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Menachem ShmeiParticipant
>>>In the end of the Lubavitcher Rebbe zatzal’s letter he asks: how is this helping you in Avodas Hashem?
Thanks for pointing this out, I actually didn’t notice that part.
Here is the last line of the letter I quoted above, responding to someone who was doubting the golem’s existence:
הפס”ד בשו”ע: בכל דרכיך דעהו. מה יתוסף אצלו (השואל שי’) בתומ”צ ע”י בירור הנ”ל?Menachem ShmeiParticipantUJM,
Ok, you really want to hear what I gave to say on the matter.
The reason why I haven’t been answering is because I don’t really have much to say on the matter.
Why do Lubavitchers put up pictures of the Rebbe more then others?
I can’t really answer this because I don’t know any official shitah or Torah explaining this.
This is not an official Chabad movement, and not everything done by Lubavitchers is a Lubavitcher thing.If you’re asking for theories, you can ask anyone.
Maybe it’s because Chabad in general does things in a more public way, like menorah lightings and lag baomer parades.
Maybe it’s because Chabad is more centered around the Rebbe than others might be with their gedolim (as it was throughout the history of Chabad).
But again, those are just theories, not written anywhere.
What is written in Torah I have already brought in my earlier post.July 17, 2023 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm in reply to: Dreaming About Listening to Music During the Three Weeks #2209006Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvram, point very well said
>>>would your main takeaway from the incident be how important it is for hotels to keep their eggs hot?
Or to stop making eggs altogether.
Better no eggs then possibility of cold eggs.July 17, 2023 12:46 pm at 12:46 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2209003Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvram,
This is my assumption as well.
However, we were all informed here in the CR that:
“there are literally Chabad houses and synagogues with a giant picture up on the mizrach vant. And quite a few people who do these sorts of things are in massive positions of authority.”I expect Yserbius to either name some Chabad Houses (which is not lashon horah since it is l’toeles – I will personally try to address the issue.)
Or, admit that he was mistaken and retract his statement.I’m still waiting.
July 16, 2023 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm in reply to: Dreaming About Listening to Music During the Three Weeks #2208807Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>if someone finds he “can’t” keep Shabbos anymore he is by defenition not frum. But if he “can’t” eat cholov yisroel that is not the case.
Firstly, I’d like to point out that this is not necessarily a great example, because chalav yisroel is not just a minhag or chumra rather a chiyuv derabanan.
Just because there is a rov who made a heter, that doesn’t necessarilly make it any less of an issur d’rabanan for communities that never accepted the heter.>>>When we start mixing up minhagim with chiyuvei krissus it gets a bit mishkebabal and we lose focus on what’s a frum Jew and what is not.
There is some truth in what you’re saying, but I would counter it:
When people start weighing what we do and saying “this isn’t so important, its just a minhag. We can drop it” this also causes one to lose focus of what is a frum yid.
Being frum isn’t just obeying deoraysos or derabanans, but a way of life. This is the idea of minhagim. And minhagim that are enshrined in Jewish life are vital to Jewish survival, מנהג ישראל תורה היא.
A Judaism that picks and chooses the mitzvos that they feel are more important and puts less focus on minhagim (the true concept of modern orthodox) fizzels out after a generation or two, ch”v.(Sorry for going off topic from the thread)
July 16, 2023 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm in reply to: YWN Coffee Room in 50 Years: A Trip up Memory Lane #2208808Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Why … Moshiach
Hopefully this will no longer be a discussion, because everyone will already know who Moshiach is for 50 years already since he took them out of golus, amen!
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIndeed, I always thought that these children’s stories have the weirdest morals.
Enter someone’s house, eat their food and sleep in their bed (after being picky!), and when caught, just run away.
Or when a girl tries visiting her grandma she turns out to be a fox who tries to eat her.
And when it comes to Torah stories, people complain that they are will frighten the children.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe Shady Chareidi,
Your story fits your name perfectly.
Are you saying that the golem came back to life?
July 16, 2023 3:11 pm at 3:11 pm in reply to: Dreaming About Listening to Music During the Three Weeks #2208751Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>I say this because i find it important to diffrenciate. I know of a Chabad person who went OTD because she ate Cholov Stam and then threw in the towel (nebach) because anyways she did an aveirah….
I’ve heard this taana many times on various halachos/minhagim that are only kept by certain groups (like beards, mikveh, etc.) but I never understood it:
If someone is over a דאורייתא (turned on light on Shabbos, ate a cheeseburger), is that a good reason to throw in the towel?
Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Just heard lately that the whole Golem thing is a fabrication of someone Reb Yudel Rosenberg from Montreal about 100 years ago.
As other posters have mentioned, discussions about the golem are recorded much before 100 years ago.
Don’t worry, you can still trust your childhood.The Rebbe Rayatz traveled to Prague with his father (the Rashab – definitely over 100 years ago), and he went up to the attic to see the remains of the golem.
This is the Rebbe’s response to a kuntres that doubted the truth of the Golem (due to the lack of credibility of Yudel Rosenberg):
בנוגע לס’ נפלאות המהר”ל והאגרות וכו’ שמזכיר – לא עיינתי בהם ובמילא איני מחוו”ד בזה כלל.
ובנוגע לעיקר הענין (שהמהר”ל עשה את הגולם) – בעצמי שמעתי מכ”ק מו”ח אדמו”ר שראה הנשאר ממנו – בעליית ביהכנ”ס דמהר”ל בפראג. ודיבר עד”ז עם אביו כ”ק אדנ”ע וכו’.
הקושיות שבהמצו”ב על הס’ הנ”ל – אין נוגעות כלל בהעיקר, כי מכו”כ עשירויות שנים לפני ההו”ל של הס’ הנ”ל הי’ מפורסם בתוך בנ”י שהמהר”ל עשה גולם, ואפילו – אצל הא”י, ועיין בהס’ בהספריות (כמצויין באנצקלפדיות)July 15, 2023 11:10 pm at 11:10 pm in reply to: Dreaming About Listening to Music During the Three Weeks #2208529Menachem ShmeiParticipantcoffee addict,
You took the words out of my mouth
I would add even more:
Spiritually, you may already be living in משיח’ס צייטן (like the famous story of Reb Mendel Horodoker (Vitebsker) and the scent of Moshiach. Or of Rashbi with saying nachem on Lag Baomer)July 15, 2023 11:08 pm at 11:08 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208468Menachem ShmeiParticipantYsurbius,
I honestly request that you name the Chabad Houses that you’ve seen with a picture of the Rebbe on mizrach vant, because something like this is a huge issue that must be addressed (and can be addressed if they are official shluchim under merkos).
Thanks.
July 14, 2023 9:30 am at 9:30 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208375Menachem ShmeiParticipantujm,
>>>Menachem Shmei: I posted a comment to your attention above.
The idea of pictures of gedolim (which began, if I’m not mistaken, mainly in Chabad/chassidish circles, yet is becoming more and more widespread throughout the velt) has been discussed already, and here is not the place to get into it.
See what I commented here:
July 14, 2023 8:14 am at 8:14 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208338Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvram,
>>>Curious as to why you chose to describe the point as not honest as opposed to incorrect or mistaken.
Unintentional
July 14, 2023 8:14 am at 8:14 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208337Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvira,
>>>Chabad .org calls nota notkin a leader of misnagdim….he wasn’t a rov according to articles online about him
Chabad.org is translating from the letter of the Rebbe Rayatz:
דעם צורר החסידים ראש המתנגדים ר’ נטע נאטקיןI assume this means simply “head of the opposition”. ראש doesn’t necessarily have to mean a gadol or rov.
And, as mentioned before (also by Avram in MD) he had many government connections, so he seems like more of an askan or rosh hakahal.July 14, 2023 8:14 am at 8:14 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208336Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Notkin, from what I’ve read, helped in getting the baal hatanya released
This is indeed true, but about a later time:
After his encounter with the Alter Rebbe, Notkin completely changed his relationship with chassidim, and he used his government connections to assist in releasing the Alter Rebbe from his second arrest two years later. (His assistance was on condition that the Alter Rebbe meet with three gedolei hamisnagdim, which he indeed did.)
July 13, 2023 8:49 pm at 8:49 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208280Menachem ShmeiParticipantCTLAWYER,
>>>Currently, in addition to my normal learning sdarim I am learning the Mishnah Torah on the 3 chapters a day cycle set up by Chabad.
Kol hakavod!
Maybe we can start a thread discussing the daily Rambam 🙂
July 13, 2023 8:49 pm at 8:49 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208279Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvram,
>>>the time spent with a misnagid was so odious that it was equivalent to being imprisoned falsely by gentiles? . . . And the idea that being questioned by another Jew is equivalent to being victimized. R’ Moshe Feinstein ZT”L encountered strong opposition to some of his rulings (e.g., chalav stam) from chassidishe rebbes, and some of their disciples even behaved rudely towards him, but the Jews who opposed him were not enshrined in American Litvak lore as being villains.
I must say, this is not a very honest comparison.
This was not a case of “being questioned by another Jew” or people “behaving rudely toward him.”
The Alter Rebbe is known to have had great debates and dialogue with the misnagdim.In this case, the Alter Rebbe was just released from prison, where he was arrested for treason (death sentence r”l) because of a libel by the misnagdim, of which Reb Noteh Notkin was very outspoken and instrumental.
To be released from prison, only to be transferred to the home of this man who used this as an opportunity to (verbally) attack him for three hours straight is understandably an incredible tzar.I’m not sure if I fully understand it, but this is what the Rebbe Rayatz said in the name of his father about why the Alter Rebbe was so pained by being in the house of the misnaged (שיחת י”ט כסלו תרצ”ג):
“הגאולה היתה בעת תפלת מנחה, ואותן הג’ תפלות של אותו המעת לעת היו עמדו הבעש”ט והרב המגיד נ”ע, ואותן הג’ שעות שישב בבית דירת המנגד כידוע, הי’ לו אז צער גדול יותר מכל המאסר, כי לאחר שכבר נצח הענין – כי ישיבתו במאסר הי’ ענין רוחני (היינו על רוחניות הענינים) וכאשר הענין נצח – הרי עניני גופו הק’ לא היו נוגעים לו, דאס האט דאך אים ניט גיארט, היינט זיין אין איינעם מיטן מגיד, און הערין דעם בעל שם, קאן מען זיך משער זיין, אז דעם רבי’ן האט ניט גיארט להתעכב עוד ג’ שעות ועוד יום שלם, ובכן כאשר בשרוהו כי חפשי הוא, לא חפץ ללכת משם.”ובמ”א מבואר: “ובהיותו עם המגיד, ובשמעו את הבעש”ט, מובן גודל הצער ללכת משם לאיזה בית, ועוד לביתו של מנגד!”
July 13, 2023 8:47 pm at 8:47 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2208278Menachem ShmeiParticipantYserbius,
>>>Like one day on CR a Lubavitcher will adamantly deny that there is such a thing as an Elokist. However, within the same thread a different Lubavitcher will go on a whole thing explaining how his Rebbe is “Atzmus Nasi HaDor” and we can direct our teffilos to him and he will answer them.
Lots of terms can be understood differently by different people, and that’s where most arguments happen (i.e. both sides usually agree, but don’t understand each other).
The idea of “עצמות ומהות ווי ער האט זיך אריינגעשטעלט אין א גוף” – whatever it means – is a direct quote from the Rebbe, so I don’t think any Lubavitcher would deny this. The idea of asking brochos from the Rebbe is also accepted in all circles of Chabad.
What these ideas mean is up for lots of discussion and have indeed been topics of endless debate in the CR.What I think a Lubavitcher means when he denies that there is such a thing as Elokist is, in simple, unambiguous words:
I have never met a Lubavitcher who has the Rebbe in mind when davening shmoneh esrei, or says “Yechi Boreinu” (I’ve met plenty who say Yechi adoneinu moreinu v’rabeinu melech hamoshiach leolam vaed, but I’ve never ever heard or seen “boreinu” ch”v).
I mentioned once in the CR that I’ve only heard of one yungerman (baal teshuva) who espouses these views, and he’s shunned by all (including by extreme, flag waving, yechi yarmulka wearing bochurim).>>>Every time the Moshiach discussion happens, there’s someone who will claim that it’s really just one rich guy who spends all his time and money on the signs and everyone hates him.
They may be referring specifically to the billboards and over-obsession.
However, it is true that most Lubavitchers believe (based on their understanding of chassidus and the Rebbe’s sichos) that the Rebbe will rise in techiyas hameisim (or “be revealed”) before the Geula happens, and take the Yidden out of golus as Moshiach.>>>there are literally Chabad houses and synagogues with a giant picture up on the mizrach vant.
I have been to plenty of Chabad Houses and shuls all over the world, yet I’ve never ever seen a picture of the Rebbe on mizrach vant.
The vast majority of shuls I’ve been to don’t have a picture of the Rebbe in shul at all (they will often have one in the hallway or lobby).
In very few shuls (usually the more extreme meshichist ones – none of which are official shluchim under Merkos L’Inyonei Chinuch) – I have seen a picture of the Rebbe in shul, but never in the mizrach vant.I am honestly curious if you could name some of those shuls and Chabad Houses which are as you claim.
July 12, 2023 7:03 pm at 7:03 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207996Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>I once heard from a Chabad source that he was freed before yud tes Kislev
Although it is know simply as “Yud Tes Kislev” – Chabad actually celebrates Yud Tes & Chof Kislev.
The reason: The Alter Rebbe was released from prison late afternoon on Yud Tes Kislev, but he was accidentally brought to the house of a fierce misnaged (Notkin – whom I mentioned earlier) who spent three hours screaming at the Alter Rebbe with all of his taanos against chassidus (though he indeed offered him tea).
It was only that night (Chof Kislev) that the chassidim found out where the Alter Rebbe was and brought him back, so Chof Kislev is also celebrated.
July 12, 2023 7:03 pm at 7:03 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207993Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvram,
>>> First I want to express that I appreciate your willingness…
Thanks, I try.
>>>I was in a mainstream Chabad shul a few weeks ago and saw a fellow with a photo of the rebbe on his shtender while he was davening.
I think that this doesn’t enter the minds of most Lubavitchers, all Lubavitchers that I know consider this unacceptable, and this is the chinuch that is given.
I’m always shocked when people claim that Chabad schools have the children face a picture of the Rebbe when they daven, and the like.
I went to an ultra-Chabad cheder, all Yiddish, no secular studies at all for all ages (no math, English, etc.), very “Rebbe-centered”.
In third grade, a student had a picture of the Rebbe near him during davening (I don’t think it was intentional), and the rebbi gave a lecture how this is not allowed, as well as how the Rebbe didn’t allow for his picture in the Kfar Chabad beis medrash. (Suprisingly, some yeshivos do have his picture on the wall of the beis medrash, but I have never seen on on mizrach side. Always in the back).
This is the regular education that I and everyone I know has received throughout the years.July 12, 2023 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207818Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Unfortunately, for many simple, and some not so simple Chasidim fear of G-d is hardly mentioned: just fear of their Rebbe
This is no longer an ideological discussion but a false accusation.
It is ingrained in all Lubavitchers (children and adults, simple and wise) that the existence of a rebbe is to serve as a inspiration and example to help us increase in yiras shamayim and connecting with Hashem.
On the contrary: We spend hours every day studying chassidus – exploring concepts of achdus Hashem, yiras shomayim, and avodas Hashem.
I would actually argue that the problem that you mention specifically applies to Litvishe yeshivos that only learn Gemara without having a set time every day to learn and think about Hashem. They are the ones who hardly mention fear of G-d, instead focusing mainly on the teachings of chachamim in Gemara.
(P.S. My point isn’t chas v’shalom to attack the Litvisher derch, nor to begin an explosive discussion on the differences between the Litvisher and Lubavitcher derech. That is way beyond the context here.
I’m just pointing out how your argument can be flipped on its head.)July 11, 2023 6:36 pm at 6:36 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207605Menachem ShmeiParticipantSince we’re discussing the definition of the term “misnaged,” I can’t hold myself back from bringing the following letter of the Rebbe Rayatz (dated 15 Teves 5705 – אגרות קודש אדמו”ר מהוריי”צ ח”ח),
where he quotes a sicha that he heard from his father – the Rebbe Rashab – in the summer of 5660.The Rebbe Rashab discusses the term misnaged as it was described by the Baal Hatanya on the first Yud Tes Kislev:
ווען מען האט דעם רבין’ן באפרייט פון פעטראפאוולאווסקער פעסטונג-תפיסה – י”ט כסלו תקנ”ט – פארנאכט . . האט מען אים בטעות אריין געפירט אין דער דירה פון [דעם צורר החסידים ראש המתנגדים] ר’ נטע נאטקין.
איינע פון די תביעות וואס דער ראש המתנגדים נאטקין האט געמאנט ביים רבין איז געווען פאר וואס חסידים האבין זיך גענומען אזא הויכן נאמען: חסידים.
האט איהם דער רבי גיענטפערט, אז ניט חסידים האבן אליין גענומען דעם נאמען חסידים, חסידים בכלל נעמען ניט אליין קיין זאך, ווייל חסידים גלויבן בהשגחה פרטית כשיטת הבעש”ט נ”ע. דעם נאמען חסידים האט די השגחה עליונה געגעבן חסידים דורך זייערע מנגדים. די מנגדים האבן דאך גידארפט א נאמען געבן חסידים מתנגדים, אבער די השגחה עליונה האט מזכה גיווען די מנגדים מיט א אור אמת אז זיי אליין האבן געגעבן חסידים זייער כשר פארדינטן נאמען חסידים, און זיך אליין האבן זיי גיגעבן דעם נאמען מתנגדים.
Loose translation (by SIE):
When the Alter Rebbe was freed from the Peter Paul Fortress before evening on Yud-Tes Kislev, 5559 (1798), he was asked where he wanted to be taken, and he named the address of a chassid called R. Mordechai of Liepli. He was duly taken to that building, but by mistake he was taken to a different apartment nearby, which was the residence of the most outspoken of the misnagdim, R. Nota Notkin.One of his complaints to the Alter Rebbe was this: Why did chassidim assume such a pretentious name – “chassidim” [which means “pietists”]?
The Alter Rebbe answered that chassidim did not assume this name themselves. On principle, he explained, chassidim do not take anything themselves, because they believe in the teaching of the Baal Shem Tov on specific Divine Providence. The name “chassidim” was given to them by Divine Providence, via their opponents, the misnagdim. Actually, the Alter Rebbe went on to say, the misnagdim should have called chassidim “misnagdim” [which means “opponents”]. However, Divine Providence bestowed upon the misnagdim a ray of truthful light, so that it was they who gave chassidim the honestly-earned title of “chassidim,” while calling themselves “misnagdim.”
July 11, 2023 9:07 am at 9:07 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207438Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>I can understand your surprise, but it’s the truth.
You write as if I’m “surprised” by this new piece of “info” that your telling me. I am not surprised because I don’t accept your claim.
There is a fundamental difference between the writings of Marcus Leiman and your claims about the Rebbe Rayatz. Marcus Leiman was officially writing fiction (maybe based on historical facts).
However, the Rebbe Rayatz wrote his stories as accurate historical facts passed down to him from sources he relied on.Obviously, as a Chabad chossid, there is no way I would accept that stories written by one of my holy rebbes are just made up, ח”ו.
Neither would any other Lubavitcher say that. It would be ridiculous for someone to claim that the Rebbe Rayatz made up stories about his holy predecessors (ח”ו) and still call himself a chossid chabad.
I find it hard to trust you that you heard this from Lubavitchers, especially since you contradict yourself:
“all those who are not Lubavichers know that they are unreliable”
“sorry but I am not saying what I heard from anyone else other than Lubavicher chassidim.”I assumed you didn’t have a rebbe because you seem oblivious to the basic level of respect that any chossid would have for a rebbe of his.
Now that I know the truth, my hope is that you respect your rebbe more than you expect others to respect their’s.Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Reading the articles is an entirely different question. There was a special gezerah on captions…
I am not learned in this sugya, but from the simple reading of the shulchan aruch and Mishna Berura (which bring the issur of captions) it seems that both are the same gezeira – משום שטרי הדיוטות
The same applies to reading ANYTHING (including lists of names etc.) aside from Torah and musar (which includes Yosifun).
July 11, 2023 7:48 am at 7:48 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207387Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>This directly refutes Menachem Shmei’s claims about how they’re never used, and how we’re just making stuff up.
I didn’t say that they’re never used, you’re twisting my words.
I was very specific in what I wrote.Neville, this is some of what I’ve written to you in the past:
“What a lie. I have never heard the term “snag” from anyone’s mouth other than immature bochurim and online posters (היינו הך?)…
The average Chabad adult who doesn’t hang out online or with bochurim doesn’t even know what a snag is!!”The fact that an online poster (who may also be an immature bochur) tried explaining this term refutes nothing of what I said.
RE the term misnaged:
This is indeed a quite common term. This is usually used to refer to those who attack chabad, but is also used sometimes to refer to regular litvishers.
In any case, as Avira wrote, it’s not meant to be used as a slur, rather as the traditional way that many non-chassidim have been referred to for generations.July 10, 2023 9:38 pm at 9:38 pm in reply to: The Five Most Likeliest Candidates to be Moshiach #2207328Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>that’s extremely offensive.
I must say that I agree with Avira here.
Although I agree with Sechel that chassidus puts much more of an added focus on the spiritual aspects of Moshiach, with many maamarim explaining the level(s) of gilui Elokus that we will experience at that time, as well as discussing the neshama of Moshiach etc. –
That doesn’t mean that the litivshers have a solely gashmiusdik view of the Geula, as if it’s something that could be done by some Netanyahu.
This assumption is degrading and offensive.As Avira pointed out, if you look in the seforim of the Chofetz Chayim and Rav Elchanan Wasserman, you will find a lot on the ideas of לתקן עולם, and how we will be able to have a close relationship to Hashem.
And obviously, Melech Moshiach is considered by all (Torah) groups in klal Yisroel to be a tremendous tzaddik and talmid chacham (as the Rambam (nigleh) writes in hilchos melachim and teshuva: הוגה בתורה ועוסק במצוות, חכם גדול הוא יתר משלמה ונביא גדול הוא קרוב למשה וילמד כל העם)
The only ones who fit Sechel’s description are some segments of the “religious zionist” community who think Moshiach is some nationalistic idea of Jews taking control of the land of israel and appointing a king over the land. These people (like David Bar-Hayim, and the like) are not accepted in normative circles (to the best of my knowledge).
July 10, 2023 7:40 pm at 7:40 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207323Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>I am not saying what I heard from anyone else other than Lubavicher chassidim.
Complete lies. Anyone who said what you said and calls himself a Chabad chossid is like an Israeli knesset member who calls himself satmar.
My מחאה remains
>>>I am a “card-carrying member” of a known chassidus, and clearly look the part.
Something tells me that although you dress chassidish, you don’t have a rebbe, but that’s just a theory.
July 10, 2023 7:39 pm at 7:39 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207324Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>This is what we all have to do, except that we have to substitute “G-d” for “Rebbe”.
מורא רבך כמורא שמים
You can ask the historians among the CR to provide many more historical facts about Yidden who had similarly great levels of reverence and bittul to their rabbis. To the best of my knowledge, this was not exclusive to Lubavitch.
Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>I would argue that Ami should be assur to read during the week too…
The Shulchan Aruch mentions that in general people shouldn’t read these thing because of wasting time, etc.
However, someone could always claim that they need it for relaxing, etc.However, on Shabbos there is an added issur which might be harder to find a heter for.
>>>Thank you for mentioning captions
I’ve often heard people say that if reading magazines on Shabbos, don’t read the picture captions.
I find this hard to understand. The Shulchan Aruch seems to be saying that even captions shouldn’t be read. What would be the difference between captions and articles?July 10, 2023 1:54 pm at 1:54 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2207147Menachem ShmeiParticipantRSo,
I’m hereby מוחה for the honor of tzaddikim.
This מחאה applies to your post and any future ones.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvira,
Neville,I guess we each understood anypotato differently.
You seem to have understood him to say, “the Rebbe is Moshiach, look, even Rabbi Schochet agrees”.
In that case, I agree. It doesn’t make any sense to say that.However, I highly doubt this was anypotato’s intention.
He could have mentioned hundreds of Chabad rabbanim who hold this. Neither do I think that he was trying to conceal the fact that the Schochet family is Chabad (a well-known fact)He was probably saying that if you think that the RCA Statement makes sense, see this rebuttal.
Again, I haven’t seen the rebuttal, but I guess anypotato wants you to see it.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhy is the issue only with reading advertisements? According to Shulchan Aruch (סי’ שז סי”ב ואילך), it is forbidden to read any unholy content on Shabbos, as a gezeira lest one read שטרות on Shabbos.
It is even prohibited to read a menu that one prepared for the meal. It is forbidden to read letters of greetings. It is forbidden to read a caption on a picture. It is forbidden to read secular books of parables or war stories.
The Shulchan Aruch clarifies that this issur is BESIDES for the general issue of bittul Torah and reading secular matters.
The Shulchan Aruch Harav (as well as Mishna Berura, etc.) writes that reading יוסיפון and the like (Jewish history) is permissible on Shabbos since it contains inspiration in Yiddishkeit.
Accordingly, it would seem permissible to read the articles with Jewish content or Jewish news, since they contain some level of inspiration.
However, the articles about national politics or historical info about wars, etc. seems to be completely forbidden on Shabbos.
This issur would seem to include most Zman articles, as well as much of Ami magazine, etc.July 10, 2023 9:15 am at 9:15 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206991Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel,
It seems like you’re trying a little too hard.
My only hope is that you at least respect your own rabbeim more than you respect others.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantNeville,
This would be reasonable:
If someone asks, “How can Open Orthodoxy claim that the avos never existed (ח”ו וח”ו)? This is pure kefirah!”
And then an “Open Orthodox” Jew responds: “There is a great article answering this. Google: Avi Weiss Avos Kefira response” (I just fabricated this discussion)You might say that you’re not interested in checking it up. But it would be ludicrous to say “you can’t bring OO “rabbis” to defend OO views, so I don’t care what the article says”.
The OO Jew’s response to this would be: The very fact that you’re afraid to see how OO explains their opinion shows that you’re not so sure.
קבל את האמת ממי שאמרו…Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>You can’t bring Chabad rabbis to defend Chabad views.
This is as ludicrous as saying that you, as a litvisher, can’t defend litvisher views! (mind boggling isn’t it?)
Furthermore, surprising as it may be, you are currently engaging in discussion with a Lubavitcher who is defending Lubavitch views!
According to your logic, we shouldn’t be having this discussion in the first place.
We should change the rules of the coffeeroom:
Lubavitchers may only defend Litvishers, and Litvishers may only defend Lubavitchers.
Liberals may only defend conservatives (you can’t bring liberals to defend liberals) and conservatives may only defend liberals.
Gadolhadorah may only defend ujm, ujm may only defend Gadolhadorah.
(Not such a bad idea actually. Would be quite interesting)P.S. I have no idea what Rabbi Schochet wrote, and honestly, it is as significant to me as the RCA Statement itself (completely insignificant).
I’m just amused by Neville’s line of reasoning.July 9, 2023 6:59 pm at 6:59 pm in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206822Menachem ShmeiParticipantJude,
I thought this was originally clear, but I will oversimplify:
When I mentioned Torah, my point was NOT to say that using the term “rebbe” has the halachic ramifications of discussing Torah. My point was that it’s not only Hashem’s name which is prohibited from mentioning in mikvah, but other holy things as well.
Therefore, when a chossid doesn’t use the term “rebbe” in mikvah (although many do), it isn’t chas v’shalom because he deifies the Rebbe. It is because he feels a special sanctity when mentioning the title of the tzaddik that he’s personally connected to, so he feels uncomfortable mentioning it in unholy places.
This isn’t some sort of new shtik in Lubavitch. See for example the notes of Frierdiker Rebbe describing the chassidim of the Tzemach Tzedek, through the eyes of one of the maskilim of the time (Mordechai Aharon Ginzberg) who tried to infiltrate Chabad (רשימות אדמו”ר הריי”צ – אדמו”ר הצ”צ ותנועת ההשכלה):
לא אירע אשר אחת הנשים – המספרות – הזכירה את שם הרבי טרם נטלה ידי’ וקנחה אותם בסינורה או באלונטית!
הדרת הכבוד והמורא מהרבי מושרש אצלם בעומק נפשם ועל כל צעד וצעד יזכירו את הרבי וכל הגה הנאמר בשמו של הרבי, בלי
הבדל אם נוגע בנפש או בממון, קדוש הוא להם ומקיימים במסירת נפש.Loose translation:
“The women never mention the name of the Rebbe before washing and scrubbing their hands.
The fear of the Rebbe is rooted deeply in the chassidim, and they mention the Rebbe regarding every step they take. Anything said in the Rebbe’s name, whether regarding their spiritual life or monetary matters, is holy to them and they fulfill it with mesirus nefesh.”If you want to accuse Chabad of AZ (ח”ו וח”ו) for giving too much respect to his name – you’ll have to go all the way up to the Tzemach Tzedek.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantInteresting experiment:
I wonder what would happen if someone would post a controversial taanah on four Moshiach threads at once.
Would the rebutters respond the same response on all the threads as well?And would the rest of the conversation continue with four copies until someone breaks the chain?
Hmm…
July 9, 2023 10:39 am at 10:39 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206646Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>It’s not normal for yeshiva bochrim to use slurs about other types of yidden. That’s not “kid’s being kid’s.” That’s a serious problem that your community needs to address. Also, if no adults ever use it, then where do the kids learn it? They re-invent the word every generation?
I agree with most of what you wrote (that even bochurim should be talking respectfully etc.) but not with this: “That’s a serious problem that your community needs to address.”
This is not a problem specific to our community. I refer you to the parentheses in my earlier post, which I’d rather not go into.
אין להאריך בדבר המבהיל והמצערJuly 9, 2023 10:38 am at 10:38 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206643Menachem ShmeiParticipantCorrection: not all letter and sichos (sometimes it is ה’תש”י) but it is quite common
July 9, 2023 10:38 am at 10:38 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206642Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Only G-d’s name may not be uttered in the bathhouse.
And any words of Torah. You can’t mention a simple halacha in mikva even without mentioning Hashem’s name due to the holiness of Torah.
Likewise, some people may feel uncomfortable mentioning “rebbe” (title for a holy man) in the mikva. Most Lubavitchers do mention him there, some don’t. This has nothing to do with deifying ch”v.It’s crazy to see the lengths that people will go to imply the completely fabricated deification ch”v.
I once heard a “shiur” from David Bar-Hayim on the “issues” with Chabad. When he quotes a sicha, he points out that the date is printed as אחש”פ השי”ת – which he claims is implying that chassidim are calling the Rebbe השי”ת.
This ignorance would be amusing if it wouldn’t be accusing a group of Yidden of Avodah Zorah ch”v. In all letters and seforim of the Rebbe and his father in law, the year 5710 is referred to as השי”ת (swapping around the letters ה’תש”י). Just as the Rebbe refers to 5744 as תשד”מ and 5751 as תנש”א etc.
July 7, 2023 8:52 am at 8:52 am in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2206302Menachem ShmeiParticipant“If you loved misnagdim you wouldn’t call them snags”
Regarding your obsession with this “snag” illusion, I feel the need to emphasize once again:
The term snag is rarely heard in Chabad. It is used mainly by immature bochurim in yeshiva, and I’ve never heard the word said by an adult.
Most adults who don’t hang out with young bochurim or online don’t even know the term.(Talking about immature bochurim, I will refrain from getting into the filthy curses heard from the mouths of countless Yiddishe bochurim and children (as young as 9-10 years old! – chassidish and litvish alike) toward Lubavitchers during joint summer camp trips and the like.
בדידי הוה עובדא, וכו”כ פעמים. ואין להאריך בדבר המבהיל)Non-chassidim are usually referred to as “litvishers” or “olamishers”.
If addressing a non-Lubavitcher who attacks Chabad, they are usually referred to as “misnaged”.I don’t know why you are so obsessed with this fabrication that Lubavitchers call them snags.
As I’ve said before, this is a machlokes b’metzius. I think that as a Lubavitcher I would know the metzius better.Menachem ShmeiParticipantAAQ,
This is from the Frierdiker Rebbe’s personal diary describing the arrest by the G.P.U. in Sivan 5687-1927 (רשימת המאסר):
ראשונה הלכו לחדר בנותי מ’ חי’ מוסיא ושיינא יחיו, לבקר בשם וידרשו מאתם לאמר להם: מאיזה פּאַרטיע המה, ויענו כי הם בהפּאַרטיע של אביהם, בנות ישראל בעזפּאַרטיינע [בלתי מפלגתית], מחבבי ארחות ישראל סבא, ממאסים בשאיפות החדשות. מפני מה? — נשמע קול נחמנסאָהן בשאלת תמהון — מפני מה — ענתה בתי שיינא תחי’ — מפני מה אינני מחויבת להשיב לכם, אתם שואלים איך היא השקפתי, ועל זה עניתי לכם ועל שאלת מפני מה אינני מחויבת לענות או לתת טעמים על
השקפתי, כי הלא לא לשם דיסקוסיא באתם לבקר את כתביי ואגרותיי.They first went to search the room of my daughters Chaya Moussia and Shaina and asked them: “Which party do you belong to?”
They answered that they were “members of our father’s party, apolitical Jewish women who hold dear Jewish traditions and despise the new trends.”Menachem ShmeiParticipantAvira,
Great points about Sheva mitzvos and לתקן עולם
Allow me to add the halacha ruled by the Rambam in hilchos melachim:
וְכֵן צִוָּה משֶׁה רַבֵּנוּ מִפִּי הַגְּבוּרָה לָכֹף אֶת כָּל בָּאֵי הָעוֹלָם לְקַבֵּל מִצְוֹת שֶׁנִּצְטַוּוּ בְּנֵי נֹחַTo answer er,
The reason this wasn’t practiced throughout the generations was because for most of history Yidden weren’t exactly on talking terms with goyim…Menachem ShmeiParticipantI think jackk said it perfectly!
The democrat and republican parties were both not founded according to Torah (shebiksav, and certainly not shebaal peh) so they cannot be the perfect Jewish view.
On the other hand, there are obviously various aspects of both parties that align with Torah (this can even be said of communism, totalitarianism, etc.), and its possible that at times one party will align more than the other.
When the previous Lubavitcher Rebbe was being arrested in the USSR in 1937, the KGB asked his daughters which political party they affiliate themselves.
They didn’t say democracy or capitalism. They said they belong to their father’s party, which is the party of Hashem and the Torah.
If only all frum people would speak this way today.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantCommon,
Please, this is completely out of context.
Why would you bring up a random post from the height of the covid debate in 2021 here in this thread?
(It didn’t even have to do with the vaccine. Chanie315 actually agreed with the vaccine. They were arguing about the severity of the virus).This is just asking for an argument. And in a sinas chinam thread.
Come on.Menachem ShmeiParticipantCommon,
I didn’t take the shot, but why bring up old fights in this thread?
Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>There is NO INDICATION WHATSOEVER regarding a Rav , Rebbe or R’Ys Shitah re Chabad , when it comes to their theology because of 2 reasons…
I assume that you are referring to the Rav Hutner discussion, which you are taking completely out of context.
I was not trying to say that Rav Hutner holds of Lubavitch. Frankly, it makes as much of a difference to me as it would make a difference to you if the Lubavitcher Rebbe holds of Rav Hutner.The correspondents of Rav Hutner was brought in response to avira’s post:
“And i was waiting for someone to mention putting on tefillin once as an example of returning jews to Torah. It isn’t. Because, as rav hutner explained, the rishonim are clear that in order for a mitzva to count, even according to the opinion that mitzvos don’t require kavanah, one must believe in their existence and be aware of their existence, otherwise it’s a maysoh kof b’alma….”It’s absurd to claim that Rav Hutner was against mivtzah tefillin without knowing the lengthy correspondence where he asks the Rebbe all of his questions. He also writes that he made sure not to go public with his opinion, etc. It’s also interesting to note the sensitivity he uses in his argument.
To ignore these letters and just claim (or imply) that Rav Hutner was against mivtzah tefllin is burying your head in the sand.July 4, 2023 2:36 pm at 2:36 pm in reply to: Does ‘giving land to Arabs’ not make things worse? #2205554Menachem ShmeiParticipant>>>Does ‘giving land to Arabs’ not make things worse?
It does.
It’s a clear ruling in Shulchan Aruch OC siman 329:
עכו”ם שצרו על עיירות ישראל אם באו על עסק ממון אין מחללין עליהם את השבת באו על עסק נפשות ואפי’ סתם יוצאים עליהם בכלי זיין ומחללים עליהם את השבת ובעיר הסמוכה לספר אפילו לא באו אלא על עסקי תבן וקש מחללין עליהם את השבת: הגה ואפילו לא באו עדיין אלא רוצים לבא
Regarding non-Jews who besiege Jewish cities: if they come for money, we do not desecrate the Shabbat [to protect ourselves], but if they came to kill or come with no presented reason, we go out with weapons and desecrate the Shabbat. In a city that is near the border, EVEN IF THEY JUST COME FOR STRAW OR HAY, we desecrate the Shabbat. Rem”a: Even if they haven’t come but they want to come.
Mishna Berurah:
(יד) לספר וכו’ – עיר שמבדלת בין גבול שישראל דרים בה לגבול העו”ג וחיישינן שאם ילכדוה משם תהא הארץ נוחה ליכבש לפניהם:Menachem ShmeiParticipant@yungermanS,
Thanks for the inspiration. Hopefully we’ll indeed succeed in uniting despite our opposing views, and bring Moshiach.
@amiricanyeshivish,
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