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What kind of heter do you think someone can create?
buying a costume for purim (there are sometimes pritzus on top of the webpage)
buying something that your wife really wants (some sort of perfume)
I remember hearing about it by someone then saying “I don’t believe you” and immediately went to verify it with “tell me”
I also remember my rebbe was in the hospital with his wife
Mazal tov, my brother in law is getting married today!
JIB,
this was ur original post
I am 6 feet and the girl I am dating is 5’3. We went on a first date on Thursday and she showed up in flats!! If she was just a drop shorter than me I would understand but come on there was a 9 inch height difference and she clearly knew that cuz my height is on my resume. I was really upset because I felt that at least on a first date the girl should put on nice heels. I took the time to shower, shave, brush my teeth get my suit dry cleaned, shine my shoes and put my hat on. I asked my rav and he said that although he sees my point I should give the girl a second shot. I don’t feel like it is right to go on a second date when I clearly am uninterested. When I am a married man I want to be proud of how my wife looks. I don’t think I am being so crazy – many of my friends agree with me.
all you stated was that she’s short and didn’t bother to wear heels, not that she wasn’t dressed appropriately for the occasion
now TD 14 is something to be worried about!
what about Miami Beach 🙂
Emunas Itecha,
source please
secondly Virginia didn’t approve it
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xerox
i dont think anything will happen
irene was scheduled to hit miami and went north east instead
this was asked in a previous post maybe ayc can post a link
real brisker,
and if ur not?
how would you know who we are, unless you tell us where and when the wedding is
Real-brisker,
Phew, bh, I thought it was from being on the internet too much
jose fizzled
AYC,
or better yet was Hashem angry at Virginia or NC?
(place where the earthquake and Irene hit strong)
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a day at a time (don’t look at it as a whole year) always start small
bomb,
I can see that from a string of posts that he/she made
Ur post goes up you just get the message don’t worry your post is still there
Geshmake MENSCH is a girl?
maybe you can team up with workinonit
theres a famous made up story called Moshiach’s Hat
I’ll post below
“Twas the night of the Geulah, – And in every single Shtiebel. Sounds of the Torah could be heard coming from every kind of Yeedel.
This one in English Some in Hebrew, some in Yiddish. Some saying Pshat And some saying a Chiddish. And up in Shamayim The Aibishter decreed: “The time has come for My Children to be freed.”
“Rouse the Moshiach From his heavenly berth. Have him get in his chariot, And head down to earth.” The Moshiach got dressed And with a heart full of glee, Went down to earth and entered The first Shtiebel he did see.
“I am the Moshiach! Hashem has heard your plea! Your Geulah has come! It’s time to go free!” They all stopped their learning; This was quite a surprise. And they looked at him carefully, With piercing sharp eyes.
“He’s not the Moshiach!” Said one with a grin, “Just look at his hat, At the pinches and brim!” “That’s right!” cried another With a grimace and frown, “Whoever heard of Moshiach With a brim that’s turned down?”
“Well,” thought Moshiach, “If this is the rule, I’ll turn my brim up Before I go to the next shul.” So he walked right on over To the next shul in town. Sure to be accepted, Since his brim was no longer down. “I’m the Moshiach!” he cried, As he began to enter, But the Jews wanted to know first If he was Left, Right, or Center.
“You’re clothes are so black!” They cried out in fright. “You can’t be Moshiach You’re much too far right!” “If you want to be Moshiach, You must be properly outfitted.” So they replaced his black hat with a kippah that was knitted. Wearing his new Kippah, Moshiach went out and said: “No difference to me what I wear on my head.”
So he went to the next shul, For his mission was dear, But he was getting frustrated with the Yidden down here. “I’m the Moshiach!” he cried, And they all stopped to stare, And a complete eerie stillness filled up the air.
“You’re the Moshiach?! just imagine that! Whoever heard of Moshiach – without a black hat?!” “But I do have a hat!” the Moshiach then said. So he pulled it right out and plunked it down on his head.
The shul started laughing, And one said: “where’s your kop?” You can’t have a Moshiach With a brim that’s turned up!” “If you want to be Moshiach And be accepted in this town, Put some pinches in your hat And turn that brim down!”
Moshiach walked out and said: “I guess my time hasn’t come. I’ll just have to return to where I came from.” So he went to his chariot, But as he began to enter, All sort of Jews appeared From the Left, Right, and Center.
“Please wait – do not leave. It’s all their fault!” they said, And they pointed to each other And to what was on each other’s head. Moshiach just looked sad And said, “you don’t understand.”
And then started up his chariot to get out of this land. “Yes, it’s very wonderful That you all learn Torah, But you seem to have forgotten a crucial part of our Mesorah.
“What does he mean?” “what’s he talked about?” And they all looked bewildered, And all began to shout. Moshiach looked back and answered, “The first place to start, Is to shut up your mouths and open up your hearts. “To each of you, certain Yidden Seem too frum or too frei, But all yidden are beloved In the Aibishter’s eye.”
And on his way up he shouted: “If you want me to come, Try working a little harder On some Ahavat Chinam!”
sorry I just think it drives the point home
i didn’t know fish needed laughter too (sole)
oy,
whats ur age range?
Haleivi,
Don’t you think that might be too deep or high pitched
ayc,
here’s a real pun though
don’t look down because I think your going overboard with my puns
oh,
I guess I forgot it was a machlokes (it’s been a while since I learned Sanhedrin)
thank you,
I’m glad I unwittingly made a pun
sam2,
I don’t agree, the parents have to have the same voice and look the same the only way that can happen is either with a sris or an aylonis (look at their simanim)
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ARWSF,
L’Havdil, when my wife came to shul one week where theree were a lot of ladies in shul (she came by laining and wanted to start davening) the rebitzen pulled her over to all the other ladies to introduce her to everybody that she couldn’t daven
oh thanks you didnt put the second h
high school
oh thanks you didnt put the second h
high school
shteibel,
I love it that you can find a minyan anytime
(also I daven Nusach Sfard)
Dont lots of chasidish guys have braids? They take them out for shmone esray…
braids? (I think ur getting confused with peyos)
home school
however they have to be the ones that practice what they preach
h?
I was thinking that might help, like getting the CCHF to make a video about it, but I think it will fall by the wayside like all videos right after Tisha B’av
what I think is needed is have their rav give speeches with all the other ravs (1 sfardi, 1 ashkenazi, 1 lubavitcher, 1 MO)
or have the rav make it a point to do it then everyone will see it
This is one of my all time favorite vorts (which I’ll be saying at my Bro-In-Law’s sheva Brachos)
The Passuk says Ki Yikach….V’Hayah Im Lo Simsa Chein B’Einav
also another passuk says Ki Yikach….U’Saneiah
the passuk is teaching us a fundamental yesod, if you’re looking for a wife in a way of kicha (scrutinizing your purchase, like a lot of people do when they buy a car or a house)(the wife is too short (clearing throat)) then this will happen, either getting a divorce or hating her.
however there is a passuk in Mishlei, Matzah Isha Matzah Tov
If you look at your wife as a metziah (not interested in fine detaills, like all metziahs) then all you would find is tov
(it’s interesting to note that by ki yikach it says the passuk says matzah bah ervas davar)
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It is quite known that the Steipler said that in all of Lakewood only two people married their zivvug rishon!!
when and where did he say this and why did he say Lakewood and not Bnei Brak where he’s from
mr taxman,
so ur saying you can do it if you want to
I’m saying it doesn’t seem like people in these communities in Brooklyn want to
the question is how do we get them to want to
ronrsr,
ditto
my wife is a foot shorter than me
I heard about it too
but no thanks, if the guy needs to be liked on facebook
1) can’t do it
2) not really interested in doing it
the topic at hand was how to fix it in Brooklyn
Mazal tov ronrsr!
personally The way I knew is that as the dating progressed I felt more and more comfortable to the point where I felt like she was my sister
maybe this can be made a shticky until people get the hang of it