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this is all a scam.
give the money to a personal tzedaka straight to Hashem & daven yourself with your heart for help & get help straight from Hashem.
unlimited amount.
there is a chiyuv for each person to have 2 children-one boy & one girl-to be yotzai in the mitzva of pru u’rivu. you can have 10 girls with no boys and you still have not completed the mitzva
No
Every boy is different and some don’t feel mature enough to become independent to go out of town for Yeshiva. Others want to stay local for other reasons. How many reasons can you think of why today it’s more popular for boys to stay local then it was 20 years ago?
1 man band is much better & more affordable without anyone thinking that your poor & cant afford a full 5 piece band. theres no need to go broke on all your wedding expenses when you can manage just fine by staying regular.
“GET WHAT YOU NEED NOT WHAT YOU WANT & DESIRE”
no need for the fanciest hall or most expensive caterer or full band with a singer to pay also. THESE ARE ALL EXTRAS.
Mazel tov on your Simcha
What do you suggest would be a better picture /project for this weeks Parsha?
Cruz for president
Trump for entertainment
Hillary Clinton for corruption and destruction
OTD kids that get turned off. the turning point that starts them heading there is lack of love & care from parents & rabbeim etc… it also includes a lack of self-esteem & self-image
you must be correct what you said. don’t believe the torah either it was written by Moshe when Hashem gave it to him. but don’t believe it cause he was a human being
Read the sefer about all the different kinds of music and what the effects of each kind are to you and your neshama. Then you will see how it effects you and your way of life and Yiddish Keit
Too sad R”L that today’s Jewish singers with their crazy rocket music are exact copies of pure goyish music songs with just changing the words.
cause they are more surrounded in the gashmiyus (physical) world as they travel to work & deal with people while taking them out to eat etc…
Kollel people are locked in the bais medrash and removed from the tumah of this physical world. “a blessing that we are not all blessed to be with”
If you have the opportunity to remove yourself from this olam hasheker (physical pleasurable world) & put yourself with a straight relationship with Hashem-the melech malchei hamelochim-don’t pass it up. (how honored would you be to have a face to face relationship with President Obama? would you give up the opportunity)
how about me
I can prove from this letter that you are very bored and have nothing to do with your precious time of life that Hashem grants you each day to live another day.
“UVAChARTA B’CHAIM “
Find something better to do with your precious time. Go help a friend or fellow Yid and show Hashem that you deserve this gift of life cause you know how to spend your time wisely
Everyone with an issue fools him/her self into thinking their issue is nothing serious and there’s no reason i need to marry a person with issues.
80 percent of solving any issue in life is the person admitting to the problem he has. The rest is solving the problem.
When people are ready to honestly admit that they have an issue then it will not be hard for them to marry a different person with issues.
welcome to the generation of today of instant-gratification where everything is ME ME & ONLY ME so if something doesn’t go exactly as the person want it to go it becomes a big kvetch.
in short: WE ALL HAVE OCD & don’t try to change something from the way i like it….
im voting for Cruz
Trump is pure entertainment. i will enjoy till the last minute
Clinton is totally corrupt & dishonest & deserves to be in prison. only reason she is not is because she is secretary of state (of corruption)
BOTTOM LINE:people will vote for trump cause they like his talk & wouldn’t mind another 4 or 8 years of it. today we are not voting with our brains anymore…
the physical human arguing:
The human being like to argue due to the need for self-esteem & self-image. when a person argues with another, he knows he is being heard & also gets the feeling that he is a human living person. It is important for each person to have a high level & good feeling of self-esteem & self-image but there are other ways of doing it then with arguments & fights. perhaps go out and assist your brothers with some help & the chessed you do will definitely make you feel good & raise your self-esteem & self-image.
Another reason why people can’t all get along:
every person likes to feel that they are in charge & know whats best for their family or job they work at. If you cannot handle to listen to your boss who supports you cause you want to argue & have the say in the company’s next plan, then you should not work as an employee. We should all thank Hashem for giving us a parnassah to support our families. for that we owe hakaras hatov to our boss for hiring us & bot someone else.
Phsycologist
i am a psychologist and Mashgiach Hadracha
A person should not buy a burial plot for himself as this puts a ayin hara on him. A person is allowed to leave a will and include burial wishes in it without worrying about ayin hara
As a Mashgiach for many years in Pesach hotels and other locations and workingf for many different Hashgachas i can tell you that the colors are
Red=Meat
Blue=dairy
yellow or green =Pareve
Are you talking about the words of the song? Ir do you mean the tune that is sang in most homes? From the way you wrote it . It sounds like you are referring to a certain tune
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Its at Starbucks coffee section
wolf.
then you must have low self-esteem & should seek help ASAP
be proud of the amazing work you do in the YWN Coffeeroom. giving people lots of info. & other stuff. you have accomplished alot in your life already. be proud of yourself for all the hard work you put into it.
so are you telling me that Ner yisroel of baltimore is Modern orthodox since they live by & go with the motto of torah im derech Eretz?
you asked:
“Why is it that “open orthodoxy” manages to attract so many modern Orthodox Jews, young and old?”
cause they make it easy to convince them to go even lighter in yiddishkeit & be convinced that they are still frum.
theres always something to be proud of yourself. something you have accomplished in the past, in your earlier younger years. your wonderful spouse, your wonderful parents who raised you. not everyone is as lucky as you to have such special parents. you should be proud of them
when a human discriminates someone else it makes him feel good & think that he is perfect with no issues & raise his self-esteem & self-image.
its sad that this is what people need to do to make them feel good. aren’t there other better ways to make you feel good? how about looking at your life accomplishments brought through hard labor? look at your large beautiful family you are raising & all the success Hashem has given you at work with a great parnassah. there’s no need to label & discriminate people to make you feel good.
don’t live fancy waste tons of money until your almost bankrupt C”V learn how to make a budget & live within its means so you can have a happier & healthier life. now isn’t that way better then just looking fancy. isnt living worry free worth more then dressing & living fancy with the latest technology & clothing?
guess i am fortunate & blessed to enjoy my job
although it includes assisting people in depression & others with marriage & relationship issues etc… now how does a person enjoy this? i enjoy helping people get their life back on track. nobody deserves to live a life of stress & depression. i chose this so i can help remove this from people & help get their lives back on track to normal & that makes me happy.
the outcome of this weeks parshas vayechi is that we can all learn from yosef Hatzadik-who was king over the entire mitzrayim-from his kibud av v’aim of not burying his father yaakov in mitzrayim to prevent him from becoming an avoda zara if he would be burited there.
we can also learn from this weeks parsha that a person cannot run away from his destiny that Hashem has put for him/her. Yosef brought his children to be benched by yaakov & placed them & then yaakov crossed his arms to put his right hand on the child that he saw b’ruach hakodesh should get it even if yosef put the other one on yaakovs right side.
OUTCOME:you can get a bracha from your rav or rebba like yaakov avinu gave to each of his children a bracha perfect for them & their future shevet. but the best way to get the best bracha & help is to go straight to Hashem without a shliach (rebba) between you & Hashem
on the phone icon of YWN theres no icon to take you to the coffeeroom. the cofeeroom is one of YWN top part of its site so to not have it on the phone website view is a big mistake & should be added ASAP to it
put on YWN on the bottom of each newsletter. a icon to take you to the previous newsletter or the next newsletter. like i see in all news media websites. (i can’t think of any one from the so many i go to that doesn’t have it)
a person needs to enjoy his future/what he does for parnassa.
you can pay me $500 an hour to be plumber or electrician etc… i still wouldn’t be successful cause i don’t enjoy doing these things.
do you have a desire for growth in PT? do you enjoy it?
you are now on the online community of the YWN coffeeroom
Ever heard of peer pressure? Sometimes people have no choice and need to live on the same level as their peers even though they are not as rich to afford such expensive clothing and fancy Simchas .
I ADMIT IT’S SAD THAT WE HAVE REACHED THIS LOW LEVEL
the rule says don’t judge a book by it’s cover. The problem is we do.
When a person looks at you . You only have a few seconds to make a positive impression on them. As the saying goes “you never get a second chance to make a first impression “
Today’s day our children are not maturing as young as they used to when we were kids. Due to the technology generation we are in we also need to keep an eye on our children much longer until they are about 20 and mature enough to know for themselves how to stay away from bad things that effect their frumkeit
The less Tumah and gashmius you bring into your home while your children are young the earlier they will mature and be secure to remain frum without the need for you to babysit them
oomis
people buy already way more then they can afford & then they wonder why they are broke R”L
“put your family first with their food, clothing & tuition before going to get fantasies”
which case are we talking about?
why don’t they just solve the courtesy busing issue by each parent sending their children to a school more then the required mileage to get mandatory busing.
there are over 35 school choices for each boys & girls plus tons of both high schoools & mesivtas in Lakewood growing town to pick 1 school for your children & they are spread out all over town that you can find one more then 2 miles away from your home address.
money is todays avoda zara R”L & this is why the economy went down. we bow down to money & serve it like a god R”L Thus we left Hashem no choice but to take it away from us.
neville
welcome to today’s new generation. the people today dont use their brain, they will vote for trump cause they like the way he speaks and the entertainment it comes with etc… so why not vote for him & enjoythe entertainment for 4 more years. this is the crazy generation we are living in
on my side, i will enjoy his entertainment until the last minute but i will never vote for trump. you need to use your brain….
Joseph
Just his if you read it fully. His wife makes an additional 40k
“What I cannot do is save any money.”
1)sit down today with your spouse ASAP & “make a budget” (if that includes clothing only for 1 yom tov a year versus 3 then start doing that) start to write down your expenses on a computer & write both your paycheck also & see what the balance is at the end of the month.
2)Start to live more with “What you need not what you want”
(from what you wrote above, can you honestly say that everything you buy are NEEDS & NOT EXTRA FANTASIES?)
3)put all your credit & debit cards in your wallet behind other cards (like library or insurance cards etc…) so you wont pull it out like its nothing every time you see it. When a person pays his bills in cash it has a value & the person can feel it versus a credit card. (although you do get the bill at the end)
4)Go to your bank & tell them to transfer automatically a certain amount of money each month from your check to your savings account. (some people do $100 others more/less) you will see it start adding up
may Hashem be with you & give you Hatzlacha
she is worse then obama & would destroy this country more that all obama has done already.
she is so corrupt & really deserves to be arrested for many reasons from benghazi to other corruptions but can’t be arreasted due to being secretary of state
Hillary Clinton is a bigger jerk and if elected to be president would be even worse than Obama
Trump is free entertainment and enjoy him while he lasts. He was transferred from the political section of the newspaper to the entertainment section already six months ago
speak to one of the mods straight & find out the top reasons why threads get closed
or read through the rules of YWN coffeeroom & see which law was broken.
it seems to me & all my clothing that new threads just don’t stop starting. everyday i find new threads hanging from my clothing. im constantly cutting threads off, i almost need to carry a scissors around with me lol