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Who spends more than $500 on indoor wood furniture that was placed outdoors, and exposed to a posse of critters and humidity?
Even if the piece is worth more on paper, it was outside in a funky yard.
Maybe if you’re sealing the entire thing in wax, for your home wax museum —and even then, like seriously?
Thank you ☺
LightbriteParticipantWho answers wordy questions with horrible grammar?
LightbriteParticipantWho buys expensive used indoor wood furniture from someone who took photographed the furniture out in their lawn? Or driveway? And/or it’s chilling somewhere in some murky climate-chaotic garage?
Is it just me, but putting indoor wood furniture outdoors, in rampant humidity, is a dealbreaker?
LightbriteParticipantChildren make sweet abstract art.
LightbriteParticipantHow do you know about the Wizard of Oz?
LightbriteParticipantBonnetiere!
LightbriteParticipantDovidBT: You mean the president never got the homemade chocolate chip cookies I sent him?
Omgosh… and it was from my Bubbe’s secret recipe book! They’re to die for, but not literally.
Alas, I really ought to write the president, and ask for my $38 back to cover the ingredients and shipping costs, let alone make up for my broken heart.
LightbriteParticipantWe need more evidence.
Does anyone here work at a Pasteurization facility?
LightbriteParticipant“Credenza”!
AMAZING: The other day, my neighbor told me that she’s looking for a desk, but not just any desk, one “that has a credenza”!!!
It was like Hashem and I were having an inside joke, knowing that just a couple days prior, this thread was created… and here I was now, knowing about credenzas.
Yays 🙂
LightbriteParticipantOther possible drying devices… towel, gravity, baby wearing a diaper
LightbriteParticipantIs one allowed to dry off a wet chair on Shabbos? Using ones hands? Using another device?
LightbriteParticipantJoseph: Sometimes moving to the suburbs may be the biggest way for some Yidden to avoid stepping into such risky predicaments.
LightbriteParticipantDo people still listen to books on tape during their sleep?
Or, was that trend a 90’s thing, where people fell asleep to educational audiobooks, expecting to br listening and absorbing the material while sleeping?
Either way, sleep plays a huge role in processing information.
Learning over time
Being amongst learned people
Learning while living (in the car)LightbriteParticipantRebYidd23: You’re a GENIUS!!! ☺
Yes… truth, you speak. The glass could be opaque, frosted, stained, cracked, etc.
Thank you for your excellent point ☺.
October 15, 2017 1:12 am at 1:12 am in reply to: any tips on nurturing already grown esrog trees? #1380564LightbriteParticipantFruit trees love listening to beautiful music.
LightbriteParticipantIs a glass sukkah even halachically valid?
LightbriteParticipantWinnieThePooh: The bimah!
Omgosh yes. Hmm. Why did I think that the bimah has to be elevated? In some shuls it is, but at not at the shul of which I’m most familiar.
LightbriteParticipantThanks DovidBT for your research! 🙂
Questions: So…
When did attempts at poisoning people become less popular? How did people decide that, “Okay now it’s safe for us to simply eat the food that we’ve been served”?
Maybe it was a generational divide? Like, “Oh, having servants sample our food? No way. We’re independent, so we’ll eat on our own”?
LightbriteParticipantWow. This is interesting.
Post from 2011
LightbriteParticipantDoes every city have something exciting to offer everyone?
LightbriteParticipantWell, it does matter because a manufacturer might have to abide by different codes in making a table vs. making a desk.
At least for a commercial grade furniture, the materials and final product of a desk vs. a table may be held to different qualities and standards.
October 9, 2017 11:01 pm at 11:01 pm in reply to: Being a rabbi (in a business or political relationship) #1379803LightbriteParticipantI’ve referred to a place as a Mecca before. Was that wrong?
Like-minded people really do flock and congregate in this particular city.
Now that I’ve read thus thread, that must sound weird to someone who regards Mecca as a holy place. I totally meant it in a secular way.
Interesting. I don’t know how I’d react if I heard someone casually referring to a rabbi as some business or political mentor.
LightbriteParticipantPeople addicted to cigarettes still have a difficult time not smoking in Shabbat.
Someone who successfully abstains from smoking on Shabbat may be compensating by substituting smoking with another addictive behavior, such as using alcohol or food to get by during those hours.
Also, Shabbat doesn’t have the same triggers that come when one may have to earn parnassah, while juggling being a spouse and parent during the week.
Those additional stress triggers, coupled with the reduced social support thay may come with Shabbat, make quitting smoking much greater.
Besides, it’s not like someone who doesn’t smoke on Shabbat quit for good. Haven’t you seen anyone go straight for a cigarette after Havdalah?
You’re asking the person to give up smoking, not postpone it.
Quitting may require one to change one’s daily routine and environment —no easy task.
LightbriteParticipantWhat about naming a child Batshmoneh or Benshesh?
I see what you’re saying, since the name Batsheva is from the Torah.
I wonder if anyone, who isn’t a bat sheva, has the name Batsheva. As far as I know, I’ve never met a Batsheva.
So, people ask a rav about what to name their children? I didn’t realize that people ask a rav about a baby’s name in such a case. I thought that people went to a rav in naming situations where multiple parties want a particular name, and they need help coming to an agreement
Thanks again iacisrmma ☺
LightbriteParticipantDon’t they say that no one is the same person that his or her spouse thought he or she was after getting married?
LB: Who is they? Everyone. People. Jewish. Your rabbi. Your rebbetzin. NonJewish. Your teacher. Your physician assistant. Your neighbor.
Wait no. Many people say that whole thing about the person you married being different after marriage. That’s life.
But then again, I’ve heard that if you do the work of getting to know the person, in a variety of situations, then you can at least know the foundation of a person.
In other words, you can trust B”H that this person is compatible with you. Or maybe I’m just misinterpretating it with optimism?
Thanks ☺
LightbriteParticipantRebYidd23: I can’t tell you because I don’t know what copper smells like.
On the flipside, I can tell you that this is a high maintenance pillowcase!
I had to buy special bland laundry detergent to wash it. Said bland detergent has no added fragrances or softeners.
The pillowcase’s instructions stated that fabric softener can permanently damage the copper, rendering this magical-youth-preserving pillowcase useless, chas v’shalom.
Earlier today, I packed up the pillowcase to return to the store, only to bring it back to my laundry cubby to wash again.
How can I give up on this opportunity?
Is a little extra laundry enough of a reason to throw in the pillowcase?
LightbriteParticipantiacisrmma: The child that I’m pretty sure is named Nisan was named Nisan because his parents wanted to nickname him “Nes” for miracle.
I have met a Nissim too.
Thank you for your info ☺
LightbriteParticipantiacisrmma: Is it more appropriate to name your daughter “Batsheva” over “Sivan”?
LightbriteParticipantThis is a little known fact: When I was a kid, my parents owned a furniture store. It was a short-lived business endeavor.
Afterward, our home absorbed the unsold furniture. We definitely had a credenza, or few, located around the house. It was just that no one talked about them.
You know, we stuffed the shelves, making good use of the furniture. Meanwhile, we didn’t discuss it.
From what I recall, we referred to our furniture by the color of the piece, or its location in our home.
For example, Pesach dishes went on that shelf in the yellow cabinet (likely a credenza, and definitely with an attached hutch).
Tupperware belonged inside the middle upper shelf of the blue baker’s rack).
And now you know a bit more of what my colorful childhood looked like… ☺
LightbriteParticipantThanks everyone… and yes, oops sorry, I spelled credenza incorrectly in the title (and this time it was on my laptop… so it really was my mistake) ☺
LightbriteParticipantWhoa CTLAWYER!!! I just got furniture overload there, with your post.
Still processing your additional vocabulary. Lol. Thank you ☺
LightbriteParticipantJoseph: While I don’t know if your question was intended for someone in particular, and/or everyone, I shall respond to you.
No, I have not yet met an Elul, or a Shvat.
However, I’m pretty sure that I’ve met a Nisan.
I’ve also met an Av[i], whose given name is likely “Avraham.” So, I don’t think that counts, but still.
How about you? Have you met anyone who shares a name with a Jewish month?
Thanks 🙂
LightbriteParticipantSivan is a beautiful name! 🙂
I’ve met a couple of young ladies named Sivan, at least one of which was born during the month of Sivan. Ever since meeting her, I find myself thinking of her every Sivan.
October 8, 2017 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm in reply to: Is decorating the succah the mans job or women’s? #1379227LightbriteParticipantRebYidd23: What about when the one who is most particular about where the decorations go, is someone who is 90 years old and unable to decorate the sukkah, due to health concerns?
That person may ask someone else to decorate the sukkah for him or her.
LightbriteParticipantRebYidd23: Your words were both frightening, and poetically gorgeous.
LightbriteParticipantIf we eat bacteria, good bacteria, then they can make families in our intestines, and live with great nachas.
LightbriteParticipantHashem knows; that’s Who. 🙂
LightbriteParticipantConfession… I ended up buying that copper pillowcase, and I have no idea if it’s working.
Okay…
The end.
Thank you 🙂
October 7, 2017 9:42 pm at 9:42 pm in reply to: If your friend eats chalav stam, is it evil… #1378720LightbriteParticipantAbout the guy and the ice cream… are we judging favorably here?
LightbriteParticipantThank you iacisrmma and GAON! 🙂
iacisrmma: Are we not stringent because, in the Torah, it says that it’s assur to say Hashem’s name in vain? And we don’t want to risk that by performing a mitzvah handed down by the Rabbonim? And is this explanation, of Torah ruling over Rabbonim in this case, a machlokes because some say that both what’s in Torah and what’s from Rabbonim are equally important… to say otherwise is going against Hashem?
GAON: What is deOreisa of Lo Sisah, please?
Thanks again for your replies, and sharing your knowledge 🙂
LightbriteParticipantThank you! So, from what I understand, regardless of the before bracha, the proper thing to do was to then finish eating with the appropriate after bracha — and that is because (guessing here), each mitzvah has its own merit.
Even if I messed up on the first mitzvah of saying the right bracha before eating, saying the after bracha is an independent mitzvah.
LightbriteParticipantslominer: Good question. Surely there are great arguments to say the opposite.
Still, this is what happens when someone’s posting on the internet:
There is a person looking at a screen somewhere, and having conversations in one’s head and replying to them. I’m not orally speaking as I type this. There are no other humans in the room. If I were to have this conversation with another human, in a place with other humans, with additional voices, I might feel drained after prolonged communication. Online though, I feel that I can post and manage the communication.Now, if someone only posted when in a group, and read all the posts aloud, and made it a community event where all of this posting was really just a small piece of a great real-life open party, then maybe it’s more extroverted.
Okay… sorry if I didn’t answer your question.
Sometimes, I’m on my phone, and reading/participating in the CR. Meanwhile, I may be standing in the grocery store line. I might be outside with my dog. If I wanted to be more extroverted, I could have struck up conversation with someone there, or at least made eye contact. But no. I like being in the CR, because it keeps me learning, and lets me maintain boundaries.
Anyway… I’ve read CR posts and talked about it with real life people. Not everyone really gets it. It’s interesting, because I never was part of any online forum before the CR, or after. I just ask questions and reply here. Okay, I’m done talking.
The end 🙂
LightbriteParticipantWow, this is from 2011. I wonder what the number is now, now that it’s 5778.
LightbriteParticipantCan we all please give DaasYochid some mad props for his answer? Twas very clever! A++++++++ 😄😄😄
LightbriteParticipantBut I’m not a man, so I can’t be a part of your group. Nevertheless, I send you and your group blessings for the best!
LightbriteParticipantI was just wondering if and how frum children learn about guns.
Now that I’ve read more posts, I realize that I meant “American frum kids,” because I forgot that, at least for frum kids living in Israel, some children see guns on their nation’s soldiers on a regular basis.
It’s okay to ask questions! You’re funny *The Little That I Know* – you can learn more, if you’re open to asking more questions… even if some criticize you for it; and you’ll see that when they do, it’s not about you! 🙂
Thanks again everyone 🙂
LightbriteParticipantI bet a good number of CR posters are introverts. If not, then they’re playing introverts by posting in an online forum.
October 3, 2017 7:29 pm at 7:29 pm in reply to: If your friend eats chalav stam, is it evil… #1378302LightbriteParticipantNeville ChaimBerlin: Excellent idea! 🙂 Adding OU cottage cheese would be perfect! Then you could make a cheesecake, creating a flavor synergy, and fulfilling each candy’s potential! A+++++++++++++ 🙂
LightbriteParticipantDo online trolls have colorful hair that sticks up?
LightbriteParticipantNo, but you can take your bitcoin, and my two cents.
You’re welcome 🙂
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