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  • in reply to: Does your wife read YWN? (and a confession) #1198048
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    Is your wife on imamother?

    in reply to: I didn't donate to Wikipedia #1198095
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    Is access to Encyclopedia Brittanica also by subscription?

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199489
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    Gofundme -Easier to clarify intent to the public and advertise I would think.

    I wonder why eBay was chosen as the platform. Then again he may have used multiple sites and only this one had controversy. Or maybe he already had an eBay account and figured it was worthwhile opportunity or risk for a good cause. Or eBay would be more private and give him more control over who sponsors and for how much.

    I presume that he had a great need and was limited in local outlets or options.

    It may embarrass him to have so many people attack his motives and actions. I’m guessing it hurts to be publicly shamed. Either way that part at least is against halacha.

    Unless one wants to argue that he is descecrating the Torah and this needs to be publicly shunned, maybe if anything they could have rewarded his creativity.

    It doesn’t sound like there is any scam here. Maybe it is against halacha because we’re not supposed to profit from Torah. And eBay is a commerce site. EBay sellers are small business owners.

    If there was something much bigger to report at the time, would the news sites still publish this story?

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Chanakah Party!!! ☕🕎🎉🍩 #1205669
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    Dunno but I know an amazing event planner named Moshiach. When the time comes surely he’ll know what to do.

    For now, what’s your favorite donut?

    in reply to: Eating milchigs while thinking about fleishigs #1197967
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    Amen thank you.

    in reply to: Women on a higher level #1198206
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    Harry

    in reply to: touro pharmacy school #1198493
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    Even if there aren’t so many frum women in Touro’s pharmacy classes, maybe Touro still has a stronger and more empathetic support system in place to guide tznius through any related struggles?

    Advisors or counselors professionally equipped to handle uniquely frum circumstances or issues.

    The professors may also be more supportive and/or better mentors for her Yiddishkeit growth

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Chanakah Party!!! ☕🕎🎉🍩 #1205667
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    We can have a party then too.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211923
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    Joseph, yes please ask your wife to meet me in London so we can go to EY and meet LU where your wife will give us brachas to marry our zivugs this year according to the only perfect approach. Thank you.

    in reply to: Jokes #1202950
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    Wow sorry I was obviously thinking of a looking glass.

    It’s half full. There is no such thing as half empty. If there is something in it then there is something in it.

    It’s like saying half of zero. Even point-five of a glass is still half of something.

    in reply to: Women on a higher level #1198204
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    Lol you didn’t steal it. It was a Chanukah gift!

    Thanks for the Hebrew lesson 🙂

    Oh that’s why they say that women have to be extra sensitive about their speech

    in reply to: Eating milchigs while thinking about fleishigs #1197964
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    Because I listened to a shiur today and the rabbi talked about how our mitzvot are dependent on our intentions.

    So if someone is putting on tefillin because he has to but doesn’t want to, the act itself is less valuable than if someone was super excited to put on tefillin. He gave an example of someone who said he couldn’t wait until putting on tefillin the next day. How nice it would be if everyone [men] thought like that, said the rabbi.

    I was thinking about my intentions before saying a bracha AND while eating the food.

    What if I said the bracha with proper kavanah, but later was eating the same food but thinking about other food.

    Then, what if that other food was assur at the time. Or what if I, like I did while eating tonight, imagined eating both meat and dairy while looking at menu ideas.

    Oh. Also the rabbi said that why we are eating matters. If someone eats to be healthy and strong to do more mitzvot, that is greater than someone who is eating because he likes the taste of food.

    So I was eating without appreciating the food since I thought of other food at the time. I wasn’t eating mindfully.

    in reply to: GuardYourEyes.org #1198102
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    Bump – 5yr thread

    in reply to: how to convince #1198650
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    Commanded yes.

    So the answer is no, saying that they are delaying the Moshiach’s arrival is just a way to add pressure but it really just comes down to, Because Hashem said so?

    in reply to: Talking to Hashem One on One #1198062
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    Dunno if the Rebbe said that. A couple shluchim may say that. Yet not all shluchim believe or teach in that way.

    Up until the most recent years, I had no clue that there was any controversy about the Rebbe.

    It does make me feel better now to know that I can pray and talk directly to Hashem and it’s just as valuable and heard.

    in reply to: my dream shul #1197690
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    Agreed about the books

    in reply to: Women on a higher level #1198199
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    LF: What does describing it with ten lines mean?

    in reply to: how to convince #1198646
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    “Explain that in order for the Messiah to come all of the souls that have to be born are born. So by delaying having children they are lengthening the Golus.”

    Abba_S: Is that why men are chiyuv to have children and pru ur’vu is a monumental mitzvah?

    in reply to: chulent meat #1200332
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    CTLAWYER congratulations!

    You just won CR’s 2016 Coolest Cook Contest 🙂

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Chanakah Party!!! ☕🕎🎉🍩 #1205664
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    7yr old thread -reviving after one year

    Yay Chanukah Time!!! 🙂

    ***May we have a party this year too please?

    in reply to: Eggs #1207672
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    Torah613Torah: How do you weigh them? With a food scale?

    in reply to: Eggs #1207671
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    Some people leave their butter out too.

    in reply to: Winter Vacation Spots #1197663
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    moinmonsey +1

    in reply to: Talking to Hashem One on One #1198060
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    The way that I remember being told about the Chabad Rebbe of blessed memory is that davening and/or talking/writing to him is like confiding in your lawyer who has a very strong relationship with the judge.

    Since the Rebbe is so close to Hashem, he can petition for you and do things for you that your direct plea to the judge wouldn’t accomplish. The answer’s not always Yes or in your favor, but the Rebbe has more pull and in general gets better results for his clients.

    in reply to: shabbos hat #1197878
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    [Part of this post was removed to protect the future from the past.]

    Have you never been in a situation where someone spills words in the room and things just get tense? That’s happened to me before. I didn’t invite it, feed it, or want it but it just came in there and the best thing to do was just leave.

    Hence, walking away from threads.

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206525
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    takahmamash: Thanks for the info and heads up. Based on your explanation, my phone is prob locked.

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206524
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    takahmamash: Oh no wonder. Just realized you’re in Israel.

    Liberation from importation, aka Old Bay recipes from epicurious 🙂

    Homemade Old Bay Seasoning Recipe

    Ingredients

    ? 1 tablespoon celery salt

    ? 1/4 teaspoon paprika

    ? 1/8 teaspoon black pepper

    ? 1/8 teaspoon cayenne pepper

    ? 1 pinch ground dry mustard

    ? 1 pinch ground mace (may substitute a teensy pinch nutmeg)

    ? 1 pinch ground cinnamon

    ? 1 pinch ground cardamom

    ? 1 pinch ground allspice

    ? 1 pinch ground cloves

    ? 1 pinch ground ginger

    OR

    Old Bay Seasoning (Copycat) From FOOD.COM

    Yield: 0.5 cup

    2 tablespoons bay leaf powder

    2 tablespoons celery salt (or 1 tbls. ground celery seed and 1 tbls. salt)

    1 tablespoon dry mustard

    2 teaspoons ground black pepper

    2 teaspoons ground ginger

    2 teaspoons sweet paprika (smoked paprika is even better if you can find it!)

    1 teaspoon white pepper

    1 teaspoon ground nutmeg

    1 teaspoon ground cloves

    1 teaspoon ground allspice

    1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes

    1/2 teaspoon ground mace

    1/2 teaspoon ground cardamom

    1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon

    Preparation

    Combine thoroughly and store in sealed container

    in reply to: Naming your kid Mazel #1197659
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    Revelation: It does not matter because our neshamot are beyond mazelim.

    So Mazel has the potential to go beyond her/his mazel too.

    Thank you

    in reply to: Women on a higher level #1198195
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    “Perhaps it would be more accurate to say that women are more spiritual by nature as opposed to saying “on a higer spiritual level”. “

    lilmod ulelamaid: That’s a good point. Thanks for the edit 🙂

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206519
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    For the past five years my mother has been trying to convince me to get Whatsapp. For my defense, the app used up so much battery and I get distracted by texts. Yet now I have a new phone thank you Hashem and may it be good always, and have a greater need (free phone calls in EY).

    Anyway it is amazing that someone in the CR changed the course of history in one post.

    I just installed WhatsApp. Maybe it was an answer to my mom’s prayers. And mine too. Worth a try 🙂

    Thank you!!!

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206518
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    Old Bay? They sell that at the grocery store in the US. I can send you some from here 🙂

    What is the Mods email address? Wait maybe I will let this idea pass for now. Two weeks is really shorter than I imagine it being now.

    Between jet lag, unpacking, packing, commuting, and planning, there is limited time to see mishpacha, all over EY, for real. Which is my priority. So yea.

    Thank you about the phone thing in Ben Gurion. It is too late for TravelCell.

    Whatsapp does phone calls?! Omgosh maybe I should just do that.

    If I am using my phone then isn’t it unlocked? Okay I will check to be sure.

    Thank you!

    in reply to: Naming your kid Mazel #1197658
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    I knew a Mazel when I was a teen. She was an adult though so I didn’t know much about her life.

    She was super sweet. May she always have good sweet mazel.

    At the same time it’s not like parents have much of a choice in naming, do they? I thought the Ruach HaKodesh sweeps in and tells the mother the name.

    ***Does the Ruach HaKodesh influence the middle name?

    ***What about when someone is named after a relative? Does Ruach HaKodesh have a say there?

    As for Chaim becoming Moshe, lol… difficult last names can add character and hopefully the person will grow to appreciate it.

    I knew a few friends who changed their names when they came of age. Including two young women with Israeli names that sounded like degrading English words.

    in reply to: my dream shul #1197684
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    I’m laughing so hard right now. I have never seen that before. But I can imagine it so clearly.

    I also feel guilty because last week I walked into shul for a Torah class. They didn’t have a class that day but I still wanted to give my tzadakah money that I brought.

    So I was talking to the Rabbi and asked a guy where the tzadakah box was. Another rabbi was davening when that guy came up and took the tzadakah box near the davening rabbi to give to me. I had a bill and the box was leather so for whatever reason it seemed easier to open the lid and stick it in.

    I felt bad for interrupting the rabbi’s davening. Then felt weird like I violated the tzadakah box’s boundaries by opening the lid directly to insert the bill.

    Shul comedies

    in reply to: Eggs #1207666
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    How do the eggs at the shook stay good when they’re still in a huge stack in the hot sun?

    in reply to: Eggs #1207665
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    Lol this is so interesting! Thank you

    Recently mine are on the left middle shelf, verticle, and I take them out to keep the carton balanced. I usually keep the carton in the fridge when I pull them out. Sometimes then the row closest to the sealed horizontal fold is egg-heavy towards the end

    in reply to: shabbos hat #1197876
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    Instead of bashing each other directly they bash indirectly through the candidates.

    Imho the political threads have more misogyny and less inhibitions

    in reply to: Divorce in the jewish community #1204600
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    Anyone exposed to the Internet can also be automatically exposed to good things.

    If the tabs are set to good pages, such as Torahanytime shiurs, emails with only permissible communications, Skypes with family, Daily parsha readings, the Internet is used in a public place and/or moderated way by another party, then why does it have to be bad?

    Anyone who doesn’t use the Internet can also be exposed to bad things.

    I learned that I was so much safer after getting my smartphone. I used to ask random people for directions when I got lost. I relied on and trusted on aquiantances for information because I didn’t have the portable means to do it myself.

    Now that I have the Internet at my fingertips, I am less exposed to dangers and risky people because I can get the information more safely and directly.

    I know posters are more talking about the dangers if going to certain sites, but even if one doesn’t use the Internet, that person may be more dependent on individuals who may have other interests that may not be as good, even if they are peers.

    If someone wants to be only good on the Internet and does histadulus, wouldn’t Hashem help?

    in reply to: how to convince #1198623
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    Tznius are you married?

    in reply to: Bracha on food you spit out? #1216279
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    I learned something a while ago and don’t remember which way it goes. I think that it was more important to do something that you know you need to do than do it because you’re not sure.

    For example, it would be more meritorious to bracha on a food for sure than find a way around it in uncertainty.

    Please correct me if I am mistaken and/or remind me of what I am talking about if you know this teaching.

    in reply to: Does your wife read YWN? (and a confession) #1198040
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    You got married!? Mazal tov!!!

    in reply to: my dream shul #1197679
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    1yr old thread

    “nobody decides to make change from the pushke in the middle of davening. The pushke is not a bank.”

    Lol!

    in reply to: Mosquitoes in my house #1197435
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    yrekusiel11 do you live with Meno?

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211887
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    Joseph how did you meet your wife?

    You have children, correct?

    in reply to: Talking to Hashem One on One #1198055
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    That is not the same as believing in intermediaries?

    What about praying to the Rebbe or at the Rebbe’s Ohel?

    Does your tefillah go to the Rebbe, of blessed memory, who then transfers it to Hashem? Or does an angel take the tefillah from the Rebbe’s neshamah and then pass it to Hashem?

    Or does one talk directly to Hashem when talking to the Rebbe or at the Rebbe’s Ohel (any Rebbe)?

    in reply to: Women on a higher level #1198185
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    “…anything she does that bothers her husband, he just assumes it’s because she’s American. Same idea here – just blame it on their gender.”

    That’s funny!

    A “Get Out of Jail Free” card for interpersonal conflicts

    in reply to: Eggs #1207660
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    All my 90’s Eastern Seaboard region memory recollects are those brains on drugs commercials with fried eggs.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211884
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    Yes you’re right. Getting married via Craigslist ads (no photos allowed) would be way more tznius.

    in reply to: how to convince #1198616
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    lilmod ulelamaid +1

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206513
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    Haha well here is a perfect example of a woman taking a joke literally 🙂

    True true… Thanks I needed to hear that for sometimes I am trusting to a fault. At the same time, amazing things happen and I met amazing people by openly trusting.

    I guess it’s easier for me because I am just visiting too. And obviously it would only be in a public place.

    Then again, that is a good point because I wouldn’t want just anybody being able to find my family. I want to keep them safe. So yea, dunno.

    All is good 🙂

    Anyway…

    kapusta: Thanks and thanks for the TravelCell suggestion!

    in reply to: lounge in queens #1198691
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    I was about to suggest a good futon

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