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February 13, 2015 3:17 am at 3:17 am in reply to: ‘Zichron Moishe- style’ Yom Kippur Kotton in BP? #1060305JosephParticipant
In over six years not a single person could help this poor woman?
JosephParticipant21 may be quite late to start for some folks.
February 13, 2015 3:08 am at 3:08 am in reply to: shidduchim: what's all this about middos? #1093669JosephParticipantMiddos are much more important than looks.
February 13, 2015 2:01 am at 2:01 am in reply to: Torah Dating (from the smile4aminute blog) #1059802JosephParticipantIs mamashtakah the same user as the frequent poster takahmamash?
JosephParticipantEasily make your own.
JosephParticipantThey don’t exist.
JosephParticipantWhy didn’t you outright own the backyard immediately when you bought the house? How did the former owner of the house still own part of the property after you bought it off him?
February 13, 2015 1:56 am at 1:56 am in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059913JosephParticipant“Now where’s the halacha that says that “covered in any position” is the appropriate measure?”
Very strange question. That’s like asking “Now where’s the halacha that says that “all ingredients are kosher” is the appropriate determination of kashrus?” For something to be kosher, all the ingredients must be kosher. You can’t say, well, 11 out of the 12 ingredients are kosher so we’ll certify the product as kosher.
If something has to be covered, obviously it must be covered at all times. Why would there be an exception for when its a hot day or a windy day or walking up a staircase or sitting down? If it can be uncovered when sitting down why must it be covered when standing or walking? If something has to be covered, obviously it means always covered, not covered 85% of the time.
JosephParticipantHere’s a whole bunch:
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/funny-shidduch-stories
February 12, 2015 3:42 am at 3:42 am in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136917JosephParticipantSo if someone grabbed $5 out of my hand and spent it, you maintain I cannot grab a different $5 bill from him?
JosephParticipantSo what should people do about this housing shortage if they want to continue living in Brooklyn but they aren’t wealthy?
February 12, 2015 3:33 am at 3:33 am in reply to: "Distance Your Path from It" � The Dangers of Academic Study #1141239JosephParticipantAvram: “old man” also vouched for the letter’s bonafides. Also, despite a couple of posters saying they cannot find this letter posted anywhere else, I easily found it (by googling the first sentence of the letter) posted over a month ago on the unofficial website of the Hebrew Yated that for the last 15 years has been posting translated articles from the Yated.
Most of the dangers mentioned by the RY are equally applicable in the U.S.
1. The shock of going from an environment of kedusha to secularism.
2. Kefira in academia.
3. Influence from secular professor with improper values.
(I’m not sure where you get the idea that U.S. professors are “supportive of Orthodox Judaism”. U.S. universities are a major hotbed of liberalism and anti-religiosity [and anti-Israel, for that matter.])
4. Influence from secular students. (kefira discussions, mode of dress, etc.)
5. Even in chareidi colleges there are instructors who aren’t 100% yirei shamayim.
The RY may have been concerned about the perception you mention (i.e. ivory towers) due to the illegitimate external criticism made on these topics which inevitably filters back into our communities. About the Borsalino thing, maybe there’s some kind of mishegas going around the more well-to-do families in EY about frequently getting a new hat. Who knows; there are certainly far worse bad habits in the secular world.
February 12, 2015 3:08 am at 3:08 am in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059903JosephParticipantSame source that says to cover the belly.
February 12, 2015 3:06 am at 3:06 am in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136915JosephParticipantthere’s a difference between taking your own item and taking something as compensation for a different item.
So (instead of my original idea of grabbing equivalent merchandise) then you’re okay (halachicly) with me prying open the cash register and taking my $5 change that she didn’t return.
JosephParticipantYom Tov / Yuntif
JosephParticipantNo way I say add more!
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Don’t limit what other people do though, that isn’t nice
There are takanos in many shuls limiting what is and is not permitted to give at a kiddush. Do you think the rabbis who enforce these rules in their shul are wrong for enacting them so that some people don’t feel pressured into sponsoring a kiddush that costs more than they can afford?
February 11, 2015 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136904JosephParticipantIs that Gemara how we pasken the halacha per S”A?
February 11, 2015 12:32 pm at 12:32 pm in reply to: Is Brooklyn becoming a retirement town? #1063562JosephParticipantFor the right price the nochrim on the edges on the neighborhoods would be willing to sell, and thus allowing us to expand the frum neighborhoods.
JosephParticipantDon’t you miss those days, Poster?
JosephParticipantShuls should minimize their expenses to focus on maintaining the shul rather than fancy staffs and services, thus reducing membership fees. This is the general heimishe approach.
February 11, 2015 11:50 am at 11:50 am in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136901JosephParticipantI’m asking strictly from a halachic perpspective. Assume that there’s no risk of civil involvement, i.e. he can get away with it from a civil perspective.
JosephParticipantUse yeshivanet to universally filter all results.
JosephParticipantIf a person davens in different places a) Friday night Kabbalos Shabbos b) Shabbos morning Shachris / Mussaf c) Shabbos Mincha / Motzei Shabbos Maariv and d) Weekdays, should he have to purchase a seat in all four of the aforementioned shuls?
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JosephParticipantsue them under the ADA.
Religious facilities are not subject to the provisions in the ADA (especially if they believe it to violate their religious practice.)
In secular court.
It’s forbidden to use secular courts (especially without a heter arkaos.)
February 10, 2015 7:28 am at 7:28 am in reply to: "Distance Your Path from It" � The Dangers of Academic Study #1141220JosephParticipantThe RY makes many valid points explaining why so many frum yidden choose to forgo college.
JosephParticipantHigh housing costs in frum Brooklyn may be an intractable problem without any good solution considering that there isn’t much room to build further in our neighborhoods. A potential solution is to buy out adjacent non-frum neighborhoods, expanding block-by-block starting from the last blocks of our neighborhoods. But even that may be prohibitively expensive.
JosephParticipantSo MO shuls charge so much more because they pay their rabbi so much more than chareidi shuls and they have larger shul staffs?
JosephParticipantThe bakery in Fialkoff’s in South Fallsburg makes delicious cakes and rugelech.
JosephParticipantThe yeshivish shuls often have Pirchei for the kids Shabbos afternoon (with the Pirchei costing only a very nominal fee). And there are kiddushes often (which is typically sponsored by a member.) Yet, somehow, the annual dues costs are generally about a couple hundred bucks not over a thousand or even a couple thousand bucks.
JosephParticipantCharlie: Where do you build it? I haven’t noticed many open parcels of land in frum Brooklyn.
Sam: Where is there any BMG type yeshiva (in the US) other than BMG itself?
KJC: Why are the frum selling out on 10th Ave. and below? Considering the dire housing shortage in BP, one would expect that the buyers would be other frum families rather than outsiders.
JosephParticipant“Why, then, is there a tendency in some circles to denigrate Yeshiva bachurim for following the crowd?”
Those circles who denigrate Yeshiva bachurim for following the crowd, also denigrate Yeshiva bachurim for any other pretext they can find. They simply don’t like yeshiva guys and will take any opportunity to knock them.
February 6, 2015 1:39 am at 1:39 am in reply to: "Distance Your Path from It" � The Dangers of Academic Study #1141185JosephParticipantThere isn’t a homeless problem in Bnei Brak nor is the cemetery being filled with folks who starved to death. Lower living standards? Yes. That’s what the RY said, in fact, people should accept. Almost all, if not all, the problems the RY listed with college would be applicable in the U.S. as well. He doesn’t exclude frum colleges, though notes additional pitfalls in secular colleges. Hishtadlus does not demand college and there are other forms of hishtadlus available. If anyone thinks putting themselves in a spiritually unsound environment will not have lasting effects on themselves, they’re probably fooling only themselves.
Anyways, I counted up the votes above and, clearly, the RY is outvoted by far. Since as we all know we go by the majority, we should start doling out free scholarships to Harvard. Yeshiva guys who go to Harvard don’t come out any less ruchniyus than yeshiva guys who instead of going to college, say, run a seforim store for parnassa.
JosephParticipanta mamin, whose your Rebbe?
JosephParticipantI know many people who never had any worst enemies or even any enemies at all.
February 4, 2015 5:10 am at 5:10 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136494JosephParticipantIf you’re photoshopping anyways, you don’t need a celebrity photo. Just start out with her own photo and photoshop out her baldspots, all her birthmarks, wrinkles, pimples, dimples and thin out her stomach by taking off 150 pounds.
February 4, 2015 4:07 am at 4:07 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136489JosephParticipantNo celebrity is tznius, so any photo you send will be lifnei iver.
JosephParticipantWell, you know already who you’re marrying. So why can’t you just ask him what he’s open to?
JosephParticipantI am pointing out the people are held responsible for their parents and grandparents sins.
JosephParticipantVery. (Please don’t report me to the cops.)
JosephParticipantPlease first pour them into chocolate milk bottles to lessen the likelihood of law enforcement busting you for shipping alcoholic beverages.
JosephParticipantubiquitin: We are commanded to kill Amaleikim for what their grandparents did to us.
JosephParticipantFFBBT613: I’m really curious to know which non-chasidish communities commonly has people getting engaged starting the summer following the end of 12th grade. Is it also common for people to start dating in 9th grade, as you’ve done with this boy?
JosephParticipantShouldn’t Spanish goods be boycotted by Jews due to the Inquisition, expulsion and burning Jews at the stake?
JosephParticipantYou mean it might be a love/hate relationship?
JosephParticipantIs Kaluah from Mexico readily available for purchase in NY or is it difficult to procure?
JosephParticipantdhl144: The reasons you gave for going to Touro, IMHO, far outweigh the reasons you gave to stay put.
About Time: Touro isn’t a block away from the Mir Yeshiva. Before its current location is was situated in the Shulamis building.
JosephParticipantI believe Barnum & Bailey has a travelling camp.
JosephParticipantWhat kind of date is it, if not a shidduch date?
JosephParticipantI get my vitamins with the natural foods that contain them. Clearly the most healthy method to do so.
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