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  • in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038393
    Joseph
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    Even if that’s all true, there aren’t thousands of non-religious from across the USA that will be willing to fly to BP for a Shabbos.

    in reply to: Does anyone know the halakhah concerning coffins? #1037654
    Joseph
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    “There are a number of woods that rot very quickly when placed in the ground”

    That’s good. Jewish caskets should rot as quickly as possible. In Eretz Yisroel they actually bury without a casket altogether. For the same reason that the bottom is removed when there is a casket. (Perhaps that is why you mentioned that they rot.)

    in reply to: Syrian Community and Converts #1037628
    Joseph
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    The Syrian rabbinical establishment stopped *performing* conversions about 80 years ago due to a problem of marriages with non-Jews who then sought to convert for marriage purposes.

    Nevertheless they only will not perform any conversions within their community. Valid conversions done by rabbis outside the Syrian community are fully recognized as full Jews in all respects by the Syrian community.

    in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038391
    Joseph
    Participant

    That will bring in a few dozen cumulatively, at best, “from far out in the USA”, not “thousands”.

    in reply to: Does anyone know the halakhah concerning coffins? #1037652
    Joseph
    Participant

    @littleeema: Commercial casket makers, to the best of my knowledge, do not prepare in advance that this casket is made and set aside for Chaim for when he dies, and this casket is made and set aside for Chava when she does, etc.

    in reply to: Shabbos Project results #1191720
    Joseph
    Participant

    benig: How many guests accepted your invitation and showed up? What did you do differently at the meal? They slept over or walked home? How many other non-religious in your neighborhood went to someone for Shabbos?

    in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071734
    Joseph
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    Curiosity: That picture looks awfully like it was taken in Eretz Mitzrayim, circa our slave age.

    in reply to: Sunday project #1037504
    Joseph
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    I’ve recently read the letzonei hador mocking yesterday’s project with comparisons and making equivalency to inviting frum Jews to a mechallel Shabbos weekend to share the joy of being able to do whatever one wants one weekend as a response to the “missionary nature” of this project. Apologies for being jaded and viewing with a critical eye something that possibly sounded a bit along those lines.

    in reply to: Does anyone know the halakhah concerning coffins? #1037646
    Joseph
    Participant

    The less and the simpler the better; plain and wooden. The bottom should preferably be removable so it can be slid out.

    That being said, it seems inappropriate to prepare one for a living person.

    in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038389
    Joseph
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    Nu, Mark, what do you think is the demographic reality?

    in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038387
    Joseph
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    But then no one will have anyone to invite. So they’ll end up inviting each other and it’ll all be one big happy family reunion.

    in reply to: Sunday project #1037501
    Joseph
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    If the joke is a comparison to yesterday’s project it is no joke. One is sharing truth and the other falsity. Even if both think they have the truth, we do and they don’t.

    in reply to: How much to put in kids' therapy savings fund? #1037688
    Joseph
    Participant

    50% of the amount you are depositing in his college account.

    in reply to: Sunday project #1037497
    Joseph
    Participant

    Do you trust their kashrus?

    in reply to: Zionism, Why the Big Debate? #1101777
    Joseph
    Participant

    Why is anything debated here – or anywhere else for that matter?

    in reply to: Drafting yeshiva bochurim into IDF #1037317
    Joseph
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    AIY: He says if the bochor “desires”. Only the bochor can tell us if he desires. We cannot tell the bochor that he doesn’t desire if he says he desires.

    in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038380
    Joseph
    Participant

    Yeah, of course, some stragglers here and there. But the OP was talking about “thousands”.

    in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038378
    Joseph
    Participant

    Which outskirts of BP? One side is Flatbush and the other side is the Asian neighborhood. And how many on the outskirts are there – and the ones there are are apt to go to frum folks in their own area.

    in reply to: Sleepover #1037140
    Joseph
    Participant

    Is a sleepover a fancy way to call a pajamas party?

    in reply to: Calling uncles and aunts without using their title #1136739
    Joseph
    Participant

    “Just as a parent can be mochel on their kavod in any ways, kal vachomer an aunt or uncle, no?”

    A parent cannot be mochel their kovod to allow their children to call them by their first name.

    in reply to: When will Boro Park have a Shabbos Project and host thousands of BTs? #1038376
    Joseph
    Participant

    Boro Park is close to 100% frum. Flatbush still has non-frum residents. It would be difficult to import thousands of frei yidden to Boro Park for a Shabbos. Where will thousands of irreligious Jews willingly come to BP from for an overnight stay?

    in reply to: Calling uncles and aunts without using their title #1136732
    Joseph
    Participant

    ivory: That just means your Yeridos Hadoros was more advanced than most others… 😉

    in reply to: What does it mean to be yeshivish? #1037345
    Joseph
    Participant

    popa: Your point is equally applicable regarding “Chareidim” and even “Orthodox”.

    in reply to: Calling uncles and aunts without using their title #1136721
    Joseph
    Participant

    “There’s no mitzvah to show respect to uncles & aunts.”

    Rabbeinu Yona in Sefer HaYira 203 writes that one is obligated to honor their uncles and aunts. He makes a Kal VaChomer from the obligation to honor a stepparent. See also Sefer Chareidim Perek 12:3 and the Chida in Birchei Yosef.

    in reply to: What does it mean to be yeshivish? #1037334
    Joseph
    Participant

    Being Chareidi but not Chasidish. (Now ask what it means to be Chareidi.)

    in reply to: So who here has actually been in the IDF? #1040471
    Joseph
    Participant

    Are you supposed to join the idf or hope your kid joins it before finding out about the spiritual dangers involved?

    in reply to: Ribbnitzer Rebbe #1037150
    Joseph
    Participant

    My uncle was with him in the Soviet Ukraine after the war (Russia had seized the Carpathian Ruthenia from Czechoslovakia) and came to the US with him in the ’60s. He was my mohel. The day he was niftar I was thinking about him before I heard anything.

    in reply to: singing during davening #1036846
    Joseph
    Participant

    There are other shittos that one’s entitled to follow.

    in reply to: Statistician Dr. Charlie Hall's analysis of the marital age gap data #1040718
    Joseph
    Participant

    According to the claim, even with a 50/50 gender ratio the population growth + age gap results in a disparity. I think the larger question is whether they correctly estimated the actual rate of the population growth. The census’ might not be sufficiently comprehensive to make an assumption on this.

    in reply to: Haredim refusing to sit mixed on airplanes #1037063
    Joseph
    Participant

    The bottom line is that there’s no reason not to politely ask if someone can trade seats with you. Regardless why you ask. You want an aisle seat. You need to be closer to the bathroom. You and your spouse or children were assigned seats apart from each other. Or because of religious sensitivities. And if anyone doesn’t like that, well, that’s no one else’s problem.

    It’s telling that most of the folks opposed to religious accommodation have no objection to a polite seat change request for a non-religious need or preference.

    Again, these requests are being made politely. And no one is being coerced to agree to change.

    in reply to: Statistician Dr. Charlie Hall's analysis of the marital age gap data #1040716
    Joseph
    Participant

    The census’ have tables listing enrollment numbers for children in Jewish schools. Is that what you’re looking for? That’s what NASI used (comparing one census from the earlier one) to determine what the population growth rate is for the Orthodox community. Male/Female breakdown shouldn’t be necessary to determine the growth rate.

    Once the growth rate is determined, coupled with the projected average age gap between grooms and brides, they projected a percent of women who will be unable to marry.

    in reply to: Paskening Hashkafa: Academic vs. Practical Rationales #1042237
    Joseph
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    I don’t see why the aforementioned Gemara in Eiruvin or the 13 ikarim cannot colloquially be described as a psak rather than your preferred conclusion.

    in reply to: Response to Lior #1036932
    Joseph
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    “No one really believes that the entire nation is meant to learn in

    kollel full-time while their wives work and/or somebody supports them, do they? If that is indeed the mindset of the system, then something is presumably wrong.”

    Even the biggest proponents of Kollel don’t advocate or expect *every* yungerman to go to Kollel. And certainly no one holds that “the entire nation” should be in Kollel. The claim that anyone holds something like that, which you sometimes hear advanced by those opposed to Kollel, is a red herring.

    in reply to: Drafting yeshiva bochurim into IDF #1037282
    Joseph
    Participant

    tzvik: Spiritual danger. (Even if you argue against this point, those who do find it to be so will not relent on this point.)

    SoL: I doubt the government will put tens of thousands of Chareidi draft dodgers in jail even if the law mandates a draft of them. Does the government really want to draft neteurei karta guys or anyone who will resist their having been drafted?

    in reply to: Paskening Hashkafa: Academic vs. Practical Rationales #1042233
    Joseph
    Participant

    “pointing out that a conclusion is not the same thing as a psak. I concluded that I typed this but I did not pasken that I typed this. The fact that Beis Shammai/Beis Hillel or the Rambam reached a conclusion on a given matter does not make it a psak. It means that they think it to be true or even that they are sure that it is true.”

    Without addressing the larger disagreement but only addressing the terminology, I don’t see why pasken cannot colloquially be used in the sense of concluding.

    in reply to: Regarding Charity. #1036726
    Joseph
    Participant

    Would working as a cashier be something doable and available?

    in reply to: Haredim refusing to sit mixed on airplanes #1036988
    Joseph
    Participant

    1. The starting assumption is any Ha’aretz report is inaccurate.

    2. The “Hareidim” requesting a seat change invariably do so politely and request it voluntarily from a willing party. They don’t (and in fact can’t) coerce.

    3. The request is typically made to someone travelling alone not to someone sitting next to a family member. There are more than enough single travelers that it isn’t necessary to ask someone sitting next to their spouse.

    4. These reports are always hyped and greatly exaggerated by reporters who have a chip on their shoulder with their disdain for “Hareidim”.

    in reply to: Statistician Dr. Charlie Hall's analysis of the marital age gap data #1040714
    Joseph
    Participant

    The following three links below will allow you to access the Avi Chai Foundation studies by Dr. Marvin Schick that NASI used to estimate an annual 3.5%(?) annual American Orthodox Jewish population growth to derive a conclusion that the estimated average age gap between Chasanim and Kallahs is causing many woman to figuratively be left at the altar without any more available single men in an appropriate age:

    1. Census of Jewish Day Schools, 1998-99

    2. Census of Jewish Day Schools, 2003-04

    3. Census of Jewish Day Schools, 2008-09

    The first two is what NASI used for their calculations while the last one was published afterwards.

    Note: I am not vouching for the accuracy of their methodology used to draw their conclusions from the above studies.

    in reply to: Problem with posting #1036598
    Joseph
    Participant

    /sarcasm

    in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071716
    Joseph
    Participant

    PAA: How is it relevant whether it is what you term “halachically objectionable” if leaders of world Jewry said it is a radical and dangerous departure from Jewish tradition and the mesoras haTorah, and must be condemned in the strongest terms and that a woman in a rabbinical position of any sort cannot be considered Orthodox? That statement is clearly stating it is objectionable in the strongest terms. Suppose, hypothetically, it isn’t “halachically objectionable” (however you differentiate that “objection” from the Gedolei HaTorah’s objection), if it can’t be done what are you aiming at?

    in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071712
    Joseph
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    in reply to: Kabbalah #1036470
    Joseph
    Participant

    Are there any contemporary Kabbalists that are accepted today as such uncontroversially across Klal Yisroel?

    in reply to: I'm not a kid #1036455
    Joseph
    Participant

    If there are no kids in shul it’s okay for the gabbai to give gelila to an older single? Or must he then give gelila to a married guy but definitely not the single?

    in reply to: Out-of-Town Bookstores #1036395
    Joseph
    Participant

    Online is usually the best source for hard to find books.

    in reply to: Palestinian State #1037103
    Joseph
    Participant

    Those opposed to giving land to the Palestinians, do you then support endless warfare and terrorism by the Arabs who will never agree to anything less than independent land? All your ideas and arguments against giving land may be wonderful and logically sound, but at the end of the day the Arabs will never agree to anything less and will continue their war and terror. You’ll have to accept endless fighting and death.

    in reply to: Rebbes Affectionate with Children #1055913
    Joseph
    Participant

    I fully agree with everything eftachbchinor said.

    in reply to: Palestinian State #1037089
    Joseph
    Participant

    A new Palestine would be a more formidable military foe than Egypt, Jordan and Syria were in the past?

    in reply to: Response to Lior #1036909
    Joseph
    Participant

    “there would be a very plausible reason why non-kollel people would want kollel people to leave kollel and not the reverse, namely that the non-kollel people are generally the ones supporting the kollel people.”

    No one is forcing anyone to support anyone else, in Kollel or out of Kollel. I have no tainas if someone chooses to give their maaser to things other than Kollel and not a dime to Kollel. So don’t give. But where do they come about spouting against other’s choice to attend Kollel?

    in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071707
    Joseph
    Participant

    The current smicha is intended as an imitation of the original smicha. And the current smicha indicates a license to serve as a Dayan.

    in reply to: shaving for a chol hamoed date #1035887
    Joseph
    Participant

    I bet he didn’t shave and the girl fell in love with him at first sight for being such a tzaddik and they are now engaged.

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