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  • in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217957
    Menachem Shmei
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    when they pray they have in mind hashem the way hes מלובש in mm”s

    Should I point out again that this is not true? That I don’t know a single Lubavitcher like this?

    You may be confusing with going to the ohel and asking the Rebbe to intercede on our behalf from Hashem, which is allowed/encouraged by poskim as I’ve mentioned in previous posts.

    But when a Lubavitcher davens shmone esrei, they don’t have in mind the Rebbe.
    No matter how many times this lie is repeated, it will not change the metzius.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217955
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I’ve downloaded the lecture and plan on listening to it.

    Great! Let us know your thoughts. I haven’t listened to it in a while, so I’ll need to relisten.
    Again, if I remember correctly, he doesn’t specifically mention the vort of the Rebbe. He gives a comprehensive overview on the matter as it is brought throughout Torah.

    does Chabad chasidus consider “atzmus umahus” to literally mean “essence and being/makeup (of G-d)”

    To the best of my knowledge, yes. Something along those lines.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217940
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    To Menachem Shmei’s credit, he’s able to understand… Unfortunately the black hatters are so dogmatic

    I hope you don’t mind, but I’m gonna share a little secret:
    Technically, I’m a black hatter too!

    in reply to: Jewish books on the paranormal/mysterious/ufos/conspiracy theories #2217806
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    why isn’t English a holy language?

    I think the difference between English and Aramaic, Yiddish, Ladino, etc. is that English is not unique to Jews at all. Even the “yinglish” that many frum Yidden speak is almost the same as regular English, with some minute differences.

    Whereas the other Jewish languages that were spoken by Jews who were secluded from the goyim are only vaguely similar to their root languages.
    Someone who speaks Yiddish will have a hard time understanding German, and vice-versa.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217751
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Qwery,

    Something about you that I actually admire is that you seem to have a uniquely close and personal connection to your rabbanim, with a very open relationship where you take guidance for many aspects of your life.

    Not everyone is so lucky.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217753
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The Rabbi asked me a question and I told him that I know the answer but I can’t explain it He told me if you can’t explain it you don’t know it.

    עס ווענט זיך וואו מ’רעדט

    Many (most?) sugyos in Torah demand lots of background and discussion in order to understand properly. The CR is not very conducive to this.

    I would gladly give you a two hour shiur on the subject, but the anonymity of the forum prevents this.

    Therefore, if you actually care to understand, I suggest you listen to the informative and clear English shiur by Rabbi Jacobson that I mentioned earlier.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217607
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    EggMob,

    Whenever I discussed this statement, all I did was bring sources from previous gedolim with similar statements. My goal was to show that it’s ridiculous when people shut off to Chabad because of “AZ” but they are ready to blindly accept the same ideas when quoted from anyone else.

    I never attempted to explain the actual meaning of this, since it is a lengthy topic, as n0mesorah mentioned.

    I suggest checking out the shiur of Rabbi YY Jacobson that I mentioned in post #2216858.

    It is a long shiur, as is befitting such a topic. If you are indeed interested in understanding this, I would suggest you take the time to watch the entire thing.

    in reply to: I’ve learned something #2217463
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    What is the standard for “normal” these days? Given some of the other craziness going on in the frum velt, the Chabadniks… seem quite normal. I’d be more concerned about some of the fringe elements of other chassidus and the Litvishshe tzibur…

    Listen, every community has its crazies. That’s how Hashem created the world.

    Even here in the CR, there are many posters whom I may disagree with on many issues, yet I consider them very normal and bright.
    There are some other posters (I have one recent poster particularly in mind) whom I consider completely nuts (at least they provide comic relief).

    Reb Mendel Futerfas would tell a story:

    In the town of Lubavitch, there was a “meshugener fun shtot”.

    He always tried to approach the Rebbe Maharash, but the gabbaim stopped him. Once, he saw the Rebbe passing in his carriage, so he jumped in.

    After conversing with the Rebbe, he jumped out, and was met by a group of chassidim who inquired what they spoke about.

    He said: “My colleague, the meshugener of Vitebsk, invited me to join him. Since Vitebsk is a large city, there’s enough “business” for both of us.
    First, of course, I had to consult with the Rebbe. The Rebbe said that I should stay since Lubavitch needs its own meshugener.”

    When asked what made him ask the Rebbe for advice, the meshugener responded:
    משוגע משוגע, אבער שכל דארף מען האבן

    in reply to: To add to the list of YU’s sins #2217414
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    In addition to the issue of teaching goyim Torah, there seems to be a greater underlying threat here.

    Here’s some more from the article:
    “The new program is a joint initiative of YU and the Philos Project, an organization that says it “seeks to promote positive Christian engagement in the Near East.” Philos is a partner of Passages — a Birthright-style program that brings young Christians on group tours of Israel…
    The launch of the Christian students’ program is a sign of a growing bond between Orthodox Jews and religious Christians, who have increasingly found common cause on everything from conservative domestic politics to support for Israel.”

    This is part of the general evangelical pro-Jewish/Israel craze that is happening. This is probably the greatest current threat to the Jewish people.

    Jews haven’t died throughout history solely because they were born Jews. They died because they refused to accept Christianity, because we consider the death of our soul worse than the death of the body.

    The evangelicals, with all their “Israel support” etc. have a sinister mission to grab more Jews than ever before, which is worse, in a way, than the mass murders of previous generations.

    I personally know Jewish families who have pulled their children out of Hebrew School and placed them into church school, r”l, due to the influence of Jews for Jesus ym”sh.

    We have so many taka takanos in place to distance us from the goyim, even limiting the bread we eat.

    In an institution that calls itself a yeshiva, how can they make a program that encourages “interfaith dialogue” – a clear violation of לא תתורו אחרי לבבכם ואחרי עיניכם!?

    Hopefully, this terrible threat will be stopped in its tracks.

    P.S. I have nothing against YU, as I know very little about it. I am reacting solely to the information given in this article.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217213
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    If you wish to be successful in raising the level of your learning, you need to limit your time in the coffee room.

    How dare you insinuate that qwerty doesn’t spend time learning!?

    He learns gemara for SEVEN HOURS a day.
    Runs a medical practice for several hours.
    Watches TV for an hour.
    Asks his rabbanim shaalos about what was discussed in the CR.

    Obviously, he only spends about 20 minutes in the coffeeroom.
    How then does he do so much writing?
    Well, thanks to his superior writing abilities and logic, it’s not much of a surprise. What you, the groceryman, can to in an hour, takes qwerty 5 minutes. Checkmate

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217148
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Lostspark, I demand that you apologize to all doctors for insulting the medical profession, and until you do so, you better not post anything here, or else you will not be zoche to join the geula, since all the doctors will chase you away from the MO moshiach. Checkmate.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217126
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    When I joined this discussion you made a distinction…

    Qwerty, were you saving that all the while for when you’re asked a straightforward question that you have nothing to answer?

    Anyway, these are the posts where I explained the difference:
    #2210713 & #2211434

    Now, please point out to me a single post number where I called the Rebbe god (other than quoting the sicha in Likkutei Sichos vol. 2).

    If you fail to do so, I don’t care what excuses you have – it clearly shows that you can’t actually prove that “Shmei has consistently stated, in no uncertain terms…”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217114
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Shmei has consistently stated, in no uncertain terms, that the Rebbe is god. I can agree with you that the Rebbe didn’t mean this

    Please point out where I said anything like this, other than quoting the Likkutei Sichos volume 2 and previous gedolim?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217091
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I accept every expression of legitimate Torah Judaism. Chabad, of course, is excluded because, as Menachem Shmei has told us, they believe the Rebbe is god.

    qwerty,

    You still haven’t explained why you consider the Minchas Elozor, Noam Elimelech, Rabbeinu Bachya, Yerushalmi and Zohar legitimate Judaism after everything I quoted from them in post #2213451…

    (I think I asked this about 5-6 times)

    Is this where I’m supposed to write “checkmate”?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217089
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I have a question for Menachem, n0m, sechel and all the other Lubavichers on this thread…
    the official Lubavich line was that every generation must have someone who is fit to be Mashiach. So my question is, who is it in our generation?

    This isn’t a just a Lubavitch line (although we are indeed very into it). It’s a Bartenura, Chasam Sofer, S’dei Chemed, and others.

    Who it is? As I’ve posted quite a number of times, I feel uncomfortable answering this question in the CR, since it is a sensitive idea that needs a lot of background and is a lot easier to discuss in person.
    So, sorry, I’ll have to decline.

    P.S. I highly doubt that n0mesora is a Lubavitcher.
    Unless this is a game of chess with two teams, in which he might be pushed onto the Chabad team.
    But then I would possibly end up on the non-Chabad team, since I agreed with Coffee Addict somewhere above.
    Wow, the chess metaphor makes everything so confusing!

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2217059
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Yserbius, which of my statements are you responding to?

    in reply to: questions about the yeshivish world #2216972
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I must admit, I side with ARSo on this one

    in reply to: BREAKING NEWS: TRUMP IS A JEW!!! #2216969
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Someone better check up if they were thinking of selling their chometz to him next Pesach!

    lol!
    This one really made my day! 😄

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216966
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Had the Rebbe issued clearcut statements this mess would have been avoided, but he chose not to do so.

    It was clear enough for those it was intended for. The haters will always hate.
    What do you have to say for all the other gedolim I mentioned whose words could be easily misinterpreted by their opponents?

    I hope Moshiach turns out to be MO because a bigot like you won’t accept him and you’ll miss out on all the enjoyment of Geulah.

    Oy, Hashem yerachem. Please, take a deep breath and drink a glass of water before responding to people.
    Despite all of your great superiorities that you often write about (logic, truth, writing ability, etc. etc.), maybe even you sometimes go too far?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216940
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Qwerty: Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery

    No always is it flattery. Sometimes, the best way to attack someone is with his own strategies…

    מיניה וביה אבא ניזיל ביה נרגא

    אם לרמאות הוא בא, גם אני אחיו ברמאות, ואם אדם כשר הוא, גם אני בן רבקה אחותו הכשרה

    כל מדותיו של הקב”ה מדה כנגד מדה

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216941
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Don’t be surprised by any tactic that Rabbi Shmei uses. He has to defend his god and his false religion.

    Easy way to win any argument that you can’t answer. Turn your opponents into the devil.

    Sorry qwerty, I don’t think ARSo will fall for this.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2216949
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    In mishnah Torah the rambam clearly understands chukim as laws without a revealed reason

    Something similar that I wrote recently in another thread:

    “Interesting example of the different styles: In the Moreh the Rambam explains that shiluach hakan is because of tzar baalei chayim.
    In Mishneh Torah (Tefilla) he writes that this reasoning is ridiculous, as it is obviously a gzeiras hakosuv that can’t be understood.”

    Another example from Mishneh Torah (end of Sefer Tahara):
    דבר ברור וגלוי שהטמאות והטהרות גזרות הכתוב הן. ואינן מדברים שדעתו של אדם מכרעתו. והרי הן מכלל החקים. וכן הטבילה מן הטמאות מכלל החקים הוא שאין הטמאה טיט או צואה שתעבר במים אלא גזרת הכתוב היא והדבר תלוי בכונת הלב. ולפיכך אמרו חכמים טבל ולא החזק כאלו לא טבל. ואף על פי כן רמז יש בדבר

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216934
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I’m surprised that you would accuse me of lying. I didn’t think that was your style.

    My point wasn’t to accuse you of lying. I was laying out the only possible options, because that fact that you stated simply isn’t true.

    Again, I don’t want the other readers to think that there is some sort of argument if Chabad retracted it or not.

    All 13 editions of Likkutei Sichos, from 1962 till the newest one (which was completely retyped), including the blue seforim printed by Kehos (I have it right in front of me) – contain this statement word for word.

    I don’t care who fabricated this story (I’m not accusing you, it could have been a misunderstanding on your part).
    I care to set the facts straight.

    This is a stupid thing to argue about since it’s a מילתא דעבידא לאיגלויי.
    If someone doubts me, go to the nearest Lubavitcher, every Lubavitcher has a chelek beis Likkutei Sichos from any given year (usually later editions) in their house.
    Open it up to page 511, and see the second paragraph for yourself.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216925
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    He spoke esoterically and people could interpret his words one way or the other.

    He spoke in a way that his haters can misinterpret 39 years later when attacking him because he upset their campaigning in Israeli politics (1989).

    Find me any gadol in history whose teachings can’t be misinterpreted to sound like kefira by those who try to do so.
    I already brought the Minchas Elozor, Rabbeinu Bachya, Tanya, Noam Elimelech, Gemara, Zohar.
    How about the Rambam whose haters claimed that he denied techiyas hameisim ch”v?
    How about the Baal Shem Tov?
    כל הרוצה לטעות יבוא ויטעה

    He knew that some of his followers were praying to him

    Maybe if you repeat this lie another 10 times you’ll convince us Lubavitchers that it’s true, that we actually daven to the Rebbe.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216863
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    So now we have a Machlokes of Chabad Poskim

    I thought that the first time I answered you (in post #2216786) was fairly clear and simple.

    I will try to explain one more time. If you still insist in not understanding, so be it. כל הרוצה לטעות יבוא ויטעה

    Since Sechel seems to be a Lubavitcher, I doubt he denies this fact:
    דאס איז עצמות ומהות אליין ווי ער האט זיך אריינגעשטעלט אין א גוף
    since this is printed clearly in a sicha (as Sechel himself mentioned many times, and gave us the source in Likkutei Sichos).

    What he (as well as I) does deny is your interpretation that “every Lubavicher refers to the Rebbe as god because the Rebbe called himself god.” (ch”v)

    If you want to truly know what this statement means, you will look at the Yerushalmi and Zohar that the Rebbe quotes there, and you will look at all the statements that I quoted in post #2213451, and you will look at the shiur from Rabbi YY Jacobson that I just wrote in a different post.

    One more time: Neither I nor Sechel are denying the truth of the aforementioned statement (דאס איז…), we are denying your interpretation and accusation.

    I don’t think I can get any clearer than this, so it’s my last try.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216861
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    he problem is that a fair number of Lubavitchers understood it the wrong way.

    B”H Lubavitchers didn’t understand it wrong. Usually, the first time a Lubavitcher learns of these warped interpretations is when meeting someone who attacks him for “his views” that he never had.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216858
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    maybe you can explain how that דעה נפסדה fits with the י״ג עיקרים

    Just as you can explain that all of the quotes I brought earlier in post #2213451 fit with the ikrim.

    (I tried linking it before, but it kept linking the entire thread)

    P.S. For anyone actually interested in the topic and is wondering, “Indeed, what did the Rebbe, Minchas Elozor, Noam Elimelech, Rabbeinu Bachya, Tanya, Yerushalmi and Zohar mean when they wrote all of these surprising statements?” –
    I suggest you watch an incredible shiur from Rabbi YY Jacobson on the topic: http://www.theyeshiva dot net/8291
    (Although he discusses the general topic with many quotes from gedolim throughout the generations, he indeed doesn’t explicitly quote the Rebbe’s statement. I guess so as not to turn off his litvisher audience)

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216795
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    CORRECTION:

    In the previous post where I posted, a link, this is the proper link:

    Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216786
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    So now you’re backing off from your previous statement that the Rebbe himself stated that he’s god clothed in human form… Instead you’re saying that no Lubavicher holds like this…. Rabbi Dr. Berger named 8 senior Rabbis from the vaunted Oholei Torah who claimed that the Rebbe was god clothed in human form. Had he been lying he would have been sued for millions.

    This is ridiculous. Sechel never denied about G-d enclothed in a body.
    Why would you prove from “eight senior rabbis” when Sechel himself just quoted it from the most senior Chabad rabbi of all – the Lubavitcher Rebbe!?

    He denied your understanding of that statement, which is perfectly fine.

    Rav Hershel Schachter, [stated] that many Lubavichers daven to the Rebbe instead of to Hashem and this is Avoda Zarah.

    Does he mean that they go to the ohel and ask the Rebbe to intercede on their behalf to Hashem?
    This is true.
    Many major poskim allow/encourage this, and it has been accepted in klal yisroel for millennia, as I’ve proven once in an earlier post.
    (Incidentally, on the topic of the “Dovid Lichtenstein radio program” – it should be noted that he ran a program on this topic a few weeks ago.)

    Does he mean that when Lubavitchers daven shmoneh esrei, they think, “Rebbe, give us rain” instead of Hashem (ch”v)?
    This is a lie, and a libel against hundreds of thousands of kosher Jews.
    Whoever told Rav Schachter this slander will have to face judgment for fooling a gadol b’yisroel and using him to spread motzi shem ra on fellow Jews.
    With all due respect, how many Lubavitchers has Rav Schachter even seen davening? Let alone discussed it with, so he came to such a conclusion!? I have seen and discussed davening with thousands of fellow Lubavitchers, and I can assure that these claims are completely false.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216778
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Part of what they published – and I have copies, and have checked both sources. – the atzmus melubash beguf sicha, and the same sicha printed in a later volume, with the offensive passage redacted.
    If there’s nothing wrong with it, why was it redacted and never reprinted in its original form?

    You’ve mentioned this before, and it really annoys me, because if it were true it would mean that Chabad already admitted that it was wrong, which renders the whole discussion pointless.

    I have the 1962, 1985 and 2021 versions of Likkutei Sichos in front of me right now, and all of them have it written exactly the same.
    I’m either misunderstanding something, or your lying, or you heard it from someone who was lying, or saw a forged version.
    Please explain yourself.

    P.S.
    I’m not going to get into this whole discussion of why this isn’t avoda zorah chas v’shalom. Just as someone who holds of the Minchas Elozor, Noam Elimelech, Zohar and Gemara will attempt to understand and interpret their statements properly, while the haters can misunderstand and hate – the same is with the Rebbe.
    I have demonstrated this clearly in this post:

    Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher

    Qwerty,
    I’m still waiting for someone to explain why it’s permissible to defend and interpret these statements, despite them sounding like AZ if taken at face value, as opposed to the Rebbe’s statements may not be interpreted.

    in reply to: Whats Rishus cold seltzer? #2216151
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The first time I heard of it was in a viral video of a guy expressing his incredible pleasure of sitting with a Rabbeinu Dovid and rishus cold seltzer in a plastic cup, and “checking out of life”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216004
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>A complete 360 means you end up facing the same direction that you faced when you started!

    You’re right! Should have said 180.
    Though I’m sure that soon it’ll come fully back around 😄

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215960
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The only response was from a Rabbi Aron Moss who is a Chabad Rabbi

    The article you read was from Chabad.org, which is explaining the problem with television to non-frum people, so it is very watered down.
    Actually, I have long despised that article, since it describes the problem with TV as more of a cultural issue than a religious one.

    There are many places online where you can find more authoritative content on this.

    Once we’re on the topic of Lubavitch, I would suggest you look up a very sharp and comprehensive talk of the Rebbe where he describes many of the issues with TV.

    You can find a translated version by googling:
    television: the ruination of a generation – rebbe

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215915
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Rav Aharon Kotler ZTV’L, in Mishnas Rabi Aharon (Vol. 3, Hesped on the Brisker Rav) states that the essence of Modern Orthodoxy is the same as the Reform and Conservative.

    I guess this is a point where he and the Rebbe agree.

    Here’s an excerpt from a 5717 letter of the Rebbe:

    “This is also the case with regard to the person to whom you refer in your letter, who obviously does not belong at all in the Conservative movement, nor in the so-called “New” brand of Conservatism, which goes under the name of “Modern Orthodoxy.””

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215901
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    midwesterner,

    Your post sounds like the reaction of a Lubavitcher when someone complains that CH isn’t tzniyusdik. Lol

    P.S. I know nothing about Lakewood, as I wrote in this post: https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/question-of-an-ignorant-closed-minded-lubavitcher#post-2203613
    Just the comparison struck me as funny
    If a Lubavitcher would have wrote this, we wouldn’t hear the end of the problems with “Chabad supremacy” 😄

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215889
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I he was anointed King of the world it would not be a secret known only to a group that professes to have mastered the esoteric.

    No Lubavitcher holds that the geula can happen with a select few recognizing melech hamoshiach.
    Therefore, all Lubavitchers (even those who say yechi) still say “we want Moshiach now” and “ad mosai” (“how much longer is golus?”).

    So what do they mean when they say the Rebbe is Moshiach? I have never had the patience to explain this on the CR, and still don’t.

    As for the belief in Chabad circles that Judaism is not rational because it’s Kabbalah based, well this defies Rambam’s essential premise. If you guys are rejecting Rambam no problem, but then stop learning his works if you deny them.

    I have no idea what Chabad belief you’re referring to, but I’ll offer several points on the topic:

    1. Chabad, like all Jews, believes that Torah is devided into משפטים עדות וחוקים – aspects of Torah that are rational (don’t steal); aspects that are only rational after they were taught (Shabbos); aspects that are beyond our understanding, we obey them and fulfill them because Hashem commanded (kashrus).

    2. Chassidus places strong emphasis (I’m sure others also) that even the rational mitzvos should be done with an aspect of chukim – even though we understand, we are mainly doing it because Hashem said.

    3. Chassidus (based on kabbala) actually rationalizes many mitzvos which would otherwise seem irrational.

    4. I’m not sure which essential premise of the Rambam you refer to. If this is the premise of Moreh Nevuchim, it definitely isn’t the premise of Mishneh Torah (which is what we learn daily).

    Interesting example of the different styles: In the Moreh the Rambam explains that shiluach hakan is because of tzar baalei chayim.
    In Mishneh Torah (Tefilla) he writes that this reasoning is ridiculous, as it is obviously a gzeiras hakosuv that can’t be understood.

    5. Even if we did argue with the Rambam, this goes back to my point the entire time: Torah isn’t a color war game where everyone supports their team.
    It is possible to love the Rambam and learn his Torah, while seeing some elements of Torah differently from him.
    כך היא דרכה של תורה

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215851
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    On the topic of Modern Orthodoxy, here is an excerpt from an English letter of the Lubavitcher Rebbe from Adar 5738 to a woman who was becoming frum.

    (Disclaimer: Obviously, the exact definition of Modern Orthodoxy is blurry, so I doubt that everything written here applies to every person who calls themself MO)

    “P.S. Your using the term “modern orthodoxy” prompts me to make the following observation.

    Although this term is frequently used, if you reflect on it you will realize the inner contradiction in terms. For, orthodoxy refers to a full commitment to a life regulated by the Torah, Toras Emes, and its Mitsvoth, by which Jews live, whereas “modern” implies a compromise and adjustment supposedly in keeping with “modern” ideas. But where truth is concerned, there can be no compromise or accommodation, for even 99% of truth is not the whole truth, and therefore not truth at all.

    Needless to say, 99% is better than 98%, but one must not delude oneself in believing that it is the whole truth. Indeed, the Rambam rules that if a Jew accepts the whole Torah except one letter, he is deemed as if he denied the whole Torah. And one of the explanations of it is that truth and compromise are contradictory.

    The above does not mean that unless a Jew observes all the 613 Mitzvoth, he is not an observant Jew. Indeed, the Torah declares, “A Jew, though he has sinned, remains a Jew.” It states further that no sinner is rejected, and eventually everyone who had strayed will return to the fold. What is emphasized above is that any thought that the Torah is in any way “outdated” and needs to be “modernized” that is heresy and a denial of the Divine origin and eternal nature of the Torah and Mitzvoth. There is surely no need to elaborate to you further on the above.”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215764
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Dear qwerty,

    Last week I said that few in this thread can match my logical ability or my love of truth… you quoted me as saying, “Few can match my logic and love of truth.” intentionally taking out, “in this thread.”

    I apologize if I made it sound like you claimed to be smarter than the entire world, this was unintentional.

    The reason why I took out the words “in this thread” is because it would have made the quote very awkward
    This is what you said originally:

    “I readily admit that most of the people in the thread have more Torah knowledge than I, but few can match my logic and love of truth.”

    You see what I mean?

    I’ve been reading here for a few years, and posting for over a year, and I am constantly impressed by the strong logic and truth seeking of most posters (including those who disagree with me, obviously).

    I sensed some arrogance (and disrespect) in the fact that you joined this discussion about 2 weeks ago, yet you’re already certain that you surpass most of us in logic and truth.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215769
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    when I admitted to the posters that I’m ignorant with regard to learning having started relatively late in life. You twisted what I said to read, “You admit you’re ignorant about Lubavitch”

    Let’s do the whole “you said, I said” thing to clear this up:

    In connection to the nevuah question, you said:
    “The answer is simple because there was never any question of the Rebbe being a Novi while he was alive. This is nothing but an invention of his followers. What I believe the Rebbe did say, because I heard this from a Lubavicher, is…”

    I pointed out how silly it is to argue with me about what the Rebbe did or didn’t say, when it’s printed clearly (and shared link).

    [Happens to be a sicha from this week. Ask any slightly knowledgeable Lubavitcher what the Rebbe said on parshas Shoftim 5751, and he’ll tell you (if he’s not afraid of being open with you) that the rabbeim are nevi’im etc.]

    You excused yourself by saying that you don’t have any time to actually study the Rebbe’s writings.

    I countered that being ignorant about Chabad isn’t an excuse to attack it. Better use the little time you have learning the topic, not arguing the topic.

    Sorry if I came across as trying to twist the truth.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215698
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Yes, Rabbi Miller and others of his type could give straight Mussar but that’s because their followers hung on their every word.

    You’re taking this conversation in circles.

    You attacked Rabbi Miller and the Rebbe for being cult leaders (ח”ו) because they instructed their communities how to behave, and a rov is “only meant to serve as a role model.”

    Now you admit that a proper rov is one whose talmidim hang onto his every word and follow his instructions. You only excused your rov (rightfully) that in your community it is unfortunately not possible.

    This is a complete 360.

    Also, I love how you keep telling UJM “You Lubavitchers”
    Because in your mind, if someone ever supports something a Lubavitcher says, he is automatically on the Lubavitch “team” or a “traitor”. You can’t fathom that UJM is far from being a Lubavitcher. Lol

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215617
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Paraphrasing qwerty’s last post (tell me if I got this right):

    Dear Avira,
    Menachem pointed out the irony how I admit to being ignorant about Lubavitch, after all, being such a busy man, I have no time to learn about it. Yet, at the same time, I have all the time in the world to attack that which I don’t know about. Why don’t I spend my little time learning instead of attacking?

    Being that I had no good answer to this, I retaliated by pointing out that he missed the title “rabbi” in his post.

    Of course, being a Lubavitcher, Menachem wouldn’t admit that he was wrong, and (despite adding rabbi in his next post) he insisted that it made no difference to him if he used the term rabbi or not, even though Kahane was killed al kiddush Hashem.

    And then, dear Avira, instead of defending our anti-Lubavitch team, you did the unthinkable: You defected to the Lubavitch team!
    Now, it’s okay to be against (Rabbi) Meir Kahane, but not if that adds points to the Lubavitch team!

    Avira, as a fellow anti-Lubavitcher, I must say, I’m disappointed in you…
    You should stand with your team through thick and thin, whether you agree with that specific view or not.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215440
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Either way it’s not a good look and the Lubavichers will say that you’re just a hater who decided to also pick on them.

    This post would be hilarious if you were kidding, but based on your history, I fear that you’re serious.

    As a Lubavitcher, I don’t mind if someone has problems with more than one group in Judaism.

    On the contrary, if someone says to overlook the problems of all other sects because focusing on them will detract from their hate on Lubavitch – that is someone who is just a hater. Ahem ahem.
    (I know, now you’ll demand an apology for implying that you’re just a hater…)

    Whereas if someone is ready to point out any issues he finds in any group, whether it’s Chabad, Kahane, or anything else – that means he actually cares about the truth.

    I would expect better from you qwerty (okay, not actually) – someone who claims that “few can match my… love for truth.”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215264
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    ARSo,

    >>>I heard not that long ago that there is actually no reliable source that a Yid who was killed because he is Jewish goes straight to Gan Eden. I would like to a source either way.

    I haven’t seen anything on this, but maybe this Gemara could be considered a source, or remez?
    הרוגי מלכות אין אדם יכול לעמוד במחיצתן.
    This is talking davka about those who aren’t tzaddikim (because tzaddikim go anyway), as is understood from the continuation there (Pesachim 50a)

    >>>Menachem, I have to give it to you…

    I’m embarrassed to say this, but this compliment actually felt quite good, even coming from you 😏

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215259
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>I’ll share with you what my Rov said, “Chabadism and Millerism are both cults.” What he means is that the Rebbe’s and Rabbi Miller’s followers are both convinced that their mentors were never wrong.

    What does your rov have to say about this “cult”:
    לא תסור מן־הדבר אשר־יגידו לך ימין ושמאל
    אפלו אומר לך על ימין שהוא שמאל ועל שמאל שהוא ימין

    Are you ready to say that Moshe Rabbeinu was wrong (chas v’shalom) that we must keep Shabbos?
    If not, does that make “Moshism” a cult (ח”ו)?

    (If you answer that I shouldn’t compare the Rebbe to Moshe, you’re evading the question. A “cult” is a “cult”.)

     

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215260
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    CORRECTION:

    I reread my earlier post about anivus, and I realized that something might be misunderstood.

    I wrote: “And the Rebbe said publicly that he lacks…”
    I did NOT mean that the Rebbe said this about Rabbi Miller (as might be understood from how I wrote).
    The Rebbe said this about himself.

    in reply to: questions about the yeshivish world #2215210
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>is there any sefer that is accepted by the litvish community, like if it says something there, everyone listens

    Saying “the litvish community” is like saying “the frum community” or “chassidish community” (both of which would include Chabad).

    The “litvish community” is just a section of the broader “frum community” which is a section of the broader “Jewish community” which is a section of the broader “mankind” (l’havdil).

    In the litvish community itself, there are sub-communities of talmidim and followers of their own rabbanim and drachim.
    So, yes, each of those communities has a sefer or rov whose derech they follow.

    Just as Lubavitchers follow the Chabad rabbeim, students of Rav Miller will follow him, followers of Rav Belsky will follow his drachim, etc.
    If someone isn’t a student of such a prominent rabbi, he will still have his personal rov who he follows.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215209
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>It is reported that the Rebbe made predictions and performed miracles. Rambam writes (Yesodei hatorah 8) that signs are irrelevant, and Israel did not believe in Moses our Rabbi as a result of the signs that he performed.

    If I understand correctly, you are saying that according to the Rambam, performing miracles and predicting the future are not proof that one is a novi.

    If this is truly what you meant, this is called מגלה פנים בתורה שלא כהלכה.

    How do you have the chutzpa to publicly forge the Rambam like this?
    (I thought it’s only the Rebbe who you take random statements out of context לקנטר. Now I see that you do the same with the Rambam, רחמנא ליצלן.)

    For everyone else who isn’t sure what I’m talking about:

    The Rambam says that Moshe was the the head of all the nevi’im because he wasn’t believed because of miracles, rather because we, with our own eyes, saw Hashem speak to him at Mattan Torah (יסודי התורה ח).

    Then, Moshe commanded us: “נביא מקרבך מאחיך כמני יקים לך ה’ אלקיך אליו תשמעון”.
    The way to recognize a novi, Moshe told us, is if he performs miracles or predicts the future (יסודי התורה י).
    If he shows these signs, we know that he was sent by Hashem, and אליו תשמעון – we must obey him.

    >>>his followers believe that he is a god

    I already answered this enough times. No point going back there.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215208
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>Rabbi Miller said he wasn’t a Gadol and I agree with him

    And the Rebbe said publicly that he lacks yiras shamayim and isn’t a tzaddik.

    Does this change my perspective of him?
    Of course! I think much more highly of him!

    We call this anivus.

    See for example the incredible anivus of the Bal Haturim in his introduction:
    “I have no understanding… nor have I learned any chochma. I have no knowledge, I know nothing. However, despite all that was concealed from me, this is the work of Hashem… ”

    The Sifsei Chachomim in his introduction:
    “I cannot talk great things, because דרך נשים לי ודעתי קלה, I don’t have the power to stand in the chamber of the rabbis…”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215138
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>the difference between chabad’s view on chabad and the rebbe, and the misnagdim is this… pretty crazy how people can deny such obvious facts.

    You’re judging Chabad from the inside and non-Chabad from the outside (internet or random meetings on the street).
    This doesn’t really count as an “obvious difference.”

    It is always easy to notice מעלות עצמו and חסרונות חבירו.
    I assume that just as obvious the maalos of Chabad are to you (and me) – the maalos of the litvisher derech or poilisher derech are obvious to them.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215074
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    >>>So you would refer to R Elchonon Wasserman ZTL as HY’D without the honorific because the Nazis killed him?

    I didn’t say that anyone killed al kiddush Hashem can’t be called rabbi (that would be ridiculous).
    I said that being killed al kiddush Hashem doesn’t make you a rabbi.

    >>>the problem is…your Gaavah

    Was I the one who said that few can match his logic and love of truth?

    >>>By the way you also owe me an apology

    Is there anyone in the CR who doesn’t owe you an apology yet?

    >>>what do you think about the “FACT” that the Feinsteins, as currently constituted, don’t like Chabad? Curious to see how you’ll try to squirm out of that one.

    Why should I care what the Feinstein family thinks? Even if Reb Moshe wouldn’t have loved Chabad (which he did, very much, as is proven in my earlier post) I wouldn’t care too much.
    You don’t seem to care that Reb Moshe loved Lubavitchers, so why would I care if he would have hated them?

    If you choose your derech based on the feelings and likes of every relative of a rov, you will become a very confused soul.

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