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WinnieThePooh: I def get it. 🍧🐇🍥🌼

I like vanilla ice cream with chocolate chips sometimes. Or cookie dough. Or brownies.

Chocolate ice cream does not taste the same way as chocolate.🍫

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A++++ for the Rainbow Mod-29!!! 🌈

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Last night I listened to a shiur on TorahAnytime about why Rabbi Akiva’s talmidim were killed.

Was it true that they acted in less regard for each other than other talmidim?

No. In fact they were likely even the most compassionate to and with one another and others.

However, they were held at a much higher level. Hashem expected more od them since they were so great. So something that we may see as a small transgression Bein Adam lechavro was in fact a huge issur in Hashem’s Eyes.

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Then again then again…. imagine how good it felt when I listened to a shiur last week on TorahAnytime that said that rewards and punishments are not in this world, per se. As in, Hashem is not going to kill us for sinning, similar to the explanation for why Rabbi Akiva’s students died.

In other words, if someone committed an aveirah or plenty of avarot, it does not mean that come Rosh Hashanah, Hashem is going to write off one’s life chas v’shalom. Hashem does not treat us like that, and if it was so then all of the Gedolim would still be alive.

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Thank you

Really? The love for one’s spouse is different than the love for one’s parents.

We leave the parent and cleave to the spouse.

Thanks but most of my posts here are more like the whole finding the good in unpleasant circumstances.

I would not want to defend some things that I am absolutely against, such a variety of crimes and other hurtful acts. To me, that is not being open-minded or a critical thinker, but being ignorant and apathetic.

Violins are always useful.

Insidious narcissistic armed robbers once notified ostentatious salesmen about better eggs, gaining anitiquary nickels in no specific position.

Ordinarily, ridiculous ideas, detailing every voice of forecasting ordinary rabbits, appeal primarily robotically

Whoa LU called it first!

Good point. I don’t know what I am doing here but feeding the fish in the fish bowl.

Thank you

“Managing” with it back then does not mean that polygamy is the right framework for a shalom bayis-ed life for the majority of today’s Jewish women [and men, and families] living in the Western world.

Let’s make a film to go with our music like Disney’s Fantasia.

How is he doing by the way? Any new publications?

Is a first born man who was born through a cesarean section and/or to a mother who had a previous miscarriage still considered a first born in this case, if it is something regulated to first borns?

Insidious narcissistic armed robbers once notified ostentatious salesmen about better eggs, gaining anitiquary nickels in no specific position.

Ordinarily, ridiculous ideas detailing every voice of forecasting ordinary rabbits appeals

[Lol!!! You’re right. Gosh girl!!! Sorry!! Thank you you’re awesome!!!!💜]

Ooops!!! You’re right. I need to wait until after the Omer to make music. Please do not listen to my sample beforehand. Thank you! ☺

May I have 3-months worth of sugar-free orange and raspberry creamsicles hard candy placebos please?

RebYidd23: Are you saying that when girls are redt boys, some of them are actually married men?

Or that girls find out that potential dates, through friends and online dating and where ever, are really already married?

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Wait. Okay rewind. What?! I think I got it.

So the problem is that the married men are no longer eligible for marriage?

Oh she is pregnant too!

Insidious narcissistic armed robbers once notified ostentatious salesmen about better eggs, gaining anitiquary nickels in no specific position.

Ordinarily, ridiculous ideas detailing every voice of forecasting rabbits

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[Yay!! Of course not. I appreciated it ☺. Empathy because now I know how it feels to jump into a word game and have someone say, “Umm sorry sweety but the rules are actually as such… If you read the OP it would be clear.” And truth was that I skimmed the OP (barely) and thought that I knew what I was doing but if only I had read the entire thing then I would have figured it out. So humbled I am. And happy to join. Thank you LU!]

Okay so while all of us are pretty much telling Rebshidduch to hold off, slow down, and maybe rethink her zeal in wanting to be with this guy with potential, is her thinking so off from what women are being taught?

I don’t know about you, but I feel like I have gotten a lot of opposing messages as a woman about my role.

On one hand, I definitely should not marry potential. At least, I had a Rebbetzin tell me that outright and said that marriage is not about changing anyone.

Then again, I can name a few books and rabbonim who emphasize the woman’s role and how she can transform her husband. Who was it? In the story with Korach where the man was saved because his wife was immodest brushing her hair or something by his front door when the men were rounding each other up?

There is something very heroic in my humble opinion, about being this woman who has the power to build a man up. Even secular stories about how the woman makes the man great. Without her, he would be no one.

So, yes. The differences are that they were married first, and maybe the man had more actualized success or strengths at that point. Still, maybe Rebshidduch is pulled by this guy and opportunity because she needs the extra challenge in life and is searching for meaning. Maybe that is a more attractive future than someone who she cannot connect with on a certain level, or has yet to do so.

—Yet I think what triggers us is that we, perhaps, recognize that Rebshidduch is coming from a place where she has personal growth to take on, before bringing a husband or potential husband into the picture. Having a guy right now may be clouding her vision and planning. And/or, I am super projecting here.

Thank you for hearing me out