves], but if they came to kill or come with no presented reason, we go out with weapons and desecrate the Shabbat. In a city that is near the border, EVEN IF THEY JUST COME FOR STRAW OR HAY, we desecrate the Shabbat. Rem”a: Even if they haven’t come but they want to come.

    Mishna Berurah:
    (יד) לספר וכו’ – עיר שמבדלת בין גבול שישראל דרים בה לגבול העו”ג וחיישינן שאם ילכדוה משם תהא הארץ נוחה ליכבש לפניהם:

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205457
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    @yungermanS,
    Thanks for the inspiration. Hopefully we’ll indeed succeed in uniting despite our opposing views, and bring Moshiach.


    @amiricanyeshivish
    ,
    ❤️😂

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205267
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Goldilocks,

    Description from Women of the Wall website:
    “As Women of the Wall, our central mission is to attain social and legal recognition of our right, as women, to wear prayer shawls, pray, and read from the Torah, collectively and aloud, at the Western Wall.”

    i.e. Their mission is to wage a war against Hashem Himself by publicly going against His will as it is manifested in halacha.
    And all this – in the holiest place in the world – the place where the Shechina rests! ר”ל ר”ל
    May this abomination be obliterated immediately.

    As a Lubavitcher, I follow the path of the Chabad rabbeim of being mekarev every Yid, even those with the status of מורידין ולא מעלין (See Likkutei Sichos vol. 2 pg. 620).
    As the Gemara says: יתמו חטאים ולא חוטאים

    While I wouldn’t hate Women of the Wall (since they are Jewish), and I would try to be mekarev them, their actions are definitely deplorable.

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205253
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The Rebbe Rashab has a very sharp maamar know as החלצו תרנ”ט where he discusses the concept of sinas chinam at length and how to rid oneself of it.

    This was particularly hard for me to learn because it so aptly describes the the relationship I have with some people, and the struggle of overcoming these feelings. I’m still working to rid myself of this sinas chinam.

    Here are some excerpts:
    שנאת-חינם היא, שאחד שונא את חברו סתם כך, על לא-דבר. לפעמים הוא ממציא טענה כלשהי, מדוע הוא שונאו, אבל אין זו אלא תואנה ועלילה להצדיק את שנאתו. הסיבה האמיתית היא – ישותו העצמית, שאינה מניחה מקום לזולתו. חשוב הוא בעיני עצמו, ולכן הזולת ממעט את מציאותו.

    כל אחד בונה במה לעצמו, בתורה ובעבודה, על-פי דעתו ושכלו דווקא, ואין אחד מתאחד ומתחבר עם רעהו. כל אחד מבטל את הטוב שבעבודת חברו, וכל חיסרון שימצא בה – יגדיל וירחיב עשרת מונים (אף אם אינו אלא חיצוני, שאינו נוגע בגוף ובעצם עבודתו). התנהגות זו מעידה ששונא הוא את חברו בליבו ואינו חפץ כלל בטובתו. ומהי הסיבה לשנאה זו? ישותו והרגשת עצמו, או בלשון אחרת: העדר הביטול והעדר הנחת עצמותו

    in reply to: Sinas chinam #2205239
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Square,

    Well said, you took the words out of my mouth.

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2205067
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Re, rav hutner; I’d trust what his talmidim say over online people…

    Great. You still refuse to check the written correspondence – a mouseclick away. You would rather trust word of mouth as long as it’s hateful. And then you wonder why people call it “chinam”…
    Go ahead, bury your head in the sand.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2204947
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>The problem I have with Chabad is that you look at yourselves as the chosen people within the Chosen People

    Hated people within the hated people.
    (Reform hate them for being too frum, litvish – for being too frei.
    Mizrachim hate them for being anti-zionism (which they are), Satmar – for being zionist. etc. etc.
    Sounds familiar?)

    (BTW, all the above is על דרך הצחות)

    >>>Menachem appears to be highly allergic to this question.

    Allergic? I’ve already explained several times why I’m not interested in answering your question.
    This is not evasion. This is refusal.
    If you don’t understand, no problem.
    I would say that you are more obsessed with this question than I am allergic.

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2204945
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Lubavitch information flat out spreads falsities about what gedolim said about Lubavitch.

    I can say the same about Chaim Berlin.
    Most people’s words can’t be blindly trusted for the fear of bias.

    That’s why I posted a link with written correspondence between the two gedolim. The letters speak for themselves (unless you are afraid of forgeries. Though if you look at chabadpedia you can find the original letters of Rav Hutner with the Rebbe’s handwritten response).

    As usual, you would rather argue about facts without checking them despite them being a Google search away (whereas taking a trip to chaim berlin is very impractical for me). This seems like cowardice to me.

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2204870
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Lubavitchers make lots of claims about how gedolim viewed their rebbe; if you want to know what rav hutner held of him, talk to a chaim berlin person.

    Or: Read the aforementioned correspondence (google: anash correspondence Rebbe Rav Hutner) and see for yourself their relationship. Also, you will see there the status of Rav Hutner’s “hisnagdus” to mivtzah tefillin.

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2204578
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>The Vilna Gaon is who people refer to when saying “The Gaon”. The Rogotchover I don’t believe is ever referred to by that title, he’s always “The Rogotchover Rebbe”.

    In Chabad also “the Gaon” refers to the Vilna Gaon, though he is usually referred to as Vilna Gaon or Gra.

    I’ve never heard anyone refer to the Rogatchover as “the Gaon” but neither is he called “rebbe”.

    I think he is universally called “the Rogatchover gaon” or הגאון הרוגצ’ובי

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2204576
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>a leader of [hi]s generation … has to be accepted by virtually all of klal yisroel”

    Something to think about:

    Was Moshe the Jewish leader because every Yid cared about and respected him, or because he cared for every Yid?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2204575
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Thanks everyone for your level-headed insights.

    Lots of food for thought to chew over…

    in reply to: Is there a greater meaning to the Titan accident? #2202975
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>I don’t know which is worse

    Making fun is worse. It’s not nice to make fun of death.

    On the other hand, looking at everything through the lenses of how it affects Yidden is a very good thing, as Avira wrote.

    I’ll add to Avira that not only is everything that HAPPENS in the world for the Yidden, but the very existence of the world is only for the Yidden.

    As Rashi writes on the first posuk:
    בראשית – בשביל ישראל ובשביל התורה שנקראו ראשית

    in reply to: RCA Statement Regarding Chabad Messianism #2201566
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Problem #4886 with Lubavitch:
    There is a Lubavitcher who doesn’t know who Reb Shamshon Refael Hirsch is.

    Another reason to put them in cherem.

    in reply to: RCA Statement Regarding Chabad Messianism #2200445
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    RULES OF THE YWN COFFEEROOM (updated):

    There shall be (at least) two threads about Lubavitch-Moshiach running at at every given moment.

    If a day passes without this discussion, the CR will automatically be shut down forever.

    Thanks for understanding. 

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2199181
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Correction to my previous post:
    The Shulchan Aruch says ואינו מנהג
    (Nasty spell check)

    mdd1,
    Please explain why all attack Chabad for דוקא being נוהג like an accepted leniency, while I have yet to see anyone attack the chassidish velt (and many litvishers) for going AGAINST the halacha in Shulchan Aruch and Mishnah Brurah.

    Again, Shulchan Aruch mentions the minhag of not sleeping in the Sukkah and supports it (albeit בדיעבד), while it mentions the Shmini Atzeres minhag and CONDEMNS it!

    I am not chas v’shalom pushing to attack anyone’s minhagim. I think every yid should follow the mesorah from his rabbeim and the tzaddikim of previous generations.

    I am just upset by the blatant double standard.
    If it’s a mesorah from the Baal Shem Tov passed down by polisher chassidim – it is welcomed with open arms.
    If it’s a mesorah from the Mitteler Rebbe (during the times of the Baal HaTanya) passed down by Chabad rabbeim – it is “akiras mitzvos” (ח”ו עפ”ל)!

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2199121
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I’m shocked by those who attack Chabad for not sleeping in Sukkah, yet defend not eating on Shmino Atzeres.

    Regarding sleeping the Shulchan Aruch says that today most are נוהג not to sleep, and give a few reasons. Chabad explains another reason according to our mesorah from the Mitteler Rebbe.

    Regarding eating in the Sukkah on Shmini Atzeres, the Shulchan Aruch writes that there are those who don’t eat on Shmini Atzeres ואנחנו מנהג – This is NOT A MINHAG!

    There is no classic halachic source for not eating in Sukkah on Shmini Atzeres other than a mesorah from the Baal Shem Tov (which, btw is not accepted in Chabad) yet everyone is fine with that.

    The vina gaon writes that one who doesn’t sleep in the Sukkah on Shmini Atzeres is chayav misah for violating divrei sofrim.
    Certainly so regarding eating!

    The anti chabad bias is clear as day.

    in reply to: Commemorating the 20th of Sivan #2198658
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Square,

    Your disrespect is shocking. If the topic doesn’t interest you, don’t post.

    This fast is brought in Magen Avraham (או”ח סו”ס תקפה)
    נוהגין להתענות עשרים בסיום בכל מלכות פולין

    Even for those who don’t fast, it is a day that can be spent in teshuva and introspection. Davening for the end to our suffering in golus and the coming of Moshiach.

    See Sefer Hasichos 5751 vol. 2 pg. 611

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2198168
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>This language was removed from subsequent prints.

    This is a lie. There is no edition missing these words, because Lubavitch has no need to cover this up.

    Since this has been discussed at great length hundreds of times in the CR, it is pointless to rehash.

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2198093
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Interesting point: Here is a quote from the Rebbe a few days after he said the sicha about sleeping in the sukkah (Shabbos Bereishis 5730):
    איך האב געהערט א גירסא בשמי אז איך האב געזאגט אז מען טאר ניט שלאפן אין סוכה – איז דאס בפירוש ניט אמת, ואדרבה: דער וואס וויל – זאל שלאפן געזונטערהייט, ושכבת וערבה שנתיך, און עס זאל זיך אים חלום’ן גוטע חלומות וכו’, און קיינער זאל אים ניט שטערן. דאס וואס איך האב גערעדט, איז געווען אויף פארענטפערן מנהג רבותינו וכו’, ומנהג חב”ד, אויף ניט שלאפן

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2198083
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    DaMoshe, mdd1

    If you also think Shulchan Aruch Harav and the Mitteler Rebbe are “oker Torah” (ח”ו עפ”ל) then we indeed have absolutely no שפה משותפת (neither do you have with most bnei Torah of this generation or previous ones).

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2198077
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>the mitteler did not admonish people for sleeping in the sukkah. the way everyone else has the story, his statement of “how can I sleep….” was said regarding himself, to explain his own practice of not sleeping in a sukkah.

    Avira, you are obviously only interested in picking fights. You continue to argue and lie in order to bring out your point, and you refuse to check any sources I gave you to see if you are factually correct.

    This is the quote from the Frierdiker Rebbe:
    פעם אחד סיפרו לאדמו”ר האמצעי שאברכים ישנים בסוכה, האט ער – אדמו”ר האמצעי – זיי געגעבן דם אמת’ן חלק, ואמר: שלאפן אין מקיף, מילא לערנען אין מקיף הרי זה דחק ונכנס, אבער שלאפן אין מקיף?! עיי”ש

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