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  • in reply to: Aguda is dying #2598333
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    I echo Hakatan,

    I was thinking you were talking about Agudath Israel of America

    in reply to: CPS is government sanctioned child trafficking #2595963
    ??coffee addict
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    Im assuming CPS is another form of ACS

    I want to start with a disclaimer, I don’t believe ACS really cares about children/families

    My question is what should be done so that it’s not לא תעמד על דם רעך if it could get to that point

    in reply to: Was Rabbi AJ Twerski Right , the core of addiction is low self esteem? #2593218
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    Chaim,

    As my OP stated I agree with that statement it’s a סימן not a סיבה

    I think most but not all addicts have low self esteem

    in reply to: Frolicking Selichos Concert #2593008
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    Or maybe he’s a broken clock (or a blind squirrel)

    in reply to: Was Rabbi AJ Twerski Right , the core of addiction is low self esteem? #2592726
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    A better way to say it is that

    An addict wants to stop but cant

    He would rather lose his whole life (job, prestige, family) the give up his “drug” because what he’s really looking for is an escape from life

    in reply to: Was Rabbi AJ Twerski Right , the core of addiction is low self esteem? #2592711
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    Chaim,

    Can the guy stop and go on a diet and eat healthy for the rest of his life, if yes then he’s not addicted and “just likes fried shnitzel” but if he goes out there again he’s addicted. The root of the word addiction is dict like dictate an addict’s addiction tells him that he HAS TO do it (whatever he’s addicted to)

    in reply to: Was Rabbi AJ Twerski Right , the core of addiction is low self esteem? #2592147
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    Chaim,

    lol!

    Im addicted to a bunch of things (one of them being on my phone/internet) and a main place is the Coffee Room and when one is always in a “coffee room” he gets addicted to coffee

    But im talking about my other experiences with addictions

    ??coffee addict
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    Chaim,

    There are numerous people that stimulants have no effect on yet others need that to “get through the day”

    I understand zanvil’s position

    in reply to: Was Rabbi AJ Twerski Right , the core of addiction is low self esteem? #2588870
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    Somejew,

    You’re deflecting not answering

    In the Mishnah I quoted obviously אדם is different than ישראל, you cant say they’re the same thing

    ??coffee addict
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    “Somejewiknow Im not sure you can say everybody but your self has a “tzelem elokim”“

    Thank you nevuah for having me reread and understand what somejew was saying which can I now ask a question on his comment

    Somejew said “ “self esteem” is what goyim call “yiras shomayim”, since they don’t have a tzelem elokim.”

    This is not n contradiction to the גמרא that says חביבים אדם שנברא בצלם, חביבין ישראל שנודע שנבראו בצלם maybe what Somejew meant was since they don’t know they have tzelem elokim

    in reply to: Black Sheep Tier List #2585859
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    קשה לה׳ לזווג זווגים כקריעת ים סוף which really means that it isn’t hard

    You like everyone else in the world has a shidduch and IyH you’ll find yours in the right time

    in reply to: Was Rabbi AJ Twerski Right , the core of addiction is low self esteem? #2585850
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    As an addict with low self esteem I would say it’s a סימן not a סיבה

    in reply to: What is Sinas Chinam? #2582873
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    Joe,

    Rav Avigdor Miller said that the frum didnt have sinas chinam it was only in the lower classes according to this יערות דבש it wouldn’t work because who should’ve given mussar if not the frummer

    in reply to: America: 1776-2026 #2581769
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    “Maybe it’s time for all of us to move to Israel“

    IyH with the coming of Moshiach

    in reply to: An aveirah that some Yeshivish people unwittingly do #2580593
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    Rebemes,

    But they think they’re keeping the peyos because they have the hair on top

    in reply to: Uman RoshHashana go or stay in Israel? #2579185
    ??coffee addict
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    Seems like you already made up your mind

    Can anyone explain going to Uman?

    in reply to: Gratitude, or the lack of it #2578400
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    Yecheil,

    Do you see emojis? Usually emojis have been changed to ? In the coffee room they are all laughing emojis

    in reply to: Gratitude, or the lack of it #2577072
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    😂😂😂😂

    Welcome back Yecheil, I missed your kvetching

    in reply to: Was Gornit our hero or villain for ridding YWN of qwerty613? #2571290
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    Well I guess gornit and qwerty613 were blocked again, until they make (use) another username

    in reply to: Was Gornit our hero or villain for ridding YWN of qwerty613? #2569036
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    Yya,

    Where has mswaytogo posted, I haven’t seen a post from that username

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2569029
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    “gornisht> how would you justify the Torah’s public shaming of Dasan v’Avirom by naming their names?

    note that when Yehoshua reports to Moshe that these two are prophesizing outside the camp, Moshe is surprisingly OK with the challenge to his auhtority – he’d love everyone to be a navi!”

    NAA,

    Are you confusing אלדד ומידד with דתן ואבירם?

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2568635
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    “But even if you believe Korach was not his real, how would you justify the Torah’s public shaming of Dasan v’Avirom by naming their names? Unless there is absolutely wrong with publicizing the names of reshoyim.l!“

    The passuk in shemos calls them reshaim ״ויאמר לרשע למה תכה רעך״ because they were hitting each other over here the only thing qwerty did was disparage the Rebbe (his parts dealing with Rav Avigdor Miller i don’t think reached that level but we can disagree on that) I know Lubavitchers that disparage Rav Shach but I don’t think they should be blocked from posting if they wanted to

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2567921
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    “ AAQ probably has complaints about the torah for speaking loshon hara about Korach and publicly embarrassing him. OMG, the Torah even names him! I suggest that a person like AAQ must flee the shul when parshas Korach is leined, to avoid hearing such loshon hora about his hero Korach. Maybe take the Author of the Torah to a din Torah in the Bais Din shel Maalah (although that would require a departure from Earth).”

    To answer for NAA, even though it seems like we’re on “no speaking terms” 1) it could be (there is a pshat) that Korach wasn’t his real name and was called that because he was upset he had to be totally shaven 2) בית דין של מעלה already decided he was a Rasha, with Hashem being the אב בית דין due to what happened to him

    in reply to: Questionable Chalav Stam #2566495
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    There is a weekly article in the circle on kashrus and this week it talks about chocolate (and one part is dairy and pareve chocolate using the same vat and not being able to use hot water in a vat because it messes it up so some kashrus organizations permit using the hot cocoa)

    This might be a problem if one strictly keeps chalav yisrael

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2566494
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    I don’t get why both are blocked, if qwerty is right unblock him if gornit is right unblock him

    Too bad we can’t have a real dialogue with the mods anymore, I miss those days

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2565330
    ??coffee addict
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    A satmarer in BMG?

    in reply to: No Joke: Lubavitcher Hats #2565329
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    Gornit,

    I looked in Apple Maps and it says closed on Shabbos

    Also everything you are saying cant be independently verified since he hasn’t done any of that here which puts this into the geder of lashon hara and since we don’t know for certain that it’s true we’re not mechuyav to believe you

    in reply to: Iran deal #2564908
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    I finally see that YWN mods have officially stopped moderating posts

    If that’s the case why not have a faster posting time

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2563947
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    Qwerty,

    So your premise of “I presented a theory. He viewed himself as the Melech Yisrael and so he couldn’t attend anyone’s funeral. Am I correct? It’s only a theory, but it has some validity.” Isnt true and there must be some other reason

    in reply to: Mazal Tov, Elon! #2563608
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    Qwerty,

    I think Joe already has in mind which of the brothers he is

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2563598
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    I found that he went to at least two funerals, one for his brother in law in Tel-Aviv and one for an old chassid reb Duchman and Chabad.org which says the reason he didn’t go to Levayas is because for a Rebbe/Nasi, there’s a tradition not to attend funerals to avoid public displays of grief and to keep focus on the living. The Rebbe did make exceptions for very close family and for elderly chasidim. Most of the time he would give instructions, eulogies, or participate from 770 without going to the cemetery itself.

    in reply to: Mazal Tov, Elon! #2563508
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    There is a song (I know you don’t listen to music that’s why you didn’t get the joke) from “Thank You Hashem Kids” called “Billionaire” that the main lyric is “איזהו עשיר who’s a billionaire השומח בחלקו”

    in reply to: Mazal Tov, Elon! #2562918
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    איזהו עשיר השומח בחלקו

    Alternatively TYH should change the title to “trillionaire

    in reply to: Baltimore crime #2560919
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    @Dr Pepper

    Dont you know that 73% of statistics are made up

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2560764
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    Sorry to go off topic but can anyone tell me if the Lubavitcher Rebbe attended R Moshe’s Levaya (And a source for this)? My son told me that he did not

    in reply to: Lakewood burger joint as a hangout #2557576
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    Ashergg,

    I totally agree with your premise however I think the people who are arguing understand “daas Torah” as if I have a shaylah what to do I ask daas Torah and they decide for me, however over here I didn’t have a shaylah so therefore I don’t have to “listen” to daas Torah

    Just my understanding

    in reply to: Hypothetical question for everyone to ponder. #2556082
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    Those people would say Israel should give up control to America (or even Jordan) the Arabs dont hate Jews they want to control the whole area and have Jews subservient to them

    Once they have that they’ll stop bothering us

    in reply to: TRUMP IS A WIMP #2555294
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    Yes, we all know that the president frequents the YWNCR after posting on Truth Social

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2554842
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    Qwerty,

    I didn’t think you did it �’תורת � �”ר

    However you know what is said about hog wrestling

    You’re going to get just a dirty as the hog however it’s the one having fun

    in reply to: Chabad Shows Up Where the Litvish World Won’t #2554327
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    Well there’s NCSY, Ohr Sameach, Aish Hatorah, Shuvu,

    Just to name a few

    So yes Chabad is going out to Times Square, Beaches, and night clubs to put tefillin on people but is that what Hashem really wants?

    in reply to: Are we sacrificing our families to ideologies #2552898
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    Qwerty,

    This is what I posted in “qwerty is ill”

    “Qwerty,

    Maybe if he is ignored he’ll just go away, please don’t answer it’ll just fuel a cycle between you and him”

    And you replied

    “To ?? coffee addict

    I do ignore most of his comments. I’ll try to heed your advice and ignore him completely. Unlike most posters, I accept Mussar if it’s appropriate.”

    And in the shatnez thread you said

    “To ?? coffee addict

    I would think that you’d follow the advice you gave me and not try and engage him in discussion. Everything he writes is meaningless gibberish and empty platitudes. Moreover, he’s psychologically incapable of acknowledging that he can be wrong, so he ignores all refutations to his position.”

    in reply to: Are we sacrificing our families to ideologies #2552217
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    Qwerty,

    I followed your advice why haven’t you followed mine

    in reply to: United hatzala Gala #2552140
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    Damoshe,

    I don’t think they were honoring Bloomberg, they were honoring the money he gave them

    This clown probably didn’t give any money

    in reply to: ק�”יש יתום #2551161
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    Is a 70 year old considered a יתום? Until what age/stage?

    Haleivi,

    So why about �’יקור �–ולים or �”כ� סת כל�” according to that reason it shouldn’t be there because “since it exemplifies �’מילות �–ס�”ים.” Doesn’t apply

    in reply to: Famine is coming #2549870
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    �”� �” ימים �’אים…. לא רע�’ לל�–ם ולא צמא למים כי אם לשמע את �”�’רי �”׳

    in reply to: Don’t judge, tinuk shenishba, kaf zechus, #2549783
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    Rebemes,

    1) and what about in the USA?

    2) and what if someone is misinformed as to what are mitzvos and what aren’t? Like Shabbos being “the day of rest so it only means dont go to work

    in reply to: Should the Democrat Party Be Outlawed As Domestic Terrorists? #2549334
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    “seems to me, that with all those oathkeepers and others who stormed the capitol on jan 6, they, being mostly republicans”

    SHOCKING DETAILS: DOJ Accuses Southern Poverty Law Center Of Bankrolling KKK And Neo-Nazi Networks

    Same thing was probably done here

    in reply to: Don’t judge, tinuk shenishba, kaf zechus, #2548707
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    People understand “frummer” as more perfect since they’re “closer to Hashem” so it’s harder to be Dan lkaf zchus

    in reply to: Lakewood burger joint as a hangout #2548702
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    Rocky,

    If it’s the restaurant I think you’re referring to then I can tell you that the same restaurant in the 5 towns is a hangout and their promotions idolize sports memorabilia so it’s understandable where this is coming from that they don’t want that in Lakewood

    in reply to: What will it take for the frum community to stop supporting ICE? #2546150
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    “Obviously, you are a Republican, or at least right-leaning, if you are on this site.”

    Sorry thats not a factual statement, there are numerous democrats on this site

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