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Menachem ShmeiParticipant
Philosopher, I hope you will come to realize that when people attack Chabad (or any other group, for that matter), it often stems from a complete ignorqnce of something widely accepted in mainstream Torah understanding.
For example, when Qwerty thought it was a Chabad invention that עתיד החזיר ליטהר, or that Avraham’s tenth test gave (public) credibility to the first nine.
Or when Coffee Addict thought it was a Chabad invention that Rashi on Chumash often doesn’t align with Rashi on Shas, or the minhag of taking of shoes before kivrei tzaddikim.
This should make you think twice and three times, and do lots of research, before deciding to attack a Jewish group just because you weren’t aware of their ideas beforehand.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI absolutely apologize for mocking people who learnt and understood that Yaacov Avinu is physically alive. At that time I didn’t know this was taught in many chedarim and yeshivas.
I respect this. 🤝
Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhere in the world do you get the idea that a Halachic state will require no army and no natural hishtadlus for protection from enemies?
If you reread my post you’ll see that I was MOCKING the thought that learning Torah is enough and no army is needed. So too vice versa.
And even the Gemara that you quote doesn’t seem to support your case. Yes, Dovid HaMelech’a Torah gave the zechusim for the army to succeed… But Dovid HaMelech wasn’t in Kollel 24/7. He was a warrior! A general! A king! This doesn’t support that we need Torah learners in Kollel while the army fights. This supports that we need Torah learners bringing their zechusim to the front lines!
What’s your source that Dovid always fought with Yoav? From Rashi it doesn’t seem that way.
Rashi writes on Tehillim kapital chof (which is said till today to daven for Jews in danger): This mizmor was composed because Dovid would send Yoav and all of Israel to war, and he would stand in Yerushlayim and daven… Our Rabbis say, if not for Dovid, Yoav wouldn’t go to war.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIt is a deeply disturbing fault of one’s character to attack someone continously because they dared to say pshat on a Rashi thats different than what their rebbe in cheder taught them
Philosopher, You are completely shameless.
Let’s all remember the FIRST POST that began the conversation about יעקב לא מת, a post by Philosopher:
“It is Lubavitche like you who twist everything out of context. For example when Rashi says that Yaacov avinu did not die there are numerous mefarshim that explain what it means. There is no mefoiresh saying that he is here with us physically. And yet i heard a Chabad rabbi claim that Rashi said that Yaacov is with us physically; that is a lie.”
There you have it. Philosopher began this conversation by viciously attacking all those who understand Rashi the simple way it is learned in the yeshivos.
The next post from Philosopher was: “But you have to be “not too smart” to even think that Rashi thought that Yaacov Avinu is still PHYSICALLY alive during his time…”
Thus it continued, with Philosopher mocking and deriding anyone who learned the commonly accepted pshat of Rashi and some other meforshim.
When those opposing her view began answering back in the same manner as her, she begins crying how mean it is to attack someone for a having different pshat in Rashi.
Who began this attack!? Shame on you!
I must agree with Arso about the pot and kettle.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhat if it was the other way around?
What do you think the Charedi attitude would be regarding the army and refusers if the roles were reversed?
Let’s say Israel was a chareidi state. The IDF would be defending Israel in one way only: Through sitting and learning Torah, thus drawing Hashem’s protection on the Jewish people.
However, then will come the Jews who don’t spend much time learning Torah (“chilonim”) with a taanah:
“The Gemara says that without Dovid’s Torah learning Yoav couldn’t successfully fight wars, but without Yoav’s battles Dovid wouldn’t be able to learn Torah.
“We admire your Torah learning and are thankful for the protection that it brings, but it’s also necessary for us to fight physical battles.
“Allow us to prepare an army that will go take care of the physical Jewish Defense while you take care of the spiritual defense.”Imagine if the chareidim would respond: “Absolutely not. You despicable people obviously have no interest in protecting the Jewish people, you should be ashamed of yourselves. Every single Jew must be drafted to the learning brigade, fighting is bittul Torah!”
This is exactly what the government is doing now in Israel, just in the reverse.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMy point is that it is clearly not orthodox (an orthodox organization would not ch”v platform reform literature).
I agree that it’s definitely full of orthodox content which is why I use it all the time.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantOh that I wrote of instead of or. That’s a typo like you spelling columnist wrong.
I completely agree, it’s ridiculous to attack someone for a typo.
[Good thing I wasn’t the one who had just called someone a “functional illeterate” for missing a letter, or who had written “That’s a deranged individual who’s so full of hate that he can’t think of write straight.”]
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI didn’t read everything in this thread, but I will say this:
While I constantly use Sefaria as it is a very useful Torah tool — it is clearly run by Reform elements, and if I would find an alternative I would gladly switch.
For example: The default translation for Tanach is the Reform “Contemporary Torah: A Gender-Sensitive Adaptation of the JPS Translation”
Menachem ShmeiParticipant“Sorry that’s not a typo. That’s a deranged individual who’s so full of hate that he can’t think of write straight.”
I think we’ve found the Qwerty Quote of the Year: “can’t think of write straight.”
How eloquent, truly befitting of a veteran Jewish Press colomnist.על זה אומרים: כל הפוסל, במומו פוסל
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI must agree with RebE on this one
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, thanks for clarifying the story.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel,
Honestly curious about your intriguing story: Why was your friend participating in that church session?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantLet’s not forget the question that stumped Shmei, “How could Chabad reject Rambam ‘s criteria for Moshiach?”
I have clarified my position on this several times here, and I won’t change my mind.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem: Was it Chabad ‘s minhag to remove shoes already in prewar Europe?
If I’m not mistaken they did.
I have seen teshuva seforim (non Chabad) that mention this minhag.
Sefer שמש ומגן – תרנ”א writes a whole arichus explaining the reasons for the minhag, and it seems that this was a regular minhag in those days. He concludes:
ועל כן נמצא סמך למנהג העולם שפושטים נעליהם בבואם על קברי הצדיקים זיע”א”.
He calls it מנהג העולם, so it must be that it was a common minhag.I know that Rabbi Yochanan (Chabad) wrote up the history and sources of this minhag, but I haven’t gotten a hold of his writing.
Here’s something else I found online:
“R’ Moshe Dovber Rivkin[1] wrote:
דאדרבא מקום קברי צדיקי נחשב למקום קדוש, וכמ”ש המהרי”ל “דמקום מנוחת הצדיקים הוא מקום קדוש וטהור והתפלה מתקבלת יותר” הביאו הבה”ט בססי׳ תקפ״א.)ובוודאי מטע”ז נוהגיס הרבה בעת השתטחות על קברי צדיקים לחלוץ הנעלים כשנגשים אל הציון
The burial place of the righteous is (as the Maharil writes) “holy and pure, where prayers are accepted”. That’s why many, when going to prostrate themselves on the graves of the righteous, take off their shoes when they approach the grave.
The Nitei Gavriel also writes that this was the custom of R’ Yisrael of Sadigora (the grandson of the Ruzhiner) and Chernobyl.
[1] : One of the Chossidim of the Rebbe Rashab (the fifth Lubavitcher Rebbe) and the Previous Lubavitcher Rebbe, and one of the Roshei Yeshiva of Torah VaDaas)”
Menachem ShmeiParticipantDo Lubavitch take off their shoes by מערת המכפלה, קבר רחל, or קבר רשב״י?
I’m not sure.
If not, why not?
If not, maybe because they have more minhagim of respect for their rabbeim’s kvarim.
November 7, 2024 10:00 am at 10:00 am in reply to: Imagine if ALL of Klal Yisroel acted this way #2330606Menachem ShmeiParticipantI love this! This should not even be a chiddush, this should be obvious. Our connection to another Jew is WAY above politics. Thanks OP for sharing this.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantAdditionally, if I’m not mistaken, the minhag of removing shoes was quite common in the past by many Jews at kivrei tzaddikim, I don’t think it was unique to Lubavitch.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantCoffee addict,
What’s up with the non leather shoes, and walking out backwards. I’ve been to countless kivrei tzaddikim (רשב״י, רמב״ם, ר מאיר בעל הנס etc) and I don’t think breslovers have that rule (I have friends that went for Rosh Hashanah)
I understand the rule of אדמת קודש but isn’t this going a little TOO far?
Every Jewish sect has minhagim. It is normal for people to treat their holy places with various signs of respect. These are the traditional Chabad minhagim for the kevarim of their rabbeim.
See also Chabad-org: Why Do People Take Off Their Shoes When Visiting the Ohel?
Why should something be “a little too far” just because it happens to be a minhag Chabad?
October 23, 2024 10:59 am at 10:59 am in reply to: I Guess I’m Pulling for the “Chabad Media” Now? #2324955Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe above proposition is that the conditions of physical death did not apply to Yaacov. Are you understanding that this also means that all conditions of physical life did / do apply? Please clarify.
I have no idea. It is certainly more literal than Maharsha himself who holds that Yaakov’s body is dead like any other and he lives on through his children.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantHe quoted Rambam who, of course, said it’s allegorical but then he said that Ramban says it’s literal and Chabad follows Ramban. Which leads us to ask, Why do they study Rambam?
This again highlights Qwerty’s misunderstanding of normal study and dialogue, which seems to result in a limited grasp of how to approach learning Torah.
Qwerty, it seems that, in your mind, every discussion becomes a litmus test: Are you with me or against me? If someone is on your “team,” you’ll support whatever they say. If they’re not, you’ll dismiss or challenge their points and try to “checkmate” them, as if an intellectual conversation is just a game of chess.
But that’s not how real discussions work. One can agree on some things and disagree on others. You can find nuance in someone’s position and still respect their views despite some differences.
How much more so in Torah study, which is rooted in truth and peace. It is entirely possible to hold the Rambam in great esteem, and to emphasize studying his works, even if one doesn’t follow his rulings in every instance.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantReally nuts. Take a look at the PR thread. The Coffeeroom is being infiltrated by spammers. It’s only gonna get worse, until the mods get on top of their game.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantHappy New Year,
Many rishonim have opposed the concept of gilgulim and brought Chazal to support their stance.
Zohar, Arizal, and the major kabbalists support the idea of gilgulim.
The latter has been supported by the major gedolim of the recent centuries from the various Jewish circles, including chassidish, litvish and sfardi.
October 14, 2024 11:36 am at 11:36 am in reply to: I Guess I’m Pulling for the “Chabad Media” Now? #2324231Menachem ShmeiParticipantI don’t think you have to worry about the 5-6 CR Rabbi’s who disagree with you. The The Gur Aryeh (Maharal), The Maskil L’Dovid and Divrei Dovid (Taz) certainly did not learn Rashi like them (Obviously neither did the Ramban).
You haven’t been following the long discussion until now.
To summarize:
Rashi on Vayechi is quite ambiguous, and can probably be understood either way.
Rashi on Taanis however is simply understood to mean that Yaakov is physically alive, since he explains the Gemara that the only reason why Yaakov was embalmed and buried is because “he SEEMED dead, though really he was alive” (נדמה להם שהוא מת אבל חי הוא) [– as OPPOSED to other meforshim who hold that Yaakov was embalmed and buried because he was physically dead].
Maharsha understands Rashi this way (which is why he says that Rashi’s pshat is דוחק, and gives his own pshat). Artscroll understands Rashi this way (I’ve quoted the footnote many times). Rif to Ein Yaakov, Etz Yosef, Iyun Yaakov and Ohr Hachayim all clearly hold that יעקב לא מת is literal, and ויגוע means that Yaakov was in a deep state of sleep.
[None of the meforshim that you mentioned (גו”א, משכיל לדוד, ד”ד) quote Rashi on Taanis (נדמה להם), rather they are being mefaresh Rashi on chumash. Even if you were to find a meforash who interprets Rashi on Taanis to mean spiritual, that is definitely not the פירוש הפשוט of Rashi there, as I have shown in the previous paragraph.]
The answer to Philosopher’s question (that later it says that the sons saw כי מת אביהם) is obvious after reading the Ramban: The possuk is only writing about how Yaakov seemed to the sons’ perspective — they looked at Yaakov and say כי מת אביהם, which doesn’t necessarily reflect on the reality.
This answer of the Ramban solves the issue from this possuk for all the opinions in meforshim, including the literal interpretations. Ramban’s own opinion (which seems to be cryptic and not clearly fitting with either interpretation) is irrelevant to this point.
October 14, 2024 11:36 am at 11:36 am in reply to: Navigating the Challenges of International Public Relations #2324226Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe mods have WENT TO SLEEP about a month or two ago, and there has been a surge of spam ever since.
It will probably only get worse.
A true shame.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantInteresting point, Yankel.
I assume that Qwerty and Philosopher insist that all meforshim interpret the story of Yonah to be a משל, because Torah must be completely rational, G-d performs nothing above nature.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantLubavitchers never discuss the Holocaust as per the Rebbe’s orders. I knew that and so one Shabbos I gave a speech focusing on the Shoah in order to annoy a certain Chabad Rabbi. As I anticipated he blew a gasket and announced,”The Holocaust is one of those times when G-d couldn’t explain himself. Like when the Romans were torturing Rabbi Akiva and the angels said Zeh Torah and Zeh it’s Schar? And Hashem couldn’t answer them.”
So do Lubavitchers never discuss the Holocaust, or do they disagree with the reasons you gave for why the Holocaust happened? 🤔
(Not that it makes much of a difference. After all, one who disagrees with Qwerty is disagreeing with G-d Hikiddos.
P.S. It’s incredible that with all of Qwerty’s insane hate and rhetoric here for anyone who dares associate with Chabad in any which way, he is allowed to gives speeches in a Chabad shul!!!
Qwerty, your Chabad Rabbis must be very, very kind and merciful toward you. I’m sure they use immense self control to treat you like a mensch. It’s incredible how chassidus can help someone master their middos.
October 9, 2024 2:38 pm at 2:38 pm in reply to: What Can YWN Do To Improve Itself This New Coming Year? #2323266Menachem ShmeiParticipantParticipant,
Mods seem to be fast asleep.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantHey mods 👋, are you still there?
@Participant directed an important post at you. Did you miss it?Menachem ShmeiParticipantIt is not rare for a sicko creep to baselessly accuse others of the very sins they themselves are guilty of.
Someone has been baselessly accusing Arso of terrible things for a while now, and this individual is starting to reveal his true colors, which are even darker than we initially thought.
I am increasingly surprised at the recent absolute lack of moderation on this platform, which has now descended from maniacal rhetoric to inyonim of hepech hatznius, r”l.
October 8, 2024 5:44 am at 5:44 am in reply to: How To Do Kiruv Nowadays When Half of Non-Orthodox “Jews” Aren’t Jewish? #2322358Menachem ShmeiParticipantWow, most posters here don’t seem to know the first thing about kiruv.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI thought you were openly a tichiyas-hameisim-first-nik, rather than a still-alive-nik if you’re catching my drift. Is that not correct?
You’re right, this conversation is irrelevant to the Rebbe. I haven’t voiced ANY opinion here about the Rebbe being alive or being Moshiach.
Philosopher started the conversation out of the blue, with this ignorant attack:
It is Lubavitche like you who twist everything out of context. For example when Rashi says that Yaacov avinu did not die there are numerous mefarshim that explain what it means. There is no mefoiresh saying that he is here with us physically. And yet i heard a Chabad rabbi claim that Rashi said that Yaacov is with us physically; that is a lie.
In a way I am happy about this discussion, because it led me to do more research into יעקב לא מת than I’ve ever done.
October 1, 2024 11:53 am at 11:53 am in reply to: I Guess I’m Pulling for the “Chabad Media” Now? #2320736Menachem ShmeiParticipantYou claimed that Rashi is saying something different on the Gemorah. He is not. He is saying the exact same thing. But instead of saying “Yaacov lo mes” he is saying “lo mes-he chai l’oilum” which is essentially the same thing.
If this is the only difference you saw in Rashi on Taanis then you have no idea what the entire discussion is about!
You clearly don’t even know what Rashi wrote in Taanis, and why Maharsha, Artscroll, et al understood him to mean literally.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantGadolhadorah,
It’s clear that there has recently been a major change in how the mods review and approve posts in the CR.
October 1, 2024 11:04 am at 11:04 am in reply to: Chofetz chaim says to bring Mashiach need to love everyone. #2320418Menachem ShmeiParticipantSomejew, you haven’t answered my question. Is killing intrinsically bad or not?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantthe Ramban clearly concludes that Rashi saying Yaacov lo mes means he is spiritually alive.
No. He brings the מאמר חז”ל from Rashi. Then he gives his own interpretation of Chazal. His pirush has nothing to do with Rashi’s pirush specifically, and definitely not with Rashi on Shas (which is what we are discussing).
Honestly, I don’t think we even know which way the Ramban held, because his words here can be understood both ways (as opposed to Maharsha, Rashba, etc. who clearly hold that Yaakov is alive spiritually. And Rashi, Rif, etc. who clearly hold that Yaakov is alive physically).
Either way, the point is that your question is clearly answered, no matter what the Ramban held.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMods, one of the posters is going to far. He was often censored in the past, and I think his posts should be reviewed.
September 30, 2024 3:11 pm at 3:11 pm in reply to: I Guess I’m Pulling for the “Chabad Media” Now? #2320255Menachem ShmeiParticipantRashi is saying Yaacov lo mes.
Rashi (on Shas, which is what we’re discussing) did not say Yaakov Lo Mes. He was mefaresh the Gemara that said that, and in a way that clearly means that he physically didn’t die, as Rashi is understood by Maharsha and Artscroll and more.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantI guess it takes a while to censor your posts complaining about being censored?
Funny. I do think there has unfortunately been a recent lack of oversight here.
September 30, 2024 10:48 am at 10:48 am in reply to: Chofetz chaim says to bring Mashiach need to love everyone. #2320147Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe Chofetz Chaim says the above. Idol worshippers are apikorsom. You are bringing stories from Tanach to reach your own conclusion to disagree with the Chofetz Chaim? Or are you being misunderstood? Where in Shulchan Aruch does it say it is ever prohibited to condemn, mock or despise idol worshippers?
My point was that when speaking about Jews, one is playing with fire. Handle with care.
September 30, 2024 10:48 am at 10:48 am in reply to: Chofetz chaim says to bring Mashiach need to love everyone. #2320146Menachem ShmeiParticipantSomejew,
Question: Why can’t we use iron on the מזבח? We are told it’s because iron is a tool of death. But isn’t it used for the killing of bad people? How can death itself be something bad, sometimes it is a very good a necessary thing?
Another question: Dovid Hamelech was not able to build the Beis Hamikdash because דם לרוב שפחת – Hashem didn’t want His house built by someone whose hands were filled with blood.
But wasn’t it the blood of wicked enemies of the Jews who deserved to be killed? What could negative about this?Menachem ShmeiParticipantYakov would not be ‘in a deep sleep’ because how didn’t the embalmers notice his breathing ?
And his pulse ?
It says they thought him being dead ?It could be that his brain was functioning bederech nes without oxygen supply, and that was the measure of life within his body.
Thats why it does not say vayamat.This is indeed a plausible explanation, I don’t know. I was just bringing how the meforshim explain the word ויגוע here.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIn other words, the Ramban is questioning in the first part but his conclusion is that Yaacov lo mes means that his non-death is a spiritual matter.
Philosopher, this is the problem when you ignore the answer to your question for three weeks, and suddenly wake up to address it when you think you found a challenge.
In my original post where I brought the Ramban, I acknowledged your point, and it’s irrelevant to the discussion!
Here is part of my original post, with the part where I acknowledge your point in bold:
D) Your exellent question stands even if you learn יעקב לא מת spiritually: The fact is that Gemara calls Yaakov לא מת, and Rashi on Chumash (and Tosfos in Gemara) proves it from the fact that the posuk doesn’t use the word מיתה regarding Yaakov, so how can it say מת אביהם!?
E) Ramban (who doesn’t necessarily interpret the Gemara physically) is bothered by the same question as you!
In other words: Your question is a question on the Chazal according to any pirush, physical or spiritual.
Ramban answers your question perfectly. It doesn’t matter if he is one of the meforshim who interpret it physically or not. The point is that your question has been asked and answered.
The answer works for all pirushim of Yaakov Lo Mes.This was the exact point I made originally with the Ramban, and you conveniently waited till everyone would forget this point before proposing your weak argument and pretending as if I ignored that part of Ramban.
P.S. The reason why I wrote “not necessarily” is because the last part of the Ramban is written in very vague and concise terms, so I’m not fully clear on his stance. However, even if he does hold that it is only spiritual, the answer still stand for Rashi et al, as I just explained.
September 29, 2024 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm in reply to: Chofetz chaim says to bring Mashiach need to love everyone. #2319980Menachem ShmeiParticipantone must be equally careful in both directions.
I’m not sure this is true. Chessed is an inherently good middah, though it can be used for bad. Achzariyus is an inherently bad middah, though it can be used for good.
It is definitely better to err on the side of chessed.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMods, I take back my last post for now. The posts are going up with remarkable speed. Thanks!
September 29, 2024 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm in reply to: I Guess I’m Pulling for the “Chabad Media” Now? #2319968Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe issue with the Tzedoikim was that they interpreted Torah Shebchsav wrongly because they disregarded Torah Shebaal Peh entirely, not that they interpreted it wrong
What you are doing is, in a way, worse than the tzedokim. They only accepted the literal meaning of Torah Shebiksav and rejected Torah Shebaal Peh outright. You only accept the literal meaning of Torah Shebiksav yet twist Torah Shebaal Peh to fit your literal understanding.
Philosopher, if a woman touches a man inappropriately, should her hand be cut off?
If, based on Chazal, you answer no – my question is: How can Chazal “contradict” the clear meaning of the possuk (Devarim 25:12)?
Please answer this question. Should her hand be cut off or not.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem Shmei refers to a Gemara as “obscure.”
Obscure (not well known) for a child who just began learning Chumash.
Menachem ShmeiParticipantIf posts aren’t being censored, why does it take so long for posts to go up?
Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhat does it mean that Yaacov expired?
Why do you ignore the meforshim I brought who say ויגוע means a deep sleep?
A little further in the parsha it says that the brothers of Yosef saw that their father DIED with the loshen “mes”.
But Rashi said that מיתה לא נאמרה בו – it doesn’t use the term “death” regarding Yaakov!
Why do you ignore the Ramban I brought on that possuk who explained that the possuk is not saying that Yaakov died, rather that his sons SAW him as dead, as Rashi wrote נדמה להם שהוא מת?
September 29, 2024 1:24 pm at 1:24 pm in reply to: Question for those who don’t think Charedim should join the IDF #2319876Menachem ShmeiParticipantWould you criticize the IDF cook by saying: “Why are you sitting comfortably in a safe room while other soldiers are risking their lives on the battlefield? Why aren’t you out there in danger, fighting alongside them?”
Such an argument would be absurd. While combat may seem more heroic and demanding than working in the kitchen, if the cooks were to abandon their post and join the battle, the soldiers would starve!
The soldiers and the cooks are partners, each fulfilling a critical role in the war effort.
The same applies to Torah learners and physical fighters:
The ruchniyus aspect of the war is waged by those learning Torah in yeshiva, while the physical war is fought by the soldiers on the battlefield.
The Gemara says (Sanhedrin 49a):
אילמלא דוד לא עשה יואב מלחמה ואילמלא יואב לא עסק דוד בתורה
Were it not for David [who engaged in Torah study], Joab would not have been able to wage war. And were it not for Joab [who fought the battles], David would not have been able to study Torah.If either side abandoned their responsibilities due to a desire to do the other’s role, it would endanger us all, ch”v.
September 29, 2024 1:24 pm at 1:24 pm in reply to: Question for those who don’t think Charedim should join the IDF #2319863Menachem ShmeiParticipantPikuach nefesh overrides Yehareig V’al Yaavor and you know that.
Huh?
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