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Menachem ShmeiParticipant
The רמ”א says that everybody lit indoors (although he does say it would be better to light outdoors, according to the MB’s explanation).
The רמ”א says that everybody slept outside the Sukkah (although he does say it would be better to sleep in the Sukkah).
Sources to explain the practice of lighting indoors when there’s no sakana:
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=53183Thank you for sharing this source – it perfectly supports my point, and it’s a great opportunity to wrap up my argument:
To summarize: My intention was not, ch”v, to attack the minhag of lighting the menorah indoors (which I myself do) or of eating outside the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres.
My point is that our holy leaders have sometimes supported or encouraged customs that seem not to align perfectly with Shulchan Aruch. In some cases, because Shulchan Aruch explicitly forbids it (like Shemini Atzeres); in others, because the leniency mentioned there applies only in narrow circumstances (like Chanukah); or because the Shulchan Aruch acknowledges the common practice but struggles to support it (like sleeping outside the sukkah).
In such cases, later poskim may attempt to be melamed zchus on the minhag or bring dochakdikeh proofs to explain how it could be allowed or even encouraged.
Obviously, no one today would feel comfortable inventing such sevaros on their own. As Yankel correctly pointed out: if someone today decided we should suddenly stop lighting indoors based on their own reading of the Shulchan Aruch and complicated pilpulim (including those brought in the kovetz), no one would listen. The same applies to Shemini Atzeres and sleeping in the sukkah.
But once these practices were supported by the rabbanim of a particular community, we accept them—even if we don’t fully understand the sevaros used to justify them.
This is why I don’t criticize a Sanzer chossid who eats outside the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (even if I find his halachic arguments weak).
This is why I light menorah indoors, even if the pilpul needed to justify it is dochakdik.
And this is why I sleep outside the sukkah.
All three practices rely on trusting our rabbeim to instruct us the right mesorah, even when we don’t fully grasp the reasoning.
Yet Yankel only calls the third case “infallible rebbes.”
__ __ __All of this is stated explicitly in the wonderful kovetz that Daas brought!
After offering extensive pilpulim to show that the halacha might not be as it appears in the Shulchan Aruch (and in my opinion, these are even more dochakdik than those brought for sleeping outside the sukkah), he concludes:
“Even if we don’t accept this explanation for lighting indoors, it is still clear that someone who follows the path of our holy Rabbeim and lights indoors is on a more secure path than those who treat our Rabbeim as if they were mistaken ch”v, due to not understanding their reasoning…
I am therefore puzzled by what I saw in Yerushalayim where some had the practice to light outside. I don’t know who gave this directive, but it is clear that he did not have greater authority than the Or Zarua and all our rabbeim who followed him. Even though there was no danger in their time to light outside, they still lit indoors. And anyone who deviates from the minhag – ידו על התחתונה. He is being motzi laaz on our fathers and rabbeim, ראשונים כמלאכים.”Yankel, does the author of this kovetz consider his rabbis “infallible”? Maybe start a thread about him.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantThere is an argument , however and we cannot hide behind victimhood to win an argument.
You know very well that I didn’t hide. I made my argument clearly, many times.
Should I complain that you are insulting me ….
I don’t remember calling your or your rabbis’ arguments a “Purim Torah” or a “most illogical pretzel sevorah.”
You are welcome to argue, but please argue on my real position .
Not on my position you [mis]represent.I think I’ve answered all your points, and I think you haven’t properly explained why you attack Chabad’s minhag but not the menorah minhag and Shemini Atzeres minhag.
I guess we’ll leave it to the readers to decide.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMost Poskim point to these very words , ‘besha’at hasakana manicho al shulhano vedayo’, and explain that this was a MODIFICATION.
Again, this is clearly logic that you wouldn’t rely on yourself. This is definitely not the simple pshat in the Mishna.
A) Which poskim say that you can light indoors even when it’s not a time of sakana? Clearly not Shulchan Aruch which rules that one must light menorah outdoors except in a case of sakana.
B) Why do you accept the logic of those poskim which doesn’t fit with a simple reading of Mishna or Shulchan Aruch? Is it because you think those poskim are infallible?
Is it better to light outside after the modification ? That is a separate argument. Maybe the inyan of mezuza takes precedence. Other inyanim, etc…
This is NOT A separate argument. You admitted that you yourself sleep outside the Sukkah, and we know that this has always been the custom of most Jews. What bothered you was that Chabad relies ruchniusdike reasons by their “infallible rebbes” to DAVKA sleep outside the Sukkah.
My question is: How is that different from relying ruchniusdike reasons (mezuza, etc.) by your “infallible poskim” to DAVKA light the menorah indoors (as is the minhag of many holy communities), in violation of Shulchan Aruch that this is only acceptable in a time of danger?
No posek will say that someone who lights inside nowadays is making a braha levatala.
Who brought bracha levatola into the picture? No posek says that if you don’t sleep in the Sukkah your לישב בסוכה was a brocha levatola.
The argument was about trusting your “infallible poskim/rebbes” to keep a minhag of davka doing something that seems against halacha. This argument applies equally to Sukkah and Menorah.I am not sure why menachem insists on comparing sukka and hanukah, when their halachik difference is so clear ?
I have made one single argument this entire time, and I will persist until I get a proper answer. Or until I get tired of repeating the same simple point again and again.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantmenachem- is (or was) CS a chillul lubavitch?
What point are you trying to make?
What do you mean by that?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, I thought we were having a nice Torah discussion. Why do you need to pepper it with nasty insults?
I understand that your question is, supposing that all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards were makpid to light only outside and all of them say that manicho al shulhano is NOT A MODIFICATION IN THE WHOLE MITSVA…
You are now saying that Chanukah is different than Sukkah, because with Chanukah it was always accepted to light indoors, so in recent generations, even though the sakana stopped, it’s not an issue to davka light indoors.
But with Sukkah, all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards have slept in the Sukkah the entire Sukkos, and suddenly in the 1950s the Rebbe began allowing people to do otherwise.But, we know that that’s not true (as brought in Shulchan Aruch, and many more places), so your entire idea falls apart.
They modified the takanah, and now the takanah is that you can light in or outdoors. Both are valid ways to do it and none is making a bracha levatala.
Where’d you get this from? It doesn’t say this in Gemara or Shulchan Aruch. In both it clearly states that ner chanukah must be lit outdoors, except in times of danger.
Any posek will tell you the same.
Aha, so now the poskim are infallible? You can’t provide me with any logic that explains that Gemara or Shulchan Aruch permit lighting indoors when it’s not a time of danger, yet because recent poskim allow it, it’s allowed!?
(Earlier poskim may have lit indoors because of the dangers in Europe, etc.).one can have the benefit of being surrounded by mitzvot on all sides- mezuza, tzitzit and ner. Or other benefits.
So it makes sense to davka violate the halacha in Shulchan Aruch by lighting indoors, losing pirsumei nissa, because then you get mitzvos on all sides (didn’t the Gemara and Shulchan Aruch know about mitzvos on all sides when they permitted it ONLY in times of sakanah!?).
But it’s crazy to say to not sleep in the Sukkah because you don’t want to be mezalzel in the holiness of Sukkah.Az Nidbiru has many teshuvos where he argues that it’s forbidden to light menorah indoors nowadays. Are you ready to read his seforim, and if you accept his logic, begin attacking all those who “stupidly” follow their “infallible” poskim and light menorah indoors?
Unless you give me reasoning in your own logic, logic that you would even accept from the Lubavitcher Rebbe, why we may DAVKA disregard the Gemara and Shulchan Aruch about lighting the menorah and Shemini Atzeres – I will believe that you have a personal bias against Chabad.
menachem specifically agreed in his post that he would listen to his rebbi even when he does not understand him too.
Whereas the rest klal yisrael , the non habad hasidim, would not.
That is an excellent indication of bias.Shocker! As a Lubavitcher, I will constantly defend my minhagim and my Rebbe. What a surprise.
Nu, what’s worse? To be biased and always defend your derech, or be biased and always attack someone else’s derech?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantNot sure where lighting indoors came into this; as YB said, it’s a sugya about whether or not Chazal actually changed the tzurah of the mitzvah (which is a d’rabbonon.)
Shulchan Aruch rules that Ner Chanukah must be lit by the outer door unless it’s a time of sakanah.
You haven’t attacked those who davka light indoors (even not during sakana), and you haven’t presented any logic why they are correct.Shulchan Aruch rules that one must eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres.
You haven’t attacked those who davka eat indoors, and you haven’t presented any logic why they are correct (other than a hava aminah in Gemara which is not accepted by the Gemara or by Shulchan Aruch).Shulchan Aruch rules that one must sleep in the Sukkah on Sukkos, but accepts that most don’t do so nowadays and is melamed zechus on them.
You attack those who davka sleep indoors because you disagree with their logic.This is very suspicious.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI actually did answer, but I’ll repeat:
Eating outside the Sukkah on Shmini Ateres is indeed k’neged Halacha.
Saying Davka to sleep outside of the Sukkah on Succos is not merely k’neged Halacha; it is backwards.You’re just repeating your point but not explaining. Just because I obey my Rebbe when I don’t understand, it doesn’t mean I obey YOU without understanding.
Why is one minhag against halacha while the other is backwards? And why do you only attack those who are “backwards” but not those who are going against halacha?
The only difference I spotted between how you portrayed both minhagim is that you only put the word “davka” in the second minhag. But we know full well that many chassidim DAVKA eat outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres because that is their minhag. Eating INSIDE the Sukkah would be violating their minhag.
Why is this minhag less “backwards” in your mind than the minhag of sleeping outside the Sukkah?
It’s backwards because it takes a mizvah and makes it k’ilu it’s chas v’shalom an aveirah
Just like many consider it an “aveira” (i.e. against their minhag) to eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres and light Menorah outside the front door. Doesn’t that sound just as backwards, if not more?
I honestly think my argument is quite simple and clear, and I’m surprised that I can’t get a simple explanation of why the Chabad minhag is bad but the other minhagim are good.
Menachem ShmeiParticipant“Most Poskim point to these very words , ‘besha’at hasakana manicho al shulhano vedayo’, and explain that this was a MODIFICATION….”
“Its not the minhag of not sleeping there which is backwards .
Its THE LOGIC which is backwards.”Let me get your argument straight. According to you:
It makes sense to say that once the Mishna said that in a time of danger one can light menorah indoors, we can now have a minhag to davka light indoors even when it’s not a time of sakanah and we lack pirsumei nissa.
It doesn’t make sense to say that once Shulchan Aruch says that nowadays most don’t sleep in the Sukkah (and יש אומרים support for this), we can have a minhag to davka not sleep in the Sukkah.
Why? I can’t wrap my head around your distinction.
If your infallible rebbi would not have come up with this logic , would you say that on your own ??
If it was the Rebbe who made this diyuk in the Mishna Shabbos and started the minhag of davka lighting indoors – would you agree with it or attack it and anyone who follows it?
what would your reaction be if a satmar hasid or a dye in the wool mitnaged would have come up with that type of logic ??
Would you defend it with the same vehemence ? Or would you have a good laugh and say – Oh well …..I mentioned the minhag of other chassidim who eat outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres. I don’t accept their logic, so I eat in the Sukkah in Shemini Atzeres. But I don’t attack them for following their minhag or accuse them of violating halacha.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhat I cannot understand is that Gemara Shabbat clearly modifies takanat derabanan of ner hanuka to put it al shulhano inside.
And people keep on ignoring this clear gemara and [mis]using it to advocate for a purim torah that it is preferable [!] to sleep out of the suka even when all kulot in halacha are exhausted.No one used Chanukah to advocate for sleeping outside of the Sukkah. That doesn’t make any sense (strawman).
I will repeat my simple question, which no one has been able to answer:
Why do you (Yankel, Daas, etc.) insist on attacking Chabad for davka not sleeping in the Sukkah, while ignoring those who DAVKA don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres, and DAVKA light the menorah indoors – both of which are seemingly against halacha.What I cannot understand is that Gemara Shabbat clearly modifies takanat derabanan of ner hanuka to put it al shulhano inside.
Yankel: If you can erase the words “בשעת הסכנה” from your Gemara Shabbos – why’s it so hard for you to accept that the Rama modified the mitzvah of Sukkah to not include sleeping?
Is it backwards that people davka don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres?
It’s k’neged Halacha, but it’s not backwards.Daas, be so kind as to explain your deep words to a simple person like me:
Why is the minhag of DAVKA sleeping outside the Sukkah backwards (even though it has *some* basis in Shulchan Aruch), while the minhag of DAVKA eating outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (with *no* basis in Shulchan Aruch) is not backwards?
[And again, don’t forget to explain why the minhag of DAVKA lighting the menorah indoors, contrary to the mitzvah of pirsumei Nissan – is not backwards. Thanks]Menachem ShmeiParticipant*pirsumei nisah
(Auto correct)Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe onus is on them to explain the Gemara, not the other way around
What’s this supposed to mean? I’ll just repeat what I wrote before: “All the poskim I mentioned knew that Gemara.”
Are you trying to tell us that your mockery is indeed not directed at Chabad, but all chassidim at large? The Minchas Elazar, Divrei Chaim, etc.? So why don’t you start a thread like that.
Additionally I don’t know the circumstances of those Rebbes who sat in the rain
Ah, so you don’t know. You mock Chabad for a widespread chassidish minhag of talmidei habaal shem tov and onward, explained by giants such as the Minchas Elazar and others.
And when confronted, you admit that you know nothing about this minhag. All you know is: mock first, question after.Menachem ShmeiParticipantBut there definitely is a clear and present danger of xtian missionaries attempting to use the obvious habad – early xtian similarities to mass convert naive yehudim to their false religion.
…That’s why we should applaud and support the courageous author of ‘harebi melech hamashiach’ , R Dovid Berger.
A) The number one tool missionaries use is Tanach. Maybe start by canceling that instead.
B) What you fail to realize is that most of these missionaries who draw comparisons between Chabad and Christianity are parroting Berger. His book — full of distortions and half-truths — is their primary source. So if you’re afraid of missionaries weaponizing misinterpretations of Chabad ideas like they from Tanach — you have Berger to blame.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantit’s not merely that Chabad accepted some type of kulah, but rather, it became a bad thing to sleep in the sukkah, which is backwards.
No, it’s not a bad thing, as the Rebbe wrote to those who had a minhag to sleep in Sukkah to keep their minhag.
Is it backwards that people davka don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres? Or that people davka light menorah indoors? Both of which are seemingly against halacha?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe Gemara calls someone that sits in the sukkah in the rain a חסיד שוטה like a servant that gets splashed in the face by his master and is told I don’t want your servitude
I know that Gemara, and all the poskim I mentioned knew that Gemara.
So because of a Gemara you learned in cheder, you’re ready to mock the minhag of many great tzaddikim and poskim going back to the Baal Shem Tov.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, you still haven’t explained why you attack the minhag of not sleeping in Sukkah, but not the minhag of not eating in the Sukkah on Shmini Atzeres and lighting menorah inside the house – both of which are seemingly against halacha.
Your only answer was because it was the Rebbe who explained the minhag (which has been in Chabad for generations) and you have your own interpretation of what the Mitteler Rebbe said (which doesn’t at all fit with his original words, which I doubt you’ve seen).
You don’t mind someone unquestionably following his rov or rebbe regarding Shmini Atzeres and Chanukah, you only have a problem with following the Lubavitcher Rebbe.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI don’t think that’s considered being מחמיר I think that that is a shtus
Coffee Addict,
YOU “don’t think”, YOU “think that this is a shtus” – who do you think you are? What kind of arrogance is this?
Did you read the teshuvos of all the great tzaddikim who praised and encouraged this chumra that you call a shtus?
Did you see how the Minchas Elazar wrote about the minhag of generation after generation of tzaddikim from talmidei haBaal Shem Tov who stay in the Sukkah even in the rain!?
Why are you so quick to attack fellow Jews and mock their behavior because you have a general resentment to their group?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI am not well versed in these fancy English phrases and philosophical debate kind of terms that you use.
Chaim, he assumed you could just look them up online.
Avram, thanks for teaching me these useful terms.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, you still haven’t explained why you choose to attack the longstanding Chabad minhag to be meikel regarding sleeping the the Sukkah (as permitted in Shulchan Aruch) but don’t attack the sects of chassidim who don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (without basis in Shulchan Aruch)?
Another question: Shulchan Aruch rules that the menorah must be lit at the outer door facing reshus harabim. This is a necessary part of the mitzvah due to pirsumei nissah (thus, it’s probably more central to the mitzvah of Chanuka than sleeping is to the mitzvah of Sukkah).
Why then don’t you attack the Jews whose minhag it is to light the menorah specifically indoors, thus violating a central part of the mitzvah?
Don’t answer that it’s because this is how the minhag developed due to sakana, because that’s like excusing the minhag of sleeping outside the Sukkah due to the coldness in Russia.
Menachem ShmeiParticipant2scents,
The Mitteler Rebbe (who was appointed by his father – the baal hatanya – to lead the younger chassidim during his own lifetime) admonished the yungeleit for sleeping in the Sukkah “ווי קען מען שלאפן אין מקיפים דבינה”.
On the other hand, Lubavitchers wouldn’t have a sip of water outside the Sukkah in the pouring rain.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantBy Ponovezh and Satmar it was also rare and unsanctioned. Why would you phrase it as if that description is only applicable to Lubavitch?
I don’t know enough about their incidents to say either way. I said it specifically about Lubavitch because (a) that’s what Yankel was addressing, and (b) that’s what I know well.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe worst part of the “minhag” not to sleep in the sukkah is the reasoning given which doesn’t hold water.
The Rebbe’s explanation of the reasoning came years after the minhag was established, as a possible svorah to support why Lubavitchers are so makpid on all details of Sukkah (drinking water, rain, etc.) except for sleeping in the Sukkah.
Similar to the sevaros given by the chassidish poskim for eating outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (but with the aforementioned difference that the Chabad is rooted in Shulchan Aruch).
And the fact that it essentially rejects a chelek of the mitzvah.
Chabad absolutely doesn’t reject that sleeping in the Sukkah is a chelek of the mitzvah, ch”v. The chiddush is only that they accepted the kulah of not sleeping in the Sukkah while rejecting other kulos.
Have you recently read the sicha in its entirety in the original, or are you relying on memory, or worse – hearsay? This question is addressed there.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem: Who is your Shomer?
A responsible friend from yeshiva whom I trust.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantSorry I just read your previous thread, if we do hold ספיקא דיומא so why do chassidim gebrokt (not sure what Chabad does) on the last day of pesach?
One of the earliest sources for the chumra of gebrokts is the Alter Rebbe (Baal HaTanya). Yet he writes:
מכל מקום ביום טוב האחרון המקיל משום שמחת יום טוב לא הפסיד.Therefore, while Chabad is very careful to keep the matzah completely dry over Pesach, we eat gebrokts on Acharon Shel Pesach.
The Rebbe has an incredible sicha explaining the reason for this change on the last day according to chassidus. But one interesting point there is that a possible reason for this heter is in order to make a heker between the first days and the last day (which is only for sefeika d’yoma). The Rebbe compares this to Shemini Atzeres, when we must eat in the Sukkah, but we make a heker by not making a brocha. This is why some rule that one shouldn’t sleep in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres because on sleeping there is no brocha anyways, so there’s no heker (Mordechai brought in Magen Avraham).
Menachem ShmeiParticipantNo one ever ate in the sukkah on shmini atzeres, the reason chassidim (which I am noheg) (it’s not limited to Chabad chassidim) do it is because of ספיקא דיומא whereas litvaks don’t consider it.
Okay… what??? Let’s break this down:
The Gemara (Sukkah 47) brings a machloles what should be the behavior on Shemini Atzeres in chutz laaretz, and the halacha there is:
מתיב יתבינן, ברוכי לא מברכינן
We sit in the Sukkah, but without a bracha.Rambam rules (Hilchos Sukkah 6:13): Nowadays that we have two days of Yomtov, we sit in the Sukkah for eight days. On Shemini Atzeres we sit in the Sukkah but don’t make a brocha.
Shulchan Aruch (OC 668): In chutz laaretz we eat in the Sukkah by night and by day due to sefeika d’yoma, but don’t make a brocha.
Tur rules the same, but adds: “Some have a custom to eat outside of the Sukkah at night and in the Sukkah by day – ואינו מנהג.”
Mishna Berura: The custom on Shemini Atzeres is to leave the Sukkah after the day meal, but if one wants to eat again, even bein hashmashos, it must be in the Sukkah.
Despite all classic halacha being clear that one must eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres, the custom of many chassidim based on a mesorah they have from the Baal Shem Tov is to not eat in the Sukkah in Shemini Atzeres. (Chabad does *not* follow this minhag, they only eat or drink in the Sukkah until Shemini Atzeres ends.)
Of course, after this minhag developed, chassidish poskim have built some sevoros to rely on, but the fact remains that this minhag has weak halachic basis, and is done purely due to the Baal Shem Tov’s mesorah.
The Chabad minhag of not sleeping in the Sukkah, while also being due to the mesorah from the times of the Baal Hatanya – has much greater halachic basis, since it was already mentioned as an acceptable minhag in Shulchan Aruch (albeit for different reasons).
My point is not ch”v to attack the chassidish mesorah. My point is to question why you, and many others, fixate on the Chabad mesorah not to sleep in the Sukkah (which was already permitted in Shulchan Aruch) while ignoring the rest of the chassidish velt that eats outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (without basis in Shulchan Aruch).
Menachem ShmeiParticipantCoupled with forceful suppression of internal dissent.
Anyone who dissented or merely was suspected of dissent ,was made to pay a very heavy price….Are you alluding to the way Satmar or Ponevezh treated dissent? Or only the rare, unsanctioned incidents associated with Lubavitch?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIf that sounds familiar , the reason might be that …
it really is familiar ….It does sound familiar. It sounds like this post:
“First of all, Mr. Simcha613, you should show a little more respect to our Gedolei hador. Has it occurred to you that maybe just maybe the Gedolim thought of your Genius question and decided to do what they did anyway….??? Unfortunately, like many in our impoverished generation you clearly don’t get the concept of Daas Torah.”And no, it was not written by a Lubavitcher.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantThis is not a deep question, like Menachem claimed at one point in this conversation.
This is a very simple question.
If there is a source, would you please spell it out ?
Why do I say this is a theoretical philosophical question?
Because: Do you believe that Ravina and Rav Ashi were infallible? If you answer that you don’t, does that mean that in some instances you claim the the Gemara is wrong and mistaken, ch”v?
This is my point. The question of infalliblity is not necessarily tied to the question of obeying one’s rebbe.
P.S. I’m not trying to say that we listen to the Rebbe because he is an amora or something, don’t use that as a strawman. I am using the example of Gemara to show why the question of infalliblity is philosophical and unrelated to practical action.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantTalking about Monitoring, WebChaver (using the Covenant Eyes technology) is incredible. They are priced very well. Very easy to put on multiple devices.
They take many screenshots throughout the day and email them once a day or twice a week to the assigned Shomer.
When the program detects anything inappropriate (pictures or links) it flags the email as Highlighted Activity for the Shomer to look at.
Major plus: All the screenshots are completely blurred. You can’t make out any of the *text* on screen (bank info, personal info, texts, emails, etc.). All you see is a general view of the page (you can make out what the user is looking at, a shiur, a cartoon, or something inappropriate.) and the URL.
I use this, and it has a huge effect knowing that anything I scroll past or open up is being watched by someone else. Whether it’s on YouTube, sent on WhatsApp, or opened from Google Drive. Highly recommended.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantLike by paskening that one doesn’t have to sleep in the sukkah anymore?
That was the Mitteler Rebbe, in the lifetime of the Baal HaTanya. Go attack the non-Chabad chassidim who paskened that one doesn’t need to eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres anymore. Start a different thread.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantAnother plus of WebChaver/CovenantEyes on Android:
Besides for screenshots, it also has an App Lock feature similar to Screen Time on iPhones.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantLike by paskening that one doesn’t have to sleep in the sukkah anymore?
You’re likely referring to the minhag of the Chabad rabbeim and many Chabad chassidim to not sleep in the Sukkah, as they were instructed by the Mitteler Rebbe in the lifetime of the Baal HaTanya (although the Rebbe instructed those who do sleep in the Sukkah not to change their minhag).
Of course, this minhag came years after the Shulchan Aruch already paskened that the current minhag of most Jews is to be meikel and not sleep in the Sukkah.
Now Coffee, please start a thread about the non Chabad chassidim who have abolished the chiyuv d’rabanan of eating in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (yes, we keep sefeika d’yoma).
This minhag has no basis in Shulchan Aruch, unlike the minhag of sleeping outside the Sukkah which was already mentioned by the Rama.
I’m waiting for your thread…
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, I think I wrote all I know on the subject.
Now, please open a thread attacking the litvishers for this post by commonsense613 on another thread:
“First of all, Mr. Simcha613, you should show a little more respect to our Gedolei hador. Has it occurred to you that maybe just maybe the Gedolim thought of your Genius question and decided to do what they did anyway….??? Unfortunately, like many in our impoverished generation you clearly don’t get the concept of Daas Torah.”
Ask how this fits with Shmuel making a mistake, the Baal Haturim, etc.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantSorry , but here you made a MISTAKE.
This was common practice by all Tanna’im ,Amora’im, Rishonim and Poskim through the ages.Maybe it depends what level one is on. For example, a rishon can’t say that the Gemara made a mistake, etc.
The derech in Chabad is that a rebbe can teach differently than a different rebbe, but a chossid doesn’t see himself on the level of “holding differently” than his rebbe.
He can ask questions on what the Rebbe said, but only in way of “I don’t understand, please explain,” not in a way of “what my rebbe said doesn’t make any sense, I disagree.”
This is also the style in maamarim, always using an approach of WE must understand, לכאורה צריך להבין.
This is our derech. If you think it’s wrong, okay.
I don’t think I have anything more to answer you. More than what I wrote here I don’t know.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem should let the sunlight shine on his actual opinions …
If you want to disagree with me, fine. If you don’t like my answers, fine.
But why must each of your posts include an accusation that I am lying or avoiding you?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantKol hameharher achar rabo ,,,, does that mean that every talmid is obligated to believe that his rabo muvhak is INFALLIBLE ?
I have no idea. You keep turning this into a deep philosophical question.
I am answering your question about the metzius: Why do Lubavitchers follow the Rebbe? Not because they proved he is tzaddik of Tanya, or because of a philosophy about infalliblity. Rather, as talmidim following and obeying their rebbe.
If you hold that כל המהרהר or לא תסור doesn’t apply here, that suits you. I’m not here to debate the halachic implications of those terms.
If you don’t like the idea of students just following what their teacher tells them even when they don’t fully have proof for what he said, then start a thread against the litvishers in the CR who demand that everyone unquestionably accept their “daas torah.”
You keep bringing up Shmuel Hanovi. I haven’t seen anywhere that Dovid was meant to doubt every instruction he got from Shmuel because based on the earlier incident he proved that he isn’t “infallible.”
Menachem ShmeiParticipantNow, suddenly this rebbi of mine in whom I trust blindly, suddenly becomes a Muslim , but he explains everything al pi kabala .
At what point do I say, my previous trust was misplaced ?When he blatantly rejects Torah, as Shabtai Tzevi, r”l.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantHow could Shmuel hanavi be mistaken about yishays sons ?
This proves my point. Since we saw that Shmuel “made a mistake” – does that mean that now we must take any statement of Shmuel with a “grain of salt” ch”v?
After all, according to your logic, if Shmuel could “make a mistake” about Yishai’s sons, then maybe the whole anointing Dovid as king was one big “mistake” (ch”v)?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantTheir fault was that they didn’t ask what their rebbe meant, they thought since their rebbe is never wrong and this is what our rebbe meant to say it must be that this is what he said
Coffee, where in the world do you get it that the mistake of Tzadok u’Baitus was that they thought their rebbe was never wrong!?
And if you are correct (ch”v), why do we still teach Antignos’s statement in Pirkei Avos?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIn your case fault clearly lies with the talmid.
But sometimes the questions asked are valid . And fault lies with the rebbi.
Like in 1666.Yankel, I actually agree with this. My disagreement with you is on which side Lubavitch falls, as I already wrote in my post from March 17, 2025 3:32 pm.
My point remains that this is irrelevant to the question of “is this tzaddik infallible.”
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem does have a point, just ask tzadok and beisus, their rebbe said “אל תהיו כעבדים…” and they obeyed their rebbe without asking any questions
Was the problem that they misunderstood their rebbe’s statement or that they obeyed their rebbe?
Were they meant to say “Our rebbe is not infallible, he must have been wrong in saying אל תהיו כעבדים” – as you seem to be implying in this discussion about Chabad?
If the latter were true (ch”v), why do we still teach Antignos’s statement in Pirkei Avos?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem craft fully sidestepped each and everyone of the Questions asked.
WHY ?Either you’re bad at asking questions or I’m bad at answering them.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel,
So you agree with me that there is such a thing as accepting a “daas torah” and obeying them unquestionably even when you don’t understand.
But your problem with Chabad is that you feel they’ve taken this too far.
Okay, well I disagree. I think the Rebbe is a great daas torah to be bottul to, so I am. That’s our disagreement.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantwhy must they place more burdens on us?
This idea is completely wrong. Them suggesting that you buy a filter from Techloq is not placing a burden on you.
The level of entitlement when someone volunteers to help you with one thing, and then you demand that they spend much more money.
It’s like if I would fume that how dare bikkur cholim not pay my rent. They just have to fundraiser another few million dollars. They claim to help suffering people, yet they BURDEN me with paying thousands of dollars a month in rent.
As a matter of fact, they should pay for me to buy a house. These idiots think they’re helping by buying me some food, then they STEAL millions of dollars that I must pay for my mortgage.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIf you don’t mind me sticking my nose in, the tzadik was born with a yetzer hora but killed it thorough his avodas Hashem.
DaasYochid, this is true.
But how is it killed through avodas Hashem? Because he brought himself to such a great level of devotion, love and connection with Hashem (which is only possible for someone who was born with a neshama that’s able to reach such levels of refinement) – that he lost all desire to go against Hashem by sinning (“yetzer harah”).
That’s why even according to Tanya, the main way of recognizing a tzaddik is a person who stands out in his holiness and devotion to Hashem. The temptation question is only an outcome of this general holy state, and probably not very recognizable to other people, as Yankel pointed out.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhat does it cost already if most people will pay anyhow?
I don’t think you understand how economics, especially Jewish economics, works. If something is free, no one will pay hundreds of dollars for it. We’re talking about millions of dollars here in total.
Maybe you go raise 1 million dollars to pay for people’s filters. TAG doesn’t claim to do that, so they don’t have to.
Here is what TAG does according to their website:
“TAG stands at the forefront in the battle of the nisayon of technology. We engage in cutting edge technology to help the filter companies come out with the best filters. We provide Awareness to the community through counseling, seforim and periodicals. We provide free community service for Computers, Smartphones, Laptops and many other digital devices to have them blocked or filtered in order to retain our Yiddishe values.
We install filters for free!*
*Any charges incurred go directly to the filter company.”Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel,
Although it’s irrelevant to the topic at hand, let’s get back to the Tanya debate for a moment. (This debate has nothing to do with “Lubavitch today” or the “status” of the Rebbe. Just about understanding the proper pshat of Tanya.)
In my post from March 10, 2025 3:02 pm, I wrote the definition of a tzaddik of Tanya as I understand it.
You disagreed with my understanding, and wrote: Tanya says that to decide whether someone is a tsadiq it depends on his temptations .
How would you answer this question: Tanya perek 15 describes two kinds of Beinonim:
The higher is called “Avado,” and he struggles with his yetzer harah.
The lower-level Beinoni is called “Lo Avado” and he doesn’t struggle with his yetzer harah. He was born naturally uninterested in sinning, and interested in doing mitzvos and learning Torah all day.
According to you Yankel, what’s the difference between a Lo Avado Beinoni and a Tzaddik?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantdon’t also charge me and arm or a leg….
So yes I have a right to demand they pay for it. And I think it’s borderline geniva that they don’tIt’s *geneiva* that they don’t pay for *your* Techloq or Gentech subscription? Are you out of your mind?
This era of government handouts has really gone to your head.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, maybe start a thread asking why so many litvishers obey “daas torah” unquestionably, and also attack others who dare to question the reasoning of any decision of “daas torah.”
(See other threads here for examples)
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYou think R matsyhu started it just for a limited goal of “awareness” or was it to make sure you end yo having filters?
Definitely the latter, but you can only being the horse to the water. You can convince someone of the importance of protecting their internet, and even volunteer to help with it. But if they’re not even convinced enough to spend $100 a year on it, why should you also be obligated to pay for their filter?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel,
You asked why Lubavitchers obey their rebbe if they can’t “prove” that he is a tzaddik of Tanya (based on your interpretation). I answered that Lubavitchers obey the Rebbe like talmidim who follow their teachers, nothing to do with your complicated Tanya pilpul.
You seem to think that Lubavitchers are wrong for obeying their rebbe. Okay, nu. You’re entitled.
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