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  • in reply to: Tefillin vs Mezuzah checking #1213378
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    Has anyone ever mailed their mezuzot scrolls to the sofer to check?

    I see that’s an option for some sofrim. What do people do while their mezuzot are at the sofer’s? Can one be without it for several weeks?

    in reply to: jewish books #1216856
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    The Y.W. Editor posted this on another thread (Jewish Book Reviews)…

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news_cat.php?cat=14

    in reply to: 7 letter word game (3rd letter) #1228102
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    Ashtray

    Hazards

    in reply to: What book do you want everyone to read? #1209318
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    Nazis burned books in 1933.

    On 10 May 1933, in an act of ominous significance, the students burned upwards of 25,000 volumes of “un-German” [read Jewish et al] books, thereby presaging an era of uncompromising state censorship.” (Wiki)

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210483
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    Thank you LU <3

    in reply to: overturn a beis din decision #1214000
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    in reply to: Free Verse #1209114
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    During Channukah, does kugel feel left out?

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209232
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    “This is a pretty odd post. Are you accusing him of something? Are you implying that he owes us information? Are you implying that he was paskening for others without permission? If you have a question for him, ask. But rallying the room for…what?”

    Mod: I was saying that imho, Avi K was telling CTLAWYER that his business could have halachic issues.

    Please see:

    “CTL, in the case of Jews the wills may not be valid halachically. In such a case there might be a problem a gezel. there might also be an issue of ribbit regarding estate planning. Having non-Jewish juniors do it is not a solution, especially if they are your employees as there might be a rabbinic prohibition of amira l’akum (this does not only apply to Shabbat).” (Avi K)

    And I was saying…

    Is it just me or was this out of nowhere and based on assumptions.

    I guess it wasn’t just me, and CTLAWYER stepped in. He didn’t owe us anything.

    I don’t understand how it was an odd post. I didn’t feel right about directly countering Avi K’s post. Maybe I missed something. That’s why I asked. It would give Avi K a chance to re-evaluate his words. I didn’t want to disrespect him.

    Instead, I hoped that he would reread where he was coming from.

    Or, maybe someone would say, “Hey LB, Avi K got that info from CTLAWYER’s other posts.” —I’ve only been here a few months. So maybe other posters, including Avi K, had more information that would justify those claims/speculations against CTLAWYER’s practice.

    Thanks for asking

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209079
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    Lol. In that case… pasta and anything simple with ingredients around the house.

    in reply to: All chery-flavored things taste like almonds #1209338
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    As for cherry-flavored things tasting like almonds, I’m curious.

    What’s one example please?

    Sometimes marzipan tastes like almonds after they’re chewed for a while. Other times, I don’t know what it tastes like, but sometimes it is kind of cherry-y.

    That’s backwards though.

    What about maraschino cherries? They are cherries and yet candied. Do they count?

    Does cherry jam or cherry pie filling taste like almonds? Cherry lollipops?

    I think an experiment is in order here.

    in reply to: All chery-flavored things taste like almonds #1209337
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    Forgive yourself RebYidd23. We all know that you know how to spell correctly.

    You’re human and maybe you just had a Cherry Crush and it tasted so much like almonds that you raced over to the CR to announce the news. Spelling doesn’t matter. We know what you meant.

    Hey, if I had come up with a genius thread like this, I too could have rushed through the word cherry.

    Also, you might have wondered whether or not to hyphenate cherry-flavored. Since you were careful to add that detail, something that you would otherwise do automatically, like add two Rs to the cherry, happened to fall to the side.

    Anything is possible.

    All is good here 🙂

    in reply to: Who will be Moshiach? #1211172
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    I stand corrected.

    WinnieThePooh and I. M. Shluffin brought in some serious competition.

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209412
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    Thanks Joseph 🙂

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212155
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    LU!!! Best decade of the universe! (in my life’s experience)

    Esp since neon crayons were all the rage.

    in reply to: 7 letter word game (3rd letter) #1228100
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    Unicorn

    Imagine

    in reply to: What book do you want everyone to read? #1209314
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    True dat. The more that Shakespeare is presented as a bore or literature chore, the better for the frum world.

    in reply to: Time To Make A Difference #1209380
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    FuturePOTUS +1

    My first thought too

    in reply to: Every day another piece of neshama #1209048
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    Hopefully I was accurate in my learning.

    It was from Rabbi Daniel Glatstein’s shiur on TorahAnytime:

    “Parashat Vayechi: The Lifesaving teaching of the Arizal – Every Day is Living Entity”

    in reply to: Every day another piece of neshama #1209047
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    It does come at birth, but isn’t actualized until Bar or Bat Mitzvah.

    WTP: Thanks that makes sense. It’s just the party that’s newer today.

    in reply to: Forbidden Fruits and other produce #1209044
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    It’s also bugs that we can see. Nowadays people use lightboxes, have electric lighting in their homes, typically wear eye-correction lenses if they need it, access to resources on what’s infested and etc, and there is more awareness. Plus there are more alternatives to choose from if something is forbidden.

    Generally I think the average person today is better able to spot insects, and thus see what’s infested and cannot be eaten. Plus one isn’t desperate.

    Also… Maybe back in the day rabbis were stringent about checking, but now they decided it’s not even worth it because people can just eat something else.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210471
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    I know it doesn’t matter what I believe. Still would Hashem rather that so many Jews commit suicide chas v’shalom, go otd, or live in misery?

    Reform isn’t the same. Reform in many ways looked outward and tried to make Judaism work with the secular world.

    Seems like OO is doing the opposite. Looking inside the frum world and doing something about the issues that are right there.

    I don’t expect anyone here to agree or say that OO is right. Just wanted to share. Just didn’t feel right about keeping quiet. Thank you.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210469
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    I don’t believe that Hashem would do that.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210467
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    I think OO is doing good things. Before I knew what OO was, I read articles by Zev Farber and other rabbis. I thought that maybe there were open minded rabbis out there. Now I realize that these articles and rabbis are part of OO. And they are faced with a lot of rejection in the frum world.

    I don’t want to be part of a congregation that forces someone with a same sex attraction to be abstinent or marry someone of the opposite sex and live without loving and feeling loved. It is not the same as other attractions that we have laws against.

    Okay I know that I am making myself vulnerable to attacks. So have at it.

    Thanks always

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209230
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    Is it just me or did anyone ask CTLAWYER if he consulted a rav about his business and everything is legit?

    Because it’s possible that CTLAWYER did not give us all the details needed to posken whether or not he is conducting his business halachically.

    CTLAWYER said, “My specialty is family law, wills, trusts and estates and do a small amount of contract/business law, zoning, real estate. By this stage in my life much if the other work is done by juniors in my firm, including 2 full time non-Jews.”

    Sounds like he said that juniors do a lot of the other work is done by his firm, now that he is at this [higher] stage of his career, two of which happen to be non-Jewish lawyers.

    I don’t see where CTLAWYER said that he assigned work to the non-Jewish lawyers as a resolution to halachic barriers.

    ….Is it just me?

    This is a pretty odd post. Are you accusing him of something? Are you implying that he owes us information? Are you implying that he was paskening for others without permission? If you have a question for him, ask. But rallying the room for…what?

    in reply to: Who will be Moshiach? #1211168
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    <sarcasm> Looks like ZD clearly hit the nail on the head and there is nothing else to talk about here. <sarcasm>

    in reply to: Tefillin vs Mezuzah checking #1213376
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    Thanks for the info. I thought it would be much more expensive to have them checked.

    Question: Does the sofer generally automatically make the repairs, such as fixing letters that may have faded?

    Or is the “checking” cost the initial payment, and then one gets a quote with an estimate of how much it would cost to fix the scroll?

    yehudayona: That’s what I thought as well.

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209077
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    Thank you iacisrmma(!)

    Sounds like scrumptious cholent 🙂

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209075
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    From Yeshivat Moreshet Yerushalayim online:

    “Three meals a day will be provided by the Yeshiva and served in the cafeteria. Students will also be permitted to visit the many local eateries if they desire. Also, there are many mini markets where students can purchase snacks and drinks to stock their rooms.”

    Very reasonable. They can keep snacks and drinks in their rooms. They are also free to eat out if they want and have the money to do so. Plus they have meals provided.

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209400
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    What is the Hamon Am?

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209074
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    I came back to apologize (How do people not do it?) Because I realize I wasn’t culturally sensitive. I was ignorant of the whole yeshiva locking up food. So thank you for shedding light on where you were coming from and hearing me out.

    Mod: True. That was my question. Surely they eat dinner and have meals. I was wondering if they could get food off hours.

    When I *dormed* (iacisrmma, omgosh my spellcheck kept changing it to *formed*) in college, the food hall was open three times a day. I kept food in my dorm. Had I had access to the food hall 24/7, I would have been making and eating Belgian waffles at all hours like there’s no tomorrow. Having discipline and a feeding schedule is important.

    I was wondering what the bachurim do when they are hungry. Maybe they go to the pizza/sandwich place across the street (if there is one). I guess it depends on the rules of the yeshiva and what is around them.

    Plus it could be a good thing too if the guys are hungry as one is expected to be before meal times, that keeps them coming back to eat on schedule. That also helps them go to classes, and daven, I assume as a group too. Oh and bentching.

    In a frat, the guys all go their separate ways after meals. Different classes, sports, schedules. They may never see each other besides at the frat house.

    At the yeshiva, the bachurim are roommates, classmates, study partners, and become family. I don’t know how it works exactly, but I presume that there is a togetherness beyond the “brothers” at a typical college.

    Thanks 🙂

    in reply to: What book do you want everyone to read? #1209306
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    ZD: This makes so much sense.

    I bought books in English at a centrally located bookstore in Bnei Brak. I was obviously American. I wondered why all of the price tags on those books were totally in Hebrew. It was probably a big deal to have them in the store in the first place.

    In a different store, the guy working there said something in English. Maybe Yes. I don’t remember what. Then when I asked if he spoke he said he doesn’t speak any English. From my observations, Israelis generally boast about their English knowledge, even if it is minimal. He was quick to say the opposite. At the time I thought that was very humble of him. It still was and now I have a little more cultural awareness.

    Also… Nefesh B’Nefesh does English tours in Bnei Brak. Some private individuals do so as well.

    I wonder how that appears to local Israeli residents when there are groups of “Anglos” walking around speaking in English.

    The Bnei Brak Municipality has maps and resources in English. And Hebrew of course. They are so nice there.

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209073
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    iacisrmma: May you always have the zechus to do such great mitzvot 🙂

    For the record, my insides are begging to apologize to you. However as part of therapy I am learning not to apologize for things such as this, which also is learning how to be okay when others may not approve of me and my actions, accusing me of things I didn’t do. Thus thank you thank you so much for showing me that things can be resolved in healthy way without having to write myself out.

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209072
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    ubiquitin: I had no clue that was actually a thing. Interesting. I know someone who lived in a fraternity house and the kitchen was open 24/7 because guys get hungry and the cooks always had extra stuff for them to nosh on after hours.

    Are they at least allowed to keep some snacks in their rooms in a mini-fridge or something? I guess yeshivot differ in their policies. If guys are going to great lengths to eat, it sounds like they have a legitimate need for more food.

    I cannot imagine them doing that if they weren’t genuinely hungry. If it was their own home then they would be able to open the fridge at night. I hope the policies change to allow more food access.

    Growing people need to eat. Especially men. If they live there, then why not give them access to food? Is it a kosher issue?

    There is a large space between not having access to the kitchen and not having food

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209398
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    Yossi +1

    in reply to: Cheesy jokes #1209246
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    Why couldn’t the bicycle stand up by itself?

    It was two-tired.

    in reply to: Cheesy jokes #1209245
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    What do you call cheese that isn’t yours?

    Nacho cheese

    in reply to: If you're not with Chabad #1209010
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    On Friday mornings at 6am, I get a text for Shabbat start (candle lighting) and end times.

    Right before Shabbat I look again at the text. Then I remember the last two numbers of the end time. I know it’s an hour after candle lighting. Sometimes I do forget. It is much harder to remember by heart on Yom Tovim that last longer than one night.

    WTP: You asked, “Why do you think that chabad has an exclusive on shabbos and Judaism?”

    I don’t that is why I am asking. I grew up going to Chabad and it’s still my go-to shul. I like how everything is synced. Yet it wasn’t always that way for Chabad either with technology.

    Just wondering what other people do. So yes thank you for saying that people get calendars from their shuls and stores too.

    You said: “Candle lighting times can be found in these calendars, or in Jewish magazines/ newspapers, or in shul bulletins”

    Aha! See I didn’t think of that either. Thank you. Good to know 🙂

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210456
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    LUU: Has the CR become your second FT job? Sending you brachot for good health, strength, sleep, parnassah and all. ?

    in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Frum world in America is: #1209520
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    Amen.

    in reply to: What book do you want everyone to read? #1209302
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    ZD: I wonder if charedi Israelis learn English on their own on the DL for their own sake, still on the derech.

    in reply to: hashava aveida- best way? #1208960
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    WTP: Sometimes the owner doesn’t come. Sometimes, imho, it is possible that you were put in charge of eventually dropping that thing off to Goodwill or whatever and it becoming someone else’s property. I know that what I have now is what is mine for a reason.

    It really hurts sometimes to lose something. I cries over losing a different lanyard months ago. If someone found it and returned it to me, I would have felt like a lottery winner.

    But I realized that Hashem gave me the opportunity to let go of this sentimental item (because if I wasn’t so personally attached to the gift, it wouldn’t have been something to cry over).

    If someone else has it now, I would want that person to keep it and make good use of it. Or give it to someone else.

    Reminds me of yesterday. I found a cane at Costco in the dish detergent/sponges aisle. It was right by the pharmacy line. Should I leave it there? Will the person come back to this spot? I guess this was easier because I ended up taking it to the manager’s desk for the lost and found. I still debated on whether to leave it there or not. What if the person was still shopping and would panic without it? Etc.

    It depends in each case on a multitude of factors.

    Really please ask Hashem for clarity.

    in reply to: hashava aveida- best way? #1208959
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    Imho ask Hashem to guide you and trust Him.

    I had two amazing experiences at the same beach. Once I lost my car keys at night. Everything was locked in the glove compartment. I retraced my steps with a flashlight for an hour or so. Finally I flagged down a car and they called roadside assistance. While waiting for roadside assistance one of the two women helping me happened to be pacing farther back on the sidewalk. Suddenly she asked if these were my keys. Someone hung my lanyard from the top of the staircases which lead down to the beach. Someone put them there. Maybe they even found my car and put them close enough to where they thought I would walk up. It so from Hashem! Like mystery malachim.

    Months later at the same beach, I stumbled upon someone’s car remote on a keychain. It was in the wet sand. Earlier I walked by two people playing football. I remember because when they passed, my dog freaked out a bit from the ball. No one was around the car remote. I told myself that I am going to find this person. I asked random people sitting on the beach. I kept asking and it was fruitless. So I decided to walk the other direction. No one. Finally I said okay fine one more person and then I will put them some where. On the way to some people on the sand, those same two people were walking by. One was on the phone.

    I figured I might as well ask. Turns out that this person happened to be telling whoever it was the bad news. Until I asked if this person had a so and so car, the reply “You found my keys!!!”

    It was so from Hashem. If only they knew I was more than happy to help. It was such my duty. I felt like I was there that day just for that mission.

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209227
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    Meno: Lol! How exciting for you. Yay you get to make a kiddush Hashem 🙂

    in reply to: best high school in the 5 towns/far rockaway #1209005
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    Yay b”H 🙂

    May he and your family always have sweet good and every blessing.

    in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Frum world in America is: #1209517
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    Even if you take away the word crisis, are there not many Jews who struggle in these areas?

    Are you not asking people to stop thinking about situations that greatly impact their lives?

    The whole tuition criss, which is also a parnassah crisis, imho is a pretty big deal when parents cannot afford to put their children in school and cannot afford to not have them in school.

    Labeling a crisis a crisis isn’t really the issue. The frustration it seems is that the solutions aren’t accessible. Understandably people don’t want to hear about it. However for someone going through it, or stuck in it for decades without relief, perhaps being in the same crisis boat is better than feeling pressured to keep silent in the struggle.

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209389
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    Teaching children fluent Hebrew would be great. I think one potential barrier is having all parents who aren’t so fluent reinforce their children’s learning by growing in their fluency as well. That is a lot to ask.

    Even so yes that would engage children and offer them a stimulating challenge.

    Thanks for sharing Yossi 🙂

    in reply to: Feeding Bachurim #1209068
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    Thank you LU. Yes it was a play on words that I figured people would know and find the light in the language.

    I def don’t want to offend anyone. I can see how someone would read it at face value and not in context with this secular background.

    Thanks iacisrmma for your voice and sharing your perspective and how others may have read my words.

    Maybe next time I can put some warning. I saw another poster did something similar on another thread with, “<JOKE>”. Good idea to clarify intent.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210445
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    I’m guessing rabbonim felt safe rounding up .073 inches for Americans since we’re already far from the holy land.

    We could use a little greater margin of error to play it safe.

    Also, more Americans in the US use machine dryers, which notoriously shrink clothing. Especially before polyester fabrics became so popular and readily available.

    Twas a strategic formulation.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210444
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    LU: Seriously LOL!!!! 🙂

    Maybe you have one of those dear sweet faces that make it impossible not to trust you. Or you’re so frum about tznius that Hashem pacifies all oppositional forces so you can concentrate on getting your measurements right.

    Unless it’s her own boutique, I don’t even know if that’s legal. At least in the US, once one is out of the store, that’s fair ground for the police to tackle someone to the sidewalk. At least that’s what I learned from working retail.

    10 centimeters is 3.937 inches

    in reply to: 7 letter word game (3rd letter) #1228095
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    Masters

    Skywalk

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