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October 2, 2017 12:00 am at 12:00 am in reply to: Any creative ideas for decorating the sukkah π²π΅π¦π±βοΈπππΏπ±πΎπ€ππ€‘ #1376368LightbriteParticipant
Popcorn ceiling π
LightbriteParticipantSometimes I say “you guys” to a group of only women.
Casually addressing any mixed or non-mixed gender group as, “you guys” was normal, in my hometown.
But now I don’t know what I’m supposed to say when it’s only women. “Girls” or “ladies” sounds too gendered.
“Guys” sounds more neutral to me. Perhaps that is why I keep saying “guys;” however, I’m biased.
What do you say?
LightbriteParticipantFreddyfish: Even if all men are guys, do all men shop in the “guys” clothing department?
September 30, 2017 10:19 pm at 10:19 pm in reply to: Does Joseph get a clean slate every so often? #1374146LightbriteParticipantIt all makes sense. Joseph. Yosef. He adds. Adds. Adds. Adds. It’s all from Hashem. Joseph is programmed to add. So maybe his role in the CR is part of his spiritual mission to in Olam Hazeh, to be a yosef.
LightbriteParticipantOoops sorry Joseph! I misread your post.
You know those pieces of furniture that look like baskets?
Whether it is a chair or a table, or whatever, the frames are commonly woven pieces of palm, like rattan. Some wicket furniture is made of woven plastic pieces.
When I think of wicker, I picture Miami interior decor, in the 1980’s. I don’t know of its totally accurate, but in my life experience, wicker shows up in outdated beach hotels and old tv shows feature.
BUT… there is also contemporary wicker furniture. Wicker is frequently used for outdoor furniture, and seen in island interior design as well.
Anyway, hope that helps. βΊ
You’ve certainty seen wicker before.
LightbriteParticipantJoseph: You submitted your post before getting a chance to read mine.
To sum it up, for someone with severe dust allergies, wicker is a big trigger. I also don’t fabric furniture. Unfortunately, I have one upolstered fabric chair at home that I cannot wrap in plastic. When I had fabric-cushioned dining room chairs, I covered them with Contact Paper. And yes, it was not a sightly look. Eventually I just got rid of them.
The secret to my home furniture is that it’s discreetly covered in plastic. Only after the plastic, do I then disguise the pieces with machine washable fabric covers.
RebYidd23 mentioned spraying the wicker, which may still result in a bumpy texture. Bumpy furniture has more nooks for dust mites. Perhaps paper mache made from plastic would smooth it out before taking the task of painting the wicker. That’s a lot of work.
LightbriteParticipantFor the record: https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/pre-yom-kippur-request-from-the-helige-coffee-room-posters#post-1373873
This thread is not serious. For one thing, I know of no wicker facts. I made those up for the sake of this topic
I’ve also never been married, let alone divorced (B”H for the latter).
Also, RebYidd23’s idea of compromising here is a fantastic one! βΊ
Okay… just so you’re aware, I’ll be going back into wicker mode in the next posts.
And quite honestly, I really am allergic to wicker furniture. I pray that, if my beshert, really likes wicker, he’ll give it up completely for us go live with shalom bayis.
I’m extremely allergic to dust mites, and even vacuuming wicker doesn’t remove all of the dust and allergens that accumulate within the woven seams.
When I worked a side job as an interior designer, I learned how dangerous wicker was to my health. The combination of cats, dust, and wicker were near lethal; and I wish that I was exaggerating more here.
Thank you
LightbriteParticipantKey word: *DEAL BREAKER*
… What you speak of, RebYidd23, is compromise.
What I’m saying is deal breaker. He demands to live with wicker in his home. For all purposes here, I’m deathly allergic to wicker.
100% of couples in such absolute wicker deal breaker cases, where the two people decide to go through with the wedding, have failed marriages. Of those failed marriages, 100% of the couples divorced within 2 years of marriage.
Thankfully, I don’t need facts to convince me of staying away from wicker lovers. I have my first two divorces to thank for teaching me that there is no compromise when it comes to weaved furniture.
LightbriteParticipantLol, I meant cast iron π
LightbriteParticipantBecause a happy wife is a happy life
LightbriteParticipantThat’s the Teen Spirit DovidBT!
LightbriteParticipantOhh!! “Kol tuv” is what you say to someone, like wishing the person the best!
Thank you π
Once, someone said “kol tuv” to me before hanging up the phone. She was really sweet, and Israeli. So I responded with “kol tuv,” too (mirroring her, but unsure of why I was saying “tuv” vs. “tov”)
Thank YOU π
Kol tuv π π π
LightbriteParticipantLF: I don’t know… I wandered around in threads, and one topic lead to another… you know how it goes.
Aww!!! You have tadpoles! π
September 28, 2017 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: Does Joseph get a clean slate every so often? #1373781LightbriteParticipantI think Joseph created the CR and is here to make sure we’re keeping in line.
He’s an inside operation.
September 28, 2017 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: Does Joseph get a clean slate every so often? #1373780LightbriteParticipantJoseph has the “Lior” profile too
LightbriteParticipantThe deinstitutionalization of people with mental illness was good in that it’s not right for so many people living with a mental illness to be forced into such an oppressive life.
It doesn’t mean that it was right to take away health insurance or health care access for the sake of “saving money.”
Prisons don’t afford mental health access in many situations.
It’s sad that prison ends up being the new asylum.
Progress. Progress. Progress. May we talk about that, instead please?
LightbriteParticipantCats puke fur balls.
Is unabashedly publicly vomiting tznius?
September 28, 2017 7:05 am at 7:05 am in reply to: PLEASE HELP, ONLY RESPOND IF YOU ARE A MATURE HOMEOWNER> #1372573LightbriteParticipantWow! I’d never heard of 311 until this post. Thank you!
LightbriteParticipantBy the way, making acronyms of odd sentences is a great way to create passwords. IMHO π
LightbriteParticipantWait what?
Sometimes, I find myself amusing, especially when play-on-words come into play.
Does that mean that I’m kidding myself? Maybe I’m kidding myself, because it’s fun to read things in a humorous light.
Of course, you’re welcome to disagree π
LightbriteParticipantI had a special guest doctor teach my class, and he spoke quite highly of Wikipedia.
One does not quote directly from Wikipedia. One goes there to find the references to pursue.
It’s like going to a model home, and seeing what’s out there. But you don’t pick up the model home and stick it inside your house-under-construction. You go there and gather the clues and plans of what to explore to fit into your home.
LightbriteParticipantLol… You’re very talented. Btw, last week I bought a butterfly net on eBay, which is coming to my home directly from China.
I bought it to capture and release insects and critters from my domain.
Do you catch flies with your bare hands?
LightbriteParticipantMusta been a different Joseph!
September 28, 2017 12:02 am at 12:02 am in reply to: ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Why Are Guys Stuck With The Dating Bills? #1372547LightbriteParticipantJoseph: Women also buy their cars, and their watches.
September 27, 2017 11:59 pm at 11:59 pm in reply to: Is hanging pictures of leaders considered to be Avoda Zora? #1372538LightbriteParticipant“Whatβs your halachic basis for differentiating between a statue of a person and a photograph of a person?” (Joseph)
Isn’t there a GIANT difference between having a 3D image of someone vs. a photograph?
I thought that’s straight from Torah. Am I mistaken?
Thank you
September 27, 2017 11:24 pm at 11:24 pm in reply to: If your friend eats chalav stam, is it evil… #1372532LightbriteParticipantHi everyone… thanks for commenting on this post! It seems like there’s been a confusion here.
So just to clarify, my OP goes like such:
1) You have a friend that eats chalav stam (otherwise this wouldn’t make sense, because your friend wouldn’t stick his hands in the bowl of M&Ms, mixed with Skittles, mixed with Reese’s Pieces.
2) Would it be EVIL of YOU to serve your friend said unexpected blend of candies, leaving him to cope with the effects of eating fruity pieces, mixed with peanut butter, combined with candy-coated chocolates.
While I’ve never eaten the combination of all three candies myself, I’ve heard that consuming all three together is quite unpleasant.
3) Nothing in my OP or intention was meant to connect any judgment with chalav stam, and certainly not associate it with the word evil.
As you can see, the COMMA was inserted in the TITLE to separate the two clauses.
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THE SENTENCE READS AS SUCH:
If your friend eats chalav stam, is it evil [OF YOU] to serve him a bowl of Reeseβs Pieces mixed with Skittles, and with M&Mβs?
EVIL = Not so nice to do to a friend, or anyone for the matter (unless this person absolutely loves eating Reeseβs Pieces mixed with Skittles, and with M&Mβs.
——hope this clarifies it for everyone π Thank you!
LightbriteParticipantAww… how’s Frogette now? B”H, hope she’s good and all is good.
LightbriteParticipantWhy is there an ant in fantastic?
LightbriteParticipantGβmar Chasima Tova to you LU and all! Amen π π π
September 27, 2017 9:50 pm at 9:50 pm in reply to: ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Why Are Guys Stuck With The Dating Bills? #1372471LightbriteParticipantLilmod Ulelamaid: Thank YOU!!! π
WOMEN pay for more than you can imagine, behind the scenes. Do you know how much money I’ve spent on extra makeup, outfits, and gasoline just to show up to a date? And I’m a very thrifty spender. Seriously, most of my clothes are second-hand, and I have to sacrifice just to look pretty.
By the way, it’s the husband’s job to provide for his wife, according to halacha. When every date is with the intention that your date may be your future wife, why would you not want to establish the relationship on the right footing?
That said, I feel for you. It’s not easy to struggle with parnassah. Just please, keep in mind that women are investing in you before you show up for your date.
Thank you
September 27, 2017 8:12 am at 8:12 am in reply to: If your friend eats chalav stam, is it evil… #1371635LightbriteParticipantFrom the Only Kosher website:
“SKITTLES ARE BITE-SIZED CHEWY CANDIES WITH A COLORFUL CANDY SHELL. KOSHER SKITTLES ARE FINALLY AVAILABLE IN THE USA!
6.2 OZ. BAG OF KOSHER SKITTLES FRUITS LARGE
KOSHER CERTIFICATION:THIS ITEM IS CERTIFIED KOSHER PARVE UNDER THE HASHGACHO OF RABBI YISROEL YAAKOV LICHTENSTEIN”
Just to clarify: Most skittles are not Kosher. Only Skittles with Kosher certification on the package are Kosher.
September 27, 2017 4:52 am at 4:52 am in reply to: In Austin the Orthodox rabbi is paid $100,000 a yr #1371606LightbriteParticipantPlus, come on! Like, who has ever only bought “one thing” at a dollar store?
Maybe you tell yourself that, but the reality is that besides that one time when you bought only one pack of 9×12 envelopes, and nothing else, while paying in change (so much so that you ran back to your car to get more (mid-checkout)), one more item will lure you. Then what? You wait one more year to afford one shopping trip?
Excellent point RebYidd23 π
LightbriteParticipant[Strawberry Egg Roll Ups!!! Yays ππ]
Okay don’t mind me… please continue your business… just had to cheer, after seeing my new egg-based invention make it to a RebYidd23 post! Thank you π
LightbriteParticipantCorrections please:
1) The recipe is for a Strawberry Egg Roll Up.
2) You will be using fire, not file.
3) Your inversion table is your skillet, not skittle.
4) Once the jam hits the bottom of the egg whites, turn off the fire, for good.Thanks! π
LightbriteParticipantAren’t we all dear to one another?
LightbriteParticipantThanks RebYidd23 for pointing that out βΊ
So for anyone who doesn’t have a venus fly trap, what do you love about having no venus fly trap?
LightbriteParticipantVenus fly traps work on Shabbos, but it’s okay because they’re not really working; they’re eating.
LightbriteParticipantIf you’re in Syria and find yourself barred from traveling to the US, and you’re wearing Ban, are you Double Banned But Playing it Cool?
If yes, then can you turn your current status into the acronym, DBBPIC?
LightbriteParticipantFloating is the new walking.
LightbriteParticipantThey must be a few temperatures lower though, right? Canada is colder than New York.
Maybe the Jewish community in Toronto wears more fleece?
September 26, 2017 9:13 pm at 9:13 pm in reply to: The Top Ten Challenges the frum world faces right now. #1371518LightbriteParticipant49.Apple) Yids bantering at each other when we have fruit salads to eat.
LightbriteParticipantWow Meno!!! That’s so exciting… a real student referring to Yeshiva World News π
Yays π
LightbriteParticipantThe most exciting thing happened the other day! I found my missing sock squished up between the washer and the wall.
Sometimes your missing stuff is in between a rock and a hard place, and it misses you too.
LightbriteParticipantNachos
LightbriteParticipantMy venus fly trap can eat your koala.
LightbriteParticipantPagent contestants win titles.
Is it permissible to enter your shelter dog in a dog show pageant, just for the sake of winning a trophy?
If your dog wins a trophy, do you have a right to swap it for cholov stam chocolate? How about cholov Yisroel chocolate? What if you decide you want candy instead? Do you have to pay for new airplane tickets?
Thank you
LightbriteParticipantPotassium sorbate
Chocolate calcium carbonateLightbriteParticipantMagnesium Stearate [thank you bottle of vitamin B12!]
LightbriteParticipantI’d be a liar if I said that I never kill insects. There are some insects that, oh boy, do I have no patience for, when it comes to them being near my family –like ticks, fleas and lice.
Still… when I see the pain and perseverance of an insect just trying to find home, and I help him or her get there, it’s such a gift from Hashem. For me, it’s so easy to see how to help, and to do it.
Sometimes when it seems like I’ve done everything to no avail, I think about how, in a second, one person can hand me the tool or show me the way to help myself find HOME.
Being able to do something BIG for someone small is a gift.
Thank you RebYidd23 π
LightbriteParticipantSome insects kill other insects…
I don’t know. I just know that sometimes I’ve been trapped too. In my life, I’ve been really really, Baruch Hashem, blessed to have seemingly out-of-nowhere miracles, where a human came and totally brought me to a safer place.
This wasn’t just once or twice. Many times. Many times, I’ve been that fly buzzing straight into the window. I’ve been that beetle on his back on the concrete step, dangling my limbs in the hot sun. So vulnerable.
You have no clue how much my life is really a series of Hashem keeping me safe by the hands of another human, more so than the typical nurturing that we all get from our environments.
B’esrat Hashem, I don’t bring diseases to people, or anyone. And yet, do you know how many people would write someone, like I am, as being a pest to society? I’m blessed because I was given a chance to become butterfly.
Hashem didn’t give every insect the chance to blossom in such a way.
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