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  • in reply to: Who gets more Schar? #1125466
    Joseph
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    Another unmentioned wrinkle, for however it may factor in, is that when the parent earned the money that he inherited, he may have earned it with the same hard work as the other party who earned it. Additionally, the parent may have given Tzedaka off the original amount, and the son inheriting it now is giving Tzedaka a second time off the same funds.

    in reply to: Who gets more Schar? #1125465
    Joseph
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    My reading of the OP is that in the described scenarios both parties, at the time of donating, did so with the same effort and joy.

    in reply to: Who gets more Schar? #1125463
    Joseph
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    If he worked hard to earn $10 Million, without the intention of giving it to Tzedaka, his hard work wasn’t for the purpose of Tzedaka. And his later Tzedaka is similar to the other person who gave the same amount, with the same simcha, from the same base of funds.

    in reply to: No Dorms on Logan road #1171306
    Joseph
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    I know that RLUIPA is Federal law and that it is actively enforced in Federal courts and has not been overturned.

    It is also obvious to anyone reviewing the timing of the enactment of the zoning regulation in relation to Jewish parties desiring buildings affected by the new regs, as well as the regs designed to not affect Christian dormitories and only targeted at students aged 18+, typically what yeshivas have, why it was enacted when it was.

    in reply to: YU Bochrim #1139213
    Joseph
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    Is Ramaz coed too?

    in reply to: Who gets more Schar? #1125460
    Joseph
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    If a poor person, earning $30,000 to support a family, gives $3,000 to Tzedaka, thus making a major dent in what he can afford for his family, and a rich person who is single and earning $300,000 gives $30,000 to Tzedaka, and still has more extra money than he needs, does the poor person earn more schar? Both gave it with the same joy.

    L’fum tza’ara agra.

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/poor-baal-tzedaka-vs-rich-baal-tzedaka

    in reply to: Who gets more Schar? #1125459
    Joseph
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    The OP didn’t specify he knew in advance he would give it to Tzedakah.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132313
    Joseph
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    If the ticket was obtained illegitimately (i.e. stolen, as you suggested, or even lost and found) the authorities can likely determine that by seeing where it was purchased, where you were at the time, using possible video surveillance of the ticket vendor from the time of sale, etc.

    Stolen would surely be unlikely to get away with. Even a found ticket it is questionable if it would be honored, and indeed unlikely if they realize it was a lost ticket.

    But you’re correct that there is no ID required at the time of purchase.

    in reply to: YU Bochrim #1139210
    Joseph
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    What if the question was about a bochor from Yeshiva of Flatbush?

    I don’t see the answer being essentially materially different whether it’s a YoF bochor or a YU bochor.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132311
    Joseph
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    It’s happened where they won and quit.

    in reply to: Who gets more Schar? #1125456
    Joseph
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    Same.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132309
    Joseph
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    Smart employers prohibit their employees from conducting an employee-pool lottery participation, since if they win most will quit simultaneously and put the business at sudden risk.

    in reply to: Too Much Money #1123182
    Joseph
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    Is that the official halacha?

    in reply to: No Dorms on Logan road #1171303
    Joseph
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    Agree with it or not, RLUIPA is Federal law. It violates no provisions contained in the U.S. Constitution.

    The reason the county enacted the zoning rule in question was to keep the Jews out.

    in reply to: Heels on Dates #1126074
    Joseph
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    Endearing or not endearing such feedback is inappropriate due to propriety and lack of modesty.

    in reply to: Burnt out Daughter #1125502
    Joseph
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    She won the Israeli lottery, retired, and lived happily ever after.

    in reply to: What Can We Argue About After Tuesday? #1123122
    Joseph
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    If we’ve argued about anything since the OP’s message, Tuesday must’ve come and gone.

    in reply to: Out Of The Mailbag #1123099
    Joseph
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    Do you contest the point?

    in reply to: Wearing Yarmulka #1125809
    Joseph
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    There are times, here in the US, that I go without showing my Jewishness

    Do you walk around without a yarmulka during those times?

    in reply to: Too Much Money #1123179
    Joseph
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    Baruch Hashem, following many of the serious suggestions here I was able to distribute significant sums of money to various worthy causes. Having depleted all those available sums I IY”H hope to distribute further funds from the upcoming winnings.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132307
    Joseph
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    crazybrit: In America 102 million is pocket change. Or petty cash, as we say in business.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132303
    Joseph
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    crazybrit: I think you’re just jealous that you cannot purchase a Powerball in London.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132301
    Joseph
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    Sam: Where did you research the lack of a lottery in Lithuania and Russia?

    in reply to: Powerball #1132296
    Joseph
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    ubiq: You never purchased a lottery ticket in your life, or at least in recent years?

    in reply to: You know you're in the CR too much when… #1123036
    Joseph
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    When half the comments mention you for no apparent reason.

    in reply to: Replies to Posts #1132891
    Joseph
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    I didn’t think your removed opinion comment was so bad.

    I guess that illustrates the difference between the two of you 😛

    in reply to: Bands and one man bands #1126198
    Joseph
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    Should poor families that can’t afford a wedding hall stick to what they can afford and make their weddings in the yeshiva dining room?

    DY: When the rabbonim shlita promulgated the simcha takanos, they were more than mere recommendations.

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122943
    Joseph
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    brooklynboy55: Read the thread I linked to, five comments above, for other interesting related Gemoras and Meforshim.

    in reply to: Replies to Posts #1132883
    Joseph
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    Wolf: Your quoting didn’t do you a lot of good back here: 😉

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/time-to-say-good-shabbos#post-586011

    in reply to: Bands and one man bands #1126185
    Joseph
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    Technology today has evolved to the point where not only a one-man band, but even a recording (with no band), can play music as good and as realistic as having a band. Of course you need the right equipment to accomplish this quality.

    in reply to: Bands and one man bands #1126182
    Joseph
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    What was there?

    in reply to: Bands and one man bands #1126180
    Joseph
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    Wasn’t a one-man band part of the requirements in the takana regarding simchas a number of years ago by the rabbonim shlita?

    in reply to: Heels on Dates #1126068
    Joseph
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    It’s pretty sick for a boy to give feedback on his thoughts of the girls choice of dress or makeup.

    in reply to: Replies to Posts #1132875
    Joseph
    Participant

    Your should quote (with quotation marks) the comment you’re responding to.

    Or use the fancy code to italicize or blockquote.

    in reply to: Replies to Posts #1132874
    Joseph
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    It is the nature of the beast with the off the shelf, non-customizable (without professional effort), web forum software running this site.

    in reply to: Bands and one man bands #1126175
    Joseph
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    But you do feel obligated to keep up with the Jonses (or Goldberg’s) in your profession?

    in reply to: Heels on Dates #1126066
    Joseph
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    Um, how do you girls get feedback from your dates as to whether he was unhappy with your choice of heels??

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122938
    Joseph
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    Queen: There are more single girls in the parsha than single boys in the parsha.

    Also see: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/the-torahs-view-of-the-husband-wife-relationship#post-397192

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122932
    Joseph
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    The boys are at fault that the girls can’t get dates?

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122930
    Joseph
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    tech21: I suppose that from a boys perspective many girls and their parents embody a lot of what’s wrong with shidduchim.

    in reply to: Stocks #1122634
    Joseph
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    S&P 500 Index Fund.

    in reply to: Nicest singer #1132388
    Joseph
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    Chaim Yankel Katzenellenbogen.

    in reply to: Tzedaka ads promising to pray for your health and wealth #1122620
    Joseph
    Participant

    Is she a grandmaster?

    in reply to: Best Budget Smartphone #1122611
    Joseph
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    I hear the Moto X is great and cheap.

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122918
    Joseph
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    “Getting back on topic, the reason the boys mother is more involved in a boys shidduch, is simple. The boy and his parents are looking for a wife. This means talking to the teachers, friends, neighbors of the potential kallah. So who is going to make the phone calls to the teachers and friends etc. the Tatte or the Mamma??? Obviously the Mom!

    When looking for a Chosson, son-in-law it’s the father who will be making the phone calls to the Rosh yeshiva, roommates, mashgiach etc. SIMPLE.”

    Great answer. Best so far.

    Similar to my explanation that the mom is the shidduch secretary.

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122916
    Joseph
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    “There are plenty of girls with good middos. I think that’s why prettiness becomes such a determining factor.”

    Finding good middos is harder than finding pretty. There are plenty of pretty girls.

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122915
    Joseph
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    “It says a Talmud Chacham should marry a pretty wife.”

    Where?

    in reply to: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" #1122910
    Joseph
    Participant

    Girl with middos tovos are more wanted than pretty girls, when there is a tradeoff.

    in reply to: Powerball #1132258
    Joseph
    Participant

    You procrastinated in checking the cache.

    in reply to: Out Of The Mailbag #1122600
    Joseph
    Participant

    Little bump.

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