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FuturePOTUS: Shavua tov 🙂 …oops my previous post was sent before reading your last post.
Please remove the rest of this question if it is lashon hara….
About having a nonJew press the elevator buttons, was the nonJew someone who came along with him? Or did he just ask a random person who was in the vicinity to push the button for him?
If you happened to be going up to the same exact floor at that time, hypothetically, would you have been halachically permitted to jump inside the elevator (if there was the time, and it wouldn’t mess with the doors closing) and get off at the same floor as him?
LightbriteParticipantLU: Also, please feel free to add more books 🙂 I’m so glad baisyaakovliberal made this thread. B”H I will return to it time and again. I love your book suggestions!
LightbriteParticipantLU: Wow! That’s so interesting. I def thought RY was joking, but asked, on second thought.
Thanks for the info. It’s so weird… Shakespeare is quintessential romance, drama, death, tragedy. Thinking of Romeo & Juliet alone, brings in a total romantic averah, and then suicides. It’s so unfrum.
I wonder why… Did you have separate teachers for secular classes? Maybe that’s what they were educated to teach?
LightbriteParticipantRY: You mean the secular school reading lists?
Or do frum schools also read/study Shakespeare in their English classes?
LightbriteParticipantJoseph: Thanks for the clarification.
So the mechitza defends against that specific type of active evil inclination “that which is present when men and women converge together in a party atmosphere” (Joseph).
However the mechitza does not eliminate the other types of evil inclinations that may be present for other reasons, etc. Thank you. I was wondering how a mechitza could cure every yetzar hara (because I seriously would mechitza my whole house if it worked). Clearly that was not what you meant.
Thanks again 🙂
LightbriteParticipantXylogen
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LightbriteParticipantIf the rabbi works at the shul, his son learned under him, and the son is a capable man with a suitable personality to fit the congregation, then wouldn’t the son have an advantage over his father’s hashkafah over even an unrelated student?
In this case, the son was raised at home.
I say this because:
The son may know answers to sheilot, according to his father’s hashkafah, and how the father would posken for members of his congregation.
The son would have seen his father interacting at home. Maybe he would have overheard conversations between his mother and father. Maybe he would have had access to teshuvot.
Also, he has life experience. Someone can come up and ask him what to do if such and such happens in the kitchen. Well, according to his father, when such and such also happened at home. Or, his father had access to numerous shailot and the son was exposed to so much.
The congregation may not realize just how qualified the son is. It is possible that it would not be modest if the son told This congregant and That congregant what he knows. So instead he looks like he is being favored without reason. While, the guy in the interview room from the next town over is new and different, and can add something to the community. He looks like a good catch.
At the same time, maybe the rabbi’s son is what the community needs to stay consistent and keep the balance and peace?
Those are some thoughts.
LightbriteParticipantB’Hatzlacha FuturePOTUS!!! 🙂
LightbriteParticipant“You can, plain and simple, and that’s 100% tznius.” (RookieRebbe613)
RookieRebbe613: You are so right. I can. It isn’t so fashionable and that’s not a good reason to not do something.
Side note: I don’t even want to go to this group anymore (that’s how I feel now)(and I do have a better idea). I put a lot of pressure on myself to go go go because it has people my age and I want to have Jewish friends my age. I also want to learn Torah.
But… if I really wanted to learn Torah lishma, then I can go someplace closer to where I live, and on a different day, and maybe make some more friends who are older than my parents. I love hanging out in older crowds, but then how can I pray to Hashem for my shidduch when I’m not throwing myself out there (in fashionable clothes with makeup, and bells and whistles or whatever they say).
I want to learn Torah for real. I can do a lower-key thing, tzniusly, and I may not be necessarily in the mix of singles my age, but Hashem put me here for a reason. If I could afford to move, then he would have given me the money to do so.
Anyway thank you. I realized that there was no answer here. I needed to say it aloud and realize what it meant to me. What I learned was that even when the Rebbetzin said that there was no dress code, I didn’t feel comfortable dressing untzniusly. I know that for myself, I must dress tzniusly. That’s ideal. Right now, I am not-ideal. However, I can at least not show up untzniusly. I don’t want to add that. And if I want Torah, then okay, I need to find a sustainable way to learn and grow.
Thank you everyone for all of your answers
LightbriteParticipantLexicon
Xylitol
thanks yungerman123! Perfect too… just went to my dentist, found out:
Chew xylitol gum to neutralize acids, esp. after eating fruit. Helps in addition to rinsing your mouth with water. Never brush after eating or drinking acidic food/drinks! That’s when enamel is the most vulnerable and soft.
Warning: Xylitol is TOXIC to Dogs & Cats. LETHAL.
Back to the game. Thanks again!
LightbriteParticipantWTP +1 🙂
I was just posting to explain that what I meant by the whole grain storing thing vs the way a beaver works and then I saw your post! You pretty much summed it up and then some in so many ways… thank you! Agreed.
As humans, we are very blessed and with those blessings we also have responsibilities beyond those of other creatures.
Shavua tov 🙂
LightbriteParticipantiacisrmma: Shavua tov iacisrmma 🙂
I thought bachurim meant single men, and I imagined a bunch of younger unmarried adult men with good manners who happened to be hungry.
Clearly there was a miscommunication here. I’m ready to move on and get back to the point of what to feed these lads. Hoping you’ll join in here, if you have any good ideas or recipes. Thank you in advance for being so understanding.
CTLAWYER: That sounds delicious and easy!
Ironman: Hope your Shabbos meal went well 🙂
Maybe for another time, here is an idea (though CTLAWYER’s sounds like it might be a better low-stress, nutrient-dense, and more-than-enough-to-go-around option for this kind of occassion)…
What about wraps?
Or Make-Your-Own-Wraps (MYOW):
For example, on one side of the table, have a stack of tortillas or soft wheat wraps on a plate, then just have a bar of fillings where they can stuff whatever they want inside:
Fleishig:
-Chicken salad
-Mini hot dogs (or cut up hot dogs)
-Ground meat with tomato sauce
Milching:
-Mozeralla sticks
-Shredded cheese
-Leben
-Help me out here please, what else works?
For both:
-Grilled Eggplants
-Egg salad
-Hummus and Tahini
-Cole slaw
-Schoog (spicy pepper paste)
-Stir-fry veggies (either a frozen, or pre-mixed blend)
-Sweet potato (mashed or cubed)
LightbriteParticipantMeno: Nope not at all.
Shabbat Shalom everyone.
LightbriteParticipantIn context of the whole sunrises and sunsets thing. A rebbetzin, not Chabad (just for the record because at least one my teachers was criticized here for not being frum enough or something) told me that when she sees the sunrise in the morning she is in awe of Hashem because no one but Hashem could have created such a beautiful universe for us to live in.
I don’t mean to say that Jews look at nature or worship it or need to worship it.
It is a gift to live in this world (maybe before we were born our souls fought it and didn’t want to come down but now that we are here, we have a job to do and for that I am grateful). Hashem is beyond everything. Hashem is everything.
When I am in the forest or in some place removed from human-made buildings and roads, it is so much easier to talk to Hashem. I don’t have to think about the man-made rules of obeying pedestrian traffic signs, parking spots. My mind is not overwhelmed with noises of vehicles or appliances.
Birds chirping, wind blowing, leaves rustling. The sounds of the womb to contemplate.
There is just Hashem.
LightbriteParticipantWow. Okay if the Mod posted the last ones then this follows accordingly.
Just read that “nature” does not exist in Biblical Hebrew.
“Where is the word for nature in Hebrew? The answer: It is a name of G?d.” (Chabad)
LightbriteParticipant“Maimonides writes:
From Aish
LightbriteParticipant“Beaver ponds create important habitat for many other species, including juvenile Coho salmon. Some migratory birds also prefer landing on beaver ponds instead of more open bodies of water. Streams and rivers throughout the country where beaver dams are present have higher clarity levels and lower pollution levels. This is believed to be a result of the beaver dams slowing water and allowing these things to settle to the bottom.” (Oregon Wild)
Besides making room for more certain humans, is our building generally providing opportunities for the diversity of wildlife?
Or are we clashing and is wildlife now at a great disadvantage?
Even if Hashem made this world for humans, don’t we need animals? Plants?
LightbriteParticipantThere is also a difference between “natural” and human-made. Beavers use natural resources and contribute to the environment. Humans make and use plastics and all types of toxic foreign resources. We bury, burn, and dump this trash. It doesn’t support the natural process, the circle of life.
Squirrels hide their food, burrowing away banks of acorns. It supports the environment. They are actually planting trees.
On the other hand, when we have storehouses of grain in warehouses, it’s not the same. There are actual people who can eat and use that food but it sits there until whatever grain industry it is gets the top price, despite who is going hungry. It’s also not the same as the way we stored food for seven years to get us through seven years of famine.
LightbriteParticipantIllness
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LightbriteParticipantJack jumped over the candle stick
LightbriteParticipantFor anyone really spending Shabbos in a bear-populated forest, please note:
“Human-related food sources are higher in calories and easier to obtain than natural foods.
All bears, especially yearlings that are on their own for the first time, will take advantage of easy food sources. Bears will continue on their way if they do not find easy food sources.
Bears quickly become habituated to handouts in the form of trash, bird seed, pet food and feed placed out for other animals, and lose their fear of humans.
These bears resort to raiding garbage, outdoor freezers, storage sheds, vehicles and other structures associated with people.” (Shinnstonnews)
LightbriteParticipantThink again iacisrmma: No hinting that bachurim would steal food. Interesting that you considered it though.
Bachurim aren’t bears. They are humans. Baruch Hashem.
Am I the only one who read “Feeding Bachurim” and thought about bears?
Specifically those signs about not feeding bears. Prob all that hiking in bear habitats, so this was my first thought.
Please do feed the bachurim. Just not the bears.
Thanks and carry on, cheerio!
LightbriteParticipantChisled
Interns
LightbriteParticipantLU: You said that it’s forbidden for women to walk around with exposed knees.
Does that apply to sitting too? Does it say anything about having covered knees specifically while sitting?
I know that there are signs, rules, and rabbonim that say that a skirt/dress must be x in/cm longer than one’s knees so that they don’t show when one is sitting.
Wondering if that is explicitly stated here too
Thanks
LightbriteParticipantJoseph: Is there ever a time in this world when there is no evil inclination, on any level, amongst a number of Jews?
LightbriteParticipantYes of course.
Everything would’ve been fine had he also worn Harry Potter’s invisibility cloak.
LightbriteParticipantOoops… I guess I’ll just return the 16sqft of bluegrass that I just purchased at Home Depot to send to YWN.
DY +1 Thanks!
LightbriteParticipantMeno +18
LightbriteParticipant“Warning: Don’t feed the bachurim”
Keep your food locked inside your cabins away from the doors and windows. Bachurim can smell food from far away. If tempted, they may break in. Also don’t leave food scraps in garbage bins outside.
We want to keep the forest safe for Shabbos guests.
January 13, 2017 2:40 am at 2:40 am in reply to: Has Asking if Things Have Gone too far Gone too far? #1208857LightbriteParticipantDisagree. The universe is constantly expanding. Today’s farthest is within yesterday’s reach.
LightbriteParticipantezaspie: It was a compliment. I was saying that you looked young. Not a day older than 35.
I assumed that you were at least 35.
For the record, yes you do look much younger. Must be good genes 🙂
January 13, 2017 2:35 am at 2:35 am in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Shabbos dinner table is #1208838LightbriteParticipantyitzchokm: Good point. Then I read LU’s post and realized such was so true. I didn’t grow up with a Shabbos seudah.
Thanks for the correction on “seudah” too 🙂
LightbriteParticipantMod, you use a “a long-haired goat-antelope with backward curving horns, found in mountainous regions of eastern Asia.*” to moderate?
That’s amazing! I didn’t even know goats could have backwards horns. Reminds me of how the water flushes the opposite way in Australia.
*Google quote 🙂
LightbriteParticipantHow much do you want for it?
January 13, 2017 2:00 am at 2:00 am in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Shabbos dinner table is #1208837LightbriteParticipantLU +2
January 12, 2017 10:34 pm at 10:34 pm in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Shabbos dinner table is #1208832LightbriteParticipantLol. I have a comic on my phone that I downloaded from Google. With vegetables.
Let’s say it’s a carrot, celery, tomato, and onion (okay fine one fruit).
The Onion is holding his hurt knee. He looks like he’s in excruciating pain.
The Carrot says “Great the Onion got a cut and now we’re all gonna cry!”
LightbriteParticipantPretzel chicken
zahavasdad: Wow sending brachot for renewal, parnassa, binah, and recovery to all who you know that lost articles and more in the Haifa fires.
LightbriteParticipantCracked
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January 12, 2017 4:16 pm at 4:16 pm in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Shabbos dinner table is #1208826LightbriteParticipantBamidbar 11:5
“We remember the fish, which we were wont to eat in Egypt for nought; the cucumbers, and the melons, and the leeks, and the onions, and the garlic;”
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January 12, 2017 4:13 pm at 4:13 pm in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Shabbos dinner table is #1208825LightbriteParticipantLU: You want garlic and onions in everything or afooch?
LightbriteParticipantMammele: Thank you. From what I remember, I desperately went to find a BB gun as a last resort (which I think I took from my neighbor and sibling… who IRL used to “play” with them when they were young by shooting target boards) and I don’t really remember if I woke up or just went on to another dream. It was terrifying and crocodiles (and alligators) are one of my biggest mortal fears. G-d forbid forbid.
Last year, I had a dream that I was on a bus plummeting towards the earth and literally said the entire shema in my dream before it crashed. I died in this dream and was a ghost or spirit afterward (could see my mother but I was dead and she couldn’t see me).
I know what to do if G-d forbid I was facing death, but the crocodile thing was yes, a moment when I felt the need to kill someone before being killed myself.
Thank you. I know that this was about a real dream, but it also asks about what I would do in real life. If I was more religious, would I respond differently in an emergency like this.
LightbriteParticipantDoes it at least have a yard?
LightbriteParticipantAre you really confused or just not a fused con?
Which is okay because who wants to be a con? Especially a fused con.
You’re perfect as you are.
LightbriteParticipantBounced
Unicorn
LightbriteParticipantCorrection:
“In this game take the third letter in the word and name a 7-letter word. The next poster will take the third letter in your word and give a 7-letter word.” (Spin-off and copied with alterations from previous 7 letter word thread)
LightbriteParticipantOops you’re correctomundo DY!!!! Thanks 🙂
LightbriteParticipantMod-29!!! So great in your middos and selflessness 🙂
You said:
“Seeing that this thread has my name on it, I’ll take that as an invitation to share my thoughts.
I have been trying to work on myself to reach out more to others and build connections to other yidden. In response to that initiative, I thought I would designate a set time per day where I would make an effort to comment on every post I mod, thereby reaching out to other yidden who are looking for connection.” (Mod-29)
So cool that you reach out and care about us!
“DISCLAIMER: Sometimes I correct spelling and punctuation errors without noting that I have done so.” (Mod-29)
So selfless!!!
Thank you for being our Mod 🙂
LightbriteParticipant1yo thread
January 12, 2017 1:30 am at 1:30 am in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Frum world in America is: #1209505LightbriteParticipantMay you always have generous blessings and nachas CTLAWYER!
LightbriteParticipant“Though I believe the commentaries on that Midrash say that Hashem was referring to a spiritual destruction through sinning, rather than a physical destruction of the world. ” (Meno)
All the assertions in the world are not going to do anything without you providing halachic support. I am not asking about your beliefs here.
If you want to say what Midrash is talking about, prove it. Otherwise I don’t know why you are posting and ranting about my posts.
Thanks [exhale].
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