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  • in reply to: Who was Humpty? #1210885
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    Maybe there is an oral Humpty Dumpty tale that we don’t know about yet.

    in reply to: Gentile means atheist or polytheist? #1210706
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    lesschumras +1

    You’re right. That’s one reason why I come to the CR, to see if this stuff is the norm. If a rabbi is saying something, I assume he is coming from an educated position and has reputable sources to back this up.

    In this case, I looked up gentile and there is a definition of “pagan and heathen.”

    Just remembered though that other rabbonim refer to nonJews as gentiles.

    We even refer to nonJews with high merits as Righteous Gentiles.

    If someone was a good person and saved the lives of many Jews in the Holocaust, would he/she still be a Righteous Gentile if he/she was an adamant polytheist/atheist/idolator/non-monotheist?

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210789
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    LU: I’m more concerned that he or someone else will know that I was talking about him. Maybe he posts or reads in the CR, or someone around here does.

    This website has been around nearly 10 years, so I’ve heard from the anniversary post. Also, this thread could be here for a while. What if someone reads it and finds out in the future? It could hurt someone’s feelings.

    As for #1. Understandable. The good thing is that the experience gave me a reason to explore other options within orthodoxy.

    Even if this rabbi and everything was someplace that felt just right, the congregation unfortunately doesn’t offer what I am looking for in terms of a peer group.

    This is another thing that I want to work on in my histadlus (thus the thread about shul shopping).

    Thank you thank you

    in reply to: Shul shopping #1210624
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    ZD: Great point! I know what you’re talking about when it comes to shul’s that are women-friendly.

    I heard about a great shul, and it was great and the rabbonim were wonderful. However, the way that it was structured was that the women were in the back, not the side, and I felt like a lost sheep.

    Recently I went to a shul that has a big number sign that women can see from their side to keep up with the page numbers too. I haven’t davened there yet, but it has a huge women’s section that’s close enough to everything on the other side of the mechitza.

    in reply to: Common Knowledge #1210843
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    Humpty had an Ema and Aba then.

    What happened to them? Were they alive when he fell?

    Were they waiting by the king’s horses and king’s men, davening for Humpty to be put back together again?

    It’s kind of a sad story.

    in reply to: Common Knowledge #1210842
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    A rabbi told me that in Torah, chickens came first.

    And… you’re absolutely right!!!

    Scratch that.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212401
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    Subsequently Jared and Ivanka took this contract to their rav. The rav gave his psak. Here we are.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212400
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    Jared Kushner: Your contract to work at the Trump Administration is conditional upon your attendance at the inauguration balls and after parties.

    The media and other nations will be watching and I refuse to have you as part of my administration if you and Ivanka fail to show up for any reason whatsoever, including your right to religious freedom.

    If you want to take this position which is of great importance to our nation, be there with Ivanka.

    Sincerely,

    Trump

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210787
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    I said that was so different from the experiences that I had with Chassidic rabbonim earlier last year. Based off of little personal information about me, I was told what I should be doing with my life and health.

    He said that was a difference between Chassidus and his approach (I guess MO). Chassidus is “top-down” leadership. Which may not work in my individual case based on certain factors. I hope this isn’t LH.

    Anyway. I love love Chabad. It’s so spiritual. So deep. At the same time, I wonder if I can find that in another way. Or least gain perspective B”H.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210786
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    Ultimately the person must decide what to do. Though he will give heters, so I guess he does have some authority.

    I said that this was very different from what I grasped from Chassidus, where listening to the rabbi was a huge thing. He said that if someone has a rabbi who knows the person very well then it is possible to only follow that rabbi, but one cannot then only follow when one likes the answer.

    Still he said that he is only human. He isn’t perfect. Only the person has all of the information and knows what is truly right. He guides the person but doesn’t decide for him or her. That person has a unique relationship with G-d.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210785
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    LU: Being mindful of LH, I cannot answer a number of your questions. However I can tell you that you would tell me to go elsewhere.

    What I really liked about the rabbi was that he told me that he cannot just tell me what to do with my life.

    Much like what the kiruv MO rabbi told me a few months ago. Of that rabbi from before, I wondered if maybe it was because he was working in kiruv that he said that to me.

    Talking to the rabbi at this shul that I visited, he really meant it.

    Of course he wasn’t telling me to break halacha. He did tell me that when someone comes to him, he gives the person individualized guidance and provides them with a number of opinions.

    in reply to: Shul shopping #1210622
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    I want a shul where I can mostly make friends and learn. I want to get married. I want to grow and branch out of my comfort zone.

    Obviously I also want a shul where I can daven. I may need to divide my time between a Yom Tovim and/or Shabbat shuk and a social shul.

    in reply to: What you prefer to receive as mishloach manos #1211372
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    I know. I guess giving our Girl Scout cookies depends on whether one keeps Cholov Yisroel first and if not then whether or not one’s friends and neighbors do keep it.

    Because giving out Treifoil cookies can also be a great way to lose friends.

    Spelling error intentional

    in reply to: What you prefer to receive as mishloach manos #1211370
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    What about floating macaroni picture frames that you can boil or use?

    The pieces were glued with a paste of simple flour and water.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210779
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    LU: This is a very very very old school out of town shul.

    Yes.

    So that makes a ton of sense too. A lot of the congregants could have grown up with Hertz texts.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210777
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    I have never seen the word Christian in a shul. I am so used to Chabad. Now I was in a new place with different texts.

    I didn’t even know that word could be said in a shul.

    It was hard even to write it here without feeling like I was typing something criminal.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212393
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    We don’t know about the requirements of attendance either. What if their home wasn’t safe at the time and splitting up the Secret Service and having them go a different route with traffic would have been dangerous. Maybe even threats were made c”v. So for their safety they needed to just move along together in front of cameras.

    We can have quiet Shabbats at home Baruch Hashem. For Jared and Ivanka, who knows what would have been banging on their doors or happened had they tried to lay low for Shabbat. Maybe this atypical Shabbat heter was permitted to allow the family to observe the rest from here on out in peace. Or more peacefully.

    We can be grateful that we don’t have such complicated Shabbat scenarios.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210773
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    In Google books, the key word comes up five times in the text. The word without “ity” is featured 26 times.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210772
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    J. H. Hertz

    The Pentateuch and Haftorahs: Hebrew Text English Translation and Commentary (English and Hebrew Edition)

    in reply to: Common Knowledge #1210839
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    If we apply our Torah wisdom here, wouldn’t we at least agree that Humpty started out as a chicken?

    in reply to: What you prefer to receive as mishloach manos #1211367
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    Does anyone ever give out boxes of Girl Scout Cookies?

    That’s a more expensive way to make friends.

    in reply to: What you prefer to receive as mishloach manos #1211366
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    Thank you LU for explaining.

    Hmm I don’t know if I have seen themed mishloach manos in action.

    So RebYidd23 was being totally serious.

    in reply to: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH) #1210769
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    Oh detail. This is a shul that hired their rabbi a number of years ago. I didn’t check the copyright of the Haftorah book.

    Thus I don’t know if it was published before or after the rabbi was hired, because maybe the rabbi came on after inheriting the congregation, textbooks and all.

    Maybe the congregation uses atypical texts?

    in reply to: 7 letter word game (3rd letter) #1228161
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    Mailman

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    LU: Oops maybe I should have not said anything. But I did because I thought it was really selfless how you just rolled with it 🙂

    in reply to: Who will be Moshiach? #1211202
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    There is more than one moshiach?

    in reply to: What you prefer to receive as mishloach manos #1211364
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    “Or maybe you can get away with spending less money if you make a theme.” (LU)

    LU: So wise! Such a great point.

    For example, Party Store X has a clearance on tropical-ocean themed party supplies.

    So Mishpacha J saves $20 by using tropical-ocean goodie bags and seashell noisemakers in their mishloach manos. The rest of their treats fit into the theme.

    Plus Mishpacha J gave out 3 extra mishloach manos this year! Yay.

    in reply to: Jews in the Trump administration #1210603
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    I appreciate having someone Jewish who supports Israel out there dressing the first lady.

    Of course there are bigger issues at hand. Though keep in mind that clothing is personal. People bring it into their homes. They become familiar with the brand. Hopefully, b’esrat Hashem, fondly.

    What happens behind the scenes also matters.

    Thank you

    in reply to: Jews in the Trump administration #1210602
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    Whether we care or not, the first lady’s fashion choices influence what goes on the racks and what women wear. Frum women are not immune.

    Ralph Lauren may not be directly setting fashion trends for the masses, but with the first lady as his muse, he’s getting through with osmosis.

    Having a Jewish name dressing this nonJewish woman still makes a difference.

    Ralph Lauren has stores in Israel is meaningful. When how many nations and individuals have stuff to say about Israel? As if they can live without anything affiliated with Israel, G-d forbid?

    Do we not need the world to relate to Israel as a friend?

    in reply to: Common Knowledge #1210837
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    In 1902 he was already portrayed as an egg.

    I knew about Humpty from nursery rhymes. Not any films. He was right there in my book.

    in reply to: 7 letter word game (3rd letter) #1228159
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    Amnesia

    Numbers

    LU +1 with the cookies… hopefully cookies will come back around so we can use it 🙂

    in reply to: Fish advisories #1210756
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    Wondering what kind of fish is used for pareve gelatin

    in reply to: Jews in the Trump administration #1210592
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    Melania wore Ralph Lauren at the inauguration and election night. Ralph Lauren is Jewish!

    in reply to: Confusing halacha, minhag, chumra and shtus* #1211089
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    LU: Probably and then it was exciting when I stumbled upon it so it felt new. Thanks for putting it out there and reminding me 🙂

    in reply to: Common Knowledge #1210834
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    Wearing a prayer shawl

    in reply to: Common Knowledge #1210833
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    Humpty Dumpty is a porcelain doll

    in reply to: Pros and cons of online Halacha #1210214
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    You’re both right.

    Though for LU, it’s not my place to say “should” so I would say “could.”

    in reply to: Confusing halacha, minhag, chumra and shtus* #1211087
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    I believe you iacisrmma. It’s nice to find sources of variation. Halacha For Today continued with…

    However, whenever lighting at home the amount that is usually lit must be adhered to, and may not be lessened. (See Rama ibid. and Biur Halacha Dibur Hamaschil SheShakcha.)

    Even if the woman of the house is not present and the husband or another family member is lighting, they must light the same amount of candles that the woman usually lights every week in that home. (Ruling of Rav Nisim Karelitz Shlita quoted in Ohr Haner Perek 1:5 footnote 31)”

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210529
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    Thank you, Daas Torah is the term.

    I thought even MO Gedolim go off of Daas Torah.

    So much to learn.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212340
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    Is a Jew permitted to run for president during an election cycle when the upcoming Jan. 20th inauguration day falls on a Friday?

    in reply to: Confusing halacha, minhag, chumra and shtus* #1211084
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    Wow!!! From Halacha for today:

    However, the custom is to light a minimum of two candles.

    (See Shulchan Aruch Siman 263:1)

    2) It is a Mitzvah to have a lot of candles.

    The prevalent Minhag is to start off lighting two candles, and to add an additional candle for each subsequent child that is born to the family, e.g. a family with four children lights six candles.”

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212333
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    Who said it is permitted?

    Question for your LOR. Why would you be permitted to attend the “party” in the first place?

    Kitzur Shulchan Aruch (SA) 33: Things that we don’t do because of danger.

    “7:… Walking alone at night”

    If the distance and event are permissible, also questions for LOR, maybe maybe maybe walk with someone else. –May be a yichud issue if no one is around and it’s with someone of the opposite gender.

    If the area has a dangerous reputation and the only safe way to return home is via car, why a rabbi would tell you to go?

    Also this is assuming this “party” is lekavod Shabbat and permissible for someone to attend.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210527
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    Avi K: Are you saying that the people that used to go to HIR are now too frum for it and now go to a traditional O shul?

    in reply to: Gentile means atheist or polytheist? #1210704
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    Softwords: Thank you. Wow. See I never knew that there was a difference or distinction of the meaning of Gentile, which also was so pronounced in halacha.

    Weird because I also thought the word gentleman was derived from gentileman (and gentle as well from gentile), and it was generally understood as a good thing.

    in reply to: Vaccination #1212637
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    There is a plethora of scientific evidence to prove that vaccinations are effective. They aren’t basing their decisions on science or logic.

    If your question is what I think it is asking, about proving theologically that vaccines work, they would need to believe that G-d wants them to protect their children with the vaccines. B”H before anyone gets I’ll chas v’shalom with an easily preventable disease.

    I think they would need to be open-minded about it. What does it take for a rabbi to change his view?

    More information? Conflicting data? Peer or mentoral support? Evidence that the prior thinking failed? A crisis? A wife’s opinion?

    It is odd that they are against vaccines when I hear a lot of how Torah can be like medicine to a person’s soul. Sometimes we need to suffer to get to a healthier and higher place. A closer relationship to Hashem.

    Maybe it is that they don’t want to put sickness into their bodies? Expose to that element?

    in reply to: Getting a Shaila into a Shailos U'Tshuvos Sefer #1209765
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    Oh wow. Thanks iacisrmma. Never knew that.

    in reply to: Getting smicha from your father #1209728
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    Is the question about a conflict of interest then with the father giving his son smicha?

    What about in the olden times when communities were clustered? Why wouldn’t the father have given his son smicha if he could?

    I don’t think it would have raised questions unless for some reason the particular rav raised questions amongst the community.

    in reply to: Gentile means atheist or polytheist? #1210698
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    Monotheism thing aside… Main point is that “Gentile” means a nonbeliever of one G-d.

    Gentiles = Non-monotheistic (rights to non-monotheistic not exclusive)

    That was the message.

    in reply to: Gentile means atheist or polytheist? #1210697
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    Online shiur

    in reply to: 7 letter word game (3rd letter) #1228155
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    Vacuums

    Cuckoos

    in reply to: Getting smicha from your father #1209727
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    LU: Lol!!! Thank you. I guess I took Joseph’s words way too literally. That makes sOOOOooo much more sense. You’re a lifesaver 🙂

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