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  • in reply to: Anti Semitic topic in foxnews.com #1538054
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    AviK: the reason or definition of Anti-semitism is “against Hashem” (hat tip IIRC Tachlis Magazine) and this definitely fits the bill. “Ten children” is thanks to Hashem’s first commandment, something we should be proud of and all aspire to. Yet look up the definition of “brood” which precedes it in that sentence, and it seems the children hatch like chickens. Maybe in Mitzrayim, but now we struggle with child bearing and raising our kids, we do it consciously and with self sacrifice and at the very least it shouldn’t be denigrated.

    First they came for… is something you might want to have in mind, especially since as I already mentioned they are labeling all Frum Jews as Chasidim, no matter if it’s actullay so. Not all of the Jewish East Ramapo Central School Board Members are Chasidic, but you sure couldn’t tell from the article.

    in reply to: Anti Semitic topic in foxnews.com #1538065
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    And AviK, you’re falling for the article hook line and sinker. Are you sure no one tried to mention the eruv’s almost invisibility yet it wasn’t reported? Reporters always cut…
    And “Chasidim” interviewed didn’t defend it properly? Are you so sure the lawyer Yehudah Buchweitz is Chasidic? Well it doesn’t look like it to me… So of course the article is only against Chasidim, even those that probably look less Frum than you are crowned Chasidic. Not the greatest crime mind you, but at least OPEN YOUR EYES!

    in reply to: Anti Semitic topic in foxnews.com #1538036
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    Besalel: the community sent no spokesman. He’s self appointed, and IIRC when he ran for political office he lost for lack of community backing.

    The article seems to be low on research, and one of the places it shows is the way they lump Chasidim and litvaks, or simply frum, together. And while we may all be similar, if it’s supposed to be an in depth look, this points to superficiality.

    Some of my gripes are the way they explain an eruv, so far failing to mention that part of the reason for the exponential growth of the out of Brooklyn communities is that we are being priced out of Brooklyn (which may be a small antidote to the next phase when rich Hasidic landlords will be blamed for Brooklyn gentrification at the expense of minorities) THAT WE WANT FRESH AIR LIKE ALL SUBURBANITES and the way the article flowed from New Square to the rest of Monsey/Spring Valley area so that I had to reread it to realize new paragraph, broader focus infused with lingering negativity.

    And of course the way the Ramapo School Board was depicted (with photo to illustrate – see how Jewish the board members are) as “diverting” funds when most of these same funds are coming from the Orthodox, but apparently they’re entitled to NOTHING.

    So yes I’d label it anti-Semitic in its slant, but unfortunately largely fed by not so well meaning Jews.

    in reply to: Escort of Harav Sternbach arrving in KJ #1531204
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    Ubiq: that’s a far cry from arson which some jumped to conclusions of. In any case fire investigators ruled it accidental, not me. Accidents and negligence are not mutually exclusive. Especially in outdoor public spaces (assuming the deck was used by the Shul, I honestly don’t know if this was the case) discarding cigarette butts on the ground and simply stomping at it to put it out is fairly common place. I’m not sayIng it was right, and that wasn’t the point of my comment.

    in reply to: Escort of Harav Sternbach arrving in KJ #1531077
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    Neville: when Satmar is mentioned, practically anything goes.

    See recent example here: https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/general/1528106/massive-fire-destroys-home-and-shul-in-kiryas-joel-sifrei-torah-bh-rescued-video-photos.html

    Now the fire has since been ruled accidental (started from cigarette butts on the wooden deck) but YW hasn’t covered that (yet), and the commenters were free to bash without a shred of evidence.

    in reply to: How do you keep your children interested @ the Shabbos Seuda #1531030
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    It’s okay if they get up and play a little so everyone else can take their time. They’ll sing along to the songs/zmiros they like/know so you can incorporate some age appropriate favorites.
    Review the school “Shabbos” stuff if they have any, but don’t “farher” unless you know they’re comfortable with it. They should be at the table to eat and join in as much as feasible, but don’t turn it into some tug of war.

    As someone wise said something along the lines of “although you’ve probably forgotten, you also ran off and played when you were their age, so don’t worry about it, they’ll grow out of it too”.

    Bottom line, involve them as much as possible — short stories are great — but don’t stifle the adults either.

    in reply to: Vitamins: Ever noticed a difference? #1528862
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    Actually, I take back my comment about having the option not to fill a prescription. Since most prescriptions must be sent electronically from the doctor’s office to the pharmacy, you have to tell the doctor you don’t want it sent in or to put it on hold. It’s more than semantics as it makes it harder on the patient to decide later. The laws enacted to prevent prescription abuse effect us all…

    RY: even if you make your own yogurt, milk isn’t exactly cheap either. And for better or worse, if probiotics were prescribed and covered, the cost to the insurers at least would go down.

    in reply to: Vitamins: Ever noticed a difference? #1528834
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    DY: I don’t think yogurt is cheaper at all, the probiotics aren’t quantified, let alone certified (that should probably be added to the nutrition facts) and most kids aren’t that crazy over regular non sugar laden yogurt.

    Even for most adults if you take antibiotics 2 times a day and need to balance it, it wouldn’t be practical, although there are other probiotic foods that aren’t as mainstream. Again, quantification is key. How many live cultures in my Kosher sour kraut? I have no idea if any at all. And the timing (you’re not supposed to take both together) could benefit from prescription clarity.

    But you’re always free not to fill it.

    in reply to: Vitamins: Ever noticed a difference? #1528788
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    RY: you can get a prescription for iron and vitamin D, to cite two examples mentioned, if you’re deficient. So I’d assume they are FDA approved. Problem is they’re not necessarily the best supplements out there to have obtained and gotten approval, but cheap enough to be covered by some insurance carriers. Iron is the perfect example. The prescription will usually say to take with orange juice.

    Orange juice is maligned as adding to the obesity crisis because of its empty calories. And many people won’t bother to drink the juice with it, or just a minimal amount. Some other supplements have the vitamin C included without so many empty calories, and are better made to prevent constipation and stomach upset. But these don’t have FDA approval, so essentially we use those at our own risk, and perhaps via trial and error.

    For these companies it’s not economical to obtain FDA approval, as their product isn’t cheap enough to warrant (government for the most part) prescription insurance coverage.

    Bottom line: vitamins and mineral supplements are necessary for those at risk or already deficient. The government can start reviewing at least the US made ones with ingredient testing, and give it some sort of seal if approved and ban those that don’t make the cut. Then we’d at least know that we’re getting what the label states.

    Also it’s not at either or between medication and supplements. They sometimes go hand in hand. Most pediatricians will recommend taking probiotics when prescribing antibiotics to kids, although I’ve never seen a prescription for probiotics. No reason not to prescribe it when even Tylenol can be prescribed. (One added benefit of prescribing something is that the correct dosage for the individual is printed on the bottle with clear and concise directions. It’s much easier to make mistakes or be negligent when this information is given verbally or not at all. The doctor doesn’t know exactly what you’ll end up getting so it’s hard for him/her to be precise.)

    in reply to: Vitamins: Ever noticed a difference? #1528161
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    If you’re anemic /iron deficient iron supplements definitely make you stronger. Make sure to take with vitamin C (there are combination pills) or orange juice for maximum absorption. However, since bringing up your levels usually takes months (and I personally followed a multi-pronged approach which included doctor administered treatment at first, as well as dietary changes) there wasn’t this “ah-ha” moment that I can attribute to supplements alone.

    I also think pro-biotics work so after I eat too much sweets I pop a few to stop symptoms in their tracks. (Don’t want to divulge tmi.) Again I think it works, but both of these issues are more prevalent in women.

    And fiber supplements work great for those with issues.

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    ZDad: for the price you quoted, it probably includes a few vegetable rolls. Not such a bargain if I’m correct.

    in reply to: No Rugelach #1520266
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    I guess I’m not on your madreiga so this thought never crossed my mind… Hence the misunderstanding.

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    I’d venture a guess that we are mostly paying for the time and space – for the fish to marinade – labor, and government regulations involved. I’d assume the cost of the fish plays a role as well. There is no fish named herring (or herringus) but thanks for the laugh GH…

    Additionally, the companies now produce so many varieties, and creative/artisinal products cost more. If you opt for the plain herring fillets (I forgot the name of the brand, but I saw something similar made by Rockland on Rockland Kosher’s website) you get a lot more fish for your molney. To make it taste good you have to cut it up and finish it off with the flavors/recipe you desire.

    in reply to: your opinion please #1520144
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    I was a little slow to catch on, but I think screwdriverdelight is just messing with us… And I took the bait, i mean “bit”.

    in reply to: Should Doctor Accept Medicaid Plans? #1519865
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    Joseph: the OP inquired about Child Health Plus as well. Additionally, you are sort of wrong. It’s one mish-mash with Medicaid. Below is from a 2012 article in Urban, I don’t think the two are more separate now, if any one besides Joseph is interested…

    “Child Health Plus is administered by the New York State Department of Health (DOH), the single State agency that also has primary responsibility for managing Medicaid. This joint program administration by DOH has facilitated New York’s alignment of CHIP and Medicaid policies and operations over time, to the extent that the two programs are now, broadly speaking, quite comparable and better integrated than they have been at any point in the past. CHPlus continues to oversee its innovative community-based application assistance program—called Facilitated Enrollment—that supports both CHIP and Medicaid enrollment, and is demonstrably effective in leveraging the marketing expertise of public and private managed care organizations to facilitate families’ enrollment of their children into coverage, and to maintain continuity of coverage through effective renewal strategies. On the service delivery front, statewide managed care systems that possess nearly identical networks for CHIP and Medicaid appear to provide children with robust access to care—especially primary care—and also minimal disruptions in care as children move between the two programs.”

    Hope you gained some perspective.

    And thanks Mods.

    in reply to: your opinion please #1519785
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    Sd: Sorry to say, but your daughter needs a reality check. And you too. So she never learned speech-writing. Does she have any writing know-how? Didn’t she have any school writing assignments, creative writings, essays etc? No cookie-cutter skills are needed. Adaptation is key here and in life.

    So I suggest your daughter ask them what the speech criteria is, if she doesn’t have that info yet. She can call up last year’s valedictorian for suggestions if necessary, and roll up her sleeves. Once she’s more or less done, you can help her with the editing.

    And get off your perch about making a speech that’ll be life changing for the girls. By having too high expectations, you’re probably freezing her out. Be realistic and it’ll come together better than expected. Hatzlacha!

    in reply to: Should Doctor Accept Medicaid Plans? #1519777
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    If your relative is going into Pediatrics, accepting Child Health Plus is almost a necessity in NY. Many people qualify for CHP as the allowable income is very generous, although the premiums vary accordingly.

    in reply to: No Rugelach #1519715
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    LB: I think instead of asking for a pity party, get your cooking skills to work and fight back. Whatever you can’t eat, there have to be some ways to improvise on all those delicious recipes. Lekovod Shavuos of course.

    Toi: I think singular should be rugela. Rugel sounds too stiff. Like kipela becomes kipelach. JMHO as there’s also feigel OR feigela becoming feigelach.

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    Takes-2: Pirkei Avos says Shemona Esra LeChuppa for a reason. To blame natural human tendencies on our Chinuch system is not logical. Some shtark learners WITH solid Yiras shamayim might have it easier and benefit from a longer Yeshiva stay, but it doesn’t apply to everyone. I would add it to Chinoch lenar… Yiddishkeit also includes fences, and we need to know what kind of fences are needed where.

    in reply to: Neurotypicals who don’t like loud noises and bright lights #1513394
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    I believe not liking blaring music and flashing lights is human nature in all of us, to varying degrees. Everyone has their own “breaking point” though. And like smoking, if you’re exposed enough you may even begin to like it, and subsequently crave it…

    in reply to: knish eating contests. good fun or achilas gasa #1510003
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    And neither should beer or for that matter water drinking contests.

    DY: I hope you’re kidding…

    in reply to: Help: No expiration date on store bought schug #1508688
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    LB: usually the companies that sell so-called home-made products have their old items removed from the store shelves when they deliver fresh goods. Not having a use by date is still a bummer, but for something like schug I wouldn’t worry.

    You can ask the department mangager when the last delivery by this company was, and buy from a shop that moves a lot of Kosher inventory.

    Good luck!

    in reply to: Sudden Death #1508571
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    Health: In reply to your original question, most of the sudden health related deaths we hear about are heart related. Even if one has no heart condition, it’s good to have an EKG done if there are risk factors. And don’t sit too long on a plane or otherwise. MOVE!
    Of course, keep your weight in a healthy range and exercise most days of the week. (If you’re overweight and aren’t successful on your own, see a dietician.) But start exercising slowly, don’t suddenly shovel heavy snow or dance vigorously at a close one’s Chasunah. Even happy times have their stressors, so be extra vigilant about your health then.

    Don’t smoke or do drugs and drink in moderation. No binge drinking! (These are my general recommendations for everyone, definitely NOT personal to Health.)

    If you think you might be having a stroke or heart attack, call or have someone else call Hatzolah (unless you’re somewhere they don’t cover) not EMS. Know the signs and don’t stall.

    If you have any medical concerns or questions, see a doctor – don’t rely on Google.

    Have an annual or bi-annual physical based on your (competent) doctor’s recommendation, and do any follow-up testing required.

    Don’t forget about your teeth either.
    Which brings me to – guard your tongue and honor your parents (if still applicable).

    Most importantly, Daven! Don’t obsess about your health, in the end we can only do our hishtadlus, but He’s the One in charge.

    in reply to: Holocaust survivor became atheist #1506181
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    Joseph: did you miss the now deceased part?

    But perhaps one can do something for his neshuma and Daven that his kids/grandchildren do Teshuva.

    If they live in Israel, chances of ending up assimilated like the Rothschilds are a lot lower, so there’s stil hope there.

    in reply to: Ukranian Shmurah Matzah – date when baked? #1505469
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    Perhaps the imported Matzah is required to have a date. So the date “field” is printed, but they mostly omit it as no one in customs actually checks all boxes… Or only specific countries need a date. Just my two cents.

    in reply to: Ukranian Shmurah Matzah – date when baked? #1505468
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    The shmura spelt Matzah we got from ______ was not as crispy as their regular, because they bake it earlier in the year. You have the option to rebake it for a few minutes if it’s not that fresh.

    No self respecting supermarket or Matzah bakery will sell you last year’s Matzah. Maybe potato starch or other dry products that keep well from year to year they’ll re-shelve. And I don’t think deep freezing is cost effective for most Pesach foods.

    in reply to: The Rothschild Family #1505274
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    Joseph: Actually, I expected more from his father and grandparents.

    in reply to: The Rothschild Family #1505210
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    Incidentally, Benjamin De Rothschild and his wife (she’s not Jewish and didn’t convert either) have four daughters. So nobody in that family is Jewish.

    If only they tried to uphold their ancestral Yiddishkeit at least as much as they try to maintain the Rothschild fortune and reputation of integrity in business.

    in reply to: The Rothschild Family #1505168
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    Okay: so I guess the articles I read (Hidabroot comes to mind) about Reb. Yemima Mizrachi were misleading. Sigh…

    And neither are the Chasidic Rothschilds.

    Finally, Avi K: this is quoting Benjamin De Rosthschild from a 1990 Haaretz interview
    “And while we are on the subject of religion, let me tell you that the Jewish people made a very serious mistake by turning conversion into such a difficult process. Mathematically, if it goes on like this, the Jewish religion is liable to disappear. If someone wants to convert, let him convert. Don’t make the procedure so complicated that people despair. If you want to become a Muslim it is very simple; if you want to become a Jew it is almost impossible. My mother was converted by a rabbi in Paris but the Orthodox establishment does not recognize her conversion, so that technically I am not a Jew. If so, why do you ask for money from a goy? I think the religious establishment will have to change a great many things in this area, because it’s a matter of survival.”

    How very sad.

    in reply to: The Rothschild Family #1504758
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    Yitchokm: sorry I tried retracing the info I remembered and I was partially wrong.

    All she mentioned was about her uncle Rav Johnathon Rothschild’s from Washington Heights levaye in a Pre-Purim Shiur this year. After that I researched a bit, and some interviews /bios online mention her father being from Switzerland and a “scion of the famous Rothschild Family” without mentioning the words banking. That’s how the seeds were planted in my head…

    So I couldn’t vouch for it, although it was worded to imply that she was from THE ROTHSCHILD FAMILY.

    Bear in mind that there are thousands of Meir Anschel descendants, and not all are in the online wiki pages etc.

    in reply to: climate change #1504749
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    The DEP in NYC has the words SAVE WATER printed on all their envelopes. I don’t know if you’d consider it a big push, but these words are something you see/hear pretty often. And I’d say it’s mainly for environmental purposes. The city sometimes has what they consider droughts, but it’s usually exaggerated and water levels bounce back pretty quickly.

    As an aside, when total water usage goes down, as in the start of metered water in NYC, the rates invariably increase. The city gets its water for free from Hashem, although they have to “process” it. So ironically, overall less water usage means higher rates for everyone, so across the board conservation doesn’t exactly translate into individual savings. The city still needs to cover its infrastructure and maintenance costs regardless of consumption.

    in reply to: climate change #1504641
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    Ubiq: you are right about breathing being part of a cycle, yet water usage is part of a cycle as well, which still doesn’t prevent these wise environmentalists from warning us not to consume too much water even in places with ample water supply.

    And you’d be hard pressed to find an environmentalist that doesn’t believe exponential population growth is a problem, because no matter how much some may try to reduce emissions humans definetely add to the “carbon footprint” in the course of even modest living. We cook, travel, heat our homes, build these homes – in addition to producing all necessary items as well as comforts we desire. And this is all part of our task of living in and enjoying Hashem’s world.

    in reply to: climate change #1504431
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    Square root: humans increase “greenhouse gasses” by simply breathing. So yes, Hashem commanded us to do so by commanding us to live, and to light fires – to give 2 basic examples.

    in reply to: climate change #1504328
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    One of the problems we Frum Yidden have – or should have – with environmentalism is their logical conclusion against population growth. If one believes carbon dioxide is bad for the environment, there’s no way to escape this conflict. We can’t simultaneously believe that we need to reduce our carbon footprint yet actively increase our numbers.

    Yet Hashem in his infinite wisdom commanded us to be fruitful and multiply. He did not ch”v indirectly command that we destroy our world. So for many of us, the logical conclusion is that the whole notion of global warming is hogwash and Hashem will take care of his world, while we continue to populate and “pollute” it.

    in reply to: The Rothschild Family #1504331
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    Rebetzin Yemima Mizrachi is a Rothschild, and IIRC her Frum uncle recently passed away in Washington Heights. (I don’t know if he has kids.) I was happy when I recently heard this tidbit in one of her shiurim, as I was also under the erroneous impression that there are no Frum Rothschild descendants.

    in reply to: Where is the Chassidishe gagin in Greenville Jersey City exactly? #1503604
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    Guess I have to practice smiling ; )…

    in reply to: Where is the Chassidishe gagin in Greenville Jersey City exactly? #1503563
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    Do one word posts not change the last poster or number of posts on the thread listed? Just wondering why Joseph’s post isn’t showing up on the main page.

    In any case, ARWSF, I was busy at the time I replied, so hope all is well with you and yours. Hope you had a great Pesach and that the midnight raids have calmed down ( ; .

    Best wishes for a happy and healthy summer to everyone! For a while I was thinking we got stuck in winterland…

    in reply to: Where is the Chassidishe gagin in Greenville Jersey City exactly? #1502672
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    Don’t know where exactly, but this from Godaven, if it hasn’t moved recently.
    Kehal Yeraim Greenville 221 Martin Luther King Drive, Jersey City, NJ 07305

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    Many Heimishe Yidden sell on Amazon. Some are earning nicely, while others are struggling, as with most start-ups. But while previously, for example, a Chasidishe Yid (or Yiddene) had practically zero chances of selling glass dishes to a consumer in Boise, Idaho, now he can and does. So for us it has leveled the playing field a lot, as no one cares how you look or that you have no college degree. As long as you can deliver the goods.

    So yes, many mom and pop shops are going bust, others are wising up and selling their stuff online, while many more are starting Amazon stores.

    in reply to: Washing produce on Pesach #1497822
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    Iacisrmma: thanks. I’m leaving most of the shopping to my family this year, so I’m not exactly price savvy.
    I’m sure Dovid BT will appreciate it, though I don’t know where he lives.
    Unless he only wants natural vinegar, then he’s out of luck…

    in reply to: Washing produce on Pesach #1497641
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    You should be able to find Kosher for Passover imitation vinegar (acetic acid) in smaller bottles although a lot more expensive than good old vinegar. Kosher supermarkets should carry it at this time of year. (You can find it on Amazon as well but very pricey.) IIRC from previous years, the supermarket price is in the $3. range for 32 ozs.

    I don’t know how by much you dilute it, or how much you use for Yom Tov, but hopefully you can make it work.

    There are also Kosher vegetable washes, but I’m not familiar with those.

    Good luck!

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    For the record, most of our kids were dismissed from school/Yeshiva early (in Brooklyn).

    However, we dismissed the employees of our tiny business early as well, as they don’t live “next door” and we didn’t want to risk them being stuck in transit.

    In fairness to the mosdos, the severity and snowfall of this storm was hard to predict by the weather forecasters so many played it safe. It’s easy to be upset in hindsight, but it could have been a nightmare for the kids to get home safely if was worse in most parts of the city.

    in reply to: hummus #1483221
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    RY and anyone else not wanting to wash to food processor…

    You can make deliciously flavored techina using sesame seed paste (some brands settle more than others, and are almost glued to the bottom of the container, so find a good one) and mix USING ONLY A FORK.

    My basic recipe without exact amounts, sorry I’m too much of a free bird when it comes to recipes…

    Sesame seed paste, about equal amount of water which makes it liquidy, but then magically thickens as you mix, a nice splash of lemon juice, dried minced garlic, garlic powder, cumin, salt, and red pepper flakes – add all seasonings to desired taste or skip whatever you’re not a fan of…

    Enjoy!

    Good to know: don’t buy too a large jar if you’re not feeding a lot of techina lovers as the paste will spoil after a few months in the fridge. The finished product probably lasts a few weeks.

    in reply to: drunk na a blazingf skingk #1480004
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    B”h. I guess the bandage was fake after all… Could’ve fooled me.

    Good Shabbos everyone. Gotta run… (And where is gogo?)

    in reply to: drunk na a blazingf skingk #1479986
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    DY: For a moment I thought you were sober enough to change to your white “shluf kappel” but upon closer inspection I realized it’s a bandage…. Oy vey. Now where is your kappel? Anyone have a spare?

    Refuah sheleima and good Shabbos to all you hung-over guys. And once you sober up remember to thank your wives for putting up with you and preparing everything for Shabbos without your help. And if the chulent does burn, GH believes you shouldn’t be eating it in the first place… With such great “Gedolim” our generation is truly in great hands.

    in reply to: What’s a good last minute costume for a woman? #1476958
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    Try dressing up as an original (as in opposite of modern) Rebetzin. Ask your local Orthodox Rebetzin for guidance and maybe she can lend you appropriate head gear. No sewing/gluing required for this one. You can try a used clothing shop for the outfit.

    Good luck!

    in reply to: Rav Avigdor Miller on Breaking Your Middos #1476945
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    Lightbrite: I can try to if you’re “really” heartbroken by this . They are two different people having some pre-Purim fun.

    Now, about your other issues…. Sorry, out of my league.

    Have a freilichen Adar and of course Purim everyone!

    And hopefully Hashem will mend all our broken hearts and bodies by bringing Moshiach thereby making our Simcha complete.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1468913
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    RY23: you and JJ are both correct regarding diy. It’s usually more expensive if you figure how much you earn an hour and the time it cost you, but (as I once read somewhere but don’t recall where) practically speaking if you’re doing the project during hours you don’t normally work, or don’t have any work to attend to at that time, the end result will be money saving.

    You might also learn a thing or two and have some pride in your accomplishment. If you’re already good at something and have the supplies on hand, like some mechanical stuff, it generally will be cheaper to do it yourself than hiring somebody, even when comparing it to your earning potential.

    in reply to: Wait time in Dr.’s office #1461114
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    The pediatricians in my neighborhood that are the best doctors are basically the ones with the longest wait times. And yes, they overbook because it’s almost impossible to say no to a sick child. That holds even more true when the flu or some other virus is out there infecting many kids.

    But if you end up waiting a while at a medical center even when there are almost no patients, it’s most likely that the bureaucratic system and staff are at fault.

    It’s always good to check what’s going on after half an hour or so, perhaps the receptionist simply didn’t check you in properly. And for them to know you don’t appreciate waiting…

    If it’s an emergency speak up loudly, and if staff doesn’t listen, walk in straight to the doctor. (Years ago, my then toddler needed nebulizer treatment and perhaps medication for breathing difficulties that I couldn’t safely handle myself. When I told the receptionist that my child was breathing rapidly her response was an empathetic “Yes, I see that.” but continued to let me wait… So I walked in to the pediatrician who B”H had the sense to treat right away.)

    in reply to: Sewing machines #1458277
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    I second Lightbrite about getting one from Costco. With relatively light use it should last a couple of years. We have a Brother we paid about 80 bucks for (I think it was on special). It started acting up a little lately, but can probably be repaired if we decide it’s worth it.

    It’s been about five years, was never perfect when it came to button-holes or fancy stitches, but nevertheless a great buy.

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