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  • in reply to: What was your Purim like? #2171787
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    “MBachur: How did you not throw up? My husband tried everything, but every year he throws up, and I can’t take it. I don’t mind when he’s high… but it’s not worth it afterward when he’s throwing up and feeling sick like a dog.

    One thing I can’t understand is how they do it again every year. I understand the first time when you don’t realize what’s coming. But after feeling so sick, how can one bare to drink again. (And it’s not like he dreads it, he gets excited every year! How do I remind him what it felt like?????“

    Sorry I’m twelve years too late in answering

    Drink one cup of wine then one cup of water and have food along with it, will get you tipsy but not so drunk that you throw up

    in reply to: Can We Please Sing ונהפוך הוא correctly? #2171664
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    It’s called poetic license

    in reply to: See the Big Picture! #2171665
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    Thank you DaMoshe

    I thought the reason it’s called “the Megillah” is because when you think of someone saying “a gantzeh Megillah” it’s usually a woman 😜😜

    in reply to: Dissapointed #2171445
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    Welcome to the cr American yeshivish

    You hit the nail on the head

    in reply to: Remember the Old Timers? #2171160
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    Little froggie has posted recently

    However I do miss a lot of other old timers 😢

    in reply to: Bar Mitzvah 411 #2170896
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    Commonsaychel,

    Why do you think he/she is a troll

    To yechiell,

    I take it you don’t have older kids

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    Good to know,

    Lefty in regards to politics is the same as liberal so obviously he can’t mean politics when he says lefty

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    How do you know that their left hand is the dominant one?

    in reply to: Shtultz #2170291
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    “Im sorry i dont understand what you are trying to say“

    You said

    “it is not coming from insecurity. if a bunch of modern orthodox people just show up in a yeshivish shul, it is one hundred percent warranted that people wouldnt want to start socializing with them.“

    So I said “But I’m dressed yeshivish”

    And you’re right, I can’t base a chassidus off of one random chassid I’m just saying that it reminds me of something that happened to me which I feel was the “shpitz shtultz”

    in reply to: Shtultz #2170166
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    Kaltlitvak,

    But I’m dressed yeshivish

    in reply to: Shtultz #2170130
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    “CA: The kehila in Klal Yisroel that is the most anti-“shtultz”is Satmar”

    You reminded me of a story that happened to me when I was younger

    I went to be מנחם אבל someone in Boro Park and afterwards went to a restaurant to eat so when I got my order over there I went to a table to sit down, then a few minutes later a chosid (not sure what type, I didn’t ask him) sits down opposite me (with his food) so I commented that שנים שישבו and now we were יוצא (because that is a הלכה) and he stared at me with this shtultzy stare and then kept on eating

    in reply to: Big Organization Influence in Judaism #2170129
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    Totally agree, go out of town and if you hear someone is in the hospital people step up and make food for them, in NY people say “there’s Bikur Cholim”

    in reply to: Shtultz #2170104
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    I want to be clear

    Shultz isn’t specifically for high schoolers (or even beis medrashers) I have been places where NO ONE comes over to a new person that started to daven in their shul/Kollel, not the Rav and not any of the other mispallelim

    This is what I call shtultz, when no one is gores anyone outside of their circle

    One time I went to a Young Israel, on the other hand, and when no one said shalom to a stranger the Rabbi got up and made an announcement because of that

    in reply to: Shtultz #2169647
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    Yeahivaguy

    Sometimes a ninth grader needs a twelfth grader to be friends with in order to help them grow and look out for them

    in reply to: Shtultz #2169418
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    “Coffee, comparing the yeshiva worlds shtultz issues to modern orthodoxy is like comparing a blood test with an amputation.

    MO is rife with institutionalized sin and heresy.“

    Saying that the Yeshiva world doesn’t need to be fixed because MO is worse is like saying you don’t have to go on a diet if you’re 30 lbs overweight because there are people that are 50 lbs overweight

    It’s like saying that someone doesn’t have to quit drinking alcohol because his liver isn’t as bad as someone that has been drinking for decades and his liver is worse

    If you always look at other people’s problems you’ll never fix yourself

    in reply to: Medinah #2169293
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    Where do you get that from?

    Once it’s nullified partially it’s totally nullified

    in reply to: Medinah #2169295
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    Or I should say better once it’s nullified for a little bit it’s totally nullified

    in reply to: Medinah #2169201
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    Joe,

    You forget that wars fought over territory is binding if the other side retreats (look at Russia with Ukraine) now that is part of Israel and UN can’t say no, if that was the case Russia has to give back whatever they captured and good luck with getting them to do that!

    in reply to: Techiyas Hameisim By 5786/5790 #2169202
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    A bunch of things in support

    1) I’ve heard it quoted from the תלמידים of the גר״א that כלל ישראל in ארץ ישראל is משיח בן יוסף and לאו דווקא will משיח בן יוסף die if they live past 5771 which is the ראשי תאבות of the פסוק in אז ישיר “אמר אויב ארדוף …״ until אריק so that makes sense with what geulah time was saying

    2) Amnon Yitzchak has said that the world will go crazy until the year 2030 (you can find out his predictions on YouTube) and he said some interesting things that will happened beforehand

    in reply to: Medinah #2169051
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    “If the UN vote permitting a State is binding, then the UN votes partitioning Palestine into a Jewish state and an Arab state, with Jerusalem being an international zone, (and future UN votes demanding Israel leave the Arab zones) is equally binding.“

    Britain agreed to the vote so that’s why it was binding

    Israel doesn’t agree to the subsequent votes so therefore it’s not binding

    in reply to: CPA vrs Masters in Accounting #2168825
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    I was in the same boat

    I got an MBA from Keller (an online college) and didn’t go for a CPA, no one wants to look at me due to having no experience and really whatever experience you have is more worthwhile than the degree

    I think going for a CPA is if you want to work in a place like Roth & co.

    in reply to: Once Again, I Will Not Be Getting Drunk on Purim #2168554
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    “On the other hand, those that the whole year barely drink, but on purim force themselves against their natural inclination to get drink purely lsheim Mitzvah, are true heroes.“

    I hold this same philosophy (I wouldn’t call them heroes though)

    in reply to: Once Again, I Will Not Be Getting Drunk on Purim #2168455
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    Aaq,

    So then you don’t know that many people 😉

    Also why can’t he use a little wine and the rest grape juice and the smallest shiur

    in reply to: Medinah #2168353
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    Avirah

    I think you are playing down the Palestinians abilities

    They have captured soldiers and the soldiers went into the lion’s den where the terrorists can shoot from roofs etc. they went in the middle of the day and they gave a warning beforehand

    I’m extremely surprised no one got even injured especially if there were hundreds of Arabs surrounding them

    in reply to: Once Again, I Will Not Be Getting Drunk on Purim #2168333
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    To each their own wolf

    I don’t look down at you for not getting drunk please don’t loose down at those who do get drunk (if really doing it for the mitzvah)

    in reply to: Rants on Demand #2168197
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    I don’t think there’s an e in rantable

    in reply to: Medinah #2168174
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    in reply to: Melech HaMashiach #2168168
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    Yankel,

    I think you misunderstood N0mesorah

    in reply to: White History Month #2167965
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    Jackk,

    Who was making fun of black history month?

    This is the sad state of the democrat party always virtue signaling and trying to paint republicans as evil (republicans want to cut Medicare? Was there any proof of that?)

    in reply to: White History Month #2167952
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    Ujm,

    February is black history month so there are black males

    in reply to: White History Month #2167838
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    You mean white male history month

    Women’s history month is next month

    in reply to: Medinah #2167745
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    I also want to add that it’s only by muktzeh (something that’s drabbonon because they did it as a geder to protect shabbos

    It’s not a blanket thing (even though we say יש כח לחכמים לעקור דבר מן התורה….)

    in reply to: Medinah #2167744
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    “Coffee, i hear your perspective, but i preempted it by saying that chazal cancelled mitzvos due to the mere possibility of people sinning. Klal yisroel’s shofar, 4 minim… Aren’t worth it if one jew *might* carry… Accidentally!!“

    I understand what you are saying, however

    “they aren’t canceling the mitzvah completely, only if it falls out on shabbos, and originally it was only cancelled outside of the mikdash, in the beis hamikdash they still did all those things (this was before galus edom)

    “Kal vechomer it’s not worth it for us to have eretz yisroel in order to keep shmitah etc if the MAJORITY will sin WILLFULLY, even if they’re tinokos shenishbu, which is far from clear. I think you’d agree that at least some chilonim aren’t, if they grew up somewhat religious.“

    Would you say the same thing about Kiruv? There’s a lot of people that will drive home on shabbos purposely? What about Pesach? People will eat chametz anyway!

    It seems like the chachamim did it specifically by shabbos and in a case where the mitzvah won’t be forgotten (every year Rosh Hashana falls out on a different day of the week, and there were two days outside of eretz yisrael) and if you say that we should “give up” eretz yisrael, no Jew would live there? If they would a not frum could also and it wouldn’t solve anything

    in reply to: Medinah #2167685
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    “How is having the land the greatest gift? what has it brought us? More people sin with it by not keeping shmita/terumah/maaser….isn’t that a net loss?“

    I see it as the opposite, now that we have land more people are keeping shmittah, terumos, and maaseros (and those that aren’t are tinoks shenishhbahs

    I wouldn’t be surprised if there were more people keeping shmittah than during the first beis hamikdash

    in reply to: Medinah #2167333
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    Avira,

    Nothing can happen outside of what Hashem wants, even the “מעשה שטן” by the עגל was orchestrated by Hashem (if you believe the שטן has power outside of Hashem I think you have the wrong religion)

    Now that doesn’t mean that it isn’t a test (like the עגל) but it’s exactly what Hashem wants and it might be that the state is “evil” and the test is to fight the state at every turn, but it knight also mean that the state should be used as way to be מקרב people that would be lost to assimilation if not for the state

    in reply to: Medinah #2167241
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    The question ultimately is was this part of Hashem’s plan? Can something happen that isn’t part of Hashem’s plan?

    I saw a vort recently (can’t remember where) that גם זו לטובה means that the only reason you’re viewing it as bad is because you don’t see the full picture, if you did you would see a masterpiece and ultimately this “bad thing” was really good

    To joe’s question of “ Does that make the Holocaust a good thing?” I have heard that if the holocaust didn’t happen there would have been so much intermarriage that we wouldn’t be able to recover as a nation, so in some aspects it was “good” (I apologize to the posters that had ancestors that perished in the holocaust I’m not trying to make hitler yms a good person, nor what he did was a good action, but it is all in Hashem’s plan)

    in reply to: Yeshivishe “Rayd” or “Reid” #2166880
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    Please explain

    According to my understanding no one can get to גן עדן

    in reply to: Yeshivishe “Rayd” or “Reid” #2166753
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    Reb eliezer,

    Look in פרק ג פסוק כ״ד the פסוק says לשמור את דרך עץ החיים why do you need something to guard the way to the עץ החיים they couldn’t get into גן עדן according to your pshat let alone the עץ החיים

    in reply to: Itamar Ben-Gvir #2166541
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    Loshenhara,

    “If we could only have achdus then we
    would have no problems with the Palestinians“

    Personally IMO achdus only comes about through Torah
    ויחן שם ישראל נגד ההר-כאיש אחד בלב אחד

    By Purim Haman said עם מפוזר ומפורד which means there was no achdus and what happened afterwards קימו וקיבלו, קימו מה שקבלו כבר

    in reply to: Aliens/UFO/Extraterrestrial Beings #2166444
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    “Coffee addict, I have no idea what the gedolim said about the earthquake or the attacks.“

    Then I guess you don’t frequent the main site

    Posek HaDor On Turkish Quake: “The Navi Tells Us The Houses In J-m Will Be Destroyed”

    Hagaon HaRav Gershon Edelstein Shlit”a Pens Urgent Message in Light of Recent Tragedies

    in reply to: Aliens/UFO/Extraterrestrial Beings #2166445
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    Gadolhadorah,

    I guess I misunderstood this part of your comment

    “We have chashuvah rabbonim and askanim offering conflicting reasons over the past week for the big Earthquake in Turkey, the terrorist attacks in EY and even why the Eagles lost the superbowl.“

    Maybe next time indicate that it’s cr rabbonim and askanim

    in reply to: Yeshivishe “Rayd” or “Reid” #2166400
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    Reb eliezer,

    So what was the point of the angels to block the way to the עץ החיים

    in reply to: Aliens/UFO/Extraterrestrial Beings #2166354
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    Gadolhadorah,

    Are you knocking the gedolim that spoke about the earthquake and the terrrorist attacks?

    in reply to: Aliens/UFO/Extraterrestrial Beings #2166290
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    Ry23,

    How do you know that they weren’t the ones to make such stories?

    Maybe sci-fi stories of aliens are really autobiographies

    in reply to: Yeshivishe “Rayd” or “Reid” #2165769
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    Reb eliezer,

    What I’m saying is that Adam Harishon ate from the עץ הדעת on the sixth day but Hashem let him stay in גן עדן over Shabbos which is why He put the angels by the עץ החיים because if he was kicked out of גן עדן right away why does anything need to be put by the עץ החיים?

    I hope I’m being clear

    in reply to: Itamar Ben-Gvir #2165634
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    “that is the problem. we should be trying our best to FULLY SECURE our communities and not allow these arab terrorists who openly call for our death to be living next to our sons and daughters. if Moshe, Yehoshua, Gideon, Shimshon and Dovid Hamelech were running EY today they would totally not accept the current security situation.“

    They would probably have klal yisrael do teshuva for an aveirah that was done or daven (like moshe with amelek)

    When klal yisrael does the רצון ה׳ there is no need for “security”

    in reply to: Yeshivishe “Rayd” or “Reid” #2165491
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    Reb eliezer,

    I thought Adam harishon was in gan Eden over shabbos

    in reply to: Melech HaMashiach #2165488
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    Square root,

    Are you talking about moshiach’s descendants or his yichus to Dovid and Shlomo?

    in reply to: Melech HaMashiach #2165329
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    I’m playing devil’s advocate here I don’t believe any of them are moshiach

    The Gemara says (a famous Shmuely unger song) כל המלמד את בן חבירו כאילו היוולדו

    If that’s the case his children can be his תלמידים

    in reply to: Yeshivishe “Rayd” or “Reid” #2165233
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    Avira,

    Takkah eppes grada a gevaldige Zach!

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