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  • in reply to: Jews in the Trump administration #1210561
    Mammele
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    Joseph: Kushner is identified very publicly by his observant Jewishness, because Ivanka converted due to him (or more precisely, his mother). Which means he’ll be under a very strong microscope.

    And “mit mishpacha esst men kugel” is not a Yiddish slogan for naught. Especially because of her conversion, things that can go wrong between Mr. Trump and Jared can have a snowballing effect on his family and their observance.

    in reply to: Jews in the Trump administration #1210553
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    I second the motion of keeping the Kushners out out of the new administration. I’ll give them a pass for the transition team, not that anyone is asking me…

    in reply to: Obamacare today in the jewish world #1191794
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    DY: healthcare is different in many ways. Among them that most of us already have our own doctors we prefer. Change is not good for the patient medically or psychologically. I can buy a light bulb from Washington state on Amazon (although they’re also becoming more locally based) or from my corner grocer with little impact on my day-to-day life.

    If a new network wants to come to town they need to be huge for my doctor to want to join/accept it — meaning many of his potential patients will be using it. Health insurance networks negotiate favorable rates from providers by offering patients in “bulk”. So an out-of-state based network either won’t have my doctor and hospital on it (especially in the early stages when they need to get familiar with the territory and build alliances) or if they do manage to, since they’re not big locally, the bargained rates won’t be such a great bargain and nobody will gain.

    And from where do you take your information from that Employer Plans are subsidizing ObamaCare? I haven’t seen that anywhere. According to a Fortune article I just read, specialty drugs are one of the top drivers of Employer premium increases — and so the reasons are many — but insurance companies seem to keep each plan separate, and dump those that aren’t profitable.

    As we’ve seen from Obamacare where many insurance companies are opting out, many companies are in it for the quick buck, so when things don’t pan out as planned and profits tank, they simply make a u-turn…

    in reply to: Obamacare today in the jewish world #1191785
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    Allowing competition across state lines is not a simple fix. Insurers need to have a good local network, with negotiated rates to compete. And if there are too many insurers rates may not favor the insurance companies as much and doctors may opt out of many networks – leaving you less likely to retain your current doctors.

    in reply to: Obamacare today in the jewish world #1191781
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    Ubiq: You’re welcome…

    However, benignuman seems to disagree with you about employees costs not going up under Obamacare. Perhaps not premiums in his case, but he cites a few examples of types of out-of-pocket costs that have gone up every year since Obamacare began. Every employer seeks to pay less, not more, so to fight rising premiums they’ll choose the plan that’s least costly for them, and likely costlier for the employee.

    I need to mention again that health care costs have been steadily going up before Obamacare as well. What’s driving the increases nowadays (which I wasn’t aware of earlier so I didn’t mention it) are the cost of mental health, and simply more people consuming more medical care.

    in reply to: Obamacare today in the jewish world #1191779
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    Both of you are overestimating the percentage of Americans covered by employers. Additionally, as Benignuman mentioned, even those that have insurance through their employer have out of pocket costs, which usually increase when the market rates increase (unless the employer absorbs the WHOLE cost, including increases).

    This from Wiki:

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    in reply to: Justice Antonin Scalia #1191118
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    Wolf: correct, but now we need to replace one justice. And he or she will most likely be a conservative, given the Republican control. We don’t know what the situation will be in four years.

    in reply to: Obamacare today in the jewish world #1191765
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    As much as we love to hate ObamaCare, health insurance costs have been going up for years, prior to its implementation. Remember how switching to HMOs was supposed to “stop the bleeding”? The idea was that negotiated rates with providers would save us all some dough. That helped, but not for long. Similarly co-pays were supposed to curb consumer spending on non-essentials.

    The “problems” with healthcare costs in the US include advances in (expensive) medical technology, high cost of medical school and malpractice suits.

    So although there’s some corruption and price gouging going on, it’s expensive no matter who pays for it.

    And many Heimishe Yidden are self-employed or small business owners. The idea that employers offer health insurance and covers many of us without a hitch is baloney – we are the employers and employees that have to pay those crazy premiums.

    A single payer system can perhaps cut costs but will come at the expense of medical advances and availability of services – no one wants to work for no or low gain.

    So there’s no magic answer as far as I can tell.

    in reply to: Donald Trump REMEZ #1190674
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    There’s a Remez in this thread to a shidduch idea between two posters here, but I have no clue if the ages match. Anybody can complete the puzzle for me?

    in reply to: Ding Dong, The Wicked Witch Is Dead! #1191186
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    She’s still the biggest loser.

    She literally sacrificed half her working life to climb to the top, and now tumbled big time. I don’t think she would have stayed married to Bill if not for her White House ambitions. This must be an awfully awful pill for her to swallow.

    And I think now her medical issues will come to the fore, so I don’t expect any future government appointments.

    in reply to: Watching the country fall #1191141
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    Thanks for the info. Joseph.

    in reply to: Watching the country fall #1191132
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    147: don’t hold your breath. She’ll never be jailed. Your comment got me wondering though, can someone be pardoned if they haven’t been convicted yet, just charged?

    And I’d suggest Anthony Weiner and Huma get good security.

    in reply to: Watching the country fall #1191131
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    The country already fell after the primaries. There was no way out of this…

    But Wikileaks gets a lot of the credit for making the corruption visible to all the naive folks out there. Unfortunately some of the things they post are irrelevant and private nonsense.

    And that doesn’t make Donald Trump a tzaddik, it just makes him lucky. If Putin or Russia had any hand in all of the leaks we are in even worse shape though.

    in reply to: Being asked if you're dressed up for Halloween #1189079
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    RY is usually joking. This is just part of his regular shtick. Everybody else lighten up…

    in reply to: Solutions for Waterproofing Sukkah Decorations #1184756
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    Perhaps try shrink wrap bags and mount with double stick strips? (I never tried it, hence the question mark. Jewish party goods stores carry them for mishloach manos.)

    Or if you are ready to spend try finding a water proof shadow/display box. Or perhaps you can caulk and seal the gaps of a regular wall-mountable display box. Make sure the depth is enough for your stars. If you use a “shlock” you might not even need to seal it, but of course that’s your call.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184433
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    According to news reports it seems that LT now relocated to Oratorio, 30 miles east of Guatemala City.

    in reply to: people going places sick #1183938
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    There is a virus circulating in Brooklyn now which is similar to the flu. Runny nose, fever, sore throat are the typical symptom. It takes about a week to run its course.

    If you think you may be infected STAY HOME!

    By sickening others they too will have a hard time catching up on school work etc. And so the cycle continues. You don’t want it on your conscience. It may seem unfair but that’s life.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184394
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    Joseph: I’m done arguing with you. Your blinders are way too thick for me to waste my time.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184391
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    Joseph: I think you’re the one that’s gullible here.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184388
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    I actually mentioned that not “only frum” people will get custody. It likely won’t be either or, but a mix.

    And of course there’s the logistical issue of finding so many matching foster families at once.

    So I’ll repeat, in most instances it’s best for the kids to stay with their parents, but provide help to the parents.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184386
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    And ARWSF mentioned that their allowed foods are restricted to flour, oil and salt. I don’t know if it’s still the case in Guatemala, but I don’t see how the parents can be held accountable once they are in his clutches.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184385
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    Joseph: you’re wrong, because food is controlled by the leaders, as is all income. I can’t vouch for this but rumor has it that he goes so far as to not allow mothers to naturally nourish their babies so they can have more children.

    And I’ve just read up a little bit on the legality of cults in the US at least. There are potential issues of undue influence and fraud involved here. The terms may be subjective and hard to prove — but it still doesn’t necessarily make it legal in this case. And this seems to be just the tip of the iceberg, I’m not a lawyer and I’m not going to invest my time in in-depth research.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184383
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    Health: There’s no way only frum people will get custody. Too many BTs with non frum families involved. And I’d think they’d have the Israeli government on their side. The citizenship of many kids is also complicated.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184382
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    Joseph: Adults can’t consent for their kids to be undernourished, just one example contrary to your statement. I know there’s no simple gauge, but to categorically deny the possibility of illegality is even more foolish.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184380
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    So I guess we’ll have to agree to disagree.

    I’m just wondering, at which point does mind, body and financial control become illegal? Simple phony calls can be deemed harassment, I’m sure this is a lot worse. Especially since there are kids involved.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184377
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    There actually is. IF there were members willing to testify against them.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184375
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    Joseph: I was thinking along the lines of either arrest or agree to some sort of plea deal to that effect. But since my shoulders aren’t broad enough I’m just speculating. And of course nothing can happen unless there’s real proof against them.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184373
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    Health: there are too many governmental parties involved to know anything conclusively. At least I can’t. Guatemala, Israel, Canada, and to a small extent the US – each with conflicting ideas and some extended families applying pressure. Many of these extended families are not frum, cohesive or loving (which is why the parents ended up with Helbrans in the first place).

    And hundreds of really difficult kids to find appropriate, preferably Yiddish speaking homes for, ideally not splitting siblings. That’s a tall order under the best of circumstances. The “rehab” these kids need is unbelievable.

    The first rule is always: do no harm. So even if you may be right in principle, it’s not simple at all. And if the kids can stay with their parents, that’s almost always optimal. Why should we spend so much energy on government bureaucracy to place the kids appropriately if we can perhaps find a way to deal with the parents first. The best way would be if we can get something like a restraining order for their corrupt leaders, so the parents will be more amenable to cooperate.

    I don’t know if that’s possible, so I’m going to leave it for the experts.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184368
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    I don’t think even ARWSF would advocate taking the children away from their parents. As we are Rachmanim bnei Rachmonim we really have to get the leadership away first, and then work with the families to get them the help they need. It’s not just the kids that are suffering — although they are the most vulnerable.

    These children have a very hard time adjusting to the real world, and uprooting them from the families they love will make the adjustment almost impossible. However, if the PARENTS are actually guilty of abuse and neglect OF THEIR CHOOSING (not by simply being there) there is probably no choice but to get their kids into heimish, vetted foster care. We can’t just “rescue” them and dump them into the general system.

    in reply to: Who wants to be a Tzadaikes like Rus? #1180246
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    Health: if you wanted to make that point, this was the wrong thread to do so, and sends the wrong message.

    Yad L’achim rescues women and children THAT WANT TO BE RESCUED. Unfortunately, most of the cult members are brain-washed and want to stay where they are. Those that want to leave, have gotten and most likely will get help to do so, especially if they have supportive family on the other side. I agree more should be done though.

    in reply to: Who wants to be a Tzadaikes like Rus? #1180244
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    Health: bringing up Helbrans here is quite underhanded. I didn’t watch the long video recently which I think you’re referring to, but no sane parent is okay with their child marrying a cult member. And usually, the child is a member first, and then marries according to their leader’s wishes, regardless of age.

    In fact, I heard of a family that actually escaped a few years ago, mainly because their very young daughter was engaged to be married there. (I don’t know the ages of the Chosonim – she was actually engaged a few times; they were made to drop the shidduch and on to the next one. Really sick.) This family lives in your town now, so you can probably find out more if you try.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184364
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    Health: hopefully ST26 has been scared away by the real truth here… Or he doesn’t have regular internet access and was only granted temporary acccess by his superiors for the purpose of PR.

    One small correction, the group did first move to Chatham, Ontario before fleeing to Guatemala. It didn’t help them so they fled to Guatemala.

    The National Post had a more detailed article on this story. And it seems Yeshiva World was wrong in their article and the children weren’t taken away during the raid, but they didn’t bother correcting it.

    If any of you haven’t seen it, here’s the latest video about the raid posted on YW. Would have been nice if they translated it.

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/ywn-videos/463588/watch-members-of-lev-tahor-cult-describing-how-authorities-raided-their-compound.html

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184358
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    ARWSF: I admire your bravery. And thanks for coming out publicly here.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184353
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    ST26: Perhaps conditions in Quebec were not as deplorable, but it was very far from ideal.

    Neville: don’t lump them all in one basket, most of their members are to be pitied, not shunned.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184349
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    Joseph: I know, that’s why my OP was a request for a solution. Hopefully someone can come up with some brainstormed idea, but I guess it won’t be on the CR. I wanted to bring awareness though, as we definitely need intervention.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184348
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    One more point: the fact that you opened your account on YW today to make comments here and on this news article makes me question your credibility. So in my eyes you are simply a PR hack.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184346
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    ST26: Okay, my last post was in response to your first post.

    No one said the people are not righteous. Problem is their leaders are corrupt and manipulative. They are temimos’dig and embrace what they are taught. They are also very protective of their so called lifestyle so it’s hard to get the truth out of them. Many of the parents grew up in broken homes and don’t know how to handle their kids.

    On top of that their system is horrendous and the people lack funds for the basics. If you donate money to them you have no control over who’s pockets you’ll line – or if it will be used fairly.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184345
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    ST26: I don’t see anyone here in the CR condoning their persecution by the goverrnment. The question I had was what can be done to help them, because whether you believe the media or not, these people are in dire straits physically, emotionally and financially and need our help.

    And it must be on our terms because if not their leaders will just take the money and run yet again. The only way these families can have stability is if they agree to change. If you call that persecution be that as it may; their living conditions and lifestyle is not something I can support.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184337
    Mammele
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    Joseph believe what you want but my sources are better than that. And that’s all I’ll say.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184334
    Mammele
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    I actually wrote “and perhaps abusing their kids” because I don’t want to get into this argument here. I’m not basing my info on Channel 7.

    Kids are routinely taken away from their parents for weeks for misbehaving, food is rationed and families are given stipends which can be withheld at a whim. Their school hours/days are spotty. These kids are not growing up in a healthy environment physically, emotionally and education-wise and that’s what really matters.

    in reply to: Ubiquitin and Health are still at it! #1179686
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    Thanks Ubiq for your detailed reply.

    in reply to: Ubiquitin and Health are still at it! #1179682
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    So maybe mods since this isn’t getting anywhere you give it a rest. Someone’s blood pressure levels may be at stake.

    Or maybe they’re both actually enjoying it and it’s keeping them from stressing about other stuff? Can you two perhaps enlighten us?

    in reply to: Coffee addict post in the news article about Monsey crash #1178040
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    Health: curving country roads actually make drivers slow down. At least when I’m a back seat driver…

    It’s the wide highway type roads that are the usual speeding magnets. However, reckless drivers drive recklessly everywhere, so maybe we can never cross the street with walkways and traffic signals in the city either.

    And in the city busy streets near schools (public and private) may be without traffic signals, and if nobody writes a letter to the DOT requesting a traffic signal it stays that way. Even with a letter it’s pending approval after a drawn out review. Zoning doesn’t effect squat.

    There may be roads unsafe for walking, so we need to work on making them safer via sidewalks etc. but this was NOT the case here. Bringing in extraneous information, some of it erroneous, detracts from the fact that the driver was careless here and simply fosters hate.

    I’d compare it to saying someone got hit on her way to Shul Shabbos so she’s partly to blame for her own death because women are not required to daven with a minyan and guarding one’s nefesh is more important. Do we expect us all to become hermits because leaving the house may be dangerous?

    in reply to: Oxitec #1179957
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    Cute poem though.

    in reply to: Oxitec #1179956
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    I wouldn’t bet on it being a perfect solution. A reduction of the yellow fever mosquito population has been shown to increase the Asian tiger mosquito population — also a vector of Zika, dengue fever and the yellow fever virus among others — which can survive cold winters and are found right here in NY.

    This from ecdc europa:

    Aedes aegypti, unlike Ae. albopictus is not able to undergo winter diapause as eggs, and this therefore limits their ability (to some extent) to exploit more northerly temperate regions (although some survival is possible during the summer following an importation). However it may establish in regions of Europe showing a humid subtropical climate (parts of Mediterranean and Black Sea countries) such as the Sochi region where it has become established again since 2001 (Black Seas coast).

    Species competition has also been shown to affect distribution and abundance. A decrease in the distribution of Ae. aegypti has been associated with the invasion of Ae. albopictus, especially in south-eastern USA [5].

    End quote.

    We need major Nissim here to overcome these diseases, regardless of the specific mosquito.

    in reply to: How do I stop my wife spending??! #1177128
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    Joseph is (almost) never serious though he pretends to be…

    If this question is still relevant to anybody I’d suggest setting up X dollars (whatever amount you think is reasonable) as an automatic transfer – each month – to a savings account, and putting the spender (HIM OR HER) in charge of paying the bills.

    But first have an open discussion about it and get your spouse on board with your plan – and the details. Compromise on the savings amount if necessary.

    in reply to: Reminder! Do not leave kids locked in cars #1177236
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    DY: from the article I read it seemed like it was intentional. She had another two kids with her and did some shopping. When she got back to her car she immediately asked where her baby was. She was likely stressed out and the baby was sleeping at the time so she did something extremely stupid and dangerous.

    Cases of Forgotten Baby Syndrome usually involve changes in routine which on the surface this doesn’t appear to be the case here, but I truly hope I’m wrong.

    in reply to: hair #1176897
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    Sparkly: you can braid your hair if you think it may be too long but don’t want to cut it. Assuming you can find a hair style that suits you but doesn’t look babyish. Corn-braid maybe? Just putting it out there.

    Refuah Sheleima bekurov to your sibling!

    in reply to: hair #1176850
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    In fairness to Sparkly, she only asked about “having” long hair, not about whether it’s okay to wear it loose. Although she seems to be insinuating that, especially in her seeming quest for a heter. In any case, her MO Rabbi probably allows it and she’s just trolling…

    Or struggling perhaps, but the winner is unfortunately predetermined.

    in reply to: Tell us about your first date with your spouse #1183869
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    Just noticed I skipped the word “luck”. So I guess that means you deserve a longer bracha…

    May your date go well and, if he’s the right one for you, may you both realize it and IY”H progress from there to whatever goodness your heart desires.

    Hatzlacha Rabbah!

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