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  • in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205863
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    Oh Latvia

    in reply to: Have we argued enough about Chanukah? #1206044
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    Never had them. Sound yummy. Can you roll out the dough and cut them into dreidels?

    Not everyone likes flowers in their cookies.

    Or chocolate chips.

    Sugar cookies are modest. Fun in shape. And stand on the sidelines where sufganiyot and latkes take the field.

    in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205861
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    What is Litvish? Or Lithuanian Jewry? Or Litvak?

    I thought that they were Chareidi Jews that came from Lithuania (dunno if Litvish is from another place or also Lithuania).

    Just read something that says that they are different from Chassidic Jews. The opposite approach to Torah (controversial to word as such… how else do I say it?).

    So are there Chassidic Sephardim, and Litvish Sepharadim too?

    in reply to: Hot water #1204844
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    Meno +1

    in reply to: The Environment and Our World- I Care About it #1204810
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    Started 2yo

    in reply to: Dati in Israel #1204762
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    10 month old thread

    Bumping a couple citing Rav Kook. Recently someone told me to look him up.

    in reply to: Is "Haredism" a Movement? #1207080
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    5 month old thread

    Bump

    in reply to: Moshiach #1205129
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    People thought that the Rebbe had all the qualities but Klal Yisroel wasn’t ready.

    I think it’s possible to be without children and still have a great impact like a father to generations.

    in reply to: Hot water #1204840
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    The tank less sounds like a Plumbing Keurig.

    Side note to several people who may never read this: I don’t need to explain why I am where I am. Hashem has a purpose for me in chul.

    If my soul was meant to live here right now then the solutions would be bearable.

    It’s not the only thing but it’s been a great barrier.

    in reply to: Favorite flavor donut #1204685
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    Yea LU. The saying is clearly outdated.

    It’s about time someone corrected it

    in reply to: Moshiach #1205126
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    Just in case. 🙂

    in reply to: Hot water #1204833
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    I heard about the timer in the winter.

    I wonder if the 1/2 stretches throughout the day add up to a heftier electric bill.

    Some solutions cost more money. This is all assuming that there is a house to live in and Hashem provided a means of parnassah. Exhale. Thank you.

    in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205856
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    “sefardi who is begging to get into the ashkenazi yeshiva is actually discriminating against the sefardi yeshivos, implying that they are not good enough.” (WTP)

    That is a projection.

    Maybe the child is fatherless cv”s and his mother is Ashkenazi.

    Maybe the Sephardic school is too far and Ashkenazi is better than public school. Home schooling is not an option here.

    Even if the Sephardic schools are not up to par, that doesn’t mean that the student who is Sephardic is discriminating against Sephardim by applying to an Ashkenazi school.

    Is that not like saying that sending an inner city child who happens to be African American to a suburban school that is predominantly Caucasian is discriminating against African Americans?

    How does that even make sense? Perhaps the parents are sending their children to schools based on the reality of what the school offers compared to the other options.

    Depending on their options and availability of resources, parents evaluate schools based on numerous criterions.

    Factors that affect why someone chooses a particular school for their child:

    *Tuition, including costs for additional children after the first tuition

    *Distance, location, transportation options.

    *Religious values, hashkafah, Zionist stance

    *Socioeconomic standing of population and alumni

    *Reputation, includes educators and how the school disciplines and responds to complants

    *Substance use policies

    *Quality of educators, their educational backgrounds, degrees, experience

    *Facilities, condition of classrooms, technology

    *After school and before school care, options for parents who work longer hours.

    *Nurses and medical assistance on staff for acute illnesses, and/or to assist students with chronic health issues

    *Proportion of students who go on to complete higher education, university, and/or yeshiva

    *Handicap accessibility

    *Disability accommodations

    *Special needs education services

    *ESOL programs

    *Inclusion of secular subjects

    *Diversity of student body

    *Inclusion of parental input and involvement in classroom affairs

    *Multimedia technology, including computer permissions and typing homework assignments

    *Judgment of parents, protocols, which includes whether or not parents are allowed to have smartphones, Internet access at home, and standards of Yiddishkeit

    *Parental biases

    *Community biases

    *Single sex classrooms vs. Coed

    *Emotional feeling when they visit or gut reactions

    *Who they want their child to marry and what school will set their child up best based on what they can afford

    *Hashem’s Will, and their prayers to be guided accordingly

    Who lives in a bubble? Sephardi and Adhkenazi parents still love their children and want to give them the best. Choosing one school over another does not necessarily mean they are rejecting the other. Sometimes one is a better fit for the moment and their needs.

    in reply to: Favorite flavor donut #1204680
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    Anyone bake their own donuts?

    in reply to: Low Duck… #1205181
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    Two plus two equals meetz agvanyot

    in reply to: Moshiach #1205124
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    LU: I am rooting for monogamy.

    147: There must be someone else out there. What Trump will convert?

    in reply to: Moshiach #1205123
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    “People always talk about being Moshiach’s mother,” (LU)

    What LU said. People talk about how every child born brings us closer to Moshiach.

    To me, that sounds like once Moshiach is born, zehu’zeh no more kids have to be born. Who would those extra souls be?

    If a couple more souls need to be born and Moshiach is already born, would need to have a child or children before becoming *Moshiach*?

    in reply to: What would you do? #1205086
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    Health: Not sure how every 8-10yr has enough life experience and awareness to be solely responsible for gauging whether or not a scene is safe.

    Also you’re saying that every child 8+ needs to have a cell phone on hand for emergencies.

    in reply to: Divorce in the jewish community #1204651
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    What if more divorces = more children from different combo neshamas?

    Like this man and woman had children with their unified neshamot.

    And now when they remarry they will unite with another person to have children whose souls wouldn’t have been brought down otherwise.

    Then again maybe having more divorces equates to less children for each individual overall. And less of a chance to have more children in the next marriage, if that, since the years spent during a divorce and dating again may reduce the frame of fertile years.

    in reply to: Divorce in the jewish community #1204650
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    All of them 🙂

    It’s Shake N Bake, and I helped.

    Break me off a piece of that Kit Kat bar.

    Easy breezy beautiful Cover Girl.

    If you’re good to your car, your car will be good to you, Jiffy Lube.

    Trix are for kids.

    I feel like chicken tonight.

    The best part of waking up, is Folger’s in your cup.

    They’re Grrrreat! [Frosted Flakes cereal]

    Snap, crackle, and Pop. [Rice Crispies cereal]

    Pardon me, would you have any Grey Poupon?

    in reply to: Corny Jokes #1208951
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    To round up a minyan?

    To get a giraffe for dinner?


    5yo thread

    in reply to: Have we argued enough about Chanukah? #1206041
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    Encore

    in reply to: Peyos #1204386
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    Yes especially when used against certain breeds.

    There are benefits. It helps to prepare for potential breed-specific health conditions. Also if G-d forbid someone’s dog is lost, one can at least give a breed of reference to help locate him or her.

    in reply to: Eating Before Shacharis if it helps to daven #1204702
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    Do you have to wait until actual dawn/sunrise to daven shacharis?

    in reply to: Tochacha #1204364
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    Sounds like LU is saying that she was sure Rav Shach, zatsal, has Ahavas Yisroel. And B”H he doesn’t have sinas Yisroel.

    Is it just me or is that holding Rav Shach, zatsal, in high regards?

    in reply to: Peyos #1204382
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    LU I don’t understand how you are not Charedi because you don’t send your children to Charedi schools and don’t live at home.

    C. You’re a grown woman with a life. Surely there are other Charedi women who don’t live at home, for a plethora of reasons.

    B. You kinda need kids to send them to school. Obviously you know how ridiculous it is to say that as if it’s somehow an applicable determination of your religious status.

    A. Glad that you don’t have peyos.

    This reminds me of when I take my dog to get registered. He has to fit into a certain breed based on superficial characteristics. There are only so many dog breed options. So he is a something mix or something else.

    Maybe this is not like that because they take him and make him fit into what they have to offer. If I say that he is a this and it is close enough then fine. That’s what he is.

    I think if you take it upon yourself to be Charedi, the shadchan best realize that she/he is working with an expert. You are the expert on yourself.

    If you are honest and open, which you are, then your classification has more weight. She/He is the expert on matching. You are the expert on yourself.

    If a guy dates you and you may be slightly not what he expected, this would be a good opportunity to trust the shadchan and you. He will soon see that you are what you say you are. If it was up to the shadchan alone then he might be expecting someone different that you won’t be able to deliver on, all because your word was not taken enough to heart.

    I can def def be wrong. Just some thoughts. Thanks.

    in reply to: Peyos #1204381
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    FTFY = Fixed that for you

    …DY edited Joseph’s post to reflect his views on classifying charedim into only two distinct groups

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206547
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    Haha LU!!! Yes I am really open with my mom. The physical distance makes it easier to do so.

    I don’t know whether or not keeping it secret is best.

    But I do know that I want her to be part of my world, so I gave her the chance to see for herself ?

    in reply to: Kotel notes #1204294
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    But the wall is still above the actual wall and is a remnant of what was.

    We go to a holy person’s kever. It’s not directly the person’s body. There is a plaque that we rest stones on. The real body is under dirt. Maybe a withered skeleton at some point. May the holy ones and our family all be a blessing to us all.

    Why is it that valid and this not?

    in reply to: Have we argued enough about Chanukah? #1206039
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    golfer +1

    in reply to: Have we argued enough about Chanukah? #1206035
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    The maccabees thing could be a graven image. But it’s not all “goyish.” We are all human and enjoy similar things, like sharing out lights and bringing warmth to the darkest time of the year.

    I thought that the rabbonim say to put our Channukiot by our windows.

    Is that like being goyish? With Christmas candles and trees by the windows?

    I think it’s a testament to how much we can be openly Jewish in the US.

    What if instead of outrage we saw it with gratitude that someone Jewish felt safe enough to blast Channukah with such a flashy promotion.

    in reply to: Going to Israel this week! #1206545
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    Takahmamash +100

    I’m freezing in bed with my Ema and she just asked how it came to be that I finally got Whatsapp.

    So I just showed her the CR and read her your post.

    Thank you thank you 🙂

    in reply to: Kotel notes #1204289
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    Writing helps me figure out and channel out my thoughts. I thought I knew what I was praying for until I sat down and started writing. Suddenly I remembered more and let that out. If I sit there crying just reading or talking it doesn’t have the same effect.

    To do it at the Kotel is a blessing. I wouldn’t know what to do with the note had I not been able to leave it there. Maybe at a WWF genizah if they had one. Though that’s still the whole thing of writing in a holy place.

    Prayer is focused on oral communication. However is our tefillah really limited to just words we speak?

    We’re here on the CR for a reason. If we didn’t have this platform because this communication is not meant for a public forum, some would take it to another place. Would some not miss out entirely?

    This is the only place where I can send written messages directly to Hashem.

    I used to frequently send my letters to a Rebbe’s Ohel. I didn’t want to throw them out. Or keep them. Sending does something. Letting go of the offering.

    We used to bring offerings to the Temple. We may not do that anymore but it is nice to offer our words to the memories and remnants of that holy place where we used to meet with Hashem.

    Thank you

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    in reply to: What would you do? #1205067
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    Health has a good point about checking for safety before calling for help right away.

    Cv”s there is gang violence at the scene. Someone walking into that scenario best run for cover and maybe leave the area to protect him or herself before calling for help.

    in reply to: What would you do? #1205066
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    WTP: Do all the people answering the phone on emergency calls understand English?

    In my Israeli experiences, I panic and call out for help in English. Hebrew takes too long to formulate in distress.

    Btw thanks for the visual for an ambulance.

    I wonder what happens when people need all three? Who do you call then?

    in reply to: Peyos #1204372
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    I know someone who cannot grow a beard (afaik the facial hair is very thin and only grows in small light patches). This person is MO.

    ***What happens to a guy in a long peyos head & beard community who cannot grow peyos?

    Maybe he can grow out the hair from above the ear/sideburns so it looks like peyos.

    in reply to: I'm hurting inside tonight #1204960
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    Sending you heart energy.

    I’m sorry for your loss takahmamash, which is also a loss for Klal Yisroel and. Your childhood rav sounds like an amazing and great neshamah. May his name be a blessing to us all.

    May you find comfort with the mourners of Zion. ?

    in reply to: Segulos and Superstitions #1204207
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    6yo thread

    Bump please

    in reply to: Chocolate maccabees #1204956
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    WTP: I can see elephant cookies working out well since if they expand while cooking they’ll still look like elephants.

    in reply to: Kotel notes #1204287
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    Anyone know how to teleport?

    in reply to: Have we argued enough about Chanukah? #1206029
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    Back in the day, sugar was super expensive. Only nobles could afford it.

    That we can afford to bake treats in itself is cause for rolling out holy day cookies.

    in reply to: Peyos #1204368
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    6. Some frum men cut their facial hair with the halachically permissible electric shavers.

    Do they have subtle peyos that I never noticed?

    1. Maybe not in “style,” but does it indicate the guy’s community? Like specific chassidic, Litvish, Satmar, DL… (naming several frum groups that I’ve read about) ?

    in reply to: Can an Emotional Connection Be Created- Shidduchim #1207359
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    Shlomiel +1

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis classes for Lakewood newlyweds #1204128
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    It sounds like a couple thing where both participate together. I think it’s a great idea and hopefully will be something to implement.

    Forecast Barriers to Shalom Bayis classes:

    *Cost of attendance

    *Timing/Needs to work with both the kallah and chosson’s schedules

    *Location

    It sounds like it would be very beneficial to do this in preparation for marriage..it could boost communication and teach couples how to best cope with stress and circumstances in theit future.

    in reply to: Have we argued enough about Chanukah? #1206026
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    As if Jews don’t partake in eating treats at Yom Tov parties the rest of the year?

    in reply to: Kotel notes #1204285
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    Notes are permitted. The Western Wall foundation provides slips of paper and pens before entering the prayer section (at least at the women’s section).

    I don’t get how they would have made a nonreligious women’s section. The women’s section is small as is. It would be disruptive imho to have women davening loudly. Women in the religious section would have loudness coming from both sides. Or be shoved into a corner.

    I don’t know. That’s how I feel.

    I wonder if the running ink stains the stones.

    Is it open 24/7?

    in reply to: What would you do? #1205061
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    Maybe at least by thinking they can help, they move to action to get this person help.

    Could hurt. Could also be better than sitting at the sidelines. They can give vital info for first responders when they arrive. B”H

    in reply to: Tochacha #1204341
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    I don’t believe that we can interpret Hashem’s ways like this.

    Hashem is so good. I don’t believe that Hashem is punishing the world or us in such ways. He could get us to do teshuvah without having to suffer. G-d is so powerful.

    Are we not limiting his awesomeness by believing that we know why things happen?

    The Lubvitcher Rebbe spoke about the Holocaust:

    “In his writings and discussions on the subject, the Rebbe rejected all theological explanations for the Holocaust.

    What greater conceit — the Rebbe would say — and what greater heartlessness, can there be than to give a “reason” for the death and torture of millions of innocent men, women and children?

    Can we presume to assume that an explanation small enough to fit inside the finite bounds of human reason can explain a horror of such magnitude?

    We can only concede that there are things that lie beyond the finite ken of the human mind.

    Echoing his father-in-law, the Rebbe would say: It is not my task to justify G?d on this.

    Only G?d Himself can answer for what He allowed to happen.

    And the only answer we will accept, said the Rebbe, is the immediate and complete Redemption that will forever banish evil from the face of the earth and bring to light the intrinsic goodness and perfection of G?d’s creation.” (Chabad)

    in reply to: Chessed? Or Just a Waste of Time? #1204242
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    He thought that maybe because the friend could have hired someone else to do the job, maybe Hashem wanted The Wolf to use his time doing something else.

    Someone else could have done the job, paid or unpaid. So was he really doing a mitzvah?

    Since he seemed to have doubts whether or not he did a chesed, he wanted to hear from the peanut gallery.

    in reply to: Rules for Davening #1206904
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    Well excuse me if I am being too presumptious LU, but in the US it appeared to me as though part of your break times were working into the typical sleep time. If so, your breaks would otherwise be spent sleeping, which could balance out with work hours.

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