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  • in reply to: Things people in the CR find offensive #1038558
    Joseph
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    Don’t you find it offensive that married people are called “married” as if it defines them?

    in reply to: Things people in the CR find offensive #1038556
    Joseph
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    I find it very offensive that 60 year old pipsqueaks young enough to be my children are called “older” singles.

    Among Chasidim 21 year olds are older singles.

    in reply to: Why R' Rechnitz is incorrect #1035743
    Joseph
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    Roshei Yeshivos also have sons that marry a girl years below their own age.

    in reply to: Simchas Torah and women #1035637
    Joseph
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    jf02: As squeak alluded, men are not subjected to the type of tumah that is relevant in this case.

    Sam: Many poskim, especially among Ashkenazim such as the Rema who says we ARE noheg against it for the reason squeak mentioned, do rule against it.

    in reply to: Hat Repair #1033413
    Joseph
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    Men’s hats or women’s hats?

    in reply to: Simchas Torah and women #1035633
    Joseph
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    Who and how will enforce that only the tahor dance with it? And how about the immodesty of publicising who is tahor and who is not?

    in reply to: a point to ponder about the "shidduch crisis" #1033423
    Joseph
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    <sigh> Again, arguments over the mathematics of the age gap.

    in reply to: Noticeable Anti-Semitism in Brooklyn NY? #1033428
    Joseph
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    Welcome to golus.

    in reply to: Why R' Rechnitz is incorrect #1035712
    Joseph
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    1. What’s the downside to guys dating earlier?

    2. How does the downside outweigh the upside?

    in reply to: Brooklyn Eruv #1071293
    Joseph
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    The war has been lost.

    in reply to: Halachos of sharing recipes #1033080
    Joseph
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    Your intent was to demonstrate that IP claims in halacha stand on shaky legal grounds?

    in reply to: Need help surviving R'H davening #1033213
    Joseph
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    What’s the heter that some yeshivos (and shuls) employ to give a kiddush before tekias?

    in reply to: Ever seen a forest animal die of old age #1042700
    Joseph
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    What would’ve been so objectionable about saying that to have been edited out?

    in reply to: Need help surviving R'H davening #1033209
    Joseph
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    What compels you to remain in your current shul?

    A 5 hour service is hardly that long. Many shuls are notably longer. We’re you expecting to be in and out in three hours??

    And R”H davening isn’t intended to be a concert…

    in reply to: rosh hashana seats #1032987
    Joseph
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    What are typical family seating prices this year? Surely there are less expensive shuls too.

    in reply to: Books for Recently Divorced #1033416
    Joseph
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    Personally, I think that best books are books on shidduchim. Nothing can make a man happier than getting married.

    in reply to: Good morning, early-bird mod :) #1087848
    Joseph
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    This is “early”?!

    in reply to: Halachos of sharing recipes #1033074
    Joseph
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    Who said your understanding of the terms of sale is correct insofar as the binding terms they’re sold under? (I’ll look at the linked seforim later but a quick glance through seems to indicate that at least some shittas cited are far from universally accepted.)

    in reply to: Halachos of sharing recipes #1033072
    Joseph
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    “Lending is included in the purchase, but permanent sharing is not included in the purchase.”

    TY. So you’re *assuming* it is excluded by the contractual terms of purchase.

    1. Why are you assuming the seller imposes that unwritten term if copyright law does not provide such protection? Do you make the same assumption regarding a non-Jewish published recipe book?

    2. How can the seller impose a term of sale that was never agreed to by the buyer? (Especially, considering, that the author published it through a publishing company which sold it to a retailer which resold it to the final consumer. How did any alleged unwritten [non-legally protected], non-explicitly agreed to, term carry over through all those channels? Do you assert such a term would even apply to someone who borrowed the book from the library or a friend or found a discarded copy of it? How so?)

    3. Even assuming you to be correct, a violation of the contractual terms of sale merely give the original owner the halachic recourse to nullify the original sale/contract, demand the return of the book and at the same time refund the buyer the original payment for the book – thus reversing the original sales contract that was breached. After that the breach has been corrected and all parties are whole.

    in reply to: Halachos of sharing recipes #1033070
    Joseph
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    I didn’t ask for examples; I asked for a specific and well defined basis in halacha that makes the differentiation that you make.

    in reply to: Before Rosh Hashanah #1033892
    Joseph
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    Apparently the old adage that the more someone says they’ll be quitting the CR, the less likely they’ll actually be quitting, is very true.

    in reply to: i really need your opinion… #1033031
    Joseph
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    Would the cRc tell you by telephone *any* specific Orthodox kashruth certification agency, by specific name, is generally unreliable?

    in reply to: Ever seen a forest animal die of old age #1042687
    Joseph
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    Animals aren’t natural city slickers. Hence you don’t tend to see them lying dead in Times Square.

    in reply to: Halachos of sharing recipes #1033067
    Joseph
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    “do you think I can buy a Susie Fishbein book and then share every recipe with you?”

    Would you object to loaning a Fishbein book to someone? If not, on what halachic basis do you differentiate loaning the entire book with the scenario you are seemingly objecting to?

    in reply to: Active User Index – please sign in/out #1033874
    Joseph
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    Debatable.

    in reply to: Have you even been a juror? #1033190
    Joseph
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    Did you convict or acquit? What was the judge’s sentence?

    in reply to: Is Meor changing this year? #1032745
    Joseph
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    Cut the kid some slack. She googled the school she’s researching before applying and found this old thread so became a member here and asked her question.

    in reply to: Kollel couples, financial support and why it gets on peoples nerves #1032739
    Joseph
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    It doesn’t get on the nerves of other than a small subset of people. And it’s none of their business anyways unless they are paying for it. And if they are they agreed to it.

    in reply to: Active User Index – please sign in/out #1033872
    Joseph
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    That’s very debatable.

    in reply to: Active User Index – please sign in/out #1033870
    Joseph
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    If you choose to become inactive and post to state so, you will no longer be inactive.

    in reply to: Radio Talk Shows #1032726
    Joseph
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    In my days you had to be well under 18 to get unto CY.

    in reply to: Sticky Situation #1032730
    Joseph
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    +1 to everything sem613 said.

    in reply to: maaleh of chatzos #1033044
    Joseph
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    There are yeshivos that say the first slichos in the morning before shachris.

    in reply to: Simchas Torah and women #1035625
    Joseph
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    Can I be sad and cry on Shabbos and Yom Tov or should I keep my emotions in check despite if my natural inclination to be sad?

    in reply to: Not losing Daas Torah #1033167
    Joseph
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    “But I still don’t get how he is reading the gemara.”

    Fun ah kasha shtarbt men nisht. S’iz besser tzu bleiben by’m ah kasha vi tzu zogen ah krumer teretz.

    in reply to: Chrome or Firefox? #1032646
    Joseph
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    Silk.

    in reply to: World Trade Center A'H #1183763
    Joseph
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    Pres. Bush was aware the first plane was a large commercial airliner before the second plane hit.

    in reply to: A guy broke up with me after 10 dates #1040220
    Joseph
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    I don’t think one needs to “apologize” for discontinuing dating someone even if after a large number of dates. One needn’t marry someone in order to avoid that person experiencing heartbreak. Of course common courtesy of a pro-forma explanation should be provided but even that should typically be limited to something along the lines that one sees the other person as a great person but simply not the right match for themselves. Giving very specific personal reasons why one chose to discontinue dating could be hurtful to the other person.

    in reply to: Girl giving the "yes" first in shidduchim #1070750
    Joseph
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    3. It is at best debatable whether a numerically greater number of instances of being declined for a date is an affront to one’s “dignity” and you didn’t clarify why you’d think dignity to be at issue when accepting or declining an offer to date is a non-public matter.

    in reply to: Radio Talk Shows #1032724
    Joseph
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    I, too, was on Country Yossi (twice) in the ’80s. I won a sefer in Eichler’s for getting the three questions correct. Around 1993 I was on every show on TalkRadio 77’s lineup. Getting on Rush was the hardest as the lines were always busy and it took weeks of trying. I still remember the dial-in number. I once went into 2 Penn Plaza and took the elevator to the 17th floor to see if I could see Rush, but all I could get to was into the hallway with the doors to WABC and its FM sister station. I once met him in Manhattan and got his book autographed. The others were relatively easy to get on, including Bob Grant, Jay Diamond, Curtis and Lisa Sliwa, Lynn Samuels, Ed Koch and Mayor Rudy Giuliani. I also was on Barry Gray on WOR and spoke to Gov.’s Mario Cuomo and George Pataki on their weekly WCBS call-ins. At the most recent Siyum HaShas I got (randomly) interviewed by Fox News.

    in reply to: World Trade Center A'H #1183761
    Joseph
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    President Bush knew about the tragedy before the second tower was hit.

    in reply to: Girl giving the "yes" first in shidduchim #1070748
    Joseph
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    But, oomis, fny attributed it to “preserving the girl’s dignity”. Do you disagree or do you think that preserving the boy’s dignity is equally vital?

    in reply to: Simchas Torah and women #1035620
    Joseph
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    The Torah can certainly dictate what we must believe. We also know we are told at times to be b’simcha. Apparently feelings can be dictated.

    in reply to: Strange Noises Being Heard #1032588
    Joseph
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    It’s a shofar. Rumor has it that Moshiach has arrived!

    in reply to: True Achdus #1032568
    Joseph
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    DY +1

    in reply to: Simchas Torah and women #1035600
    Joseph
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    The Chofetz Chaim learned while his rebbetzin ran the grocery store. This was hardly the first; such setups long existed. But even if it IS new, so what? Look at it as a lifestyle choice. There’s no “long tradition” of Torah Jews going to college or driving cars or having running water at home. None of that gives a license to change Jewish traditions.

    in reply to: Living Aboard a Boat #1032559
    Joseph
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    Aryea: Have you ever read William F. Buckley Jr.’s various books on his sailing experiences?

    in reply to: Not losing Daas Torah #1033123
    Joseph
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    CharlieHall: I’ve seen you previously acknowledge there is no evidence of harm from MBP. How do you now account for your last above comment.

    in reply to: Girl giving the "yes" first in shidduchim #1070743
    Joseph
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    fny: Men need no dignity?

    in reply to: methods on how to internalize knowledge into action – by Teresa #1032307
    Joseph
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    A mod ought to change this title to “How to internalize knowledge into action” if anyone is to have any idea what this thread’s about before deciding to skip reading it. Meaningful thread titles matter.

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