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  • in reply to: How tznius are todays sheitels? #731050
    mdd
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    Rabbiofberlin, It is mefurash in the Gemora that at least a certain degree of hair-covering is De’Oraysa,eventhough it is a lav davka a lav or an ase. Something could be min’HaTorah without being a full-fledged lav or an ase. Stop dreing up the Halocha because of your misguided hashkofos.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #731004
    mdd
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    And doing teshuva entails feeling bad about one’s aveiros.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #731003
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    Oomis, the Rabbonim of that dor knew that rebuke would be useless, and mutav they should be shogegos ve’lo mezidos.

    A piece of chazir is a piece of chazir. It is an Orthodox website — the Laws of the Torah do not change. Even if it reflects badly on your relatives.

    And about kiruv, I am Ba’al Teshuva.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730997
    mdd
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    Rabbiofberlin, I can not tell you about the Berditchever or the Lubavitcher, but there are numerous sources for this from TaNaCh and Chazal and later Gedolim. Just look in sefer Tehillim to start with.

    in reply to: How tznius are todays sheitels? #731044
    mdd
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    Enlightenedjew, only in a certain country.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730994
    mdd
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    Jewish and working 22, your example does not touch upon the bottom-line Tsnius standards — me’ikar ha’din it’s ok. Covering the toes depends on minhag ha’mokom.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730989
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    Oomis, the standards do not go by what people think or do. You can not walk around inapproprietly dressed and be considered tsniusdic. What if in a certain place they decide that it is not wrong to steal?

    What if somebody’s zeides were off the derech and did not keep Shabbos? You can’t call them mechallelei Shabbos? Come on. Call a spade a spade. Do not condone avieros of yesteryear or of today!

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730985
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    Rabbiofberlin, do you ever get outraged when someone does an aveira? You should.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730979
    mdd
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    Dunno,the Torah says it is everybody’s business, the american bill of rights might disagree.

    in reply to: Covering hair once married. #730218
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    This is outrageous. This is Yeshiva WN, not Modern- matir everything wildly-WN. It would take me half a day to answer all the shvere kulos over here.SJSin, there are those who claim RambaM ALLOWED BEATING ONE’S WIFE. Like that?

    Rabbiof, it is good to melamed zechus but not by being oker Halocha!!!

    Yitay!! Most Poskim hold it does not depend on the minhag ha’mokom. And this opinion does not fit the reality — even if ladies in a certain place wear very open clothing, a man does not get used to it. Whom are we kidding??

    Trumas Hadeshen, means that covering all hair is derabbonon, but the ikar covering is de’Oraysa. (Chofets Chaim writes it’s de’Oraysa).

    Plus, all these ba’ALEI AVEIROS DON’T HAVE ALL THESE heterim in mind. They do it because of ta’avos.

    Bekitsur, why don’t you go and open the Everything-mutar.com?

    in reply to: Covering hair once married. #730190
    mdd
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    The Gemora in Kesubos says that covering the hair is de’Oraysa!!(there are additional Halochos de’Rabbonon about that, but the ikar is min ha’Torah)

    Rabbiofberlin , maybe, you want to melamed ze’chus on the Jews of Bais Rishon by saying that avoda zara is not me’de’Oraysa??

    Chibuk ve’nishuk is negia shel chiba, for example.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730960
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    I agree with m in Israel. Just I would say it in stronger terms.

    in reply to: Chalav Stam? no such a thing #809599
    mdd
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    Bed Stuy, who does not want to be a big chossid?

    in reply to: Covering hair once married. #730184
    mdd
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    Negia shel chiba is de’Oraisa and “yehareg ve’lo ya’avor”. Look in Shach in Yore Deya, Halochos of Yeahareg ve’lo Ya’avor.

    Covering the hair in the street is also min’HaTorah — Kesubos 72A.

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730952
    mdd
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    Oomis, I read your outrageous post again. ” Some would not consider them tsniusdig…”. The Torah standards, the Halocha do not change!! According to you, it is shayach to wear a bathing suit in front of men and still be a tsanua — this beyond anything!

    in reply to: tznius to wear skirts that just hit the knee or are above the knee? #730949
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    Oomis, what they did 40 years ago was also terrible. The Torah does not change because many people are doing aveiros.

    in reply to: Chalav Stam? no such a thing #809541
    mdd
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    Cholov Yisroel? There is no such thing. There is a prohobition on Cholov Akum.

    in reply to: Divorce Rate in the frum community #728545
    mdd
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    Not over every divorce does the mizbeach sheds tears — only zivug rishon (Gittin 90B).

    in reply to: Divorce Rate in the frum community #728541
    mdd
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    Smartcookie,Gaboim and others, I am not for divorces, but to put things into a Torah perspective: Beis Hillel held that one is allowed to divorce one’s wife, if she burnt his food. Rabbi Akiva ( whom we don’t pasken like) held that even if he found a different candidate who is prettier than his wife, he is allowed to divorce her.

    in reply to: Nothing Wrong With Smoking #727369
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    Popa bar abba, you can’t just mevatel everything the doctors say ant take crazy risks with one’s health.

    in reply to: Venice and Switerland Vacation #779942
    mdd
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    Culture?!?? Switzerland is not different than Germany and Belgium? Ridiculous! Have you seen the Alps? And the Smartcookie seeks not the culture shel amim!

    in reply to: Venice and Switerland Vacation #779937
    mdd
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    In Schweiz, there are the magnificient Alps. Stunning views (don’t forget the brocha). It’s something else.

    In Venice, there are olden buildings and canals. But they have olden buildings in Switzerland too.

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726206
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    RB,obviously, not.

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726198
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    Real Brisker, I am not going to argue with you here if 2+2=4.

    Cedahurst, did you use to be “myfriend”?

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726191
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    RB, Go to my previous post with the definition and drei nit ken kup.

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726185
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    Gabboim, what I mean is why min’ha’stam assume such things? Do you ,also, know that something which was cooked in a not-ben-yomo treif pot is kosher ( if sharp food was not used)? Do you know that stam keilim are be’chezkas of eino ben-yomo?

    RB, where did I say that standards is Halocha? You do not know the most basic things.

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726180
    mdd
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    Often the utensils won’t passel the food

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726179
    mdd
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    And the term “standards” for machlokes ha’Poskim is a misleading one.

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726178
    mdd
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    If there is a known machlokes — ok. But why assume it?

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726176
    mdd
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    What is this business with standards? Is it kosher according to the Shulchan Aruch?

    in reply to: Older Guys in Shidduchim #775427
    mdd
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    Gemorah says sharfe zachen about those who do not osek in pirya ve’rivya. It is a chiyuv to get married (especially for a man).

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726172
    mdd
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    Real Brisker, Halocha is a set of practical obligations, which apply to every Jew. They are based on the Laws of the Torah.

    Sometimes, there is a machlokes of Rishonim or Achronim about a certain obligation. At times the Halocha follows the lenient opinion. It is a ma’alah to conform to the stringent opinion, and it’s called a chumra. Chumros are not obligatory, unless accepted as a neder. A different example of a chumra is when a person does something extra, not required by Halocha, to distance oneself from aveira.

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726167
    mdd
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    I’ll help you after Shabbos, bli neder.

    in reply to: Older Guys in Shidduchim #775424
    mdd
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    Of course, thet did not have alter bochurim in previous doros?

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726164
    mdd
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    “These are his standards”. Precisely. Who said his standards are Halocha?!?

    in reply to: Letting people bring food into your home #726163
    mdd
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    REAL BRISKER, WHAT I MEAN is that Halocha is Halocha, and chumros are chumros. The problem is that way too many people do not understand the difference. You don’t compromise Halocha. Chumros are a different story.

    in reply to: Tipping a delivery boy – Mandatory or Optional? #920317
    mdd
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    RB,ever heard of eisav sone le’Ya’akov? No need to provoke. And, don’t sweat so much about giving up a dollar.

    in reply to: Falling in Love- a Jewish Concept? #724627
    mdd
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    “Ahavas kala, m’sos dodim…”. What do you say to that?

    in reply to: Falling in Love- a Jewish Concept? #724626
    mdd
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    And no matter what was the story with Ya’akov Avinu, you are right, his madreiga is not a hiyuv for every Yid.

    in reply to: Falling in Love- a Jewish Concept? #724625
    mdd
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    Bein hasedorim, he probably loved her on all the levels. Leah, when she went out to invite Ya’akov to her tent, put on make-up. Why?

    in reply to: Falling in Love- a Jewish Concept? #724623
    mdd
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    Tzvi Hirsh, Medrash Rabba says that Ya’akov wanted to divorce Leah before she gave birth to the Shvatim. It also says there that Lavan told his landsleit:” You know, Ya’akov loves Rochel…”. He did not mean the farfrummed,made-up definitions mentiond above.

    in reply to: Tipping a delivery boy – Mandatory or Optional? #920250
    mdd
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    Tip is expected from a “mentch”, for crying out loud.

    in reply to: Tipping a delivery boy – Mandatory or Optional? #920249
    mdd
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    Trying my best, it is important to remember that we don’t live in a bubble, and we do have to care about the impression we make.

    in reply to: Tipping a delivery boy – Mandatory or Optional? #920226
    mdd
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    When it comes to certain professions, it is expected that the workers will be tipped. Not to do it is Chilul HaShem and causing eiva.

    in reply to: The Liberals' True Face #768585
    mdd
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    Supporting the poor does not equal Socialism. Not Everything Rush Limbaugh Says is Da’as Torah! Do not be blindly influenced.

    in reply to: lethal action in the times of the Gemorrah #793476
    mdd
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    To execute someone for the issur of eshes ish or mishkav zochur, you need a p’sak sanhedrin.

    in reply to: The Liberals' True Face #768571
    mdd
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    Not everything Rush Limbaugh says is Da’as Torah. Certain ideas in the Torah concur with what the “right” says, and certain ones with what the “left” says.

    in reply to: The Liberals' True Face #768570
    mdd
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    Popa, not so poshut. Plus, what difference does it make? The bottom line is the same.

    in reply to: The Liberals' True Face #768558
    mdd
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    Beis din extracts at times money from the wealthy, if they refuse to give charity. Rova did it.

    in reply to: A Random Shaale Halocho Lemaaseh #728957
    mdd
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    I was told — no.

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