Is this some sort of sick joke? As a seminary student I feel personally insulted. Making plans for Shabbat is a difficult process, and seeing something like this makes me lose faith in American humanity. ‘Serious learners’? ‘GAP sweatshirts’? Even attempting to describe somebody as ‘nebby’ indicates the emotional capacity of a teaspoon. How shallow could you be? On a different note, yes we try our best to be helpful and play with the children and help tidy up when we eat out for Shabbat. Please don’t be the nightmare host people dread turning up to. You want to make your guests feel welcomed and not ridiculously judged.