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  • in reply to: Kapparos #1101090
    Joseph
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    If your minhag is not to do it with chickens, do it however your minhag is. Everyone else who has the minhag to do it with chickens will continue doing it with chickens irregardless of the peta type crazies and their offshoots, with or without yarmulkas and whether Jewish or non-Jewish, like it or not.

    in reply to: I am having a Euro Obsession at the Moment… #1104582
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    Geordie: First tell me how to tell apart the supposedly different accents between British and Australians (let alone Irish and South Africans) before you tell about differences between accents in different parts of the British Isles.

    in reply to: (another) Mechilah Thread #1101391
    Joseph
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    ‘Nuthin to worry about.

    in reply to: Har HaBayis Revisited #1112268
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    It’s forbidden to ascend to any parts thereof.

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125793
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    sdd: You haven’t addressed my first point above.

    in reply to: Different havaras #1100620
    Joseph
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    That was a bit different discussion.

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125790
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    sdd: Everyone has their own Yom Tov meal. Not everyone has a Bris that morning.

    Have you not seen the baal simcha’s caterer bringing bags and wrappings specifically for the purpose of guest’s taking home food from the Bris? This is quite common not strange.

    in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157492
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    Matan: As DY said, they’re not married to each other yet so it is inappropriate for the choson and kalah to be having a joint discussion on this topic. Additionally, the instructions are different for the choson than for the kallah. And furthermore, the topic itself is even inappropriate for a teacher of the opposite gender to teach it. (And whatever gender the teacher is, he/she will be the opposite of either the choson or the kallah.)

    in reply to: Different havaras #1100617
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    lesschumras: That’s factually incorrect. There’s no record of which is older. The so-called chasidish havara long predates chasidim. It’s geographic more than anything else. Some chasidim use the so-called Litvish havara (i.e. Stolin, Lubavitch, etc.) and some non-Chasidim use the so-called Chasidish havara (i.e. Oberlander).

    in reply to: Challenges of making Aliyah and how to overcome them? #1100531
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    Barry: We have some commentators on this very thread who made the move, and unfortunately everything just didn’t seem to fall into place.

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! #1224398
    Joseph
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    I don’t recall saying

    Instead of relying on your recollection, you could’ve simply looked up to see what you wrote! 🙂

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! #1224396
    Joseph
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    I submit that more than three babies were born in Lakewood last night.

    in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157478
    Joseph
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    The topic of discussion itself.

    in reply to: Feeling bad for pro Israel liberals #1100201
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    It’s interesting to note that if you look back at the news archives you’ll notice very many of the same principal critics that strongly faulted Bush I for not having invaded Iraq and taken out Saddam in the ’91 Persian Gulf War are the same postwar critics against Bush II for having done exactly that.

    in reply to: Dubai for Business/Jews #1100189
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    Narcotics.

    in reply to: Challenges of making Aliyah and how to overcome them? #1100527
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    JR: What was the reason your son couldn’t get a yeshiva based draft deferment? Does the army draft 18 year olds soon after they emigrated from the US?

    in reply to: Challenges of making Aliyah and how to overcome them? #1100523
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    Thanks for the information about Israeli debtors prison and asset seizures, Jerusalem reader. What was your hashkafic affiliation in the US and what is it now in Israel?

    in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157474
    Joseph
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    Matan1: 1. Because there are multiple students in the class, so they can’t be mixed. 2. Because the instructions are different to each. 3. Because some subjects are inappropriate for an opposite gender to teach even if it were one on one.

    in reply to: Challenges of making Aliyah and how to overcome them? #1100516
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    (not to mention trying to stay out of jail, which is a challenge when you are poor in Israel)

    Can you explain that point, Jerusalem reader? Thanks

    in reply to: Challenges of making Aliyah and how to overcome them? #1100494
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    There are potentially very big frumkeit pitfalls for American children moving to Israel.

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125785
    Joseph
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    What’s strange? It’s a mitzvah to eat food from a bris. So your taking the food to share with others, who weren’t at the bris, to partake in the mitzvah. (And, also, the mitzvah of avoiding baal tashchis of so much extra food being discarded.)

    in reply to: A Sweet New Year #1100134
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    Kesiva V’Chasima Tova!

    Joseph
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    Lighten up. I ran out of characters in the title when I tried “is advocating that everyone join”. (Surely you noticed it in the OP.) It’s within the realm, no pun intended.

    Kesiva V’Chasima Tova!

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184934
    Joseph
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    Is mechila still in style?

    in reply to: Hatoras Nedorim #1100099
    Joseph
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    L’maaisa, most women don’t do it. Why not? And how can she appoint a shliach – and does the shliach do it together for himself and her with a different loshon than the standard nusach?

    in reply to: Should we remove all borders #1100090
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    Charlie: Spain and Portugal had the Expulsion and Inquisitions. Latin America is their heritage. And the Inquisition carried over to there. The population there are their progeny.

    in reply to: Should we remove all borders #1100085
    Joseph
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    You want the United States to become another Mexico and Europe another Syria?

    in reply to: Jewish Brotherhood #1100347
    Joseph
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    When in Mesopotamia, do as the Iraqis.

    in reply to: Pruzbul, shmitta, debt elimination and theft #1100146
    Joseph
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    S’pose someone missed doing a pruzbul. Is he prohibited from asking, or even accepting if offered, moneys that were owed him? Is the borrower free as a bird to refuse to repay the debt to a lender without a pruzbul? Is the borrower entitled to demand the lender produce the pruzbul before he repays?

    in reply to: What’s wrong with being Frum? #1100000
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    flatbusher, you disagree with Chazal who tell us in Pirkei Avos to make gedarim.

    in reply to: Pruzbul, shmitta, debt elimination and theft #1100145
    Joseph
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    How early can next year’s pruzbul be done – immediately after Rosh Hashana?

    in reply to: What’s wrong with being Frum? #1099997
    Joseph
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    That might be true Yosi7, but like squeak said, if someone calls you a “frummy” because you’re too frum for their liking, you should wear that as a badge of honor.

    in reply to: Pruzbul, shmitta, debt elimination and theft #1100142
    Joseph
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    Nu, did everyone get a pruzbul yet, or are you waiting for next year?

    in reply to: Dinei Torah vs. Dinei Shomayim #1099687
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    Charlie: A Rov’s job protection and ability to pass his rabbinical position to his son is a special halacha for that position. It is not the normative halacha for all employees.

    in reply to: A Sweet New Year #1100133
    Joseph
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    Kesiva V’Chasima Tova un ah gut gebencht yur tzu gantz Klal Yisroel!

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184933
    Joseph
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    It’s <bumping> season.

    in reply to: Being hurt on someone else's behalf #1100004
    Joseph
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    Yes. It shows you have a heart.

    in reply to: What number date? #1099632
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    So now tell us after which date will the parental meeting be held?

    in reply to: Happy BUMP day 9/10 #1100025
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    <bump>

    in reply to: Should I run from this guy??? #1100061
    Joseph
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    Perhaps people shouldn’t tell their shidduch date that they went to therapy, whether anger therapy or any other therapy, since it will open a whole can of worms. Better to shveig shtill.

    in reply to: What is forgiveness? #1100250
    Joseph
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    Feivel – A full mechila by the victim doesn’t necessarily remove the punishment of the perpetrator in beis din shel maala for the act he was forgiven for?

    in reply to: What is forgiveness? #1100243
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    Goq & zush: So, then based upon your arguments, one should forgive/be mochel irregardless whether or not the person who wronged you asked for forgiveness or not, and irregardless whether the person who wronged regrets he wronged you or does not regret he wronged you. Since forgiving is for the victims benefit, the victim should forgive someone who never asked for forgiveness and doesn’t even regret it.

    in reply to: How do I handle this Teshuva before Yom Kippur? #1099588
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    You’re afraid she’ll think the items are being sent to her as a romantic gift?

    in reply to: Another Shalom Aleichem Question #1099524
    Joseph
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    What is your source that it is a modern innovation as opposed to a continuance of the same (or similar) greeting mentioned in the Gemora?

    in reply to: Doing Teshuva for someone else #1192081
    Joseph
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    The same way I can pay off someone’s debt

    How do you pay off/get rid of someone else’s sin(s)?

    in reply to: Another Shalom Aleichem Question #1099522
    Joseph
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    Since it’s a more modern innovation, it might very well be borrowed from other cultures.

    Our Shalom Aleichem is a modern innovation? Any shaichos to/imitation of the Arabic Salaam Alaikum, which the proper response to is Alaikum Salaam?

    in reply to: Doing Teshuva for someone else #1192078
    Joseph
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    Alright, so how can a person make a kappara for another person’s sins?

    in reply to: What number date? #1099625
    Joseph
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    I’ve heard stories where the parents staked out a location the girl is known to be so they can surreptitiously spy her. I’ve heard of this being done either before they agreed to go out or after a few dates.

    in reply to: Doing Teshuva for someone else #1192073
    Joseph
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    Getting back on topic, don’t we have the concept that great rabbonim suffered or were niftar as a kappara for klal yisroel?

    in reply to: What number date? #1099620
    Joseph
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    Well, by litvish/yeshivish people the entire dating process is relatively quick, with couples getting engaged often by the sixth or so date. (Give or take.) So meeting the parents after the fourth or fifth date would be fairly routine.

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