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June 27, 2017 2:31 am at 2:31 am in reply to: How do I know when my guilt is just yetzar hara? đŗđ #1304702LightbriteParticipant
Alas.
LightbriteParticipantShmiras Haloshon: There are some kids who will only eat certain foods. My cousin pretty much only eats soup with those Osem botnim and cereal with milk. (I know they’re both foods with spoons and liquids and bowls and floating objects – but I think it’s more complicated than simply turning his salads into bloated gardens and dinner plates into free style swimming chicken and potatoes).
All of his older and younger siblings eat everything, and he’s refused to eat much else since he was a kid. I think he feels sick afterwards. He’s willing to go hungry if forced to eat something else. I’m not his mom and I know his mom has done a lot. But I don’t think he’s the only kid with a monopoly appetite. The trick, I think and I’m no expert, is to work with what the kid already likes and is willing to eat and go from there.
LightbriteParticipantZD: Two sources…
1) “Sorry, Pregnant Women, You Still Can’t Eat Sushi” (ABC News)
“Still, pregnant women are told not to eat raw or under-cooked fish for several reasons, said teratologist Robert Felix, who studies and counsels women on how things during pregnancy effect their unborn children. If it is not prepared and handled properly, sushi can cause parasitic infections, be cross-contaminated by bacteria or other substances or contain high levels of mercury, Felix said.
The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommend that pregnant women only eat fish cooked to at least 145 degrees Fahrenheit.” (ABC News)
2) *Pregnancy and Fish* (Mayo Clinic)
“Are there other guidelines for seafood during pregnancy?
Consider these precautions:
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Skip uncooked fish and shellfish. To avoid harmful bacteria or viruses, don’t eat uncooked fish and shellfish, including oysters, sushi, sashimi and refrigerated uncooked seafood labeled nova style, lox, kippered, smoked or jerky.
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Cook seafood properly. Most seafood should be cooked to an internal temperature of 145 F (63C). Fish is done when it separates into flakes and appears opaque throughout.” (Mayo Clinic)—-
Why would you want to risk your baby’s life just for a bite of sushi?LightbriteParticipantThanks Joseph!!! âēâēâē
June 27, 2017 1:36 am at 1:36 am in reply to: How do I know when my guilt is just yetzar hara? đŗđ #1304675LightbriteParticipantDoes that mean you guys feel guilty sometimes too?
LightbriteParticipantDon’t sushi menus have a special notice saying that consuming raw fish may come with risks for pregnant women?
Having a “Sushi Free” Home means that you’re welcome for all women and couples -including women trying to conceive, and women who are unsure if they’re pregnant, as well as those pregnant who haven’t shared the news yet!
It’s a place where you can host a variety of women, all the while having them feel at ease about not having to explain why they’re not eating the sushi tonight – especially in cases where maybe last month she raved about how she loved sushi, and now she wants to maintain her modesty without making up a story.
Imagine how thoughtful it is if a rabbi and rebbetzin – who may or may not personally enjoy sushi – decided to give it up for the sake of making all their guests, present and future – welcome in their home!
LightbriteParticipantWait wait wait wait wait!!!!
LightbriteParticipantNechomah: Thank YOU!!! đ
You said, “The area where there is a joint is notorious for difficulties closing as the constant movement of the area disrupts the clot and the bleeding renews itself.” — SUCH truth! And that explains why it started back as soon as I removed the Band-Aid – it was like barely anything, but I did bend my thumb again, which is when it started back up too.
Hashem is so amazing how he created us whole – with skin all over these bendy places đ
LightbriteParticipantDo you of any shuls who received FEMA aid for simply opening up for prayer services? That would be awesome!
LightbriteParticipantWhat if the only thing a kid will eat is peanut butter and jelly sandwiches!
Great! Start with peanut butter and jelly sandwiches today.
Tomorrow, make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, with 1/6th less peanut butter, 1/6th almond butter (or soy butter or sunflower seed butter or whatever else is permitted). Add a little extra jelly or change up the jelly.
Then go from there – if all is well, keep increasing the other butter, and decreasing the peanut butter.
Eventually b’esrat Hashem, the kid will still only want to eat peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and won’t know that it’s actually peanut free now!
Solution đ
LightbriteParticipantThanks everyone!
It was still bleeding after 1-2 hrs when I removed the Band-Aids, but wasn’t bleeding as long as I had them wrapped around tight. I put on looser Band-Aids before sleep, and elevated my hand with a pillow. When I woke up and changed the Band-Aids, I started bleeding again. Thankfully, last time I checked, about 20 min ago, it wasn’t bleeding – but looks freshly cut.
Wouldn’t it be interesting if we just had extra skin on hand to do grafts? Instead of a Band-Aid being removable, what if it was just skin that we could add on?
Btw Health, I’ve used regular super glue on my fingers before, to seal up the sensitive crevices near peeling skin around my fingernail – Is medical grade super glue sold in tiny little squirt bottles too? Does it also dry super quickly?
LightbriteParticipantLollipops
Oolong teaJune 24, 2017 11:00 pm at 11:00 pm in reply to: đđ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đ¯ī¸đđđ°(đĢđ) #1303291LightbriteParticipantHappy Birthday Mod-100!!! Okay we won’t get you presents, but do you accept checks? cash? gift cards? đ
June 24, 2017 10:55 pm at 10:55 pm in reply to: Food game (second letter) đ˛đšī¸đ ąī¸ #1303279LightbriteParticipantApple turnovers
Plum cakeLightbriteParticipantDill pickle almonds
Dill pickle cashewsLightbriteParticipantMaybe the whole resistance to the ban on peanuts was manufactured by The Hershey Company, who has successfully gotten to the minds of many Americans – all for the sake of protecting their Reese’s peanut butter cups and Reese’s pieces.
LightbriteParticipantMaybe Hashem made Lone Star Ticks to help Jews struggling with cravings for eating non-kosher animals? And let’s add cows for good measure?
“If your nose gets stuffy or begins to run after eating meat, or you become nauseated or develop a rash, you may have a meat allergy.
Meat from any kind of mammal â beef, lamb, pork, goat, and even whale and seal â can cause an allergic reaction. While we do not definitively know the number of people in the U.S. affected by meat allergy, we do know that it is uncommon.
A bite from the Lone Star tick can cause people to develop an allergy to red meat, including beef and pork. The Lone Star tick has been implicated in initiating the red meat allergy in the US and this tick is found predominantly in the Southeast from Texas, to Iowa, into New England.
A meat allergy can develop any time in life. If you are allergic to one type of meat, it is possible you also are allergic to other meats, as well as to poultry, such as chicken, turkey and duck.
Studies have found that a very small percentage of children with milk allergy are also allergic to beef. Talk with your allergist to see if you should remove beef from your milk-allergic childâs diet.”
(American College of Allergy, Asthma & Immunology Š 2014)
June 22, 2017 10:54 pm at 10:54 pm in reply to: Food game (second letter) đ˛đšī¸đ ąī¸ #1302846LightbriteParticipantOrange juice
Raspberry smoothiesMeno: Agreed!
June 22, 2017 10:38 am at 10:38 am in reply to: Food game (second letter) đ˛đšī¸đ ąī¸ #1302369LightbriteParticipantHot potato
Orange juiceLightbriteParticipantA little bit of water enters but it closes up in the umbrella.
When I get home, I open it up, shake it out, and then put it upside down and it dries.
That’s way better than my car seats and inner door getting more soaked from those extra seconds of rain – oh and better than me getting soaked too. Plus even regular umbrellas aren’t completely dry when I put them in my car either.
It all happens pretty quickly and it’s not as much water as it may seem.
I purchased it at a store that offers a 100% 1-year return policy just in case – I wanted to try it out. Oh and the 20% off coupon was a bonus.
LightbriteParticipantDid you know that sesame seeds are the peanut butter of Israel?
Well kind of.
Some children have sesame seed allergies.
Sesame seed paste – tahina (tahini) is popular on pita bread, like peanut butter was/is popular on sliced bread in the US (possibly in other Western nations?)
And finally, kids watch Sesame Street in Israel, Rachov Sumsum – instead of Peanut Street like kids watch here
LightbriteParticipantIndeed some individuals are coerced into marriage.
LightbriteParticipantBigger hats do offer more sun protection.
Are bigger hats more likely to go airborne?
Do any of these bigger hats come with those side straps that wrap under the chin, to prevent them from flying off?
LightbriteParticipantOn the flip side, I know families who moved to NY for better chinuch and shidduchim – being without a Jewish community and schools was a bigger cost to their lives
LightbriteParticipantHashem created both inch worms and centipedes
June 21, 2017 8:50 am at 8:50 am in reply to: Have you ever met a woman who doesn’t want to have her own children? #1301215LightbriteParticipantSL: Fair enough đ
LightbriteParticipantAuto-correct doesn’t work for us; auto-correct words for them!
LightbriteParticipantJust send kids to the peanutorium
LightbriteParticipantAlmond butter
Luna barsLightbriteParticipantRebYidd23: Many reasons
1) Those non-allergic kids can have allergic siblings.
2) The school building may be used as a disaster relief zone in an emergency, and allergic may be directed to take refuge in said school building during a cs”v emergency precisely because it’s a somewhat controlled safe zone for peanut sensitive children.
3) A kid becomes allergic later on.
4) Next year there may be an allergic kid.
5) Why not? What is the alternative? Schools must be prepared for emergencies and constantly update the supplies on hand – and up their insurance to cover the costs of an allergy emergency? Put lives at risk? Why not just eat other foods?
6) Even kids/people who aren’t deathly allergic to peanuts may still have unpleasant reactions to aflatoxins – and now they have a reason to find a healthier alternative for them.
LightbriteParticipant7. What DY said!
LightbriteParticipantChaver: Yes if you’re invited to his/her half birthday party. Yes if you’re his/her mom or dad.
All other people, including nannies and babysitters – it depends.
As for whether the present is full or half…
Most likely, the present will be full, even on a half birthday. But there are significant exceptions, especially when it comes to monetary gifts.If a full (regular) birthday gift warrants a sum of $50, then perhaps a half birthday gift could be $25. The same rationale goes with gift cards.***
***BUT: If the birthday sum given is a chai denomination, such as $18, $36, or $54, then please consult with your orthodox rabbi to determine the proper halving halacha.
Thank you đ
LightbriteParticipant8. Is it safe to alternate sleeping between the north (where your pillow and head goes) and south (where your feet go) ends of your mattress on the same unwashed sheets – thus getting feet skin cells on your face and face skin cells on your feet?
9. Can you eat the contents of the frozen pack of peas that you just used on a fresh bruise to reduce its swelling for the past hour?
10. Is it safe to get a job as a parking enforcer?
LightbriteParticipant1. Unsure
2. Depends on the mosquito
3. No! – If you have children/pets. Call the boric acid company!
4. Depends.
5. Closer than standing next to someone opening a pull-tab can of tuna, and farther than someone who is about to sneeze into their elbow crease.
6. Yes, and I’m sorry George Washington Carver – thank you for letting me learn about you in elementary school.
7. What Mod-29 said! đJune 20, 2017 7:58 pm at 7:58 pm in reply to: Have you ever met a woman who doesn’t want to have her own children? #1301093LightbriteParticipantSyag Lchochma: I hear you, and I know that you care – so thank you! And the good news is that there is no need to know the “point” because this question is multi-dimensional and brings light to an extremely important matter – family! relationships! children! health! – Torah!
I’m asking here because I don’t have religious friends around the world, let alone mixed genders, ages, and backgrounds to ask in person or via email/text/etc. On top of that, if I did have frum friends around the world, then they’d still need to feel comfortable sharing such personal information – which is more complicated off the internet. Please judge me favorably.
Not all women who don’t want children want to hide in the dark – nor do they want to be shushed up, in real life and the internet.
btw…..
Yichusdik:::: THANK YOU *infinity* percent!!! đ
Thank you for your voice, and explaining very real reasons that may hinder a woman from desiring children!
I really appreciate you for putting that out there – out here đ đ đ
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Thanks everyone đ
LightbriteParticipantRedleg: Thank you! I never knew that – I guess that the high temps eliminate any chances of the exhaust being mind-altering too. Burning it sounds more practical than turning it into another material and subsequently finding a use for it too.
Interesting – thanks!
June 20, 2017 7:17 pm at 7:17 pm in reply to: Have you ever met a woman who doesn’t want to have her own children? #1301079LightbriteParticipantRebYidd23, that is another thing – Maybe it’s just assumed that every single Jewish woman desires to have her own children
June 20, 2017 1:47 am at 1:47 am in reply to: Have you ever met a woman who doesn’t want to have her own children? #1299759LightbriteParticipantSo what is your answer?
Have you spoken to a woman in real life who specifically and verbally expressed said feelings?
LightbriteParticipantMeno: Would you store the cold brew in the fridge all week?
LightbriteParticipantWhich would sustain you longer if you had only that and water for weeks?
June 20, 2017 12:25 am at 12:25 am in reply to: Have you ever met a woman who doesn’t want to have her own children? #1299739LightbriteParticipantOr raise any children for the matter
LightbriteParticipantLol!!! RebYidd23 — Seriously though, there must be a way to turn it into something productive and yet less brain-altering, maybe like powdered sugar. No wait, that’s still brain-altering and quite calorie inducing — maybe like chalk that gymnasts use?
June 19, 2017 10:27 pm at 10:27 pm in reply to: Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus #1299668LightbriteParticipantIs there a statue of limitations on how long Jews can reasonably speculate about the halachic basis of a ger’s conversion?
At what point does it become a “case closed and let’s move on”?
LightbriteParticipantCan you make potent coffee ice cubes once a week, and then put them in a cup of room temperature water for go-to cold brew?
LightbriteParticipantYes indeed half birthdays exist!
Back in the day, I nannied for three kids who celebrated their half birthdays – twas the first time I heard such a thing, and their peers also celebrated their own half birthdays.
June 19, 2017 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm in reply to: Missionaries – AKA The Waller Family – Xtians in the Holy Land #1299586LightbriteParticipantYes I am a clueless diaspora Jew and have no clue what you’re talking about.
LightbriteParticipantGrowing up, I read *Molly’s Pilgrim* by Barbara Cohen — and may have even completed a book report on it at my very public elementary school.
From what I remember (and gathered on Amazon), it’s about a Russian Jewish immigrant, Molly, who discovered that she’s a modern pilgrim as she comes to terms with her identity here in the new world.
She even has a Yiddish accent! – I didn’t remember that detail from my childhood, but I did remember learning in school that the pilgrims came to America to practice their religion — and what mattered was their reason for coming here, not what religion they observed.
Thanks !
LightbriteParticipantI like this thread!
Btw, yes regular spring mattresses are man-made too — but thank G-d at least we have our parents and grandparents’ mattress sleeping experiences — they’re our guinea pigs of sleep technology.
We’re the guinea pigs of memory foam!
Also… I have to confess, the whole fire in London thing freaks me out, and I am not sure how comforting it is that at least the polyurethane toppers was slathered in flammable-reduction substances.
But then again, do we live for disasters or live for life?
Thanks!
LightbriteParticipantMaybe you’re in another Coffee Room?
I cannot say that I’ve gotten this post before in my life. I have gotten a whole bunch of ones telling me to slow down, as a result of double clicking Submit.
Hmm… I’ll let you know if anything here changes.
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